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Friday, January 09, 2026

Unveiling the Enchanted Realms of Jane Austen’s Fiction: Wit, Wisdom, and Worlds Beyond Time

 Table of Contents

The Beginning 1

Introduction (Approx. 5 minutes) 3

Section 1: The Enchanted Realms – Austen’s World (Approx. 10 minutes) 4

Section 2: Austen’s Magic – Wit and Subtle Power (Approx. 10 minutes) 6

Section 3: Why Austen Still Matters (Approx. 10 minutes) 7

Interactive Segment (Approx. 5 minutes) 8

Conclusion (Approx. 5 minutes) 8

Notes & Inspirations: 8

4 most imp female novelist 9

1. George Eliot was the pen name of Mary Ann Evans 10

2. The Brontë sisters 10

4.Jane Austen: 10

1.Sense and Sensibility (Elinor and Marianne) 11

2.Pride and Prejudice 13

3.Mansfield Park 14

4.EMMA 15

5.Northanger Abbey 15

6.Persuasion 16


The Beginning

Please raise your hands:

1. How many of you have read Jane Austen’s books?

2. How many books has she written?


3. When was she born? (1775-1817)

4. How long did she live?


Thank you for having me here, it fills my heart with joy unspeakable, to speak about

one of my favorite authors and writers, with my beloved students…..I was introduced to

her when I was few years younger than you all.

To be precise when I was in the 9 th – one of my class mate asked the teacher, how is the

title – ‘Pride and Prejudice’ relevant to the novel? What does it mean?

At that point in time I had neither heard or read about Jane Austen.

Today Thanks to Vinaya Ajith kumar, Shaila Mam, Cochin book club – for extending the

invite to me.

My heartfelt gratitude goes to the eminent speakers who rejected and Dr. soney

bhageeradhan, PHD – Cochin college, Assistant professor and HOD; who have set a

solid base, which is difficult for me to match.

Please excuse me, as I am not a professional speaker or a teacher, and this is my first

experience of this kind.

Nevertheless, let me give it a try.

Her timeline: 7 th of 8 children. At the age of 32 her father died, first book was published when she was 38 years of age, she died

when she was 44 years. How long was her writing career? – 7 years and during this period 6 of her books were published.

 1773: Sister Cassandra Austen was born

 1805: George Austin, her father died

 1811: 1 st book Sense and sensibility – Literary Realism

 1813: Pride & Prejudice – Regency Romance

 1814: Mansfield park

 1816: Emma

 1817: Died :July 18 th

 1817: Northhanger Abbey ( Gothic Satire/Coming of Age) and Persusion Published – written in 1799.

 At the time of her death in July 1817, Jane Austen had two unfinished works that were never published during her

lifetime:

1. Sanditon started in 1817 A witty and satirical look at a seaside resort town and the emerging health-tourism culture of Regency

England. Austen completed 12 chapters before her health declined. The manuscript was later published posthumously in 1925 and

has inspired modern adaptations.

2. The Watsons, Started: Around 1804 Focuses on the fortunes of the Watson family and the challenges faced by women with

limited means in society. Abandoned early, possibly due to personal circumstances. It remained incomplete and was published

posthumously in 1871.

She also left behind three volumes of juvenile writings in manuscript, the short epistolary novel Lady Susan

The anonymously published Sense and Sensibility (1811), Pride and Prejudice (1813), Mansfield Park (1814), and Emma (1816)

were moderate successes. but they didn't bring her public fame in her lifetime. (She was privately known to be the author of these

novels, including by notable people such as the Prince Regent.)


In 1832 Richard Bentley purchased the remaining copyrights to all of her novels, and over the following winter published five

illustrated volumes as part of his Standard Novels series. In October 1833 Bentley released the first collected edition of her works.

Since then, Austen's novels have been continuously in print.

William Shakespeare: 23 April 1564 to 1616 – 200 years before Jane Austen.

Writing systems emerged around 3400–3000 BCE in ancient Mesopotamia.

Aphra Behn (17th century, England) – Among the first women to earn a living as a professional writer.

11th century CE: Murasaki Shikibu (Japan) – First novel

 Virginia Woolf famously said: “All women together ought to let flowers fall upon the tomb of

Aphra Behn… for it was she who earned them the right to speak their minds.”


Introduction (Approx. 5 minutes)

How many of you remember your great grandmothers name or what she has

done?

How many of your have a favorite book or a novel, which is equally loved by

many others?

Imagine this: A writer born in 1775, in a quiet English village, without social media,

without global fame during her lifetime—yet today, her name echoes across centuries.

Jane Austen.

On her 250th birth anniversary, we celebrate not just a novelist, but a visionary who

transformed the ordinary into the extraordinary. Her novels are not just stories; they are

enchanted realms—worlds where, irony sparkles like hidden gems, and human

emotions unfold with timeless grace.

So, why does Austen matter to us— in the 21st century? Let’s step into her world and

find out.

When we hear the word enchantment, we tend to think of magic wands, distant

kingdoms, or worlds entirely removed from our own. Jane Austen, at first glance, seems

an unlikely candidate for enchantment. Her worlds are made of tea tables, letters,

country walks, and conversations about weather, income, and suitable marriages.

And yet—two centuries later—we remain enchanted.

en·chant·ment

“The real enchantment lies not in escaping reality, but in seeing it anew.”


Consider Jane Austen not merely as a novelist of romance or social manners, but as a

creator of enchanted realms—realms where the magic does not shimmer visibly, but

works quietly through perception, moral awakening, and emotional truth.

Austen’s enchantment does not ask us to escape reality. It asks us to see it more

clearly.

Her first book said “Written by a Lady”; “Written by the author of Sense and Sensebility”

Realm – means a kingdom or territory ruled by a monarch.

Today on her 250 th birthday, let us together, Unveiling the Enchanted Realms of Jane

Austen’s Fiction


Section 1: The Enchanted Realms – Austen’s World

(Approx. 10 minutes)

Jane Austen wrote during the Regency era, a time of elegance and rigid social codes.

Her canvas? Country villages, drawing rooms, and ballrooms. At first glance, these

settings seem small, even confined. But Austen turns them into microcosms of human

nature.

The Regency era officially spans 1811–1820, when King George III was deemed unfit

to rule due to mental illness, and his son, George, Prince of Wales, acted as Prince

Regent.

In a broader cultural sense, the term often covers c. 1795–1837, the late Georgian

period up to the accession of Queen Victoria.

As Virginia Wolf puts it in her book “A Room of One’s own”:

Page 64 “Here was a woman about the year 1800 writing without hate, without

bitterness, without fear, without protest without preaching. That was how Shakespeare

wrote.”

Page 70 “What genius, what integrity it must have required in face of all the criticism, in

the midst of that purely patriarchal society to hold fast to the things as they saw it

without shrinking. Only Jane Austen did it and Emily Bronte.”

"Given the veneer of a lady, she was made the perfect victim of a caste society. Her

father had forced her out of her own class, but could not raise her to the next. To the

young men of the one she had left she had become too select to marry; to those of the

one she aspired to, she remained too banal."


