Wednesday, January 31, 2024

Jan 24 Ends or Feb 24 begin

เค…เคงूเคฐी เคนै "เค–़्เคตाเคนिเคถ" เคธिเคฎเคŸ เคฐเคนी เคนै "เคœเคจเคตเคฐी"

เค–เคก़ी เคนै เคšोเค–เคŸ เคชเคฐ "เค‡เคถ्เค•़เคตाเคฒी" "เคซ़เคฐเคตเคฐी"❤️

Life is a limited period offer.

Live your best edition.

We are still not out of the New Year hangover and the month is over.

So much has happened this month. 

Lot unexpected.  Yet expected.

Met new people, lost old.

The guys in train attending the Calicut Fest gave a ray of hope of future being in safe hands, Thankfully. 

Loved the discussion on movies and books.

Prayers for health,  peace and safety of all.

เคฎเคนाเคฎृเคค्เคฏुंเคœเคฏ เคฎंเคค्เคฐ - keep chanting and praying if possible ๐Ÿ™ 


เฅ เคค्เคฐ्เคฏเคฎ्เคฌเค•ं เคฏเคœाเคฎเคนे เคธुเค—เคจ्เคงिं เคชुเคท्เคŸिเคตเคฐ्เคงเคจเคฎ् |

เค‰เคฐ्เคตाเคฐुเค•เคฎिเคต เคฌเคจ्เคงเคจाเคจ्เคฎृเคค्เคฏोเคฐ्เคฎुเค•्เคทीเคฏ เคฎाเคฝเคฎृเคคाเคค् ||


เคฎंเคค्เคฐ เค•ा เค…เคฐ्เคฅ


เคนเคฎ เคค्เคฐिเคจेเคค्เคฐ เค•ो เคชूเคœเคคे เคนैं,

เคœो เคธुเค—ंเคงिเคค เคนैं, เคนเคฎाเคฐा เคชोเคทเคฃ เค•เคฐเคคे เคนैं,

เคœिเคธ เคคเคฐเคน เคซเคฒ, เคถाเค–ा เค•े เคฌंเคงเคจ เคธे เคฎुเค•्เคค เคนो เคœाเคคा เคนै,

เคตैเคธे เคนी เคนเคฎ เคญी เคฎृเคค्เคฏु เค”เคฐ เคจเคถ्เคตเคฐเคคा เคธे เคฎुเค•्เคค เคนो เคœाเคं।


Indeed:

Good thing, Bad thing, who knows?


Lessons from Disney

 As Walt said, "The way to get started is to stop talking and begin doing."

A magical journey through the world of Disney, uncovering timeless lessons hidden within its stories and characters, you can learn a lot.  As Paul E Chadwick says:

"We've seen how Cinderella's transformation and persistence can inspire change, embraced simplicity with Winnie the Pooh, navigated uncertainty alongside the Cheshire Cat, and learned to adapt and stay positive with Olaf.

We've celebrated the unusual with The Grim Grinning Ghosts and tackled challenges with humour on the Jungle Cruise.

From Han Solo's quick decision-making to Tinkerbell's power of belief, Captain America's ethical leadership, Rapunzel's vision beyond constraints, and Walt Disney's own unwavering perseverance, each story has offered unique insights.

The stories and characters we've explored are more than just entertainment; they are beacons guiding us toward excellence in our professional endeavours."

What have you learned from Disney?

Tuesday, January 30, 2024

For Today - Change

 

Overexaggerate Yesterday

 Overestimate tomorrow

 Underestimate today

 Today is what matters



After having read Toshikazu Kawaguchi, weekend was reflecting into past, going to the hometown, browsing through the old letters and connecting with the old colleagues and friends. 

Was interesting to see and read the responses, and reminisce how times have changed. 





Wednesday, January 24, 2024

Toshikazu Kawaguchi ~ Before you... series. (7 to 9 of 24)



Before the Coffee Gets Cold is a memorable story set in a small Japanese cafรฉ with some time travel magic. The story will open your mind to different ways of seeing the world around you. If you like character-driven stories that are charming yet heart-wrenching, this is for you. 

The third novel in the international bestselling Before the Coffee Gets Cold series, following four new customers in a cafe where customers can travel back in time.

On the hillside of Mount Hakodate in northern Japan, Cafe Donna Donna is fabled for its dazzling views of Hakodate port. But that’s not all. Like the charming Tokyo cafe Funiculi Funicula, Cafe Donna Donna offers its customers the extraordinary experience of travelling through time.

Before the Coffee Gets Cold was out in 2015 and you can read about it here:https://arunoday.blogspot.com/2024/01/before-coffee-gets-cold-toshikazu.html

Tales from the Cafe 

Tales from the Cafรฉ by Toshikazu Kawaguchi is the sequel to Before the Coffee Gets Cold, following four new customers who hope to travel back in time in a little Tokyo cafe. Both books have a cozy, calming sense of place and a cast of interesting characters. 



“People tend to feel happy when spring arrives, especially after a cold winter. When spring begins, however, cannot be pinpointed to one particular moment. There is no one day that clearly marks when winter ends and spring begins. Spring hides inside winter. We notice it emerging with our eyes, our skin and other senses. We find it in new buds, a comfortable breeze and the warmth of the sun. It exists alongside winter.”

“clang-dong”

Welcome back to Cafรฉ Funiculi Funicula, where patrons can embark on a journey into the past and/or future as long as they follow a list of rules among which is that nothing done in the past would impact the present or the future and you must return to the present before your coffee gets cold!

“If it is not possible to change the present no matter how hard you try while in the past, then why bother?”

A question that defies rational thought but the answer of which lies in the hearts of those who are grieving for the people they have lost, regretting all that was left unsaid, those experiencing guilt over past actions or words that haunt them and prevent them from leading their lives to the fullest and those who want to see their loved one(s) just one more time.

“We can never truly see into the hearts of others. When people get lost in their own worries, they can be blind to the feelings of those most important to them.”

This time we meet four new time –travellers. 

  1. We have a man who visits a dear friend who was killed in a car crash 22 years ago and whose daughter he has raised as his own. Her impending wedding evokes guilt as he has never told her the truth about her parentage. 
  2. We also meet a man, who was unable to attend his mother’s funeral and travels back in time to see her once again. The son hasn’t had an easy life and meeting his mother proves to be a cathartic experience, giving him a new lease on life. 
  3. A terminally ill man travels to the future to see the woman he loved and to ensure that she leads a happy life and not allow his death to prevent her from finding happiness. 
  4. The final time traveler is a policeman nearing retirement who meets his late wife on her birthday – a day he missed on account of work- to give her a gift.


