Sunday, June 14, 2026

Kerala vs. Latin America

 


Why is Gabriel Garcia Marquez so popular in Kerala? This was the question asked in a book club meeting which I attended.


This set me thinking. Because it's not only Gaby, but Latin America as a whole which holds a fascination for this small state in South India. We have rabid fans of Argentina and Brazil football teams. Long after his death, Che Guavera holds demi-god status among the left-wing youth. And Latin American literature and movies always have an audience here.


I can only explain this using the word "ethos": the sum total of the culture of a people. Kerala shares with Latin America a curious mix of left-wing activism, rebellious individualism, deep religiosity and aggressive atheism. In fact, our state is a bunch of contradictions just as Latin America is - a land on the verge of collective schizophrenia.


Maybe, magical realism is the only way to map the mind of such a place. We had our first tryst with the genre much before Marquez, by the way: O. V. Vijayan's Khasak was here much before Macondo. And our writers continue to explore landscapes of the mind.

Networking


  How can we build a successful network? To answer this question, Chief Pathman Senathirajah sums up network marketing in just 12 minutes. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHa2IsJcBTM

How do you build a netword?

Very simple. You start your journey. You sign up. 

If it was one of the biggest decision of your life.

You start your journey as an entreprenure. Take ownership. 

If it is to be, it is up to me. 

Get more people  - Sign. 

You talk to people. You don't do it alone. You have your upline. You have so much support and guidence. 

Presentation. 

SW SW SW SW SW - Some will, some wont, so what , someone is waiting, some where. 

Welcome, 8 Building Blocks, Come in to the system. 

Two group of people:

Group B: Have not let QNet into them. They love, but full dedication has not been achieved. It's ok. They exist. You keep them as much as you can, you should be upline to them. - They need coach A

Group A: Dedicated, fully involved. You have to keep them in the system. 10% or 20% of your full group. Warrior, commited. Hard core guys. For Group A, you have to be Coach B - They must do rule 3. They are movers and shakers. Rule 3. From morning, on Presentation mode. On and gone. 

There will be conflicts, ego. We can save or not. Stay strong, be on the ground. Keep going. 

Build relationship, have fun, part of value system. Become family. Be Grateful. 

Wealth: Financial, Emotionally, Mentally. 


Most important programme. 

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDCXO09SvjB1PfNdIxP0_sNb2x1ZF1fZ5&si=PAaQdT8ZLSauK11q


1. Dream like oxygen/breathing. Part of you. Whatever name you call it vision, xxx.If the dream is big enough the facts don't count.

2. Commitment: Purpose. Propotional to your dream. Have it in top of the priority list. Commitment to attend training,  be together. 

3. The List: we should have two list:

Dream List

Name List : Hot, Warm, Cold (Without Prejudgement)

Memory Joggers

Foundation to build the maxout tower.

Written name List on a peace of paper. Non Negotiable.

4. Invitation and Prospecting: Starting point of the journey

Mindset: Raise your level of posture - deciding factor of success.

Paradigm shift : They need me, more than I need them.

Invitation: Goal is to connect. Not to do presentations.  Two type viz professional (Cold zone) and non professional (Hot zone)

I have something exciting to tell you. I have something interesting to tell you.

Less is better.

"I have got a business strategy.  If you like what we speak we will talk further,  else cool"

Mark as KIY those who dont join. …

https://youtu.be/UPNd3Ujuav0?si=FypWKTs-R81lOvDq

5. Presentation (Fundamentally most important  - The rubberband theory - bend but not break. 

  • Company
  • Product
  • Compensation plan
  • Projection
Don't do anything that cannot be duplicable. If you do not have financial resources to have food from 5 star, have discussion in the lobby of 5 star hotel. 

Use common sense. 

Edification of your upline is important. 

Show respect - it is upedification. 

Try to close when the Iron is hot.

Present and handle the question. 

  • Do not more than 45 minutes to one hour
  • Do 1-1
  • Do 15 in 30 days; consistently - every month. 
  • Confidence is most important - that will get attention - Posture is important. 

Family should be supportive but not destruction. 

Affirmation is important. 
  • Home meeting
  • Large meeting
  • 1-1 meetings
Focus, Face to face and Online is similar. 