- John Fowles, The French Lieutenant's Woman

The novels of Jane Austen never mentioned the so-called lower classes

This is what happens to a woman who tries to move out of her class, in Victorian

England - forget about Regency!

Austen's protagonists were in the same boat. Marriage within one's class was the only

"career" available to women.

Austen's plots often explore the dependence of women on marriage for the pursuit of

favourable social standing and economic security. Her works are implicit critiques of the

novels of sensibility of the second half of the 18th century and are part of the transition

to 19th-century literary realism. Her use of social commentary, realism, wit, and irony

have earned her acclaim amongst critics and scholars.

Literary realism is a movement and genre of literature that attempts to represent

mundane and ordinary subject-matter in a faithful and straightforward way, avoiding

grandiose or exotic subject-matter, exaggerated portrayals, and speculative elements

such as supernatural events and alternative worlds. It encompasses both fiction

(realistic fiction) and nonfiction writing. Literary realism is a subset of the broader realist

art movement that began with mid-nineteenth-century French literature (Stendhal) and

Russian literature (Alexander Pushkin). It attempts to represent familiar things, including

everyday activities and experiences, as they truly are.

 Society and Class:

Marriage wasn’t just about love—it was an economic strategy. Social mobility

depended on alliances. Austen captures this reality with sharp insight, yet never

loses her sense of humor.

 Characters as Universes:

Each character is a realm of its own.

o Elizabeth Bennet—spirited, independent, challenging norms. –

explanation to Miss Darcy how the relationship between brother and sister

is different from Husband and wife.

o In Pride and Prejudice, the Meryton assembly may seem like a simple

social event. But in Austen’s world, it is charged with consequence. A

careless remark there follows Darcy for chapters. A moment of wounded

pride reshapes Elizabeth Bennet’s understanding of him—and herself. Mr.

George Wickham


o Emma Woodhouse—privileged yet flawed, learning humility through

mistakes.

o Anne Elliot—quiet strength and resilience. – “You pierce my soul. I am half

agony, half hope…I have loved none but you” Persuasion waiting for

Captain Frederick Wentworth for eight years.

o Catherine Morland & Isabella in Northanger Abbey – 17 year olds – “There

is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no

notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature”

o Mansfield park – “Drama is to life what ships are to the sea. A means to

traverse it. To plumb its depths, breadth and beauty.


o Dashwood sisters

 Elinor Dashwood represents Sense—she is rational, self-controlled,

and values duty.

 Marianne Dashwood represents Sensibility—she is passionate,

romantic, and guided by emotion.


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Through these characters, Austen invites us into worlds where choices, conversations,

and even glances carry profound meaning.

Physical spaces mirror inner transformation

Estates as moral symbols:

Pemberley – balance, integrity, openness

Mansfield Park – order and constraint

Hartfield – comfort and emotional stagnation

Nature walks as moments of awakening:

Elizabeth Bennet’s walks

Anne Elliot’s seaside reflections in Persuasion

Enchantment through:Familiar English settings rendered psychologically alive

Where have you encountered quiet enchantment in your own life?

“In Austen’s enchanted realms, we discover not just her world—but reflections of our

own.”


False enchantment → disillusionment → clearer moral vision

Austen’s true magic is moral awakening, not romantic fulfillment alone

Growth requires: Self-Knowledge, Humility, Emotional courage.

In her books Time, letters and reading has been used as an important tool.

A single ball can alter reputations. A letter can overturn a life. A refusal can echo across

an entire novel.

This is Austen’s magic: she invests small social acts with immense moral and emotional

weight.

Austen’s characters walk—and in walking, they think. Nature becomes a space for

reflection, clarity, and emotional reckoning. These familiar English settings become

enchanted not because they are exotic, but because they are alive with meaning.


Section 2: Austen’s Magic – Wit and Subtle Power

(Approx. 10 minutes)

What makes Austen magical? Her language and irony.

 Irony as a Weapon:

Austen’s opening lines often set the tone. They seem simple, but they’re layered

with satire.

“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good

fortune, must be in want of a wife” ~ Pride and Prejudice.

“The family of Dashwood had long been settled in Sussex.” ~Sense and Sensibility,

(Norland Park)

“About thirty years ago Miss Maria Ward, of Huntingdon, with only seven thousand

pounds, had the good luck to captivate Sir Thomas Bertram, of Mansfield Park, in

the country of Northampton, and to be there by raised to the rank of a baronet’s lady,

with all the comforts and consequences of a handsome house and large income” ~

Mansfield Park.


“Emma Woodhouse, handsome. Clever and rich, with a comfortable home and

happy disposition, seemed to unite some of the best blessings of existence; and had

lived nearly twenty one years in the world with very little to distress or vex her. ~

Emma (youngest of two daughters of sister married and mother died long ago)

“No one who had ever seen Catherine Morland in her infancy would have supposed

her born to be an heroine.” ~ Northanger Abbey

“Sir Walter Elliot, of Kellynch Hall, in Somersetshire, was a man who, for his own

amusement, never took up any book but the Baronetage; there he found occupation

for an idle hour, and consolation in a distressed one; there his faculties were roused

into admiration and respect by contemplating the limited remnant of the earliest

patents; there any unwelcome sensations arising from domestic affairs changed

naturally into pity and contempt as he turned over the almost endless creations of

the last century; and there , if every other leaf were powerless, he could read his

own history with an interest which never failed. ~Persuasion.

She critiques greed, vanity, and social pretension—not with anger, but with

elegance.

 Empowerment through Restraint:

In a patriarchal society, Austen’s heroines wield power through intellect and

moral courage. They don’t storm castles—they win battles in drawing rooms,

through dialogue and discernment.

 Dialogue as Spellcraft:

Every conversation in Austen’s novels is a duel of wit. Beneath polite words lie

ambitions, desires, and vulnerabilities. This subtlety is Austen’s genius—she

makes us read between the lines.


Section 3: Why Austen Still Matters (Approx. 10

minutes)

Two centuries later, why do we still read Austen?

 Timeless Themes:

Pride, prejudice, ambition, love—these are eternal human experiences.

 Modern Resonance:

Think about social media today—status updates, curated images, the obsession


with appearances. Isn’t that a modern version of Regency society? Austen’s

insights into vanity and self-awareness feel strikingly relevant.

 Pop Culture Adaptations:

From Clueless to Bridgerton, Austen’s influence is everywhere. Her stories adapt

seamlessly because they speak to universal truths.

 Bride and Prejudice??

 We all need rooms of our own - whether it is in the mind, or in the physical world. My library is my sacred space, my space

for nirvana (which means "without wind" - the still centre of existence).

 Sense Venam, Sensebility venam, sensitivity venam – Vendey?

 Persuasion: Marketing

 Austen’s fiction teaches us: How to look again, How to listen better, How to judge

more kindly. Jane Austen’s enchanted realms are not places we escape into—but

mirrors in which we recognise ourselves.


Interactive Segment (Approx. 5 minutes)

Let’s pause and reflect:

 If Austen were alive today, what would she critique?

o Dating apps? Influencer culture?

 How do her heroines compare to modern role models?

Invite students to share thoughts—make it lively and relatable.

“Which illusion did Austen help you outgrow?”

