Tuesday, August 12, 2025

Stress Doesn’t Wait — So Why Should You

 

Role of resilience in stress management

CBT framework

How to use stress control online



How might you approach change, if you had more tools?





We dont know what will come,

There is uncertaininty, fear, death, betrayal, grudges, issues, that is life.

"You have survived before, and you will again:



Tool is stress control online

8 week self paced program. 

Silver Oak health

CBT - Cogonitive Behavioural Therapy Program


30 minutes session - 8 week program. 



8 Steps Program. 

Thought - Feeling - Behaviour





Stress is your body’s natural response to any demand, challenge, or threat — whether real or perceived.


Here’s a breakdown:


1. What Happens in the Body

When you face a stressful situation, your brain signals your body to release stress hormones (like adrenaline and cortisol).

These cause:


Faster heartbeat


Quicker breathing


Tensed muscles


Heightened alertness


This is called the fight-or-flight response, designed to help you react quickly.


2. Types of Stress

Acute stress: Short-term, in response to immediate challenges (e.g., exams, deadlines, sudden danger).


Chronic stress: Long-term, from ongoing problems (e.g., financial troubles, caregiving pressure).


Eustress: Positive stress that motivates you (e.g., preparing for a big performance).


Distress: Negative stress that overwhelms you and harms your well-being.


3. Effects of Stress

Short-term: Sharp focus, burst of energy, but also irritability or anxiety.


Long-term: Can lead to headaches, high blood pressure, insomnia, weakened immunity, depression, or burnout.


4. Key Insight

Stress itself isn’t always bad — in small doses, it helps us adapt and grow. The problem starts when it’s constant and your body never gets to return to a calm, balanced state.


"Stress Doesn’t Wait — So Why Should You?" sounds like a tagline or campaign hook—probably for mental health awareness, workplace wellness, or even a relaxation product.


The idea behind it is:


Stress builds up quickly and doesn’t politely pause until you’re ready.


So, instead of postponing self-care or solutions, you should act immediately—whether that’s taking a break, meditating, getting help, or making lifestyle changes.


It flips the urgency: if stress is proactive, your response should be too.


It’s the kind of phrase that could work for:


A mental health app or counseling service


A spa or wellness retreat


A stress-relief product like herbal tea or aromatherapy


A workplace burnout prevention campaign


The Boy, the Mole, the Fox, and the Horse ~ Charlie Mackesy



 

 "The Boy, the Mole, the Fox, and the Horse" by Charlie Mackesy. The story may seem simple, but its unique illustrations and moments have a profound impact, encouraging readers to pause and reflect. Despite lacking a traditional plot, the book's beauty and depth resonate deeply.

The book's simplicity belies its depth, inviting readers to ponder life's complexities and find meaning in fleeting moments. Mackesy's illustrations and words weave a gentle narrative that explores themes of friendship, hope, and self-discovery.

The characters' interactions and musings offer profound insights, making the book a treasure for readers of all ages. Its quiet wisdom and poignant moments linger, encouraging reflection and introspection.

 1. *Profound insights*: Through gentle narratives and poignant moments.
2. *Universal themes*: Exploring friendship, hope, and self-discovery.
3. *Timeless wisdom*: Encouraging reflection and introspection.
Takeaways from this book👆🏼

Satya Shiv Sundar

 



We know that Shiv Nadar is firmly rooted and invested in India, having done engineering in PSG, Coimbatore and worked in Poona's Walchand group before striking out on his own. The 3rd richest Indian is a bigtime philanthropist who focuses on Education in India.

 Spouse Kiran is a knowledgeable Art aficianado and promotes artists in India.

While we are happy that Sundar Pichai and Nadella have Tamil and Telugu backgrounds and have graduated from IIT and Manipal Institute, let's not forget that they voluntarily renounced their Indian citizenship and are proud Americans now with 100% loyalty to their new country. As are thousands of other "Indians".