With simple prose, endearing characters (old and new) and stories that touch your heart, “Before the Coffee Gets Cold: Tales from the Cafรฉ” by Toshikazu Kawaguchi (translated by Geoffrey Trousselot) is an impressive sequel. Though I did enjoy reading the first book in the series, Before the Coffee Gets Cold, I must say that this book is an improvement over the first. Not only is the writing more fluid and less disjoint, but the characters are very well fleshed out and the stories are characterized by much more emotional depth and nuance. We get to know more about the cafรฉ owner and his family and we finally get to know the story of the mysterious woman who occupies the time-travel chair in the cafรฉ, vacating it only once a day, opening up an opportunity for others to embark on their journeys. Yes, there is a certain amount of repetitiveness (with each of the patrons being reminded of the rules) but that can be easily forgiven on account of how beautifully written these interconnected stories are. This book made me smile and yes, I did shed more than a few tears. I’m eagerly awaiting the third book in the series.

“Life too, passes through difficult winters. But after any winter, spring will follow.”

Before the memory fades was out in 2018 

Here is another story of four new customers, each of whom is hoping to take advantage of the cafe's time-travelling offer. Among some familiar faces from Toshikazu Kawaguchi’s previous novels, readers will also be introduced to:

  1. A daughter who begrudges her deceased parents for leaving her orphaned
  2. A comedian who aches for his beloved and their shared dreams
  3. A younger sister whose grief has become all-consuming
  4. A young man who realizes his love for his childhood friend too late


In Before Your Memory Fades, Kawaguchi once again invites the reader to ask themselves: what would you change if you could travel back in time?

and then comes Before We Say Goodbye in 2021

Before we say goodbye, translated from Japanese by Geoffrey Trousselot, explores the age-old question: what would you do if you could travel back in time? More importantly, who would you want to meet, maybe for one last time?

The regulars at the magical Cafe Funiculi Funicula are well acquainted with its famous legend and extraordinary, secret menu time travel offering. Many patrons have reunited with old flames, made amends with estranged family, and visited loved ones. But the journey is not without risks and there are rules to follow. Travellers must have visited the cafe previously and most importantly, must return to the present in the time it takes for their coffee to go cold.

In the tradition of Toshikazu Kawaguchi’s sensational 'Before the Coffee Gets Cold' series, readers will once again be introduced to a new set of visitors:

  1. The husband with something important left to say
  2. The woman who couldn’t bid her dog farewell
  3. The woman who couldn’t answer a proposal
  4. The daughter who drove her father away . 

In the hauntingly beautiful Before we say goodbye, Kawaguchi invites us to join his characters as they embark on a journey to revisit one crucial moment in time.

Before we forget kindness is set to be out in 2024.

Translated from Japanese by Geoffrey Trousselot and featuring signature heart-warming characters and wistful storytelling, Toshikazu is able to use a literary trope as complex and convoluted as time travel to reveal our relationships to the past and our obligation to do what we can to make sure the past is not in vain. This charmingly magical novel is about discovering happiness despite the pasts that we desperately want to revisit. Even when we can revisit our past, our future happiness is up to us to discover and create.

If you're looking for something quirky and thought-provoking, you will love these stories!

The invisible well between us, 

Overexaggerate Yesterday

 Overestimate tomorrow

 Underestimate today

 Today is what matters

But what if we can time travel?

Stress, Anxiety, Depression


 Let the eloquence of your achievements speak louder than the whispers of your plans. Share results, not intentions, and let success be the resounding testament to your strategic silence."

Stress is because of inaction. If your take action, and get things done, you can overcome stress.

Depression is when the past keep worrying you. Realise you have no control over the past. 

Anxiety is when you are bothered and worried about the future. 

Let the past not bother you, nor the future worry you - Live in the present, and make best use of it. Take action, and keep your mouth shut. 

Make your life and your happiness your own priority. 

Why do you read, ride, travel and interact socially? - Because it gives you Happiness!

There will be people who do not want you to be genuinely happy, who want you to be their puppets. Beaware. Follow your heart. 

Choose your hard


 "Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Choose your hard. Obesity is hard. Being fit is hard. Choose your hard. Being in debt is hard. Being financially disciplined is hard. Choose your hard. Communication is hard. Not communicating is hard. Choose your hard. Life will never be easy. It will always be hard. But we can choose our hard. Pick wisely”  

“When something disturbs the peace of your heart, let it go,” 

Am glad all are getting together.  Corporate life is just fleeting part. Relationships and friendship  is greater.

If you do not choose your hard, the hard will choose you, choose what you would want. 

18-01-2024

Someone felt suicidal. Someone just had to restart. 

Thanks to People who loved and made this term feel not so difficult. To those who use people - have learned that 'Only people who aren't happy with themselves are mean to others. 

Tuesday, January 23, 2024

Agile

Agile is not as much a methodology as it is a set of values, ideals and goals. Scrum and kanban are implementations of agile. Both practices are implemented differently while having the same foundation, the Agile Manifesto. They have specific, measurable and quantifiable procedures and processes. Both share the goal of breaking down projects into smaller chunks and focusing on continuous testing. The number one performance gain of agile is preventing rework. Applying either process in your company will help you spot deficiencies sooner and allow you the clarity to fix any problems that arise during the process, rather than at the end of the project. Being most effective, while adding business value, should be the end goal.



The Agile methodology is a project management approach that involves breaking the project into phases and emphasizes continuous collaboration and improvement. Teams follow a cycle of planning, executing, and evaluating.

The Agile framework is an iterative methodology. After every sprint, teams reflect and look back to see if there was anything that could be improved so they can adjust their strategy for the next sprint.

Manifesto clearly specifies the fundamental principles of the agile approach:

“Through this work we have come to value: Individuals and interactions over processes and tools Working software over comprehensive documentation, Customer collaboration over contract negotiation, Responding to change over following a plan.”

As you think about your own agile software development practices, consider the following best practices, 

Use iterative development

This is a hallmark of the agile software development practice. Bigger projects are broken down into smaller chunks and continuous testing is done. In Scrum, tasks will be prioritized into sprints. Each member of the sprint will be responsible for specific tasks to complete during the sprint. In Kanban, iteration is not time-bound but implemented per task.

Don’t lose track of your daily standups

The more consistent you are with your daily standups the less backtracking and rework you will have to do. Development Team members should be prepared to discuss what has gone well or been completed, along with any concerns or roadblocks they may have incurred. Team members need to come prepared with answers to:

What did I get done in the last 24 hours? What am I going to do in the next 24 hours? And what help do I need in order to get my work done? 

There should be transparency of work so that each member is responsible for a portion of the work and know the responsibilities of their team members. Other recommendations include adhering to the “time box”: standups should not exceed 15 minutes and reserving long discussions for your weekly huddle or set up a meeting to follow.

