For years and years, in our DNA we had not been earning money, and had to ask for money. There was guilt towards having money and spending money.
We have been askers and not earners and so feel lesser, and society turned Patriarchal. Gender equality went for a toss. Book - Pussy/Power of Pussy.
We had women empowerment in our culture. Only after us being ruled by others, all these changed.
Thought -) Behaviour -) Action.
This is the basis of all relationship - including Money.
'Money cant bring happiness; Money don't grow on trees; Money is not important; Greedy people run after money; Money people are selfish people. Ambitious women are not good women. ' - We have grown up with these. So money negative things told about it.
And we disconnect with money. So also with dreams and desires and the ability to connect with it. We supress them - we need to reignite it. Be okay in dealing with money.
Whatever you are saying to yourself become your truth. Be careful of what you say. Look at money as the fuel in the car. It is not the most important thing in the car, but without it you cannot drive the car.
Don't make it most important thing in life. You need to give it the meaning.
Money don't make you good or bad. It will only bring out what you have inside. Stop blaming money and technology.
When you put money, you get back, you can put it back to earn more. Compound interest - you will save that money lives. Not charging is being selfish.
Fill your quota - once you are full and you overflow, you start giving - first you, to your family, your locality, your state, your country.
1. Charge for what you do.
2. Nothing given free is valued.
When you give for free, people don't complain and take what is given. It will not improve you.
Women are people pleaser at heart and will overdeliver. Those who pay have more commitment. Those who get for free, will not even view it. People don't respond when they are not invested. When they invest they are charged. Your clients should be accountable to you.
Double your money every 10 clients. Continuously work on self for that and be your best version.
How are you going to change your relationship with money?
- Write letter to money - Dear money, I love you when you visit my home. I love it and feel safe. No one will love you the way I love you, please come and stay with me. Money is energy at the end of the day. Opened to receiveing and things started to flow.
- Lakshmi wants to be where there is profit. Labh is money and Subh Labh is prosperity and money.
- Good money, good things will happen. Bad money, Bad things will happen. Bribing, hospital etc with bad money. Good one, you go places where you want.
- Arigato in, Arikagto out. Ken Konda. Take money that comes in with lot of respect. Like Prasad. While giving say, what I get back is 10 times more.
- Don't devalue self and others. Support other (women). Break the cycle. Pay and charge.
- Every day 5 minutes dream big - Affirmations and Visualisations.
Think Big. Start small.
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