Thursday, October 08, 2026
White Ginger Lilies...
Wednesday, October 07, 2026
Monday, October 05, 2026
East of Eden ~ John Steinbeck
East of Eden is a classic 1952 novel by John Steinbeck, often regarded as his masterpiece. It is a sweeping family saga set mainly in California's Salinas Valley and follows two families, the Trasks and the Hamiltons, across multiple generations. The novel explores themes of good versus evil, free will, identity, love, guilt, forgiveness, and the biblical story of Cain and Abel.
At its core, the story centers on:
The troubled Trask family, especially brothers who mirror the Cain and Abel rivalry.
The contrast between human cruelty and compassion.
The idea that people are not trapped by their past and can choose their own moral path.
Steinbeck weaves together American Historical fiction, family drama, philosophy of free will, psychological character study, history, and biblical symbolism into an epic narrative.
Many readers consider it one of the greatest American novels because it combines an engaging story with deep reflections on human nature and moral choice.
The story begins with Adam Trask, a gentle but troubled man, and his brother Charles Trask, whose resentment and rivalry echo the Cain-and-Abel theme. Later, Adam's sons, Caleb (Cal) and Aaron (Aron), repeat a similar struggle as they compete for love, approval, and identity.
One of the novel's most important questions is:
Are we destined to repeat the flaws we inherit, or can we choose a different path?
This is where the idea of Timshel ("thou mayest") becomes central. Steinbeck argues that people are neither trapped by fate nor guaranteed redemption. They have the freedom to choose who they become.
In one sentence
East of Eden is a sweeping family saga about good and evil, love and rejection, and the freedom each person has to choose their own moral path.
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"Timshel" is arguably the central idea of East of Eden. You see it in action from chapter 25.
In the novel, the characters Lee, Samuel Hamilton, and Adam Trask discuss a Hebrew word from the story of Cain and Abel. Different translations render it as:
"Thou shalt" (a command)
"Thou will" (a prediction)
"Thou mayest" (you may choose)
Lee argues that"thou mayest" is the most profound translation because it means human beings are not doomed by fate, heredity, or their past. Instead, they have the freedom to choose how they act.
Why is it important?
Steinbeck's message is essentially:
You are not forced to be good.
You are not forced to be evil.
You have the freedom to choose.
That freedom is both empowering and burdensome because it means we are responsible for our choices.
The example from the Instagram post
The reel is pointing to a moment when Adam chooses his response to Cathy.
The significance is not that Adam "wins" or suddenly becomes healed. Instead:
He has been hurt.
He has reasons to remain trapped by the past.
Yet he chooses what to do next.
That's Timshel in action: choosing your path despite your circumstances.
A simple modern example
Imagine someone betrays you.
Fate: "You'll become bitter."
Command: "You must forgive."
Timshel: "You may choose."
You can become bitter, forgive, move on, seek justice, or do something else entirely. The power and responsibility are yours.
Why readers love this idea
Many readers come away from East of Eden feeling that it is less a family saga and more a meditation on a question:
"Am I condemned to repeat the mistakes of my parents and my past, or can I choose a different life?"
Steinbeck's answer is summed up in one word:
Timshel. "Thou mayest."
It means you always have a choice, even when your history, emotions, and circumstances seem to be pulling you in another direction.
That's why many people finish the novel feeling that "Timshel" is one of the most memorable ideas in all of literature.
The Flydubai FZ1073 Story: Fact, Perception, and the Search for Truth
The September 30 incident involving Flydubai Flight FZ1073, travelling from Dubai to Tel Aviv, has rapidly become more than an aviation story. According to authorities, the aircraft was diverted to Saudi Arabia after a violent cockpit incident involving the co-pilot, while passengers, crew, and off-duty pilots reportedly helped prevent a potential catastrophe. Investigations are ongoing, and aviation and security agencies continue to examine the facts.