“Has Austen ever made you realise you were wrong—about a character, or even about

yourself?”


Conclusion (Approx. 5 minutes)


Jane Austen didn’t write about wars or revolutions. She wrote about tea parties,

proposals, and family squabbles. Yet within these small worlds, she revealed big

truths—about character, choice, and consequence.

Her enchanted realms remind us that literature isn’t just about escape—it’s about

reflection. In Austen’s world, we see our own—our pride, our prejudices, our hopes.

So, as we celebrate her 250th anniversary, let’s carry forward her legacy:

To read deeply, think critically, and live with grace and wit.

Live, love, lead, learn, leave a legacy.

Thank you my dears for patiently listening to me, to all those who were instrumental in

me being here and enabling me to talk on our beloved Jane Austen. I would be

immensely happy if you all read her books, read books and be the light.

 Virginia Woolf famously said: “All women together ought to let flowers fall upon the tomb of

Aphra Behn… for it was she who earned them the right to speak their minds.”


Notes & Inspirations:

On John Keats’s tombstone in the Protestant Cemetery in Rome, the inscription is famously poignant because it reflects his sense

of unfulfilled promise and early death: “Here lies one whose name was writ in water.”

Fanny Burney (1752–1840) was an influential English novelist, diarist, and playwright, best known for her witty and insightful

depictions of 18th-century society. she was one of the earliest female novelists in English literature. Her works often explored

themes of manners, morality, and women’s roles in a patriarchal society.

Major Contributions

 Novels:

o Evelina (1778) – Her debut novel, a social satire about a young woman navigating London society.

o Cecilia (1782) – Influenced Jane Austen; the phrase “Pride and Prejudice” appears here.

o Camilla (1796) – Popular among readers of the time.

 Diaries and Letters:

o Burney’s journals provide vivid accounts of Georgian life and her time at court as Keeper of the Robes to Queen

Charlotte.


 Miss Rebecca West was a prominent British author, journalist, and literary critic of the

20th century.

o  Born Cicely Isabel Fairfield in 1892, she adopted the pen name Rebecca West from a character in an Ibsen

play.

o  She was known for her sharp intellect, feminist views, and political commentary.


o  Rebecca West was considered one of the greatest intellectuals of her time.

o  She combined literary artistry with political insight, influencing feminist thought

and modernist literature.


 Lady Winchilsea (Anne Finch), who was a notable English poet of the late 17th and early

18th centuries

o  The Spleen – A famous poem exploring melancholy and mental health.

o Other poems often addressed women’s roles and personal struggles.

o  Significance:

She is considered one of the earliest female poets to write openly about women’s intellectual life and emotional

depth.


 Aphra Behn (1640–1689) was a groundbreaking English playwright, poet, and novelist,

and one of the first women in English literature to earn a living through writing.

o  Born in England, Aphra Behn lived during the Restoration period.

o  Before her literary career, she reportedly worked as a spy for King Charles II

during political conflicts.

o

 Aphra Behn broke barriers for women writers, proving they could succeed professionally.

 Virginia Woolf famously said: “All women together ought to let flowers fall upon the tomb of

Aphra Behn… for it was she who earned them the right to speak their minds.”

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4 most imp female novelist


1. George Eliot was the pen name of Mary Ann Evans (1819–1880), one of the most

important English novelists of the Victorian era.  Born in Warwickshire, England, Evans adopted the name George Eliot to

ensure her works were taken seriously in a male-dominated literary world.

 She was known for her deep psychological insight and realistic portrayal of rural life.

 Adam Bede (1859) – Her first novel, praised for its realism.

 The Mill on the Floss (1860) – A story of family ties and personal struggle.

 Silas Marner (1861) – A tale of redemption and community.

 Middlemarch (1871–72) – Considered her masterpiece, exploring politics, marriage, and morality in provincial England.

(Considered greatest novel in English Literature)

Plot and Main Characters

 Dorothea Brooke: An idealistic young woman who marries the much older scholar Edward Casaubon, hoping to assist

in his intellectual pursuits. The marriage proves disappointing, and after Casaubon’s death, Dorothea eventually finds

happiness with Will Ladislaw, Casaubon’s cousin.

 Tertius Lydgate: A progressive doctor aiming to reform medicine, whose ambitions are thwarted by financial troubles and

an unhappy marriage to Rosamond Vincy, a status-conscious woman.

 Other notable figures include Fred Vincy and Mary Garth, whose relationship contrasts with the ill-fated unions of

Dorothea and Lydgate.

Themes

 Idealism vs. Reality: Both Dorothea and Lydgate pursue lofty goals but face harsh realities in marriage and vocation.

 Marriage and Gender Roles: Eliot critiques romanticized notions of marriage, depicting it as a complex social and

personal institution.


 Social Change: The novel reflects the tensions of a society in transition—political reform, scientific progress, and shifting

class structures.

 Interconnected Lives: Through multiple storylines, Eliot explores how individual choices ripple through a community.

Significance

Middlemarch is celebrated for its psychological depth, moral complexity, and rich social commentary. Virginia Woolf famously

called it “one of the few English novels written for grown-up people.”


2Charlotte Brontë (1816–1855)

 Famous for Jane Eyre (1847), a novel blending romance, social criticism, and strong female independence.

3Emily Brontë (1818–1848)

 Known for Wuthering Heights (1847), a dark, passionate tale of love and revenge set on the Yorkshire moors.

 Anne Brontë (1820–1849)

 Author of Agnes Grey (1847) and The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848), both exploring women’s struggles and autonomy.

 They challenged Victorian norms about gender, class, and morality.

 Their novels are celebrated for psychological depth, emotional intensity, and innovative narrative styles.

 Despite publishing under male pseudonyms initially (Currer, Ellis, and Acton Bell), they paved the way for women in

literature.

 Brontë Parsonage Museum

Church Street, Haworth, Keighley, West Yorkshire, England

Postcode: BD22 8DR

The Brontë sisters were three remarkable English writers of the 19th century whose works

have become classics of English literature:

Jane Eyre (Charlotte Brontë, 1847)

 Overview: A Gothic novel that follows Jane, an orphan who grows into an independent and

principled woman. Her journey spans from a harsh childhood to her role as a governess at

Thornfield Hall, where she falls in love with Mr. Rochester.

 Themes:

o Love and Equality: Jane’s relationship with Rochester is built on mutual respect and

moral integrity.

o Independence and Identity: The novel critiques class and gender norms,

emphasizing personal autonomy.


 Tone and Setting: Gothic elements—mystery, isolation, and emotional depth—pervade the

story, with Thornfield Hall symbolizing Jane’s struggles and triumphs.

Wuthering Heights (Emily Brontë, 1847)

 Overview: A dark, passionate tale centered on Heathcliff and Catherine Earnshaw, whose

obsessive love leads to revenge and generational turmoil.

 Themes:


o Love as Obsession: Unlike Jane Eyre’s redemptive love, Wuthering Heights

portrays love as destructive and consuming.

o Revenge and Social Class: The novel explores how bitterness and societal

constraints shape human behavior.


 Tone and Setting: The wild Yorkshire moors mirror the characters’ fierce emotions, creating

a haunting and turbulent atmosphere.