“If longer discussions are needed, a promise between affected team members to follow-up after the stand-up works wonders to keep the session moving and also ensure follow through to resolution.” Jim Ash, Product Management Principal, CSM, nvisia

Set clean communications guidelines for your teams

This is where transparency comes into play. Each sprint should have clear and prioritized tasks and each member should know what part of the sprint/task they are responsible for. During daily standups, progress and any concerns (at a high level) should be discussed to prevent rework. Members should arrange to follow-up after for more in depth discussion and resolution.

Ensure feedback (from end user) is continuous and transparent

Feedback from the end user throughout is imperative. The agile process, in nature, is a collaborative process. At the beginning, expectations and goals should be discussed and used for road mapping. During the process, continuous feedback is necessary in navigating any issues or adjustments to deliver a satisfactory end product.

“In Scrum and Kanban, the end user requirements should anchor everything you do.”

Focus on flow. Try to reduce starts and stops.

Every time you stop a process, your team is going to lose momentum and cohesion. They are going to lose valuable brain “state” and productivity. By minimizing starts and stops, you minimize context switching that must be done by the technical team.Keep in mind, the main idea of agile implementation is to point out deficiencies in your current process. It is not intended to be a quick, easy or a painless adoption. These frameworks are in place to help you identify what needs to change or be adapted in order to get the benefits you are looking for. If you have never done agile before, we suggest starting with Scrum because it is easier to implement – and to implement in small groups rather than across your enterprise.

Kanban is a project management framework that relies on visual tasks to manage workflows, while scrum is a project management framework that helps teams structure and manage their work through a set of values, principles, and practices.

The key difference is that Agile methodology is a high-level project management approach that emphasizes iterative development, while Kanban boards are visual tools that help teams optimize their workflows.

Kanban and Scrum are two different approaches to managing and organizing work. Both are commonly used in software development but can be applied to any type of work that involves completing tasks or projects and both can be implemented within Jira using boards.

Put differently, teams should use Kanban. When Kanban practices are applied with Scrum, they provide a focus on improving the flow through the feedback loop; optimizing transparency and the frequency of inspection and adaptation for both the product and the process (from the Kanban Guide for Scrum Teams).

A kanban board often has three elements: boards, lists, and cards. Kanban boards are the biggest picture of a process that organizes broad aspects of a workflow. For example, a company may choose to have a different kanban board for different departments within its organization (i.e. finance, marketing, etc.).

Kanban is better for continuous flow work like support and services. WIP limits are set by the scrum team for every sprint, and new work is picked up only after all the work is completed. If teams need a sense of accomplishment/completion/closure, use scrum.


Yaarana

 Yaarana, Friendship, is a 1981 Indian musical drama film directed by Rakesh Kumar, starring Amitabh Bachchan, Amjad Khan, Neetu Singh, Tanuja, and Kader Khan. The plot of the film is based on Karna and Duryodhana’s friendship from the Mahabharata.



Three songs, "Chhookar Mere Mann Ko," "Tere Jaisa Yaar Kahan," and "Saara Zamana Haseeno Ka Deewana", all sung by Kishore Kumar, were super-hits and are still loved. "Saara Zamana Haseeno Ka Deewana" is particularly noteworthy because of Amitabh Bachchan's dance with clothes fitted with electric bulbs, which he himself operated from under his clothing, maintaining complete synchronization while dancing.


Kishan and Bishan are childhood friends. Kishan is an orphan, but is self-sufficient and hard-working, while Bishan comes from an affluent background. The friendship between the two is extremely strong and is the bane of Bishan's uncle, who has his eyes on his widowed sister's wealth. In a bid to separate the two friends, the uncle manipulates his sister into sending Bishan away to the city and then abroad for further education.


When the two friends reunite years later, Bishan (Amjad Khan) discovers that Kishan (Amitabh Bachchan) has a great voice. Bishan is now a successful businessman and he wants to promote Kishan's singing talent. Kishan goes to the city with his friend, where Bishan asks Komal (Neetu Singh) to groom him to be a performer and a gentleman. Kishan tries to get expelled from the process by being uncooperative and disruptive. In the meantime, Bishan discovers that the family wealth has been systematically looted over the last 18 years by the uncle and his son. He is forced to borrow by mortgaging his remaining assets in order to ensure that Kishan becomes a successful singer. This causes a major rift between Bishan and his wife, who is convinced that Kishan will turn his back on his friend if he were to ever succeed. Kishan's debut concert is a huge success and he goes on to donate the proceeds of his earnings and consequent record deals in order to rid his friend Bishan of his many mortgages and in order to help woo his estranged sister-in-law and lovable nephew (Bishan's 10-year-old son) back into the house.


Kishan proceeds to become a star and Komal (Neetu Singh) - his trainer professes her love for him. Bishan, meanwhile, falls into a conspiracy set by his treacherous uncle (Jeevan) and cousin (Ranjeet). He is kidnapped alongside several hostages - primarily children on his shipping vessel, brainwashed, tortured and forced to sign a confession that all the misdeeds have been done by him. Bishan loses his mental stability and goes into shock.


He is then thrown into an asylum after he has a breakdown and experiences amnesia. Kishan pretends to be mentally ill and admits himself into the asylum by tricking the authorities and saves his friend by reviving his memory successfully by feeding him rotis as he used to when they were children.


The climax follows the typical action confrontation formula reminiscent of films in that era where there are big explosions and the heroes single-handedly take on hordes of goons. The movie ends with the children - hostages being saved, the family uniting and the treacherous mastermind (Ranjeet) being sent to jail.


5 types of toxic people to avoid : Ankur Warikoo

1) The Energy Drainer: 

You feel tense and uneasy after each interaction with them.

2) The Pessimist: 

They have a negative outlook of the world. 

Always try to talk you out of your dreams.

3) The Criticizer: 

They don't support you in your decisions. 

They criticize every move you make. 

They make you feel like you can't do anything right.

4) The Manipulator: 

They try to control everything. 

Pretend to like you and other people. 

But they just want to make every decision for themselves and others.

5) The Victim: 

They blame others for their misfortune. 

Constantly seek attention from others. 

Talk mostly about their excuse for failing.

Which of these have you encountered the most? 

How do you survive when you are surrounded by all?

Harder question: 

Which of these are you often?

Letter from the Universe by Krupalini Swamy

 Inspiration for the year – keep you grounded, find purpose.

 Dear superstar

 In the world obsessed with matrix and comparison, it is easy to feel judged, and defined by external measures.

Let me remind you, you are so much more than that. You are not merely the numbers on the scale, or digit in the bank accounts

Your worth cannot be compared to income, weight or any other societal measure.