Yet public opinion has split into two very different camps. War isn't over: Al-Qaeda praises flydubai co-pilot, calls for more attacks
One side sees the incident as a real-life story of courage. For them, the captain, crew members, passengers, and those who intervened represent ordinary people making extraordinary decisions under pressure. The praise directed at those involved reflects admiration for composure, professionalism, and human bravery in the face of danger.
The other side remains skeptical. Some question whether all reported details will ultimately withstand scrutiny, noting how dramatic elements, conflicting reports, and evolving narratives can make real events resemble a Hollywood screenplay. They argue that major stories often acquire layers of interpretation before all facts are established.
In many ways, the debate resembles the theme explored in the film Drishyam: the same sequence of events can generate multiple versions of the truth depending on who is telling the story. The Malayalam and Hindi versions themselves arrive at similar truths through different narrative paths.
Perhaps the lesson is that facts, stories, and perceptions are rarely identical. History records events, people construct narratives, and truth if ever often emerges only after time, evidence, and careful investigation separate certainty from speculation.
Butter ~ Asako Yuzuki
This book was discussed in one of our Cochin Book Club meets couple of years before and wanted to read it since then. Inspired by real events, based on the case of the “Konkatsu Killer” (Kanae Kijima), a con woman and gourmet cook convicted of poisoning her lovers, 'Butter' by Asako Yuzuki is widely considered a powerful and thought‑provoking novel. Translated into English by Polly Barton, this book blends crime fiction with social critique, exploring murder investigation, appetite, loneliness, body image, gender expectations, the meaning of pleasure, the relationship between women, food, and desire. It is unsettling but rewarding, with rich character depth and cultural commentary.
Sunday, October 04, 2026
Asian Games 2026
India’s showing at the 2026 Asian Games in Aichi–Nagoya, Japan was both impressive and significant, marking the country’s second‑best performance in its continental history. India finished 4th overall, securing 85 medals — 21 Gold, 27 Silver, and 37 Bronze. This achievement underscored India’s growing stature in Asian sport, though it did not surpass the record‑breaking tally of 106 medals at Hangzhou in 2023.
What went well: India continued its dominance in kabaddi, with both men’s and women’s teams clinching gold. The women’s cricket team added another prestigious title, while athletics contributed strongly, particularly in relay events. Shooting and archery remained reliable medal sources, with compound teams sweeping podium finishes. Importantly, India expanded into new disciplines: MMA, soft tennis, and sailing delivered historic first medals, signaling diversification beyond traditional strengths.
What could be better: Despite the strong overall tally, India's gold count (21) was lower than the 28 achieved in 2023. However, hockey was a major success, with India winning gold in both the men's and women's events. The lower gold tally was primarily due to a decline in some other sports compared with the previous edition. To climb further up the rankings, India must convert more silver and bronze finishes into golds, and deepen its talent pool in sports where margins are narrow.
Tennis was the worst-performing sport and urgently needs a deep dive. The All India Tennis Association needs to put its internal differences aside and focus on the sport, which has traditionally delivered at the Asian Games. To see tennis return without a single medal is catastrophic. Suresh and Yuki, Yuki and Rutuja, and Sumit Nagal were all medal hopefuls.
Rowing was another huge disappointment because we did have the team to deliver. Last-minute changes made by the federation and the coach, reportedly without adequate consultation with the athletes, damaged morale. The entire matter could have been handled much better. The disagreement played out in the open and, in the end, India suffered, with the medal tally dropping from five to one.
Fencing, too, was a shocker. There has been very little to show for the sport since Bhavani Devi made a stellar push in Tokyo in 2021. Despite bringing a large contingent of 20 athletes to Nagoya, there was little to celebrate.
Equestrian sport finds itself in a similar situation, with athletes raising concerns over the selection process. Anush Agarwalla, who won gold in Hangzhou, also questioned aspects of the process in an Instagram post soon after the events ended.
Clearly, there are lessons to be learnt and they need to be addressed rather than brushed under the carpet. Celebrate the highs, but accept the lows and put the right corrective measures in place.
