People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. But at times its too late, when we realise a person is which one…….When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
I had met with an accident in January, near our office, from scooty, and it was one of the guy from next office of ours who took us to hospital, as the girl sitting behind me was from their office. Week before last, he returned from spain, had gone onsite from his office, and Tuesday, he commited suicide, killed himself on a railway track...He was a smart, intelligent, boy..Only one son, of well to do family.Thats sad!! But its not to tell, nothing is in our hands We are not to see only those sad parts or shocing sides, some say, v make our own fortune and call it fate;) Happiness and sorrow are mere states of mind, it takes equal amount of effort to be happy as to be sad. It was just the thought of a fraction of second that made him do that, if he had someone to share his grief with, at that juncture, he would have not done that…..
For him that was the end of the gift called life on this earth, and for others…life goes on………He had come into my life for a reason?? There are so many such people…..
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
Specially my school, friends, and those with me for academic studies, some of them are often remembered, some are not remembered that often, but is there deep in my heart, some are forgotten……
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant
Who are my lifetime friends cannot be said right now, as I am still living…. when I had put on my msn, Nothing lasts for ever, someone said, Friendship lasts for ever- At this I remember a quote which says: sometimes, my eyes get jelous of my heart, u know why? Some always remain close to our heart, but away from our eyes.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime, and the last is rare, Moreover, even life- it don’t last for ever….
Thank you all my dear friends, for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Lessons on Life .....
ReplyDeleteThere was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up. If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.
Moral:Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later.
Hey meera, What i understood is u are sad at the time of writing this blog. By the way, I am suman, Thara's friend Greeshma's best friend.
ReplyDeleteHi! Suman, Not sad, but thinking.....
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