You are so much more than that ,

You are life itself, a vibrant and unique experience

Your worth cannot be compared

You are sum of your experiences, passion, dreams and connections

You are the love, compassion and kindness you share with others.

You are the resilience and strength that carry you through challenges

You are the wisdom and growth that come from learning and evolving

You are the beauty that cannot be quantified. The spark that ignites your spirit

The potential that knows no bounds.

You are the infinite that remains, when you subtract all the universal external expectations and judgements

Don’t let the limitations of society's matrix define your worth,

You’re Vast , Immeasurable and Unique

Life your life authentically, guided by your inner compass

Celebrate the unquantifiable aspects that make you who you are.

You are more than numbers, more than what  can be measured.

Embrace the beauty of life’s intangibles. Let your infinite worth shine through

Your universe.

Aim for starts, and be grounded to mother earth.

 

Your universe

Relationship


 THREE STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP

1. The Butterfly Stage

This is when your admiration for this person sky rockets. You only see the good, even their flaws seems like no big deal to you.

It's the "love is blind" stage..


2) The Knowledge Stage

This is when the butterflies have died and turned to worms, it's the rude shock stage, the "I never knew you could do this" stage... This is when all about the person, the little details that matter come to the fore. You now see Dracula in this person.


3) The Understanding Stage

At this stage you weigh everything, the good, the bad and the ugly and make your decision 

You can now decide if you want to be with this person or not, based on the facts before you. 

This stage takes time and time doesn't mean 80 years...


Remember, time doesn't change anything, it reveals what changed. At this stage it's safer to make your decision... However, whether you started a relationship with butterfly or not, 


What will determine the success of your relationship are Commitment, contentment and communication. Attraction may start off a RELATIONSHIP; Purpose sustains it and Value progresses it.❤️❤️❤️๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘Œ

Kaathal – The Core

A subject far ahead of it's time. At least in a place like that.  The context is intentionally slow, to showcase the life - 'The Great Indian Kitchen' type. 


Kaathal – The Core is a 2023 Indian Malayalam-language drama film[2] directed by Jeo Baby and written by Adarsh Sukumaran and Paulson Skaria. Produced by Mammootty Kampany, the film stars Mammootty and Jyothika.

Mathew Devassy lives with his family of four - his wife, Omana, daughter, Fenny, and father, Devassy, leading a respectable life in his village. Thanks to his father's contribution towards the CR Party, Mathew is given a chance to contest the Local Village Body elections. One evening, he comes to know that Omana has filed a divorce petition against him. Upon confronting that it might hinder his election candidature, Omana says that she had filed it two months ago. They approach a speedy trial in the Kerala High Court, where Omana had filed a petition alleging that he has not fulfilled her marital and sexual desires, but was perfect in raising a family. The respondent lawyer asks her the number of times they had intercourse, to which she replies four - in their entire twenty years of marital life.

Upon questioning the need for a divorce then, the representent lawyer argues that and Mathew would have committed a crime according to the then existing law. Mathew claims that he has no knowledge of his homosexuality and Thankan, his alleged partner accused in the case, during the cross-checking by the prosecution. Thankan, who owns a driving school, expresses anguish that his sexual orientation is different and that his school is flooded by only women. Meanwhile, the party is puzzled about Mathew's campaigneering.

As the case proceeds, Devassy is called upon as a direct witness and accepts that his son has been a homosexual since his childhood and marriage was pressurized due to the society. That night, Devassy bursts into tears and agrees that he was responsible for the mishappenings of his son's life. Mathew apologises to his Omana and implores that he was afraid to come out. Omana says that she wanted a divorce to rescue them both; they both shed tears. The next day, as they sign the divorce papers, Mathew comes-out as a gay man and proceeds to campaign for the elections.

Post the elections, the victorious Mathew is seeing a potential groom for Omana, with Thankan as his partner.

Monday, January 22, 2024

Faith, Religion, Ram temple



The way forward for the planet, is the recognition that authority is not truth; truth is the only authority.  In the quest for truth, we have iconic inspirations. One among them Ram/Rama/Raman has left an indelible mark on the collective consciousness. We do not have to be religious to appreciate this. 

Ram embodied love, patience, integrity, gentleness and fortitude under incredibly challenging circumstances, who fought for his wife without hatred, resentment or negativity and repented for slaying his adversary, because he recognised that his enemy was a noble human being in his own right. 

He placed the well-being of his citizens above personal interest. 

Heroism is not the conquest of the external but the internal. Remaining unruffled and equanimous through various disasters in life makes him exceptional. He was not a super human, but a man who with examples proved being human is super. An ideal man, who rose to be divine, with triumph of responsibility. 

 


Anniruddha Acharya clearly states why Hindu's have not just one God. Just as I am one, but different for different people - like a mother, sister, daughter, aunth, friend etc. we have one God in different forms, and different religion. 


Kaun Hindu, kaun Musalman… Thappa kidhar hai dikha… Ye farak bhagwan nahi tum log banaya hai… Aur yahi is gola ka sabse danger wrong number hai...

Who is Hindu, who is Muslim… where is the stamp visible… this difference is not made by God but you people… and this is the most dangerous wrong number of this globe…

A man of principle, who voluntarily gave up his kingdom and went to exile, and came back, fulfilled his responsibility and again returned. 

Would he be happy or sad to see the splendid marvel created in his name today? 

One of the 10 avtara's of Lord Vishnu


Shri Ram as a 5-year old boy is the main Murti in the Mandir in Ayodhya.

Some Facts about the temple construction:

Chief Architects - Chandrakant Sompura, Nikhil Sompura and Ashish Sompura.

Design Advisors - IIT Guwahati, IIT Chennai, IIT Bombay, NIT Surat, Central Building Research Institute Roorkee, National Geo Research Institute Hyderabad, and the National Institute of Rock Mechanics.

Construction Company - Larsen and Toubro (L&T)Project

Management Company - Tata Consulting Engineers Limited ( TCEL)

Sculptors - Arun Yogiraaj (Mysore), Ganesh Bhatt and Satyanarayan Pandey

Total Area - 70 Acre (70% green Area)

Temple Area - 2.77 Acre

Temple Dimensions - Length – 380 Ft.

Width – 250 Ft. Height – 161 Ft.

Architectural Style - Indian Nagar Style

Architectural Highlights - 3 storeys (floors), 392 pillars, 44 doors

Now let's see how the temple will be a modern marvel:

The temple complex consists of several independent infrastructures of its own
which includes -
1. Sewage treatment plant
2. water treatment plant
3. fire service
4. independent power station.
5. Pilgrims Facility Centre of 25,000 capacity to provide medical facilities and locker facilities to the pilgrims.
6. Separate block with a bathing area, washrooms, washbasin, open taps, etc.
7. 200 KA light arresters have been installed over the temple structure to protect it from lightening.
8. Museum showcasing artifacts related to Lord Ram and the Ramayana. Thus. more than just a religious center, the Ram Mandir has been envisioned as a cultural and educational center as well.