4.Jane Austen:

There is this charming 17th-century cottage where Jane Austen lived for the last eight years

of her life (1809–1817). Here, she wrote, revised, and prepared for publication all six of her

major novels, including Pride and Prejudice, Emma, and Persuasion.

Address:

Jane Austen’s House

Winchester Road, Chawton, near Alton, Hampshire, England

Postcode: GU34 1SD [janeaustens.house], [en.wikipedia.org]

 Opening Hours: Typically 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM (Wednesday to Sunday in winter; extended in summer).

 Website for tickets and info: janeaustens.house

2. Mary Carmichael is not a historical figure in the traditional sense but a fictional character

created by Virginia Woolf in her seminal essay A Room of One’s Own (1929).

 She appears as an imaginary example of a woman writer in Woolf’s argument about

gender and creativity.

 Woolf uses Mary Carmichael to illustrate how women, given financial independence and

space to write, could produce literature that challenges patriarchal norms.

India and English: Quick Timeline

 1600: East India Company formed

 1608: British first landed in India (Surat)

 1613: First factory established at Surat

 1757: Battle of Plassey – Company gains political power

 1858: British Crown assumes direct control (British Raj)

 1947: Independence of India

Cochin Book Club

Update on Cochin Book Club Meetup #91 (30 November 2025, Koffee Junction, Kochi)

The theme for this time was Jane Austen’s literature and we had a gathering of readers who had read enough of Austen to

critically analyze her works. The discussion started with an introduction by Meenakshi who presented a comprehensive review

of almost all her works including the incomplete ones, and her major characters.


The participants ranged from ardent fans of Austen to those who felt her oevre was only slightly better than Mills & Boon

books. We examined aspects like satire in Austen’s books and how her masterpiece ‘Pride and Prejudice’ became a model for

many novels by later authors. Numerous film adaptations of her works in various languages were also explored.

Different readers found different works of the author to be special. While some opined ‘Emma’ to be technically her best novel,

some others thought ‘Persuasion’ stood out from all other works of hers.

One of the criticisms was that Austen ignored the lower-class people and only focused on the upper class in her writings. There

were comparisons of the period of Austen and contemporary times, and how these differences should be kept in mind while

reading her works.

 It’s not necessarily the genre or the period of the book. Youngsters love Jane Austen’s works just as much as they love or

hate Colleen Hoover. We still talk about Bram Stoker’s Dracula alongside the latest comics. It’s the conversations that

matter to light up the discussion and the meetups.

Are you a Jane Austen fan?

Her Novels:

1.Sense and Sensibility (Elinor and Marianne)


Austen drew inspiration from contemporary novels of the late 18th century that explored similar themes of romance, morality, and

social conduct. Adam Stevenson's Life and Love (1785), which recounts personal romantic experiences and societal expectations,

is thought to have influenced Austen's depiction of complex emotional relationships and the challenges of constrained social

circumstances. Jane West's A Gossip's Story (1796) is also considered a significant influence, as it features one sister characterized

by rational sense and another by passionate, emotive sensibility. Notably, West's romantic sister shares the name Marianne with

Austen's character, and modern editions of West's novel highlight textual and thematic similarities, suggesting that Austen may have

consciously or unconsciously drawn on these elements in shaping her own characters and plot.

Austen may also have drawn on historical figures in developing certain characters. In particular, Warren Hastings, the first Governor-

General of India, is often cited as a potential inspiration for Colonel Brandon. Parallels include rumored illegitimate

daughters—Hastings with his possible daughter Eliza de Feuillide, and Brandon with Eliza Brandon in the novel—as well as early

departures to India at age seventeen. Both figures are also associated with dueling and matters of honor, characteristics echoed in

Colonel Brandon’s backstory. Literary scholar Linda Robinson Walker has argued that Hastings “haunts Sense and Sensibility in the

character of Colonel Brandon,” noting that Austen may have drawn on her knowledge of contemporary political figures and family

connections to lend historical depth and realism to her fictional characters

Jane Austen's first published novel, Sense and Sensibility, is an enjoyable novel of manners, full of romance, humor, and beautifully

realized characters. The old-fashioned language might be alienating to modern readers at first, but it's well worth the moderate

patience

I also loved the fact that there were two heroines opposed to one. Elinor and Marianne are very different people, and they interact

with the world in very different ways, though they each have their values and their faults. Together, they help each other and look out

for each other as sisters should.


The main theme in this novel is the danger of excessive sensibility. The sisters learn that sense must mix with sensibility if they are

to find personal happiness in a society where status and money govern the rules of love.

The title “Sense and Sensibility” is a brilliant reflection of the novel’s central theme and character contrasts:

✅ Meaning of the Title

Sense = Reason, logic, and prudence.

Sensibility = Emotion, feeling, and responsiveness.


✅ How It Fits the Story

The two main sisters embody these qualities:

Elinor Dashwood represents Sense—she is rational, self-controlled, and values duty.

Marianne Dashwood represents Sensibility—she is passionate, romantic, and guided by

emotion.


Their experiences in love and life show the strengths and pitfalls of both approaches.


✅ Broader Significance

Austen uses the contrast to explore:

The balance between reason and emotion in human relationships.

Social expectations in Regency England—where neither extreme guarantees happiness.


By the end, both sisters learn to temper their dominant trait, suggesting harmony between sense and sensibility is ideal.

2.Pride and Prejudice


Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen (1813) is a classic novel of manners set in Regency

England. It explores themes of love, social class, family expectations, and personal growth,

all through sharp wit and irony.

The story follows Elizabeth Bennet, one of five daughters in a middle-class family, and her

evolving relationship with Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy, a wealthy and reserved gentleman.


Initially, Elizabeth dislikes Darcy due to his pride and her own prejudice, while Darcy misjudges

Elizabeth’s social standing.

Through misunderstandings, family drama (including Lydia Bennet’s scandal), and self-reflection,

both characters overcome their flaws.

The novel ends with mutual respect and love, challenging rigid social norms of the time.

Main Characters

Elizabeth Bennet – The intelligent, witty heroine known for her independence and strong moral

sense.

Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy – A wealthy, reserved gentleman whose pride initially clashes with Elizabeth’s

prejudice.

Jane Bennet – Elizabeth’s gentle and kind elder sister, admired for her beauty and grace.

Mr. Charles Bingley – Darcy’s amiable friend, who falls in love with Jane Bennet.


The Bennet Family

Mr. Bennet – The sarcastic, somewhat detached father.

Mrs. Bennet – The mother obsessed with marrying off her daughters.

Lydia Bennet – The youngest, flirtatious sister whose scandal creates family tension.

Mary Bennet – The studious, moralizing sister.

Kitty Bennet – The impressionable sister, often influenced by Lydia.


Other Key Figures

Mr. George Wickham – A charming but deceitful officer who misleads Elizabeth.

Mr. Collins – The pompous clergyman and heir to the Bennet estate.

Lady Catherine de Bourgh – Darcy’s wealthy, domineering aunt.

Charlotte Lucas – Elizabeth’s sensible friend who marries Mr. Collins for security.

