Monday, March 06, 2006

It's the transition that's troublesome............

EXPECTATIONS ARE THE CAUSE OF DISAPPOINTMENT, SO NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE, ACCEPT AS IT COMES AND BE HAPPY.

Though loved Veega job, had to resign it, so could stay with my dear Ammuma when she needed the most and was alone. Could come into Amlaki, learn blogging, and many new things, got new friends….etc….But then, know this too is not permanent, and ultimately its GODs will or decisions which will prevail.

WHATEVER HAS TO GO WRONG WILL GO WRONG, and NOBODY CAN STOP A GREAT IDEA WHOSE TIME HAS COME.

Sometimes I feel, I will just come do my duty, go to hostel, and live this life, without involving in others matters and things, just do the daily task, but then I feel, may be that is not enough, as the song in JOGGERS PARK: ‘Akeley Main Melay hai, Melay main bhi akeley hai, tell Hi! To the passers by, we got to live now…..’ We reap benefits of the good done by some other people, so let us also do good to others, Do all the good we can, to all the people ve can, in all the ways we can, at all the time we can….As the conversation of Vinod Mehra and Reema Lagoo, in Pather Khey Phool, when she asks him, why do you plant tree wherever you go? He says, ‘The fruits or flowers that we have now, was not planted by us’.

At times feel why so much of misunderstanding, everywhere?? Especially between in laws. Is this is every where, everytime??? Individually all are so good, but when it comes to interpersonal relation, things go wrong….. Just as a big pot full of water will be emptied by a small hole, little anger or ego, will burn up all the nobility of a good heart.

And for this we need to:
Assume Nothing
Expect little
Do more
Demand less
Smile often
Dream Big
Pray always
Cry at times.

There are problems, everywhere, As Srini sir said, when someone say report is not working, you cannot say, no problem, report not working is a problem, we need to fix it. Some solutions are known, some are unknown, we need to find out the unknown solutions. Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hardwork. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of peace…

Mistakes are painful when they happen, but years later a collection of mistake is called experience, which leads you to success.

Felt so sad to know the Nizar sir was leaving, he was here for 5 long years, had done so much for the company,Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay...... then remembered the words of Narayan Murthy, Love your job, but never fall in love with your company, bcoz you never know when company stops loving you……….

Progress is impossible without change, so may be this is needed, as Mutability is the way of life. Then as they say, those who cannot change their mindset cannot change anything………

In the long run, you will have some good colleagues, and family members only. As they say Few Relations In Earth Never Die. ….

Best part is to be in the company of children, they are innocent, unaware of the things going around. Even they need company, as a kid, as well as when they grow up. So they love going to parks etc…. Then the best thing is to take a nap…Things will happen while you are asleep, but you will have the energy to catch up when you wake up.

Thought for the day: "Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome."

1 comment:

me ra said...

And now there is Anil telling the story of the troublesome transition, especailly who has to give up the job.....

Will we be able to escape from their curse....

Anyway, in life, it is perception, that matters, right.