Other Fascinating Things:
1. A time capsule has been placed approximately 2,000 feet below the ground, right underneath the temple. The capsule contains a copper plate inscribed with relevant information regarding the Ram Mandir, Lord Rama, and Ayodhya.
The purpose of this time capsule is to ensure that the identity of the temple remains intact over time so that it doesn’t get forgotten in the future.

2. The temple is an earthquake-resistant structure, with an estimated age of 2500 years.

3.The idols are made up of 60 million years old Shaligram Rocks, brought from the Gandaki River (Nepal)

4. The Bell is made of Ashtadhatu (Gold, Silver, Copper, Zinc, Lead, Tin, Iron, and Mercury)
The Bell weighs 2100 Kg
The sound of the bell can be heard up to a distance of 15 Km.

And in times to come, hope we will only be mesmerized to see it bring prosperity to the region.






AI's have their own way to showcase this. 


Is this true?

How do we know the path Ram travelled, where exactly he was born? 



Has'nt even the landscape of India changed? 




Sekharipuram Narayanan Subramanian, Managing Director,L &T , the brain behind the engineering Marvel at Ayodhya . There are people from Kanyakumari to all over India who have been involved in the construction of this temple. 

Hope the glory remain. 

12th Fail

12th Fail couple's real life love story: From IPS Manoj Sharma making tea for IRS Shraddha Joshi to shared interest in..


Vikrant Massey, as the student Manoj Kumar Sharma, has delivered a compelling performance that speaks straight to the viewers. The film beautifully captures the journey of a determined, ambitious, and sharp student from the unforgiving wilds of the Chambal to the national capital’s UPSC building, and in the process, fills the viewers with overwhelming emotions of hope and belief. How can anyone in such challenging circumstances be so hopeful of a bright future? More so, how does a sixteen-year-old emerge from the circumstances that cripple him to rise to the zenith and elevate his family's social strata forever? The answer to the question is what the film is all about. 

The supporting cast too, is equally believable and apt—Medha Shankar as Manoj's supportive girlfriend, Anantvijay Joshi as his friend, and Anshumaan Pushkar as a peer—bringing in a much-needed authenticity and genuineness to their characters, making the screenplay so much more enriching. 

Re-examine all you have been told

in school or church or in any book,

Dismiss whatever insults your own soul;

And your very flesh shall be a great poem…

~ Walt Whitman

Restart


 Manoj Sharma believed in the power of love and made sure that he became an appropriate partner for Shraddha. They started their relationship with a strong friendship which then eventually turned into love.

 "Ek toh naam Shraddha, uppar se sheher Almora. That day only I felt that there is something special about her," in movie Mussorie

 It was in 2005 when Manoj Sharma and Shraddha Joshi got married. The couple has two kids, a daughter named Chia and a son named Manas.



 
It is not just Manoj's story. Movie is full of inspiring people. 

The DYSP - who inspires Manoj turns out to be ours to - Only way to succeed is no cheating. 

Restart - Never giving up hope - The reality of  UPSC in the movie is actually hidden in Gauri Bhaiya, enacted by Anshumaan Pushkar

Unconditional Friendship - You meet a stranger on the road, become life long friend, and turn your life. Anantvijay Joshi as Pritam Pandey, is an embodiment of Friendship. 


Norwegian Wood by Haruki Murakami (5/24)

"Norwegian Wood" published in 1987 by Haruki Murakami. The story is set in the late 1960s in Tokyo, Japan, and follows the life of Toru Watanabe, a college student who is struggling to come to terms with the suicide of his best friend, Kizuki. Toru finds solace in his relationship with Kizuki's girlfriend, Naoko, who is dealing with her emotional issues.


As Toru navigates his way through the complexities of love and loss, he becomes drawn into a world of unconventional relationships and explores the themes of sexuality, mental health, and the search for meaning in life. Along the way, he encounters a cast of intriguing characters, including Midori, a vibrant and independent young woman who captures his heart.

The novel is a poignant and introspective exploration of the human condition, as seen through the eyes of a young man grappling with the challenges of growing up and finding his place in the world. Murakami's lyrical prose and vivid descriptions of Tokyo's vibrant counterculture make "Norwegian Wood" a timeless and thought-provoking work of literature.

It is a haunting love story that turned Murakami into a literary superstar. When he hears her favourite Beatles song, Toru Watanabe recalls his first love Naoko, the girlfriend of his best friend Kizuki. Immediately he is transported back almost twenty years to his student days in Tokyo, adrift in a world of uneasy friendships, casual sex, passion, loss and desire - to a time when an impetuous young woman called Midori marches into his life and he has to choose between the future and the past.

Describing the highs of adolescence as well as the lows, this book is genuinely emotionally engaging. Sweet pain of one side love, suicide, and how it effects the life of close friends and relatives. Title comes from the famous song which leads to the flashback from 'Thoru's life. 37 year old, who on his way to Germany listen's to this song. 

Kizuki's loss bring Thoru and Novku together, set in 1960's in Japan.  They shift to Tokyo and meet there. Nagasava one of the most selfish character, but helps him progress.

'Don't feel sorry about yourself, only ass holes do that' You can always do that. 

Mithori comes to Thoru's life, she is a comical relief, in otherwise sad story. How she lie naked in front of her dead father's death.  Did not cry at his fathers funeral, as she was very tired taking care of her sick parent in hospital. She did not cry when he died, but within few days, go to the pub and dances her heart away. 

Some choose life over death, and some choose to suicide. A book with open ending. Book does not give closer but leaves it to interpretation. 

"Gripping the receiver, I raised my heads and turned to see what lay beyond the phone box. Where was I now? I had no idea. No idea at all. Where was this place? All that flashed into my eyes were the countless shapes of people walking by to nowhere. Again and again I called out for Midori from the dead centre of this place that was no place."

View 1: When his friend kills himself the 'sickness', meaning depression and unability to cope with life, is passed on to Naoko. It hurts her on a fundamental level. She turns to the protagonist in hopes that he can save her, but in the end he fails.

When Naoko commits suicide the 'sickness' is passed on to him. He becomes unable to cope with life. He feels disconnected and confused and he is crying out for Midori to save him, because he can't do it on his own anymore.

This is a circle of action and reaction. A person can be hurt on such a fundamental level that no love in the world could save him/her. And a person in pain may accidentally hurt his/her loved ones in exactly that manner, without ever intending to.

So in the end the fear remains that the story will repeat itself.