The title “Pride and Prejudice” is deeply symbolic and perfectly reflects the novel’s central themes

and character arcs:

Why the Title Fits

1. Pride (Mr. Darcy)

o Darcy’s initial arrogance and sense of social superiority create misunderstandings

and distance between him and Elizabeth.

o His pride blinds him to the warmth and worth of those outside his elite circle.

2. Prejudice (Elizabeth Bennet)

o Elizabeth’s quick judgments, influenced by Darcy’s aloofness and Wickham’s charm,

lead her to misinterpret Darcy’s character.

o Her prejudice delays her recognition of Darcy’s true virtues.


3. Mutual Transformation

o Both characters overcome these flaws—Darcy tempers his pride, and Elizabeth

learns to question her assumptions.

o The resolution underscores Austen’s message: self-awareness and humility are

essential for love and happiness.


 The title also reflects societal pride and prejudice—class distinctions, gender expectations, and

family ambitions in Regency England.

 It signals Austen’s ironic critique of human vanity and the tendency to judge hastily.


3.Mansfield Park

Mansfield Park is the third published novel by the English author Jane Austen, first published in 1814 by Thomas Egerton. A second

edition was published in 1816 by John Murray, still within Austen's lifetime. The novel did not receive any public reviews until 1821.

The novel tells the story of Fanny Price, starting when her overburdened family sends her at the age of ten to live in the household

of her wealthy aunt and uncle and following her development into early adulthood. From early on critical interpretation has been

diverse, differing particularly over the character of the heroine, Austen's views about theatrical performance and the centrality or

otherwise of ordination and religion, and on the question of slavery. Some of these problems have been highlighted in the several

later adaptations of the story for stage and screen.

Maria, Lady Bertram, Fanny's aunt. Married to the wealthy Sir Thomas Bertram, she is the middle one of three sisters of the Ward

family, the others being Mrs Norris and Fanny's mother, Mrs Price.

Ten-year-old Fanny Price is sent from her impoverished home in Portsmouth to live with the family at Mansfield Park. Lady Bertram

is Fanny’s aunt and her four children – Tom, Edmund, Maria and Julia – are older than Fanny. All but Edmund mistreat her, and her

other aunt, Mrs Norris, wife of the clergyman at the Mansfield parsonage, makes herself particularly unpleasant.

On a visit to Mr Rushworth's estate, Henry flirts with both Maria and Julia. Maria believes Henry is in love with her and so treats Mr

Rushworth dismissively, provoking his jealousy, while Julia struggles with jealousy and resentment towards her sister. Mary is

disappointed to learn that Edmund will be a clergyman and tries to undermine his vocation.

Henry leave, Mary gets married When Henry returns to Mansfield Park, he decides to entertain himself by making Fanny fall in love

with him. Fanny's brother William visits, and Sir Thomas holds what is effectively a coming-out ball for her. Although Mary dances

with Edmund, she tells him it will be the last time, as she will never dance with a clergyman. Edmund drops his plan to propose and

leaves the next day, as do Henry and William.

When Henry next returns, he announces to Mary his intention to marry Fanny. To assist his plan, he has used his family's naval

connections to help William achieve promotion. However, when Henry proposes marriage, Fanny rejects him, disapproving of his

past treatment of women. Sir Thomas is astonished by her continuing refusal, but she does not explain, afraid of compromising

Maria.


To help Fanny appreciate Henry's offer, Sir Thomas sends her to visit her parents in Portsmouth, where she is taken aback by the

contrast between their chaotic household and the harmonious environment at Mansfield. Henry visits, but although she still refuses

him, she begins to appreciate his good features.


Later, Fanny learns that Henry and Maria have had an affair which is reported in the newspapers. Mr Rushworth sues Maria for

divorce and the Bertram family is devastated. Tom meanwhile falls gravely ill. Edmund takes Fanny back to Mansfield Park, where

she is a healing influence. Sir Thomas realises that Fanny was right to reject Henry's proposal and now regards her as a daughter.

Edward marry Fanny.

4.EMMA


Before she began the novel, Austen wrote, "I am going to take a heroine whom no one but myself will much like. In the first

sentence, she introduces the title character by stating "Emma Woodhouse, handsome, clever, and rich, with a comfortable home

and a happy disposition, seemed to unite some of the best blessings of existence; and had lived nearly twenty-one years in the

world with very little to distress or vex her."[4] Emma is spoiled, headstrong, and self-satisfied; she greatly overestimates her own

matchmaking abilities; she is blind to the dangers of meddling in other people's lives; and her imagination and perceptions often

lead her astray.


Emma, written after Austen's move to Chawton, was her last novel to be published during her lifetime,[5] while Persuasion, the last

complete novel Austen wrote, was published posthumously.


The novel has been adapted for a number of films, television programmes, and stage plays.

Before the end of November, Emma and Mr Knightley her neighbor, close friend snd critick are married with the prospect of "perfect

happiness." They will live at Hartfield with Mr Woodhouse

 Emma Woodhouse, a wealthy, charming, and somewhat spoiled young woman, lives in the village of Highbury.

 Confident in her matchmaking skills, Emma meddles in the romantic lives of others—especially her friend Harriet Smith—while

ignoring her own feelings.

 Her misguided attempts lead to misunderstandings, social awkwardness, and emotional turmoil.

 Through these experiences, Emma matures, recognizing her own flaws and ultimately finding love with Mr. Knightley, her long-

time friend and moral guide.


5.Northanger Abbey

Northanger Abbey is a coming-of-age novel and a satire of Gothic novels.Although the title page is dated 1818 and the novel was

published posthumously in 1817 with Persuasion, Northanger Abbey was completed in 1799.From a fondness of Gothic novels and

an active imagination distorting her worldview, the story follows Catherine Morland, the naïve young protagonist, as she develops to

better understand herself and the world around her.

Gothic fiction, sometimes referred to as Gothic horror (primarily in the 20th century), is a literary aesthetic of fear and haunting. The

name of the genre is derived from the Renaissance-era use of the word "gothic", as a pejorative term meaning medieval and

barbaric, which itself originated from Gothic architecture and in turn the Goths

Gothic aesthetics continued to be used in Victorian literature in novels by Charles Dickens and the Brontë sisters, as well as in

works by the American writers Edgar Allan Poe and Nathaniel Hawthorne. Later, Gothic fiction evolved through well-known works

like Dracula by Bram Stoker,

The novel covers a wide array of topics such as high society, Gothic fiction, bildungsroman, the value of reading, and the

importance of time. This novel is considered to be more juvenile than her others. Brother published

Throughout Northanger Abbey, Austen makes references to many different Gothic novels, most notably Ann Radcliffe's The

Mysteries of Udolpho. Northanger Abbey is credited for reviving interest in seven Gothic titles that had largely fallen into obscurity;

the "horrid novels"

Several Gothic novels and authors are mentioned in the book, including Fanny Burney and The Monk.Isabella Thorpe gives

Catherine a list of seven books that are commonly referred to as the "Northanger 'horrid' novels".These works were thought to be of

Austen's own invention until the 1920s, when British writers Montague Summers and Michael Sadleir found that the novels did

exist.The list is as follows:

o Castle of Wolfenbach (1793) by Eliza Parsons. London: Minerva Press.

o Clermont (1798) by Regina Maria Roche. London: Minerva Press.

o The Mysterious Warning, a German Tale (1796) by Eliza Parsons. London: Minerva Press.

o The Necromancer; or, The Tale of the Black Forest (1794) by "Lawrence Flammenberg" (pseudonym for Karl Friedrich

Kahlert; translat…


o The Mysteries of Udolpho


The most significant allusion, however, is to Ann Radcliffe's The Mysteries of Udolpho, as it is the Gothic novel most frequently

mentioned within this text. Notably, Jane Austen sold the manuscript of Northanger Abbey to the same firm that published Radcliffe's

novel in 1794.