Technology is the future. 

Goal is to get the prospect say yes. 


6. Follow through/follow on:

Common man, and common women, with uncommon dream can do network marketing. 

I will get back to you in a couple of days - Politely saying No. 

Live life according to the worse case situation. 

Worst case is they will say No. 

He or she is not the only prospect. You don't have to get stressed. 

Have a positive believe system. 

Followthrough - the philosophy - presentation is not complete untill payment is done.

Some will, some wont, so what, some one is waiting some where. SW SW SW SW, SW.

  1. Dont fear the outcome. Embrace it. Whatever happens is the beauty
  2. Do it in 24 to 48 hours. - Remember posture, and dont be dejected. Ask, can we know why?
  3. Feel - Felt - Found. Person feels and objects, you say you also felt the same, say you did the research and found what. Each objection today is a projection. 
  4. Provide facts
  5. Correct their perception at all cost. They may talk to the next prospect. You have to correct their concern with information. 
No Emotion. Never write off a prospect. Keep them in KYI

Never burn the bridge. They will come back. 

Ask the client to buy a product, even if they are not joining. 

Let Go. Don't anticipate and Don't get dejected. 

Our job is give them enough information. 

Every rejection will take you closer to Maz Through. 

7. Strategies and Council with Upline. Everyone above you is referred to as your upline. You have your working upline or lifeline. They will take you through the journey. You need to understand the importance of this relationship. 

Counsel with your working upline before you do anything. Working upline has more experience and it is unbelievably valuable.

Don't start a new tracking line, negative up - positive down. Keep looking and you will find your upline. 

Transfer of knowledge, respect and edification - all travels through the tree of upline and it requires you to have emply cup. 

Don't try to be smart. Your upline is your lifeline. If you are not in sync with your upline, you will get lost. 

Council, council, council. 

8. Duplicate - fundamental principle of network marketing. It requires to share and share. 

Identify your core leadership. Make them clones of you or even better. As you transfer knowledge and experience. 

There can be leakages. There is where systems comes in. 

You want your downline to be better than you. 

Don't do anything so complicated that it cannot be duplicated. This is the philosophy of network marketing. 

Find that dream. commitment by time and efforts. This cannot be a hobby or parttime. 

Dream/Commitment/List/Invitation and Prospecing/Presenation/Followthrough/Strategise and council with your uplift/Duplicate

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My name IS ... My Distribuer ID number is ... I was referred to Q net Vihaan Direct Selling PVT LTD by…. His / Her Distributer ID number is ... am aware that this company belongs to e-commers direct selling network marketing industry. I have started this business, clearly understanding its Business model Financial model and working model completely. My first purchase was .... uv product through online transaction.


I am doing this business following all the rules and regulation of the company and country, and paying the tax to the government. I am very happy to do this business


Thank You.


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Edification:


Rule 3, - Talk to 15 people 

8 Building blocks, Edification:Empowering your leadership. Give strength to the speaker. Relationship between downline and upline. Don't lie. It's by words

 Edification by Action.
Don't Edify yourself. It is Ego driven and moronic. 
Philosophy: Be Sincere,  action/words, factual

It benefits you when you Edify someone else

 Concepts can be edified. Rule3 
In the sphere of silence 

Monkey See, Monkey Do - Philosophy 

www.the-vstudio.com

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Prospecting:@Arun


Sorting 

If you are in a calling job, would the rejections effect you?

The way you define a problem will tell you if you will find a solution or remain in rut forever.

Ever body can do, but not every body is suitable. 

Be careful about the people you choose.

Your first prospect may not be right or may not sign in

Incorrect people are high maintenance.  We have to give them motivation every second.

Prospecting: Hunting vs. Fishing : Hunting prey runs away from you and fishing it comes to you.

2 Major reason why people quit or fail is because they talk to the wrong kind of people. Dream Stealers.

There are committed people,  and uncommitted.  


How serious you are?

Learn ro ask question and have t
Right posture.


Better reject skeptics 


To do this business you have to be open minded. Don't think this is for you 


Build confidence by continuously learning from your upline.


Have you been rejected?



Presenting something which is against their belief. 

Don't let rejection reduce your Mojo. Rejection will kill your dreams. Be prepared. 

