Sushmita Sen on Miss Universe, Motherhood

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzxFRY2L8Oc 

All children don't walk at the same time. Things happen at time when it is destined for our individual growth. You cannot rush a season, how fast you want, monsoon will come only when it is time. Life is making us ready for what we are meant to do or be. 

What aspect of you is born out of conditioning? It should be action. Had to adapt, because of changes. It taught how to belong.  It became innate nature. If in force - you become very patriotic. 

Law of attraction - Rakesh Sharma on Moon - First person, Sushmita wanted to have it - had asked for a wish - so she knew she was going to be Miss Universe, had manifested in all its glory, he got the space, and she got the universe. 

New York time editors, taught how to communicate, travelled 33 countries, that experience was enriching. There would be lack of normalcy. Missing University was a small price to pay, for the big dream achieved. 

Pathbreaking decision of adopting, and not marrying. Break the mould and arrive at the decision. Had been in intense and long term relationship.  Was clear that would be with a companion, where you want to be there and not should be there. 

Somebody want to be a mother and a child wanted a mother, there was demand and supply, there was a calling. So wanted a baby first, with father's support, court gave a child, if no father, should have a father figure, and he should sign half his belonging to the Child. Motherhood, as romantic the notion is , practically when you get down to doing it, it is a frustrating experience. Priorities change. Would have been a destructive and volatile person if not for motherhood, it gave a bigger purpose. 

Main Ho na and Biwi number one, gave acceptance in the industry.   Eight year hiatus from work, but was doing endorsements and jewellery in Middle East. 2010  to 2012 took over Miss Universe. Slowly became entrepreneur, and then started watching OTT. Felt it was time to be hired again. Where do the sense of completion come from? Have build happiness. Believe that nothing in life is more important than the freedom, to be who I am, to speak what I want. If someone can enhance that feeling of completion it would be good, only validation you need is to go and stand in front of the mirror. 

Taali helped to be the voice for the Transgender community. GAuri, meeting her was the experience. You have to be honest. Know their pain, anger and anguish. God helps you if you trigger a Gauri. 

Does a lot of soul searching. Very aware of what is happening. Chapter's in life should evolve to have excellent book someday. Tombstone should read 'She Lived'. 

Bengali do not say Durga - when someone is anxious or going for something important, while sending them on their way for protection, they say - 'Duga Duga'. Durga sits in the soul and where she sits fear has no place. 

On the platform of Miss Universe learned Sisterhood. It's about collaboration and not competition. You have to know that the only thing that will give you victory, is to bring your A game on and not put down others. You will be a better version of you. If you win in isolation, it does not count. 

Love is everything, it is what one is made of, what you are not what your project or feel. Even to love another is to love self. Self love is in every cell. I am ❤️.

People will not remember who you were asked something, but they will always remembered how your responded, so be careful. 

People will call you name, only if you respond it belong to you, just ignore. 

Women is a precious essence of God. Enjoy life. It's a humongous privilege to be born a women. Exercise and celebrate the gift of being the women.