This outside text is first mentioned in Chapter Six, when Isabella and Catherine discuss the mystery "behind the black veil", and

further establish their friendship based on their similar interests in novel genre and their plans to continue reading other Gothic

novels together. Austen further satirizes the novel through Catherine's stay at Northanger Abbey, believing that General Tilney has

taken the role of Gothic novel villain.

Austen's discussion of Udolpho is also used to clearly separate Catherine and the Tilney siblings from John Thorpe, as when

Catherine talks about the novel with him, he crudely responds that he "never reads novels" but qualifies his statement by arguing he

would only read a novel by Ann Radcliffe, who is the author of Udolpho.[76] Here, Austen humorously categorizes Northanger

Abbey's characters into two spheres: those who read novels, and those who do not. When Catherine and Henry Tilney later discuss

reading novels, and Henry earnestly responds that he enjoys reading novels, and was especially titillated by Udolpho, the match

between Catherine and Henry is implied as both smart and fitting.

Seventeen-year-old Catherine Morland is one of ten children of a country clergyman. Although a tomboy in her childhood, she is "in

training for a heroine"and is fond of reading Gothic novels "provided they [are] all story and no reflection

6.Persuasion

Persuasion: story begins 7 years after the broken engagement. The story concerns Anne Elliot, an Englishwoman of 27 years,

whose family moves to Bath to lower their expenses and reduce their debt by renting their estate to an admiral and his wife. The

wife's brother, Captain Frederick Wentworth, was engaged to Anne in 1806, but the engagement was broken when Anne was

persuaded by her friends and family to end their relationship. Anne and Captain Wentworth, both single and unattached, meet again

after a separation lasting almost eight years, setting the scene for a second, well-considered chance at love and marriage for Anne.


The novel was well received in the early 19th century, but its greater fame came later in the century and continued into the 20th and

21st centuries. Much scholarly debate on Austen's work has since been published. Anne Elliot is noteworthy among Austen's

heroines for her relative maturity. As Persuasion was Austen's last completed work, it is accepted as her most maturely written

novel, showing a refinement of literary conception indicative of a woman approaching 40 years of age. Her use of free indirect

speech in narrative was in full evidence by 1816.


Persuasion has been the subject of several adaptations, including four made-for-television adaptations, theatre productions, radio

broadcasts, and other literary works.

Austen personally was appalled by what she came to regard as her own misguided advice to her beloved niece Fanny Knight on the

very question of whether Fanny ought to accept a particular suitor, even though it would have meant a protracted engagement.


Fanny ultimately rejected her suitor and married someone else after her aunt's death.

Austen was keenly aware that the human quality of persuasion—to

persuade or to be persuaded, rightly or wrongly—is fundamental to the

process of human communication, and that, in her novel "Jane Austen

gradually draws out the implications of discriminating 'just' and 'unjust'

persuasion." Indeed, the narrative winds through a number of situations in

which people influence or attempt to influence other people, or themselves.


"The novel's entire brooding on the power pressures, the seductions, and

also the new pathways opened by persuasion.


What sells? Robert T.Kiyosaki : Not a book that is written well, but that is marketed well.

Live. Love. Lead. Learn. Leave a Legacy.

This is meera, Signing off with Gratitude for your patience, I am sorry if I have bored you or for errors or omissions, Please forgive

me. I love you all. Please be Good.

Happiness Always!

Memoire of Jane Austen ~ James Edward Austen - Leigh

 

"It was not what she knew but what she was, that distinguished her from others." So says her nephew in his book Memoire of Jane Austen ~ James Edward Austen - Leigh.

The total earning from her books during her life time was 700 pounds, she had more fame and earned more revenue gradually over the years. Her father tried to help her with publishing, but initially it did'nt work out. Her initial books said 'Written by a Lady' instead of the author name and subsequent books had reference to the earlier book in the author name. As she held the first copy of Pride and Prejudice, she wrote to her sister, "I have got my own darling child"

When she was unwell and bedridden and her attended asked her "what you want" her response was "Nothing but death".

7th of 8 children. At the age of 32 her father died, her first book was published when she was 38 years of age, she died when she was 44 years. How long was her author career? -  7 years during this period 6 of her books were published. She lived from 1775 to 1817. 

It is said that the first book she wrote was Northhanger Abbey in 1798 which was her last published book in her lifetime, published in 1817. She started writing for her own amusement and for family plays. She first finished writing as a novel Pride and Prejudice but her first published book was Sense and sensibility in 1811.  Third came Mansfield part in 1814. These three were published by Egerton. then came Emma in 1816, followed by Northhanger Abbey and persuasion, these three were published by Murray. 

She was the product of her time, with no classical education, no extensive acquaintance with English Literature and not in any company of literary circle. She came from a well bread and closely knit family. 

She showed women as intelligent, capable and witty. She had unpublished poems as well, which were published in the book. She had a clear good handwriting, and was always cheerful. 

To write one need to have intellectual freedom. Be oneself more than anything else. Be the inheritor and originator of your work. 

Her advise to her nephew was to read until 16 and start writing only after 16. 


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Got this to speak at Chinnmaya school to celebrate her 250th mam, where Kairali mam began her talk with this slide:

Imagine scrolling through your social media feed and seeing someone post: "Just got ghosted by a guy who seemed perfect - great job, good family, rich, handsome and charming in person. Found out he was convinced by his best friend to leave me. Now everyone's talking about it." #brokenheart #meandfriends #datingishard #relationshipworries #overbeforeitbegan."

Wednesday, January 07, 2026

Tuesday, January 06, 2026

The Polyester Prince ~ Hamish McDonald (1 of 26)


The Polyester Prince chronicles Dhirubhai Ambani's life from childhood to founder of RIL following India's independence in 1947, and highlights how India's post-independence industry development was achieved by both fair and foul means.

The first section of the book explores the events of Ambani's young adult life that influenced his understanding of business and developed his skillset that later went on to help him found RIL. This section explores how the mixture of Ambani's working experience as a young adult at trading companies along with post-independence India's changing business landscape lead to Ambani's debut in the wealthy social circles of India and rise in his power.











 Dhirubhai was never simply an  industrialist, a trader, a financial juggler or a political manipulator, but all four in one. He knew how to take calculated risks.If he starts an acquaintance with someone he will 
continue it. His philosophy was to cultivate everybody from the doorkeeper up. ‘I am willing to salaam [bow down to] anyone,’ he told a magazine interviewer in 1985, in a statement that shocked many readers for its bluntness
Dhirubhai also played on the perception that he was an outsider and ‘upstart’ who deserved help to break through the glass ceilings of vested interest and privilege in the business community. 