Significant highlights: The Games showcased India’s versatility. Breakthroughs in non‑traditional sports demonstrated the country’s expanding competitive base, while continued excellence in kabaddi, cricket, and shooting reinforced legacy strengths. The women’s 4x400m relay gold symbolized continuity with India’s storied track tradition, echoing past legends.
In comparison, 2023 Hangzhou remains India’s best‑ever campaign (106 medals, 28 Gold, 4th place). Yet, the 2026 tally of 85 medals and 21 Golds confirms India’s ability to sustain high performance levels. The challenge ahead lies in building on this consistency, converting near‑misses into victories, and ensuring breakthroughs in new sports become long‑term success stories.
Person‑wise Highlights & Records
Athletics
- Vithya Ramraj – Broke PT Usha’s 42‑year‑old national record in the women’s 400m hurdles; also won medals in both women’s and mixed 4x400m relays.
- Kiran Pahal, M.R. Poovamma, Prachi Choudhary, Vithya Ramraj – Won gold in women’s 4x400m relay, India’s lone athletics gold.
- Gulveer Singh – Secured silver in 10,000m and 1500m, plus a bronze in 5000m.
- Baranica Elangovan – Won India’s first‑ever Asian Games pole vault medal (bronze).
- Sawan Barwal – Marathon silver with a national record.
Archery
- Kumkum Mohod – Became the first Indian woman to win individual recurve gold.
- Chikitha Taniparthi, Jyothi Surekha Vennam, Prithika Pradeep – Won women’s compound team gold.
- Chikitha Taniparthi & Sahil Jadhav – Secured mixed compound gold and an Olympic quota.
Shooting
- Neeru Dhanda – Won women’s trap gold, India’s first in 48 years; later paired with Kynan Chenai to win mixed trap gold with an Asian record.
- Suruchi Singh & Kamaljeet – Claimed India’s first Asian Games gold in 10m air pistol mixed team, setting an Asian record.
Golf
Pranavi Urs – Became the first Indian woman to win individual golf gold at the Asian Games; also won team silver with Aditi Ashok and Diksha Dagar.
Combat & Other Sports
Lovlina Borgohain – Won gold in women’s 75kg boxing, becoming only the second Indian female boxer to win Asiad gold.
Suchika Tariyal – Secured India’s first‑ever medal in MMA (bronze).
Jay Meena – Won India’s first‑ever medal in soft tennis (bronze).
Mirabai Chanu – Claimed silver in women’s 48kg weightlifting, India’s first Asiad weightlifting medal since 1998.
Team Sports
Men’s & Women’s Hockey Teams – Both won gold; women’s team ended a 44‑year wait for Asian Games gold.
Men’s & Women’s Kabaddi Teams – Both clinched gold, reaffirming India’s dominance.
Men’s & Women’s Cricket Teams – Both won gold, with Abhishek Sharma (61 off 28) and Tilak Varma (51*) starring in the men’s final against Pakistan.
India’s 2026 Asian Games campaign was defined by historic firsts — golf, soft tennis, MMA, women’s hockey, and trap shooting — alongside record‑breaking performances in athletics and archery. While the overall tally was lower than 2023, the breadth of achievements across traditional and new sports confirmed India’s emergence as a versatile sporting powerhouse.
India’s journey at the Asian Games has steadily evolved from modest beginnings in 1951 to becoming a consistent top‑10 nation. The best performance to date came at Hangzhou 2023, where India won 106 medals (28 Gold, 38 Silver, 40 Bronze) and finished 4th overall, its highest tally ever. In 1951 India had come second. India was the host nation twice once in 1951 and once in 80's when India was 5th in the medal tally.
Flydubai Crash Bid
Two off‑duty Flydubai pilots traveling as passengers (probably one South African, one New Zealander : Yet to be confirmed) took over, Assisted by passengers (including Yaniv Hayun, Asaf Rajuan, Shota Musaev) who physically subdued the co‑pilot. Together, they stabilized the aircraft and diverted to Tabuk.