If you had 100 rejections you are an amature networker, if you have 1000 rejections you are a professional networker. 

Learn to embrace rejection and learn to go to the next one. 

'I don't care, I love it'.

Embrace rejection. If you are effected, go to your upline and come back recharged. 

The pain of every rejection will make you stronger. 


Friday, June 12, 2026

Finance Matters: Success Principles on Money


 

1. Develop a Positive Money Consciousness

Your financial success reflects your mindset. Identify limiting beliefs ("money is scarce," "rich people are greedy"), write them down, challenge them with logic, and replace them with abundance-oriented statements. Your unconscious money blueprint — shaped by parental conditioning and past experiences — determines your wealth more than talent or education ever will. Visualize your desired future as if you already have it.


2. You Get What You Focus On

Truly decide to be wealthy. Define what wealth means to you, calculate its exact cost, and become money-conscious daily. Track your net worth, define your retirement needs, and optimize your human, intellectual, financial, and civic assets. Success follows your focus — not luck, not timing, not talent.


3. Pay Yourself First

Before any expense, bill, or lifestyle cost — set aside a portion of every rupee you earn for yourself. This is the foundation of wealth-building. Automate investments and savings so they happen before you even have a chance to spend. Your future self is your most important creditor.


4. Master the Spending Game

Flip the switch from consumption to conservation. Know exactly how much you spent last year. Pay cash, reduce lifestyle costs, stop borrowing, and eliminate debt by tackling the smallest debts first while steadily increasing payments. This single mindset shift becomes your greatest financial superpower.


5. To Spend More, First Make More

Spending without earning is a fast track to struggle. Ask constantly: "What product, service, or added value can I deliver to generate more income?" Become an intrapreneur — find a need, fill it, think outside the box. Build multiple income streams through online business or network marketing with minimal initial investment.


6. Give More to Get More

Service to others is the highest-return investment strategy. Volunteer your unique skills, clarify your core values, and choose to contribute. Giving first leads to multiplied returns — career success, business opportunities, unexpected connections, and rewards far beyond what you gave.


7. Find a Way to Serve

True wealth is ultimately a choice to serve. When your financial journey is rooted in contributing to others rather than just accumulating for yourself, the impact multiplies back — in money, meaning, relationships, and legacy. The decision to serve is where magnified success truly begins.

Nehru Vs. Modi


 We often see debates comparing Prime Minister Nehru and Prime Minister Modi. But such comparisons miss the bigger picture. Leadership is not about who served longer—it’s about the context they inherited and the output they delivered.


Nehru stepped into history at a time when India was fragile—scarred by partition, millions displaced, institutions nonexistent, and the economy barely breathing. His task was not just governance; it was nation-building from scratch. He had to lay the foundations of democracy, secularism, industry, science, and education while holding together a country of immense diversity. Every decision was about survival and stability.


Modi’s era, decades later, is one of transformation in a globalized, digital economy. His focus has been on scaling infrastructure, driving economic growth, and positioning India as a global power. These are significant contributions—but they build upon the foundations painstakingly laid by Nehru and others.


Comparing them is like comparing the architect who built the house with the renovator who expanded it. Both roles matter, but the difficulty of Nehru’s task was unparalleled.


In the end, it’s not tenure that defines greatness—it’s the legacy of impact.


Why can we not respect both and work together bridging gaps cause to quote Nehru's favourate lines “Without peace, all other dreams vanish and are reduced to ashes.”


Jawaharlal Nehru is often associated with Robert Frost’s famous line “Miles to go before I sleep,” but this was not his personal motto. It was often quoted in connection with his sense of unfinished duty and responsibility, which hold true even today. I can sense it both in my personal life and in my India and this world. From Robert Frost’s poem Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening:


“The woods are lovely, dark and deep,

But I have promises to keep,

And miles to go before I sleep,

And miles to go before I sleep.”

Stephen Hawking ~ Knowledge

 “The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge.”


The quote seems to suggest that being unaware of something is not necessarily the worst position to be in. Someone who openly admits not knowing something can still ask questions. That person can still listen, learn and change their understanding.


The illusion of knowledge works differently.


It creates a situation where people believe they already possess the correct answer even when they do not. Once that happens, curiosity often begins to disappear. Questions become less important because certainty has already arrived.