View 2: Watanabe is shown to be someone who cannot open up about his problems - even his friend Nagasawa comments on how he is secretive when it comes to his personal life. And because the book is in Watanabe's voice, i got the feeling that he was always struggling to be detached from the many problems in his life.

However, in the end, he finally decides to 'open' up to all the tragedy in his life - and the feeling of 'dead centre' etc comes from finally allowing all the tragedies to affect him. he's finally letting go.

We're not told if he is pulled back from this darkness by Midori, who is at the other end of the telephone line - but I'd like to believe she did. Just the fact that Watanabe chose Midori over Naoko shows that he chose life over death, I think.

Another reason why i thought it all ended well is because the story begins 10 years later, when he is in the plane and he hears "Norwegian Woods" playing. He loses control for an instance, but then recovers. I think it shows that though he is scarred by his past, he has also managed to move on.

View 3: The ending of this book is hiding in plain sight, it's in the first paragraph of the book, a lonely grown-up man outliving and reliving the tragic loss of his best friends.

How these people shape Thoru's life is all that the book is about.  Staying in hostel, and room mate goes and you are all alone - do effect you as a person and you think you don't need friends. 

Reeko or Ricko - a musician who has suffered a lot, 11 years elder than Thoru and 

Deeply illusive and emotional read, on mental health. It is not a love story. Life is lived, you feel, contemplative, realistic.  The ways of the characters existing, you feel connected.  It navigates the subject of lost love. It is the surrendering of self, that creates problem.  It teaches you how not to love, It is not an antidote to happiness. Story is based on swallow, fleeting recollection of growing up, and not in actual leaving. 

Theme of time, memory, death and it's imprint on life. Contemplate life, death, friendship, 


"But death was a fact a serious fact, no matter how you looked at it. Stuck inside this suffocating contradiction, I went on endlessly spinning in circles. Those were strange days, now that I look back at them, In the midst of life, everything revolved around death. "

What makes us so normal, is knowing that we are not normal. 

A book with a very profound effect. 

Saturday, January 20, 2024

On Writing ~ Stephen King (6 of 24)

 King's advice is grounded in the vivid memories from childhood through his emergence as a writer, from his struggling early career to his widely reported, near-fatal accident in 1999 - and how the inextricable link between writing and living spurred his recovery.


Short and snappy as it is, Stephen King's On Writing really contains two books: a fondly sardonic autobiography and a tough-love lesson for aspiring novelists. The memoir is terrific stuff, a vivid description of how a writer grew out of a misbehaving kid. You're right there with the young author as he's tormented by poison ivy, gas-passing babysitters, uptight schoolmarms, and a laundry job nastier than Jack London's. It's a ripping yarn that casts a sharp light on his fiction. This was a child who dug Yvette Vickers from Attack of the Giant Leeches, not Sandra Dee. "I wanted monsters that ate whole cities, radioactive corpses that came out of the ocean and ate surfers, and girls in black bras who looked like trailer trash." But massive reading on all literary levels was a craving just as crucial, and soon King was the published author of "I Was a Teen-Age Graverobber." As a young adult raising a family in a trailer, King started a story inspired by his stint as a janitor cleaning a high-school girls locker room. He crumpled it up, but his writer wife retrieved it from the trash, and using her advice about the girl milieu and his own memories of two reviled teenage classmates who died young, he came up with Carrie. King gives us lots of revelations about his life and work. The kidnapper character in Misery, the mind-possessing monsters in The Tommyknockers, and the haunting of the blocked writer in The Shining symbolized his cocaine and booze addiction (overcome thanks to his wife's intervention, which he describes). "There's one novel, Cujo, that I barely remember writing."

King also evokes his college days and his recovery from the van crash that nearly killed him, but the focus is always on what it all means to the craft. He gives you a whole writer's "tool kit": a reading list, writing assignments, a corrected story, and nuts-and-bolts advice on dollars and cents, plot and character, the basic building block of the paragraph, and literary models. He shows what you can learn from H.P. Lovecraft's arcane vocabulary, Hemingway's leanness, Grisham's authenticity, Richard Dooling's artful obscenity, Jonathan Kellerman's sentence fragments. He explains why Hart's War is a great story marred by a tin ear for dialogue, and how Elmore Leonard's Be Cool could be the antidote.

The first half of the book on the early experiences of the author that shaped the writer in him and the second half on writing, he is a true teacher. 

A few quotes from the book that highly resonated the writer in me -

"You don't need writing classes or seminars any more than you need this or any other book on writing"

"I did it for the buzz. I did it for the pure joy of the thing. And if you can do it for joy, you can do it forever"

The certain reason I write- "writing isn't about making money, getting famous, getting dates, getting laid or making friends. In the end, it's about enriching the lives of those who will read your work, and enriching your own life, as well."



Thursday, January 18, 2024

Before the Coffee Gets Cold ~ Toshikazu Kawaguchi, Geoffrey Trousselot (4/24)

 Before the Coffee Gets Cold, adapted from a 1110 Productions play by Toshikazu Kawaguchi, Born in Osaka Japan in 1971. He produced, directed and wrote for theatrical group, this story  won the 10th Suginami Drama Festival grand prize. This is translated by Geoffrey Trousselot.

Kazu Tokita; the waitress whose coffee pour allows for time travel worked in the cafe named Funiculi Funicula in a narrow back alley,  from 1874 with a cash register maintained since then,  like Sayuri Komachi Tokyo’s most enigmatic librarian from What You are looking for is in the library -She belived,  'No matter what difficulties people face, they will always have the strength to overcome them. It just takes heart. and if the chair can change someone's heart, it clearly has its purpose. 

'Drink the coffee before it gets cold.'

 Michiko Aovama. Nagare Tokita was the owner of the cafe and his wife, Kei with a weak heart but always happy,

Fusagi had a magazine opened on the table and Kohtake came to pick him. Cafe regular was Yaeko Hirari whose sister Kumi wanted her back. . 

"If you could go back, who would you want to meet?"

  1. You would not be able to change the present- that would change many things. 
  2. They could only meet people who had visited the cafe
  3. There is only one seat from which they could go to the past - and only when the ghost would move out, ghost is the person who had sat on the seat befor, but did not follow the rule, who would get up only to go to the toilet. 
  4. There is a time limit but no limit to talking - one had to drink the full cup before the coffee got cold.
  5. A person could sit on the chair only once. 
One could not change the past, but choose the future, that was up to them. 

Magazine article described the cafe's time travel meaningless as you could not change the present, going to the past, and going to the future is simply a waste of time. 

If not something terrible would happen to the traveller, as travelling in time was against the law of nature.  If one would not drink the coffee, it would be their turn to continue to sit on the seat as a ghost. 