Friday, October 02, 2026
The Real Luxuries
This illustration titled “the real luxuries” beautifully captures the essence of simple joys that often go unnoticed in our fast‑paced lives. Instead of equating luxury with wealth or possessions, it reframes the idea to highlight everyday experiences that nurture peace, connection, and fulfillment.
Religion, Politics and World Today
Gandhiji had said, "Those who say religion has nothing to do with politics do not know what religion means.”
Gandhi often emphasized that politics and religion are inseparable, because for him religion meant ethics, morality, and truth — not sectarianism.
He believed that politics without moral grounding would become corrupt, while religion divorced from social responsibility would be hollow.
This line is one of his most cited remarks on the fusion of spiritual values with public life.
Ethical Politics: Gandhi argued that true politics must be rooted in values like truth (satya) and nonviolence (ahimsa).
Religion as Morality: He used “religion” in the broad sense of dharma — moral duty — rather than ritual or dogma.
Modern Relevance: The quote is often invoked in debates about whether ethics, spirituality, or morality should guide governance.
There is a political denunciation, mixing religious appeals, accusations of election fraud, and criticism of BJP’s treatment of Muslims and its broader narrative strategies.
These are rants and a rant is a speech or piece of writing that is emotional, angry, and often repetitive, usually aimed at criticizing someone or something. It tends to use charged language rather than calm analysis. Rants often mix facts, opinions, and emotions without clear separation. They can highlight real grievances but usually exaggerate or generalize.
To evaluate a rant:
Check facts independently (verify claims with credible sources).
Separate opinion from evidence (what is emotional vs what is factual).
Understand intent (is it to inform, persuade, or provoke?).
Highly critical political rant targeting Indian Prime Minister Narendra Modi and the BJP. It accuses them of:
Collusion with Israel’s Netanyahu to repress Muslims in India.
Employing extremist thugs to commit atrocities against Muslims and destroy mosques.
Rigging elections with the help of the Election Commission.
Spreading false narratives that BJP members alone are truthful while ordinary citizens lie.
Using sycophants, zealots, and journalists to spread misinformation and stage political theatrics.
Hypocrisy regarding Hindus abroad: criticizes BJP for disliking Muslims while many Hindus live and work peacefully in Muslim-majority countries like Bangladesh.
Inciting division between Hindus and Muslims, while ordinary communities coexist peacefully.
Targeting Muslim celebrities (e.g., Shah Rukh Khan, Salman Khan, Saif Ali Khan) as an example of BJP’s anti-Muslim stance.
Epstein files is an analogy for exposing politicians’ misdeeds, suggesting that dishonest leaders hide behind staged dramas.
A side by side comparison would look like below:
| Theme | Islamic Terrorist Threat Rant |
|---|---|
| Violence & repression | Claims extremist groups unleash atrocities against civilians, destroying communities and places of worship. |
| Hypocrisy of leaders | Condemns those who claim to defend Islam but commit violence, corruption, and oppression. |
| Recruitment & manipulation | Accuses groups of brainwashing youth, exploiting poverty, and twisting religion for political power. |
| Global destabilization | Frames terrorism as destabilizing nations, economies, and international peace. |
| Propaganda narrative | Says extremists spread lies that they alone are “true believers,” branding others as infidels. |
| Media & misinformation | Criticizes propaganda videos and online radicalization that glorify violence. |
| Community relations | Highlights that ordinary Muslims live peacefully, but extremists incite division and hatred. |
| Celebrity/figure examples | Points to attacks on public figures, journalists, or aid workers as proof of indiscriminate violence. |
| Overall charge | Portrays terrorism as a destructive ideology that spreads fear, chaos, and undermines Islam itself. Just as the rant you shared about Modi/BJP portrays them as destabilizing society, a rant against Islamic terrorism portrays violent extremist groups as the destabilizers — accusing them of hypocrisy, manipulation, and destruction of peaceful coexistence. |
Sunday, September 27, 2026
Bigg Boss: the show that can make you famous
There are actually three different kinds of “Bigg Boss success”:
1. Unknown/lesser-known → famous
Sunny Leone, Shehnaaz Gill, Asim Riaz, Robin Radhakrishnan.