That is where the difficulty starts.


Imagine a person driving through a city while being absolutely convinced they know the route. If they realise they are uncertain, they might stop and ask for directions. If they believe they already know where they are going, they may continue moving confidently in the wrong direction for a very long time.


The confidence itself becomes the problem.


Knowledge usually grows through curiosity. The illusion of knowledge can quietly close the door before curiosity even enters the room.

Thursday, June 11, 2026

Sundar Pichai

 Sundar Pichai embodies an almost otherworldly calm. While chaos, controversy, and fierce competition swirl around him, the Google CEO remains steady and unshaken. No raised voice, no visible stress—just a quiet composure that makes extraordinary pressures seem routine. Where most people feel tension in a Monday meeting, Pichai faces congressional hearings, global AI rivalries, and the glare of constant scrutiny with the same serene presence, as if he’s just returned from a peaceful walk.


Three specific ways Sundar Pichai demonstrates his extraordinary composure:


No raised voice — He never resorts to shouting or letting frustration show, even under immense pressure.


No visible cracks — He doesn’t display signs of stress or weakness, maintaining a steady exterior.


No dramatic gestures — No sighs, clenched fists, or theatrical reactions; instead, he projects calm through quiet presence.


Three rare qualities that set Sundar Pichai apart, going beyond mere composure. Here’s a breakdown of the key points:


  • Deep listening — Unlike most people who prepare counterarguments while others speak, Pichai genuinely listens. His patience and interest aren’t performative; they allow him to respond with clarity and defuse tension.
  • Outcome over ego — He prioritises solutions rather than point-scoring. Where many focus on being “right,” Pichai focuses on progress, ensuring disagreements lead to better results rather than wasted energy.
  • Long-game confidence — In the face of fierce competition and rapid AI developments, he avoids panic. His calm stems from a belief that setbacks are part of the journey, shaped by his own life story from modest beginnings in Chennai to leading Google.


Together, these qualities show that his secret isn’t just composure—it’s a cultivated mindset: listening deeply, letting go of ego, and trusting the long game.

Wednesday, June 10, 2026

Four Rare Habits Arthur Brooks


Arthur Brooks identifies four rare habits that contribute to happiness, which he refers to as a "happiness pension plan." These habits are:

Transcendence: Engaging in activities that connect you with something larger than yourself, such as prayer, meditation, or spending time in nature.

Family: Maintaining strong family relationships, even when they are challenging, as these bonds are crucial for emotional well-being.

Friends: Building real friendships that provide meaningful connections and support.

Meaningful Work: Finding purpose in your work by earning success based on merit and serving others, creating value for society. 


These habits are not just about personal joy but also about thriving in academic environments and enhancing wellbeing. By cultivating these habits, individuals can combat burnout, enhance focus, and foster resilience amid academic stresses. 

Tuesday, May 26, 2026

96 - Love/Romance


 Few modern Tamil films have received the kind of emotional worship that 96 did. Critics called it poetic. Audiences called it pure. Social media elevated it into a sacred monument of “true love.” The reunion between Ram and Janaki became shorthand for emotional depth itself. Quiet silences, old songs, lingering glances, tears held back at airports. Human beings see two people staring sadly at each other for three hours and immediately declare it philosophy.


But beneath the nostalgia and beautiful music lies a far more uncomfortable question:


Is 96 actually a mature love story, or is it a romanticized tragedy about two adults who never emotionally moved on?


The film tells us that Ramachandran spent decades emotionally frozen in time after losing Janaki in school. He never married. Never built another emotional life. Never truly healed. Janaki, meanwhile, gets married, moves to Singapore, builds a family, and lives her life. Years later, they reunite during a school gathering, spend an emotionally intimate night together, revisit their memories, and then separate again.


The film treats this as noble.


That is exactly where the problem begins.


Nostalgia Is Not the Same as Love


The core emotional engine of 96 is not love in the present tense. It is nostalgia. Ram is not in love with the Janaki of today. He is in love with a preserved memory of teenage innocence, untouched by adulthood, responsibility, compromise, or time.


That distinction matters.