The book in four parts cover:

  1. The Lovers - Fumiko and Goro. - 
  2. Husband and Wife - Fusagi and Kohtake - alzimers
  3. The Sisters - Hirari and Kumi - Kumi sweet little sister who kept persuading her elder sister to return to the inn. - Death
  4. Mother and Child - Into the future Kei and  her child - as she thinks of her mother Tomako's explanation of death. 

Through out the book you have *clang-dong* It's to signify someone is coming in the cafe. It's the sound of the bell attached to the door. The term for a sound like that is onomatopoeia.

How sad it would be for the loved ones gone, to see you sad? So be happy. 



Could not resist ordering the others from the series. 


Wednesday, January 17, 2024

The Equator

The Equator is an imaginary line that divides the Earth into two hemispheres – the Northern Hemisphere and the Southern Hemisphere. It is also known as the latitude 0°. The Equator is about 40,075 kilometres long.

There are a total of 13 countries that pass through the equator line – Ecuador, Colombia, Brazil, Congo, Kenya, Somalia, Indonesia, Kiribati, Maldives, Malaysia, Thailand and Vietnam. Of these, Ecuador, Kenya and Somalia are the only countries that lie completely on the equator line.

Mbandaka (DRC), Kampala (Uganda), Kisumu & Nakuru (Kenya), Kismayo (Somalia), Pontianak (Indonesia), Quito (Ecuador), Macapรก (Brazil), Libreville (Gabon) - all are on or very close to the equator. In South America the country Equador is split by the equator.

The rotation of the earth away and towards the sun is what causes day and night. The countries that are located on the equator experience 12 hours of daylight and 12 hours of darkness every single day of the year! For people who live in these countries, there is no real change in seasons. The weather is generally the same all year long.



The equator is located in the tropics. The tropical climate is characterised by high temperatures and high humidity. There are two seasons in the tropics: the wet season and the dry season.

The wet season is the time of year when the rains come. The dry season is the time of year when the rains go away.

The wet season lasts from May to October. The dry season lasts from November to April.

The length of the equator is 24,901.55 miles long. The distance of the equator from the north pole is 12,450.28 miles and the south pole is 12,451.27 miles.

The Tropic of Cancer lies at 23d 26' 22" (23.4394 degrees) north of the Equator and marks the most northerly latitude at which the sun can appear directly overhead at noon. This event occurs at the June solstice, when the northern hemisphere is tilted towards the sun to its maximum extent. The line at 23°27′ north latitude is named the Tropic of Cancer because earlier in history, when the line was named, the Sun lay in the constellation Cancer on June 21.

The Tropic of Capricorn can be found at latitude 23.5 degrees south. when the Sun is directly over the Tropic of Capricorn at noon, it will not be visible from the Arctic Circle.

The Arctic Circle is located at 66.5°N latitude and the Antarctic Circle is located at 66.5 °S latitude.

Tuesday, January 09, 2024

Start Today ~ Warikoo

 Someone is tired of their job.

Someone hates their boss.

Someone feels they are in the wrong relationship.

Someone wants to startup but is not sure if it's the right move.


Someone wants to move abroad, but isn't sure which country.

Someone asks if they should move out of their hometown or not.


Not a single day goes by where I don’t receive such an email.

They graciously seek my opinion on it.


But I am no one to offer that.

I do not know.

I cannot.


Instead, I ask them my favourite question:

"What do you want to do?"


Most people reply with what they think they should do.

What they think should be the right answer.


No!


My question was - what do you WANT to do?

If everything was indeed possible, what would you WANT to do?


Once they come to that point, my next question is: "What is stopping you?"


This is when reality hits hard.

More often than not, it is our own mind.


We have convinced ourselves that we should not pursue what we want to do.

Because it is too risky, because people will laugh, because we might fail, because the world may criticise us, because we may not get a chance to recover.


But you know what?


A year from now, you will regret not having started today.


Start today, my friend!


#job #beginnings #learnings #warikoo

Finance for Non Finance Professionals - Why

 In my opinion, all non-finance managers should build some finance skills too. Here's why and how they can get started: #FinanceWrap #LIPostingChallengeIndia #LinkedInNewsIndia

Finance is the life blood of any person and organisation.  It is important to have a measure, and finance helps check the pulse of the business. 

Everybody is in one way or the other contributing to and is involved in finance whether they realise it or not. It is said that 'Ignorance is not and excuse', so why be ignorant. 

1. Primary goal of every business: Good to know how connected we are, more so in an organisation and even more when it is a business, for the ultimate aim of any business is making profit. So one need to know what is profit, who to measure it, make it, maintain it and manifest it. 

2. Understanding the financial terms and jargons: Unless there is clarity, there would be a disaster in any organisation because of miscommunications. Finance has set terms and jargons, which might be perceived differently by other departments. Non Finance Manager's should be familiar with terms and jargons like, P&L, BS, EBITDA, Depreciation, Assets, Liabilities, Income, Expenses, GRN, PO, DSO, DPO, O2C, P2P, R2R etc.

3. Financial Statements: Non Finance Managers should know to read, if not to prepare the basic three financial statements viz. Profit or Loss also known as Income and Expenditure statement, Balance Sheet and Cash Flow statement. 

4. Financial Planning: One need to be aware of and contribute to the financial planning of the organisation. The critical input for it would come from every department other than the finance and would vary from organisation to organisation. It would involve activities like Budgeting, forecasting; short-term and long-term plans.

5. Collaboration: When every department is well collaborated and have sharing sessions, it will help understand the overall business well, make effective decisions.  This will help in cost savings and cost reductions. With AI and Technology advancements, departments can make single investment, rather than looking at each division separately. There could be sessions like Finance for Non Finance Managers etc. 

Understanding finance will make you more efficient, and enhance the growth of self and the organisation. 

For Finance Professionals in India

 Here's something that I thought will be useful for finance professionals in India: hashtag#FinanceWrapIndia hashtag#LIPostingChallengeIndia hashtag#LinkedInNewsIndia

(Posted in linkedin)

Three decades ago, we celebrated when the Trial Balance, and Balance sheet tallied. We would manually write Journal Entries, Post them into Ledgers, create Trial Balance and Balance Sheet. A typical accounting office was filled with books, papers, files and dust.


With Technology, and ERP's in place, slowly, things started getting automated, and the number of books and papers around started reducing. Office became partially paperless; outsourcing, offshoring, and shared services started becoming very popular. ERP's like JD Edward, SAP, Oracle, People soft took care of Accounting, there were Data storage systems like Hyperion, Crest etc. and reporting tools like COGNOS, Essbase. This enabled moving activities to a central location, as businesses started growing global and so was born shared service centre.


I ) Shared Service Centre's (SSC):


 SSCs focus grew from cost reduction to best-in-class unit within an organization. 