That there was an inner circle in the ‘licence Raj’ the  allocation by New Delhi of licences to set up factories and expand production  capacity-was evidenced in 1967 with a report by a Bombay University economist, R.  K. Hazare, to the Planning Commission which revealed that the Birla group of companies had received 20 per cent of the licensed industrial investment approved by the government between 1957 and 1966.Former colleagues say Dhirubhai resisted any temptation to smuggle in supplies.  ‘Everyone knew smuggling was there, but Dhirubhai would not want to get involved,’ one former Reliance manager said. ‘Government support meant too much to him

In an interview with the magazine Business India in April 1980, Dhirubhai said Reliance Commercial Corp accounted for more than 60 per cent of the exports made under the Higher Unit Value Scheme. ‘he schemes were open to everyone,’ he said. ‘I cannot be blamed if my competitors were unenterprising or ignorant.’s Kothary remembers that several times during his turbulent climb to prosperity and influence, Dhirubhai would remark: ‘everything that I have done has been kept in the ground, and a first-class fountain has been built over it. Nobody will ever know what I have done.’

He didn't get on well with Morarji. Indira Gandhi’s return to power opened a golden period for Dhirubhai Ambani. In  1979, his company barely made it to the list of India’s 50 biggest companies, measured by annual sales, profits or assets. By 1984, Reliance was in the largest five. Dhirubhai himself had become one of the most talked and written about persons 
in India, gaining a personal following more like that of a sports or entertainment star than a businessman.

Dhirubhai shared a certain contempt for the journalist. In Paris, waiters are known to pay the proprietors of certain fashionable restaurants for the privilege of being able to wait at the tables and collect tips. In Bombay, some would-be business correspondents are willing to eschew salary altogether and even 
offer a monthly fee to the newspaper in return for being accredited as its reporter.
Krishna Kant Shah died in 1986, in the midst of a fresh controversy about the  mysterious Isle of Man companies. At a meeting in 1995, Sailash Shah maintained there had been no business connection between his father and Dhirubhai. Asked how it was that the Indian press and investigators had singled out his family as fronts, he would say only. ‘I don’t know how.’ That Dhirubhai did have a connection with the 
Isle of Man was indicated by the appearance in India during the mid-1990s of one Peter Henwood. An accountant running a company in the Isle of Man capital, Douglas, called International Trust Corp (later OCRA Ltd), Henwood had been instrumental during the 1980s in arranging layers of ownership for offshore holdings through several tax havens  Dhirubhai had become close to Henwood and his attractive wife, on whom he showered expensive gifts.Much later, Henwood tried to market his services to other Indian businessmen. Dhirubhai became alarmed, and had Hen- wood followed on his visits to India. To protect his business interests, Henwood consulted a leading firm of lawyers in India.

But could the incongruous elements of the murder conspiracy have possibly been set 
up? An alternative theory was that the plot might have been a case of a follower 
being more loyal than the king that Kirti had acted out of an excess of loyalty. The 
large sums of money paid to Babaria, surely far beyond the personal resources of a 
middle manager, would then have to be explained.

Kirti Ambani was transferred to an obscure position in Reliance Industries and has 
not appeared in the press since. Babaria continued to live in the police barracks at 
Bhendi Bazar, but could no longer travel to big-time engagements in Dubai because authorities would not restore his passport. He continued to scrape together a living by organising evenings of Bollywood musical hits, often to collect funds for a charity called the Young Social Group, of which Babaria himself was president. A pamphlet produced for one such evening in 1996 said: Prince Babaria, lately the most 
controversial international figure for his connection with big industrialists and others, 
has gained a lot of publicity in the press and TV, locally and internationally.

Both Dhirubhai and key figures in the V P Singh government saw it as a desperate 
fight to the death. ‘There was hardly a day when we did not spend several hours pondering how we might bring down V P Singh,’ recalled one senior Reliance executive, about  1990. And I suppose that in his office there were people who spent as much time plotting how to do the same to US.’ Gurumurthy had become a close adviser to the BJP leader, Lal Krishna Advani, while Arun Shourie, the editor of the Indian Express, was vehemently opposed to the new 
reservations.

As the Singh government was weakened, Dhirubhai’s fortunes revived. The turn 
could even be plotted on a graph of the Reliance share price, which began rising  steadily from July 1990. The government was distracted by its numerous splits and battles.

Wadia had a call from Rajiv early in the week, asking for a meeting. Wadia was busy 
preparing for an important business trip overseas the following Saturday, but Rajiv 
insisted. So, after completing his work, Wadia few up to Delhi on the Friday evening,
arriving at Rajiv’s heavily guarded bungalow on janpath about 11 pm. It was their 
first meeting since the Fairfax affair, and both men were edgy. Rajiv opened up by 
complaining about the Indian Express sniping which continued against him. Wadia 
exploded. This was nothing compared to what Gurumurthy and he had suffered: 
arrest, harassment by the bureaucracy, constant inspections, his passport and visa 
problems, and finally the murder conspiracy. Wadia asked Rajiv why he had refused 
to see him.

Narasimha Rao installed as finance minister the career government economist Manmohan Singh, who had reached the bureaucratic pinnacles of the ministry as Finance Secretary and then central bank governor in the 1980s. The Cambridge-educated Singh had spent much of his earlier career helping to construct 
the edifice of government planned investment. But then a spell making a comparative study of the world’s less-developed economics for the South Commission, a body representing many developing nations, had crystallised some 
doubts and begun a Pauline conversion in him towards market-based allocation of 
resources. Singh was soon backed by the elevation of Montek Singh Ahluwalia, (the 
economist who wrote the 1990 reform paper) as Finance Secretary. 

Within the BJP leadership, Dhirubhai became distrusted for the split he helped engineer in the party’s Gujarat branch soon after it took power in the March 1995 state elections. Dhirubhai backed a lower-caste BJP leader called Shankersinh Waghla in disputes with the newly elected chief minister, Keshubhai Patel. In 
September 1995, the two openly split, and Dhirubhai few Waghela’s faction of state 
MPs to the central Indian resort of Khajuraho, famed for its erotic temple carvings, to 
keep them together. Around this time, Vajpayee was appalled to find Dhirubhai on the telephone, putting forward a solution to the Gujarat crisis: Waghla should be 
made deputy chief minister. Highly embarrassed, Vajpayee refused. A year later, 
Waghela ousted Pate…