2. Already known → much bigger public identity
Pearle Maaney, Hina Khan, Tejasswi Prakash, Gautam Gulati.
3. Already successful → Bigg Boss becomes another platform
Established television actors such as Sidharth Shukla, Rashami Desai and Karan Kundrra.
And perhaps the most interesting example is Shehnaaz Gill. She didn't win Bigg Boss 13, yet the show became a major turning point in her career. That illustrates something important about reality television: the winner of the competition and the person who gains the most from the platform don't necessarily have to be the same person.
Creating New Growth Platforms (NGPs)
Many large corporations struggle to sustain growth once they reach maturity. Traditional methods like new product development or acquisitions often fail to deliver long‑term results. Research shows that most Fortune 50 companies experience sharp declines in growth after initial success, with acquisitions destroying value in 65% of cases.
The authors argue that sustainable growth comes from New Growth Platforms (NGPs) — strategic frameworks that allow companies to build families of products, services, and businesses by leveraging existing capabilities and acquiring new ones. NGPs differ from traditional product innovation because they focus on unmet customer needs, forces of change (technology, regulation, social trends), and assembling capabilities into scalable business models.
Case studies include UPS, which created its Service Parts Logistics (SPL) unit by reframing itself beyond parcel delivery into supply chain management, and Medtronic, which expanded from pacemakers into broader healthcare platforms. Companies like Procter & Gamble institutionalized NGP units with dedicated leadership and resources.
The article also highlights common reasons for failure: resistance from business units, short‑term earnings pressure, lack of credible leadership, and weak organizational support. Successful NGPs require independent yet embedded units, strong CEO commitment, and empowered senior teams with authority to act.
Each circle represents a strategic dimension for identifying new business opportunities:
🟠 WHAT — Trends and enablers such as emerging technologies, regulatory shifts, and social changes that expand markets.
🟢 WHERE — Customer problems and unmet needs that define potential markets.
🔵 HOW — Capabilities, know‑how, and assets that enable execution and differentiation.
At the center, where all three overlap, sits the New Growth Platform — the hunting ground of opportunity space where innovation thrives by combining market trends, customer needs, and organizational capabilities.
Learning Points
- Growth gap: Mature companies often face a mismatch between investor expectations and internal growth capacity.
- NGPs vs. products: Platforms are broader, scalable frameworks that generate multiple products/services, unlike one‑off innovations.
- Forces of change: New technologies, regulations, and social pressures create opportunities for unmet customer needs.
- Capability assembly: Growth requires redeploying internal talent, leveraging external partnerships, and acquiring targeted assets.
- Leadership role: CEOs must frame growth challenges and dedicate time/resources; credible senior executives should lead NGP units.
- Team over idea: Success depends more on empowered, entrepreneurial teams than on isolated “big ideas.”
- Failure causes: Short‑term cost focus, unit resistance, lack of collaboration, and weak organizational design derail NGPs.
- Institutionalization: Embedding NGP processes ensures repeatable innovation and long‑term strategic growth.
Sustainable corporate growth requires moving beyond incremental products or acquisitions to strategic platforms that harness capabilities, meet unmet needs, and adapt to change. Success depends on leadership commitment, empowered teams, and organizational structures that balance independence with integration.
Oneness
Dasaji began the class by showing us a video of a devotee from America who had joined the Dharma many years ago and was sharing the experiences he had gone through since then. It was beautiful to see the clarity of his state of consciousness.
He used to participate in all the programmes of the Dharma with discipline, determination, dedication and complete devotion. He was also continuously undergoing cleansing. What we saw in that video was the result of all these practices.