II) Outsourcing: Make or Buy:


Examining the relevant costs of keeping activities in-house versus outsourcing, organisations capitalise on the expertise of another company that is more efficient, effective, or knowledgeable at performing a specialized task that is peripheral to the firm's core business competencies which help them to focus on strategic revenue-generating activities. We have global firms, providing specialized services in implementing new technology, managing change, even for the Finance and Accounts activities both onshore and offsite, rendering the book closure with improved quality and timeliness. This do come with knowledge "give-away", confidentiality issues, limited flexibility, reduced quality control and lessened process control to name a few. 


Rule of the Thumb - If you are not from IT, do not invest in IT; outsource.


III) Changing Technology - Upgrade:


Boards expect CFOs to become strategic partners supporting enterprise strategy and driving growth while managing risk and compliance, market volatility, and creative destruction. Ones who embrace new ways of working. F&A teams across industries are combining digital technologies and analytics with new skills and capabilities to turn finance into a strategic partner. This empowers workforce, rethinks compliance, and delivers accurate forecasts and performance insights that shape business decisions. 


Digital and Analytics, Business process automation and robotics, Machine languages help access state of the art techniques. Today, AI can review large data sets to connect the dots, identify patterns, easily produce results and new intelligence. F&A teams can use the analysis and insight to get better outcomes. This is augmented intelligence. Robotic process automation (RPA) is effective at rules-based.


With easy access to intuitive technology at home, a workplace with outdated, clunky systems will not stay.

(An abridged version of my article in LinkedIn posted on 15th Oct.2019)

Dear Me ~ Author Magazine (3/24)

 

Scribing Positivity: 25 letters, Infinite Inspiration from the India Author Academy. 

Dedicated 'To You'

Just you without any filters

Jut you without any bias


Embracing Growth, Positivity and Self-love.

In the wise words of Maya Angelou, "There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you."

In 'A Beautiful Future ' ~ where you can get phone calls from your loved ones in heaven using 'Swarg-Tel', 

How can we make this world beautiful?

Stop polluting, killing nature and get free from greed, 

No one should die from hunger, thirst and wars anymore,

Keep intentions pure.

Read and write about unity.

Connect with all beings of the world, using your creativity. 

We all owe to nature, a big apology ~

I was hurting nature with my love for consumerism, 

Then I became Nature friendly, embraced Minimalism. 

We just need nature's love and rich mindset, to become wealthy. 

Turn our world into heaven. 

Finding Me in Me:

 Meaningfully use your Energies. 

Create your Mindest to Evolve in Life. 

Sabar (Patience) and Shukar (Gratitude) are two very powerful emotions. Have patience while moving in the direction of your dreams. There is no such thing as 'overnight success'. Clarity and Consistency are the keys to success. 

Sunday, January 07, 2024

Deep

Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth. – Marcus Aurelius

Once upon a time Marcus Aurelius said this. 

Our understanding of events and situations is filtered through our personal biases, experiences and interpretations. This reminds us to question and seek a deeper understanding, rather than accepting things at face value. 

The older I get the more I realize that everything really is deep. Yes everything.  Nothing should be taken lightly.

Mind you not serious,  not intense but deep. You are the average of the 5 people that you surround yourself with. It happens knowingly or unknowingly.  Cause it gets deep . It could be your family, friends, relatives, schoolmates, Co travelers,  people you confide in, your colleagues.  

What you watch, what you eat, what you consume,  what you wear, all of it have a deep impact on you. What you do with your mobile, in your free time, how you keep yourself busy, what you read, where you travel.

It's all very deep, you agree or not and should not be taken lightly. 

All these effect our health, wealth, living, life.

This hit real hard recently when a friend's son committed suicide. 


We most likely all have some understanding, at least, of the meaning of the concept behind the saying "perception is reality". However, how many of us are truly aware of "how" this "perception vs reality concept" actually plays out in our daily lives? Perceptions strongly influence our thinking, attitudes, decisions and actions and an idea of the importance of ones "perceptions" in the scheme of things can be gleaned by the use of the word "everything" that Marcus Aurelius chose to use in the above quote. It seems Marcus Aurelius was a fairly smart individual and some things have not changed from that day till this. Your perceptions are in fact your reality and your perceptions do in fact influence everything!

Often in our busy lives we run largely on auto pilot viewing the world before us through our own set of personal filters (our filters are made up of our experiences, beliefs and values and filters are what create our perceptions) and we see things the way we see them because that's the way we see them! And, the way we see things effects our thinking, attitudes, decisions and actions! Now, if this is starting to sound like "goblty gook" then understand that hidden within the "goblty gook" is the answer of the perception vs reality riddle.

You see, as a business coach I often work with business owners just like you to help them "see things, people, situations, problems, opportunities, decisions, ideas etc, etc from a different point of view". This change in view point creates a different perspective... which enables a different perception... which creates a different understanding of what might be the reality... which affects what we might think and or decide to do next.

Next time you are grappling with something or stuck or unsure or frustrated try shifting/changing/altering your point of view and try looking at the problem or issue from different ways/angles/attitudes with different outcomes in mind or in specific ways etc - you will be absolutely amazed at how your view of reality will change when you change your perception by changing your point of view.

In the tapestry of existence, let us hold these words close. Let us approach information with discernment and cultivate an openness to alternative viewpoints. Let us seek not only the comfort of our own beliefs but the broader panorama of perspectives that shape our understanding. ๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒ

In a world brimming with information, let us navigate with a discerning eye and an attentive ear. Let us embrace the idea that our perception is not a fixed reality, but a dynamic interpretation shaped by our experiences and beliefs. ๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ’ก

As we journey forward, may we carry with us the understanding that the truth is often a mosaic of perspectives and that wisdom lies in our willingness to explore and question. It is an invitation to approach the world with curiosity and humility. ๐Ÿš€๐ŸŒŸ

While on campaign between 170 and 180, Marcus wrote his Meditations in Greek as a source for his own guidance and self-improvement. The original title of this work, if it had one, is unknown. 'Meditations' – as well as other titles including 'To Himself' – were adopted later. He had a logical mind, and his notes were representative of Stoic philosophy and spirituality. Meditations is still revered as a literary monument to a government of service and duty. 


Incredible India ~ Mastercrafted Copywriiting

Masterfully crafted, arresting visuals by Ogilvy for Incredible India. Masterclass in copywriters indeed. It's not just the Amul Ads.


'Not all Indians are Polite, Hospitable and Vegetarian'


'And to think these days men get away with giving chocolates and flowers to their wives'


'One day men will travel at the speed of thought. Pity. "


'The inspiration behind the rapid advancement in camera technology.'


'Rat race, stress, Corporate fiction, rise above it'


'A step by step guide to salvation' 



'Don't panic. There is always rebirth.'


What are your inspiration?