Real love evolves. It survives conflict, routine, aging, financial stress, illness, children, disappointment, and change. What Ram carries is emotional preservation. A museum version of love. Beautiful to look at, but lifeless.


The film frames his inability to move on as emotionally profound. But if we strip away the violin music and melancholy cinematography, what remains is a man who allowed one unfinished teenage relationship to define the emotional direction of his entire life.


That is not romantic. It is unhealthy.


Janaki’s Marriage Becomes Emotionally Secondary


The film insists nothing inappropriate happens physically between Ram and Janaki. And technically, yes, the story remains emotionally restrained.


But emotional fidelity matters too.


Janaki is a married woman. She has a husband, a family, and an established life. Yet the film invites the audience to emotionally prioritize her connection with Ram over the life she actually chose and built. Her marriage becomes narratively secondary, almost treated like an obstacle standing in the way of some “pure” unfinished love.


That framing subtly undermines commitment itself.


Because what is the audience ultimately encouraged to feel?


Not relief that both people matured and respected boundaries. Not appreciation for the lives they built separately. Instead, viewers are pushed toward heartbreak that they did not end up together, as though decades of real life are somehow less meaningful than a teenage romance suspended in memory.


Cinema often confuses intensity with purity.


The Dangerous Message Young Men Internalize


This is where films like 96 become culturally influential in ways people rarely discuss honestly.


Young men absorb stories differently from how older audiences interpret them. Many do not walk away appreciating nuance or emotional restraint. They walk away believing:


• “True love means never moving on.”


• “If you really loved someone, you should stay emotionally loyal forever.”


• “Marriage doesn’t erase emotional destiny.”


• “Suffering proves sincerity.”


This becomes especially dangerous when repeated across cinema for decades.


The man waits. The man suffers. The man remains emotionally available forever. The woman marries someone else and continues life. Years later, destiny reunites them for one emotionally charged conversation.


Audiences applaud this as depth. But in reality, it often encourages emotional paralysis among young men who already struggle with rejection, loneliness, and self-worth.


Instead of teaching resilience, many films glorify emotional suspension.


Instead of showing healing, they glorify suffering.


Instead of encouraging people to build meaningful futures, they encourage worship of irreversible pasts.


Moving On Is Not Betrayal


One of cinema’s biggest lies is the idea that moving on somehow cheapens past love.


It does not.


People can deeply love someone and still accept reality. They can grieve relationships, heal, marry others, grow emotionally, and continue living without turning their past into a lifelong shrine.


That is maturity.


In fact, there is something quietly selfish about refusing to move forward emotionally while the other person builds an entirely different life. It may feel emotionally grand in films, but in reality it often leads to loneliness, obsession, and emotional stagnation.


Ram’s pain is real. But pain alone is not wisdom.


Why Audiences Still Connect With 96


Despite all this, the film resonates because it captures a universal fear: the fear of unfinished emotional chapters. Almost everyone has wondered at some point what might have happened if life had gone differently. The film taps into regret, memory, aging, and lost innocence with extraordinary sensitivity.


That emotional honesty is why audiences connected with it so deeply.


But emotional truth does not automatically make something emotionally healthy.


A beautifully made film can still promote ideas worth questioning.


And perhaps that is the more mature way to view 96: not as the ultimate love story, but as a haunting portrait of two people trapped by memory, unable to fully belong either to the past or the present.


Beautiful cinema, certainly.


Healthy romance? That is far more debatable.

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

What is AI?

 

“Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.” (Arthur C. Clarke) 

WHAT IS ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE?

 Artificial Intelligence is a discipline within information technology that deals with creating intelligent machines. An intelligent machine is a computer, or a robot controlled by a computer or a software that undertakes tasks and reasoning, traditionally associated with the human intellect. Artificial intelligence has therefore been created by studying how the human mind thinks, learns, discriminates and functions when attempting to resolve a problem. The results of these studies have been used as the basis for the software development and intelligent systems underpinning AI. Given that there are multiple human intelligences, different techniques have been developed to emulate them. This has resulted in different types of artificial intelligence, and the creation of systems capable of calculating, reasoning, detecting relationships and analogies, learning from experience, solving problems, understanding complex ideas, utilising natural language correctly, categorising.