Dhirubhai Ambani built his company through outstanding abilities and drive on many 
fronts: as an innovative financier, an inspiring manager of talent, an astute marketer 
of his products, and as a forward-looking industrialist. The energy and daring that 
showed itself in his early pranks, practical jokes and trading experiments developed 
into a boldness and willingness to live with risk that few if any other Indian corporate 
Chiefs would dare to emulate. His extraordinary talent for sustaining relationships, 
and sometimes impressing men of standing, won him vital support from both 
governments and institutions.
The dark side of his abilities was an eye for human weakness and a willingness to 
exploit it. This gained him preferential treatment o…
Over decades in India, some of 
the world’s best minds had applied themselves to building a system of government 
controls on capital-ism. Dhirubhai Ambani made a complete mockery of it-admittedly 
at a stage when the system was decaying and corrupted already. The Ministry of 
Finance and its enforcement agencies, the Reserve Bank of India, the Central Bureau 
of Investigation, the Securities and Exchange Board of India and the Company Law 
Board proved timid and sometimes complicit in their handling of questionable 
episodes concerning Reliance. The public financial institutions that held large blocks 
of shares in Reliance and had seats on its board were passive and acquiescent 
spectators, rather than responsible trustees for public savings.
Throughout every crisis caused by exposure of alleged manipulations, its publicity took on a self-pitying ‘Why is everyone always picking on us?' tone. But the record 
tends to show that it was Dhirubhai and Reliance who often made the first move to 
put a spoke in a rival’s wheels, whether it was Kapal Mehra, Nusli Wadia or, latterly, 
the Ruias of the Essar group. Coincidentally with disputes with Reliance, various 
rivals were hit with government inspections, tax problems, unfavourable press 
reports, physical attacks and, in Wadia’s case, a damaging forgery, a deportation 
order and perhaps a conspiracy to murder him.
Another wild card is contained in the political hostility that Dhirubhai and Reliance 
have built up within India. Every party has its Ambani men’s but this is no guarantee 
that no government will dare to take on Reliance or make an example of it.
It is possible to draw several conclusions about India from the Reliance story There is 
the flowering of individual endeavour and entrepreneurship from a traditional, 
isolated backwater like Junagadh; the accumulated ethic of centuries of business and 
banking among the Bania castes being transferred into modern corporations; the 
amazing numeracy of Indians from the poorest street traders to the high financiers; 
the way in which the age-old trading links to the Indian Ocean rim have been 
extended into Europe and North America by the past 20 years of migration.
Indians love to tell the joke against themselves about the exporter of live frogs to 
‘The kitchens of France. He didn’t need to put a lid on the crates, because as soon as 
one Indian frog tried to escape, the others pulled him down.
What are the limits of ethical behaviour in a world full of surprise manoeuvres, 
innovation, inside connections and corruption?
modern capitalism does allow a process of redemption in the life of a corporation. 
Opium-traders, slave-owners, market cornerers, share raiders and all kinds of 
robber- barons have been able to transform themselves into establishment pillars by 
hanging on and consolidating during the system’s periodic crashes.

What are the limits of ethical behaviour in a world full of surprise manoeuvres, innovation, inside connections and corruption?

Dhirubhai was never simply an  industrialist, a trader, a financial juggler or a political manipulator, but all four in one.We know of the truffle between Gurumurthi and Dirubhai but how it started and why, the political connection and changing governments from 75 to 95 his strong influence and role, connections with the underworld, toppling down competitors, fellow business men, nothing short of a thriller fiction this is. 

Thanks for the recommendation.

Sunday, January 04, 2026

Friday, January 02, 2026

Why Even Smart Leaders Avoid Difficult Conversations ~ Junie George Varghese


 Why  even smart leaders avoid difficult converstation? Junie George Varghese


The 5th Mantra : The communication Fitness Studio. 


Perception

Problem

Cost

Cause

Way forward 


Why avoidence happen and what happens if we continue?


Know the Architucture of difficult conversation, bring focus back on clarity and timeliness. 


Perception - What really is happening?


Strength becomes weaknesses. Note down the strengths  on LHS and then discuss the weakness out of it. 


Intelligence - Overthinking_Justification

Experience - Pattern Bias, Consequences

Authority - Reputation, 

Empathy - Hesitation


Skills that build leadership is threatening when it comes to communication


Problem

Judegment Distortion - Silence confused with patence, maturity and respect, not always skill gap. 

Abstract trap - 'Radical Condor' book emphasising on clarity - Compromising clarity . Give guidemap on how to improve.

Ping-pong effect - competing version of reality, objective gap.

Power increases avoidence - filtered feedback, truth becomes expensive.

Leadership training focusing on:

What to say

How to structure feedback

Which model to use?


Question is not can you handle difficult conversations? 


Question is What has your intelligence helped you avoid?


Leadership doesn't remove fear. It just gives fear better vocabulary. 


Cost : The invisible Tax of Avoidance. 

Leadership think they are buying time, but they are buying damage at compound interest. 


The Multiplier Effect: Shadow narrative, ambiguity. Clarity is important, not just the language. 

Cultural Erosion: Standars blur, erosion of psychological safety and accountability

Innovation blockage: Echo chamber

The Human Sustainability Crises: Delegation to HR (identity & Credibility issues, 65% burnout)

Micro failure: 'Job hugging', 'quiet cracking', 'Mediocrity' accelerating turnover - (Chipko movement)

Galiups State of Global workplace 2025 report.  21% of employees are really engaged. 


Significance of lack of communication is leading to serious consequence. 


Cause - The 'why'.

The Amygdala Hijack - 'Word can change your brain' limbic system overpowers. Fight, Freeze Flight mode. Handling failure is important, but even important is handling success. Are you becoming defensive when put in a tight spot?

Cognitive Callibration - Preempt worst outcome, Decision paralysis. (People have positive and negative experience - but some pick either first. There is a pattern, without realising)

The 'Nice vs. Kind' trap: 'Crucial conversation'. Nice vs. Kind talk. Leader need to say what is needed. Truth vs. Bonds, Protect identity. 

Complex cultural, regulatory and legislative landscape: 'Saying the wrong thing'

Asynchonous Friction - Channel failure, matching complexity to richness of medium

Not mapping the conversation - Improvise vs. Architecture

Presence of AI: Pressure to be 'perfectly human'. 


Way forward - Not approches or models, but few pathways.

 Decrease your 'Conversational Latency', Rely on the structure of clarity. 

Identify a specific conversation you have been 'saving for later'.

Ask "What meaning will my silence create"

Reframe "How do I say this?' to

"Which identity am I protecting by staying silent?"

"What identity do I strengthen by speaking clearly?"\


Will you lead the conversation, or will it lead you?



"Communication is judged not by intent, but by what is understood" ~ Peter Drucker.


Dont confuse intent with impact. 


Take stand without thinking too much of what others would think. Communication begins in the mind. Our thought process, mindset, belief all of this is going to have an impact in the way we understand and impact. Communication is not just talking and listening or verbal and non verbal. 


Ratan Tata - lift story - asking let the guest take lift. He knew how to do it well withoug belitting others. 


Integrate Gen Zee and Gen Alpha. 


People want to be respected and seen. There needs to be trust. There should be human connect. 


Vulnarability, is what makes us real. We are going to come with flaws. It is a part of us. Same is the case with people in power. Bring back focus on having conversation. 


Former PM P.V. Narasimha Rao. Silence is golden. You have to know the difference between silence being a strategy, and silence being a default. 


Perception is a very dangerous game to play. You cannot go around doctoring minds. 


You should know when to keep quite and when to speak. Know when to be quite and when to be expressive. 


In a meeting everyone agree, but outside mostly disagree, real issue is misalignment.