We are speaking twenty-four hours a day. The inner dialogue never seems to stop. Unless this inner dialogue comes to an end, we cannot dissolve our sense of division and separation. Only when the inner dialogue stops can the first level of Oneness be attained.
The second level of Oneness is creating a sense of unity and oneness with our family.
The third level is creating Oneness with birds, animals and all living beings.
The fourth level is Oneness with Nature.
And finally, the fifth level of Oneness is Oneness with God, the Supreme — becoming one with Paramjyothi.
Our journey towards this must continue.
As we move forward on this journey, the sense of “I” will gradually disappear. The sense of “we” will also disappear. That is the truth.
The outer world is a reflection of the inner world.
When we are able to attain Oneness within ourselves, we can become connected with everything in the outer world as well. A deeper level of Oneness begins to manifest.
Existence + Consciousness + Chit — that is the Atma.
It is towards this level that Bhagavan is taking us.
The language of the unconscious mind is mantras. That is why we are told that we should participate in the Omams at least four times a year.
The unconscious mind is said to be far more powerful than the conscious mind. When this becomes a lived understanding, we move beyond our limited sense of identity — beyond the body, beyond the mind, beyond the self, beyond thoughts and so on.
We become merely a witness — a witness to everything.
And that is when we reach Satchidananda Parabrahma.
That is why we participate in the Omams, why we contribute towards building the Kalki Devasthanam, and why we seek to reach the World Mukti Centre.
Through this journey, we move towards Satchidananda Parabrahma and ultimately experience Oneness and harmony with Paramjyothi.
For this to become possible, we need to cultivate twenty-four qualities within ourselves. Dasaji has explained these beautifully through this class as well.
Through this teaching, Bhagavan is once again guiding us towards Paramjyothi.
My heartfelt gratitude and pranams to you, Dasaji.
Namaskaram.
One Moon
Now
When I'll be dead.....,
Your tears will flow,..
But I won 't know...
Cry for me now instead !
You will send flowers,..
But I won't see...
Send them now instead !
You'll say words of praise,..
But I won't hear..
Praise me now instead !
You'll forget my faults,..
But I won't know...
Forget them now, instead !
You'll miss me then,...
But I won't feel...
Miss me now, instead
You'll want to say Love You...
But I won't be able to hear ...
Say it now, instead
You'll wish...
You could have spent more time with me,...
Spend it now instead !!
''Spend time with every person around you, your families, friends, lover, acquainted....
Make them feel Special ,
Because you never know when time will take them away from you forever''..
Life is too short.
Love all and Forgive all.

Building influence at work
Success in the workplace is not simply a matter of technical skill or diligence; it is equally about cultivating influence, credibility, and authentic relationships. The framework for building power at work rests on three interconnected pillars: establishing a power base, laying the groundwork, and leveraging the echo chamber.
The first step is to build your power base. Influence begins with social proof — signaling to others who you are and what you are capable of. This can be achieved by leading initiatives such as local charities, publishing articles, or ensuring that your contributions are visible and recognized. Alongside visibility, goodwill with peers is essential. By paying genuine attention to colleagues, seeking their advice rather than favors, and adding value through small gestures, one builds trust and mutual respect. At the core of this foundation lies authenticity. True power emerges when individuals stop covering, embrace their genuine selves, and encourage others to do the same.
The second pillar is to lay the groundwork. This involves defining clear workplace goals and modeling the behaviors of those you admire. Identifying gaps in skills and working deliberately to close them ensures steady growth. A practical exercise, such as pre‑writing your resume, helps clarify what you are working toward. Equally important is mapping the organization’s decision makers. A “power map” allows you to visualize who holds influence, who listens to whom, and how relationships are interconnected. Building relationships then becomes a matter of staying familiar and relevant — being present in social circles, keeping in touch, and maintaining visibility.
Finally, influence is consolidated by leveraging the echo chamber. This requires understanding what your company values, observing what behaviors are rewarded, and aligning your strengths with those opportunities. If your values diverge significantly from the organization’s, it may be necessary to reassess long‑term fit. Developing social capital is equally critical. Networks that bridge across groups, as well as those that bond within them, expand reach and credibility. Becoming a connector — someone who organizes gatherings, includes colleagues, and attends to their preferences — enhances both goodwill and influence.