THE BRANCHES OF ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE It’s good to make a distinction between Artificial Intelligence, Machine Learning and Deep Learning: • Machine Learning is an area within artificial intelligence which aims to develop the ability to learn through experience in computers, using algorithms, data and examples, rather than by pre-programming. The power of machine learning is due to the quality of the algorithms and examples, which are continuously improved and updated over time. The resulting knowledge used is no longer directly human, as the process of knowledge accumulation is transferred to the machine, which learns autonomously. Examples of applications are anti-spam filters for mailboxes and search engines. • Deep Learning is an area within and a function of Machine Learning. It is based on Artificial Neural Networks, or rather computational models, inspired by how the human brain works. The main attribute of an Artificial Neural Network is the ability to learn during a training phase and then apply the knowledge learnt to make predictions in new situations. Just like human brains these networks have an internal memory that grows with experience. For example, using Deep Learning techniques, a face in a photograph can be recognised, or equally, a sample of freehand writing and drawing.

 THE APPLICATIONS OF ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE When you use Siri or Cortana, or any Android function voice on your mobile phone, you are using Artificial Intelligence. You are also using it when you search for or buy something on an ecommerce site (eg Amazon) which uses advanced personalisation, recommendations or pattern recognition, and when you search for an image. The most well know application is the self-driving car. Artificial Intelligence is becoming a widespread technology in all sectors because it is transformative. • When you are on a train, it is guided by an expert system that manages traffic on the rail network. • When you use your voice to search on Google, you are using a natural language processing system. • When you navigate the web, you see advertisements that reflect your interests, as a result of machine learning. • When you search the web using the images option rather than the text option, you are exploiting deep learning. • Finally, the study of robotics is beginning to offer solutions for agriculture, healthcare and the management of awkward or unpleasant tasks.

WHAT IS THE IMPACT ON WORK? According to Gartner, within just the next 5 years Intelligent Machines and Robots could replace highly qualified professionals in the healthcare, legal and IT sectors. The scope of development in artificial intelligence covers both intellectual and manual capabilities. Therefore, a potentially massive impact on many of today’s professions is envisaged. Predictions of the effects on employment can be divided into two camps: the optimists, who believe the professions will adapt, and pessimists who foresee fewer available jobs. In both cases, it’s wise to become more aware of, and better informed about Artificial Intelligence, grounding it in the evolution which scientists, scholars and entrepreneurs proclaim is underway: Human Intelligence enhanced by Artificial Intelligence will create Augmented Intelligence. 


 Artificial Intelligence Artificial intelligence and the fourth industrial revolution have made considerable advances in the last two years. Most of the ongoing developments have been created for industrial and commercial usage, even if the number of companies that are working on consumer products are increasing. In this guide, you will find practical tips, based on a series of tools which use artificial intelligence. Experiment by using one that inspires you, so that you become familiar with it, and maybe, in the future, it will help to spark an idea for your organisation. The following exercise involves navigating different applications and is designed to help you begin to develop the Digital Mindset via personal experience

A diagram of a brain and a symbol

AI-generated content may be incorrect.

Artificial intelligence and the fourth industrial revolution have made considerable advances in the last two years. Most of the ongoing developments have been created for industrial and commercial usage, even if the number of companies that are working on consumer products are increasing. In this guide, you will find practical tips, based on a series of tools which use artificial intelligence. Experiment by using one that inspires you, so that you become familiar with it, and maybe, in the future, it will help to spark an idea for your organisation. The following exercise involves navigating different applications and is designed to help you begin to develop the Digital Mindset via personal experience. Here is a list of websites that offer specific services: ETCH etch.ai helps you to manage your contacts in a searchable database Name Description Address Findo findo.com Your intelligent search assistant throught emails, files and personal cloud Leap leap.ai recommends organisations for you to apply to, based on your skills Mosaic mosaic.ai helps you to write better CVs WORK Newton newton.ai helps you to find the type of work you want Woo woo.io helps you to make intelligent career decisions, anonymously Brightcrowd brightcrowd.com Helps you to find important professional connections 



 

 

 

D. Christopher Lane, A. Diem-Lane

Digital Philosophy

Mount San Antonio College

In a world where everything seems destined to become programmable via software code, sensors, data, algorithms, artificial intelligence and digital platforms, great philosophical themes are being reconsidered too. Here are presented the most advanced frontiers, at the international level, of digital thought and philosophy. A book that helps us understand the impact of digital on our current and future lives. It analyses the present to understand the future that awaits us, and opens our minds so we can seize opportunities.

 

P. Domingos

The Master Algorithm: How the Quest for the Ultimate Learning Machine Will Remake Our World

Basic Books

Our society is steeped in algorithms. Every time we visit a website looking for a book or a film, or we browse among online shops, we leave a long digital trace behind us that describes our habits and our preferences. This trail is the raw material, the database from which algorithms extract the information needed to propose products or services to us which we appear to need or desire. Algorithms study us, imitate us and experiment on us, in search of the ultimate goal that is considered the Holy Grail of computing research: the Definitive Algorithm, capable of extracting all the information from the data and doing everything, absolutely everything that we want, even before we ask for it. This is the commercial perspective. But from a scientific point of view, this challenge is about finding an algorithm capable of programming oneself. It may seem like science fiction, but it is already a scientific pursuit in full flow that will have a major impact in a much wider range of fields.


Sunday, May 17, 2026

Gone with the Wind ~ Margaret Mitchell


 

Gone with the Wind by Margaret Mitchell is a historical novel set during the American Civil War and Reconstruction. It follows Scarlett O’Hara, a strong-willed Southern woman whose life is transformed by war, loss, survival, and complicated relationships — especially with Rhett Butler and Ashley Wilkes.


The novel is commonly divided into five major parts/books. Here’s a concise part-by-part summary.


Part One — Life Before the War


The story opens at Tara, the O’Hara plantation in Georgia. Scarlett O’Hara is a beautiful, spoiled, and manipulative young woman who is used to getting attention from men. She is secretly obsessed with Ashley Wilkes, a neighboring plantation owner.


Ashley announces his engagement to Melanie Hamilton, who is kind, gentle, and deeply respected. Scarlett is devastated and impulsively confesses her love to Ashley, but he rejects her because he believes they are fundamentally different.


During this confrontation, Scarlett meets Rhett Butler, a charming and cynical outsider who overhears everything. Rhett immediately recognizes Scarlett’s selfishness and strength.


Soon after, the Civil War begins. In anger and jealousy, Scarlett hastily marries Melanie’s brother, Charles Hamilton. Charles dies shortly afterward from illness while serving in the Confederate Army, leaving Scarlett widowed at a young age.


Part Two — War and Hardship


Scarlett moves to Atlanta to stay with Melanie and Melanie’s aunt, Pittypat. Atlanta becomes crowded with soldiers, wounded men, and war activity.


Scarlett dislikes the restrictions placed on widows and grows restless. Rhett Butler frequently visits her and flirts openly, though Scarlett still fixates on Ashley.


As the war worsens, food shortages and fear spread through Atlanta. Melanie becomes pregnant while Ashley is away fighting.


When Union forces approach Atlanta, the city falls into chaos. Scarlett helps Melanie deliver her baby under terrifying conditions. Rhett helps them escape the burning city, but eventually leaves to join the Confederate army.


Scarlett manages to return home to Tara, only to discover devastation:


Her mother has died

Her father has mentally collapsed

The plantation is ruined

Food is scarce


Facing starvation, Scarlett vows she will never go hungry again.


Part Three — Reconstruction and Survival


Scarlett becomes ruthless and determined to rebuild Tara. She works in the fields herself and pushes everyone around her to survive.


When heavy taxes threaten Tara, Scarlett tries to get money from Rhett, who is imprisoned. Failing that, she marries her sister’s fiancĂ©, Frank Kennedy, for financial security because he owns a successful business.


Scarlett becomes a savvy businesswoman, running lumber mills and aggressively pursuing profit despite criticism from society. Her behavior shocks traditional Southern women.


Ashley returns from the war emotionally broken and unable to adapt to the new South. Scarlett still clings to the fantasy that she loves him.


Frank is killed during a violent political raid linked to postwar unrest. Rhett then proposes marriage to Scarlett.


She accepts largely for money and status.


Part Four — Marriage to Rhett Butler


Scarlett and Rhett enjoy a wealthy, glamorous marriage for a time. Rhett genuinely loves Scarlett, though he often mocks society and sees through her illusions.