Together, these strategies highlight that workplace power is not about manipulation but about authenticity, visibility, and connection. By building a strong base, laying thoughtful groundwork, and leveraging organizational dynamics, professionals can create influence that is both sustainable and meaningful.
Finance Modelling
The main lesson is that financial modelling can identify the changes needed to improve a company’s cash flow, but the model itself cannot create the improvement. People and execution do.
Simple Summary
At the end of 1985, Home Depot had serious operating cash-flow problems. Forecasting showed that if the company continued operating as it had been, its cash position would deteriorate further.
Instead of looking for one magic solution, the exercise considers making several operational improvements simultaneously:
- Inventory: reduce days of inventory from 108 to 66 days
- Receivables: collect customer dues faster, from 14 to 9 days
- Payables: take slightly longer to pay suppliers, from 48 to 50 days
- Gross margin: improve from 26% to 28%
- Overheads: reduce from 22% to 20% of sales
When all these reasonable changes are incorporated into the financial model, the forecasted operating cash flow changes dramatically. Home Depot would generate enough internal cash to support growth and become more attractive to lenders. The actual 1986 results also showed improvements in margins and operating expenses.
The most important lesson
The spreadsheet makes the transformation look easy—but every number in the spreadsheet represents a real-world action by someone.
For example:
Reducing inventory requires better inventory management.
Collecting receivables faster requires people to follow up.
Reducing costs requires operational discipline.
Improving margins requires purchasing and pricing decisions.
So:
Financial modelling → identifies possible solutions
Management → chooses the solutions
People → execute them
Execution → creates the actual financial results
One-line takeaway
A financial model can show you what needs to change; only people can make those changes happen.
This is also a useful finance lesson: forecasting is not the end of financial analysis—it is the starting point for operational action.
Building Confidence
Think of self-confidence as an asset.
Just as you protect and invest in a valuable asset, you need to consciously protect and strengthen your confidence.
The course's approach can be reduced to:
Own → Accept → Act → Manage → Stay Positive → Plan
1. Own the situation
The first step is personal responsibility.
Instead of saying:
“My boss made me feel inadequate.”
“My colleague destroyed my confidence.”
“That client made me feel incompetent.”
Ask:
“What can I do about how I feel and how I respond?”
This does not mean blaming yourself.
The course makes an important distinction:
Taking responsibility ≠ taking all the blame.
Every outcome has multiple contributing factors. You are only one of them.
When confidence takes a hit:
- Accept your part in the situation.
- Remind yourself of your self-worth.
- Look at your past achievements and strengths.
- Decide what behaviour or action can make you stronger.
Key lesson
Don't give other people control over your confidence.
2. Embrace your imperfections
Nobody is perfect.
Mistakes, failures and difficult learning experiences are part of professional and personal growth.
Instead of seeing a mistake as:
“I am not good enough.”
Try seeing it as:
“What is this experience teaching me?”
The course describes mistakes as feedback.
The important distinction
Not every weakness deserves equal attention.
When you make a mistake, ask:
- How important is this skill?
- Will I need this skill in the coming years?
- Is this something I personally need to master?
- Is somebody else better suited to handle it?
If the skill matters → learn it.
If it doesn't matter much → learn the lesson and move on.
This is particularly valuable because confidence can suffer when we spend too much energy trying to fix every imperfection.
Key lesson
A mistake is an event, not an identity.
3. Articulate a path forward
When confidence falls, don't wait months to recover.
Take action quickly.
The course proposes three levels of goals:
🟢 Small wins
Start with something simple, specific and achievable.
For example:
- Complete an important task.
- Reconnect with someone.
- Speak up in a meeting.
- Finish something you've been postponing.
Small wins rebuild the feeling:
“I can do this.”