They have a daughter, Bonnie Blue Butler, whom Rhett adores. Bonnie becomes the center of his life.


However, Scarlett and Rhett’s marriage is deeply troubled:


Scarlett still emotionally clings to Ashley

Rhett becomes increasingly bitter and emotionally distant

They frequently fight but are also intensely attracted to each other


Melanie continues to support Scarlett loyally, unaware of Scarlett’s lingering feelings for Ashley.


Tensions peak after a tragic accident kills Bonnie. Rhett is devastated and emotionally shattered.


Meanwhile, Scarlett slowly begins to realize that Ashley is weak and idealized — not the great love she imagined.


Part Five — Loss and Realization


Melanie becomes seriously ill after another pregnancy. Before dying, she expresses her love and trust in Scarlett and asks her to care for Ashley.


Melanie’s death forces Scarlett into emotional clarity. She finally realizes:


Ashley never truly suited her

She only loved an illusion tied to her old dreams

Rhett was the one she truly loved all along


Scarlett rushes home determined to reconcile with Rhett.


But Rhett, exhausted after years of emotional disappointment, tells her he no longer cares. He leaves her in one of literature’s most famous endings.


Scarlett is devastated but refuses to surrender completely. She decides to return to Tara, believing that strength and determination will help her win Rhett back someday.


The novel ends with Scarlett’s famous final thought:


“Tomorrow is another day.”


Major Characters

Scarlett O'Hara — determined, selfish, resilient protagonist

Rhett Butler — cynical yet deeply emotional businessman

Ashley Wilkes — idealistic Southern gentleman unable to adapt

Melanie Hamilton — compassionate and morally strong figure


Gone with the Wind is more than a romance — it’s a powerful story about survival, change, and human resilience during one of history’s darkest periods. Scarlett O’Hara remains one of literature’s most unforgettable heroines: flawed, determined, and impossible to ignore.


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Not sure why, may be reading the Top 100 books list, but of late I have been wondering if Margaret Mitchell would have lived for some more years,  could she have written a sequel to the book Gone With The Wind? Has this been discussed in this group before? Sorry if yes, I missed it. 


Novel ends with 'Tomorrow is another day.'  Scarlett was just around 28 years then? Would she have Rhett back or what would happen? 


Any thoughts?

Our Mohana Chitti


 Our Mohana Chitti


She was a woman shaped by the times she was born into — a woman who spent her life battling the quiet weight of patriarchy while trying to hold a family together. Beneath the stern shadow of a domineering mother-in-law, she never truly found a voice she could call her own. Instead, she poured every ounce of herself into raising her children, believing that one day they would become her strength, her refuge, and the voice she herself was denied.
But life did not unfold the way she had hoped. There came a painful moment when she realised that the very children she had raised with sacrifice and devotion could not become the promises she had built her heart around. They needed more from her, even when she had already given everything she had. Beside her stood a husband who remained alive through the years, yet never truly became her defender or her voice.
All she ever longed for was simple — for someone to truly listen to her.
And then came the cruel irony of time. A woman who once fed all of us with unconditional love, with little treats from her humble nature garden and meals prepared with affection, eventually had to depend on others even to feed herself. I was always one of the fortunate recipients of her quiet love. Even as I grew into the family, I never realised how deeply I still sought her acceptance and warmth. She gave me love in abundance, yet somewhere within her lived the unspoken hope that she, too, would receive the same tenderness from her own children.
Despite the poverty, love always lingered in the air around her. But in her later years, she suffered in silence — literally in silence. Decisions were made for her, even about her own body, while her voice remained unheard, as it had for most of her life. She endured everything without protest, carrying pain with the same quiet dignity with which she had carried love.
And now she is gone.
Gone beyond the suffering, beyond the disappointments, beyond the silence that caged her spirit for so long. Was it patriarchy she fought against, or was it the conditioning of an entire upbringing? Perhaps it was both. And despite all the love she carried within her, love alone was not enough to withstand the harsh demands of the world around her.
Now she is free. Her voice belongs to the Lord. And she will always remain in memory as a humble soul filled with deep wisdom about life — wisdom that, tragically, was never enough to save her from the life she herself had to endure.