🟡 SMART goals
Once momentum returns, move to larger goals that are:
S — Specific
M — Measurable
A — Aligned
R — Reachable
T — Time-bound
🔵 Big dreams
Don't stop at small goals.
When confidence falls, people often become excessively cautious.
The course says:
Don't forget to dream.
Big ambitions reconnect you with purpose and possibility.
4. Manage your context
Your environment affects your confidence.
The course recommends dividing the people around you into:
Positive influences
People who:
- Encourage you
- Help you
- Make you feel capable
- Bring constructive energy
Negative influences
People who:
- Constantly create stress
- Undermine you
- Drain your energy
- Create unhealthy interactions
You may not be able to eliminate difficult people, particularly at work, but you can often manage the amount of time and energy you give them.
Manage your time too
A particularly useful recommendation is:
Do meaningful work first.
Don't begin the day by hiding in easy administrative tasks.
Instead:
Important work → routine work
Track your time for a week and see how much goes toward work that genuinely matters.
And presentation matters
The course also connects confidence with how you present yourself—clothing, grooming and appearance.
The point isn't that there is one “correct” appearance.
It is about asking:
“How do I want to present myself, and does that make me feel good about myself?”
5. Feed your positivity
Confidence needs reinforcement.
The course suggests several techniques.
Visualise success
Spend 30 seconds or a couple of minutes imagining yourself successfully completing an unfinished goal.
See:
- Yourself completing the task
- The successful presentation
- The positive response
- The feeling of accomplishment
When confidence is shaken
Use this mental sequence:
1. Recognise the feeling.
“My confidence has been shaken.”
2. Remind yourself it is temporary.
3. Remember that the incident doesn't define you.
4. Recall your recent successes.
5. Move forward.
Connect with someone positive
Think of the person who naturally lifts your spirits.
Call them.
You don't necessarily need advice or counselling. Sometimes a simple conversation with someone who believes in you can restore perspective.
Celebrate small progress
Don't wait for a huge achievement.
If you successfully move yourself from:
negative → neutral → positive
that itself deserves recognition.
6. Put together your plan
The final section turns everything into action.
The course recommends three things:
① Get one small win
Do something today that makes you feel capable again.
② Talk to a mentor
Tell someone you trust:
“I'm struggling with my confidence.”
Explain the situation and then listen.
Their perspective may help you see something you cannot see yourself.
③ Change one behaviour or routine
Introduce something symbolic that represents a new beginning.
It could be:
- Changing your work routine
- Trying a new approach
- Changing how you organise your day
- Meeting different people
- Learning something new
The purpose is to break out of an old pattern.
The whole course in 7 lines
1. Own your feelings and your response.
2. Don't confuse responsibility with self-blame.
3. Accept that imperfection is human.
4. Turn mistakes into learning.
5. Rebuild confidence through small wins.
6. Protect your environment and feed your positivity.
7. Keep acting—confidence grows through action and experience.
Current workplace guidance similarly emphasises that confidence isn't the absence of doubt; it involves trusting your ability to act, adapt and learn even when outcomes aren't certain.
One particularly powerful idea for you
I think the most important distinction in this course is:
“I made a mistake” is very different from “I am a failure.”
The first statement creates a possibility:
What can I learn?
The second creates an identity:
There is something wrong with me.
The course is essentially teaching us to stay with the first version.
And that connects beautifully with another idea running through the material:
Confidence doesn't necessarily come before action. Sometimes action comes first—and confidence follows.
That is why the course's emphasis on small wins is so practical. Contemporary workplace guidance also recommends building confidence through manageable challenges, practice and progressive experiences rather than simply trying to “feel confident.”
A simple personal confidence formula
Self-worth + Responsibility + Learning + Small Wins + Positive Relationships + Action = Stronger Confidence
Not perfection.
Not pretending.
Not never feeling doubt.
Just learning to trust yourself a little more, one experience at a time.


