Earlier generations .... Gandhi, Nehru, both Patels, Netaji Bose, Homi Bhabha, Vikram Sarabhai, KR Narayanan, Amartya Sen, Manmohan Singh, CV Raman  .. may have been "ashamed" to be Indians but they loved India deeply and returned to serve it faithfully.

Even many of my generation returned to India after  higher studies abroad.

For instance, Gautam Patel, the only grandson of Sardar Patel and my classmate in Xavier's School and COEP ( he studied Telecommunications), returned to teach here after studying and working in USA for a decade. 

But interestingly, his only son Kedar and young granddaughter are most unlikely to return, preferring the quality of life in the US.

And methinks that their loyalty should be 100% to the US!

Deepak Parekh with Chanda Kochhar

 



In this episode, Chanda Kochhar converses with one of India’s most respected business minds — Deepak Parekh.


For over 45 years, he’s led from the front and played a defining role in shaping India’s financial services ecosystem. He’s not just built companies — he’s built institutions that people trust.


Awarded the Padma Bhushan in 2006, his story isn’t just about business. It’s about vision, values, and the kind of leadership that leaves a legacy.


Chanda Kochhar and Deepak Parekh speak about everything — what guided his decisions, the quiet conviction behind his leadership, and what leads to true nation-building.


This one’s not just an episode. It’s a rare masterclass in humility, leadership, and purpose-driven growth.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zbv9WesSVAo

Episode begins with Sharing Common Love for Sudoku and how it keeps us active. 

Decoding a VUCA World: FTA and incredible and good model with UK, which helps trade and gives visa for trade. 

VUCA stands for Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity, and Ambiguity. It's a framework used to describe the challenging and unpredictable nature of the modern world, particularly in business and leadership.

We have to improve productive, reduce logistic cost, reduce cost of Production. 

Path to the $5 Trillion Economy: Domestic Consumption is the major contributor of our GDP

India is growing twice the global growth. We are in a good shape with poor neighbourhood. 

US only has interests, no good friends or enemies. 

 Small Investors & Equity Market: Approach should be patients. Long time. Stock market is the devise to move the money from the impatient to patient. 

Banks - The Building Block of An Economy: Banks are like heart. They are not lending enough to corporates. Long term project finance is difficult. Only State Bank is willing. Now they are shying away. Retail deposit is less, consumption is high. Bank's deposit is not growing then how can they lend?  CRR  down, and open market policy helped. Bank has to lend for GDP to grow. LSR should also be brought down. Increase liquidity. Private sector is not expanding. Brown field Vs. Green field. 

Need to Reignite Private Sector Investments

The RRR of Current Investments Roads, Renewables, Refinery and Retail is where loans are going. 

Youth, Money & Mindset : Credit card, Car, Home loan - as soon as a person get job. How should they look at financial planning? 

Only 25% of your income should be used to repay a loan. It's the maximum. It will bring self discipline. 

Retail Lending: An Emerging Risk?:Retail demand is there, but banks need money to do that. Two areas to worry. Micro finance, arrears have gone up and number is staggering. NPA increasing. 

We worry with small falls and there is knee jack reactions. We need to have the focused approach, like how Yes Bank as handled. 

Importance of Diversifying your Savings. 


We have grown up taking life insurance. Today insurance companies are finding hard to sell. Young should have insurance. Accident and over exercising, young even at 30 are dying. Earlier it was tax and saving. But after tax benefit is removed, people are not interested. 

As entry level is less, Mutual fund with SSI has people's attraction. 

Participate in Equity, but patience pay. Buy a property, take a loan, and buy another property. 

Young mind set is get rich quick. 

The Future of Banking : Banks have to optimise their cost. the CASA  Current account/Saving account ratio is changing and coming down. People think why keep money in current account. 

Non availability of long term finance is a big concern. Manage inflation and interest rate. 

If we bring down interest rate, people will buy home, it will bring affordable. Every one take advantage of federal reserve. 

Inflation if food/agriculture related. Logistics is a big problem. From the farm to the plate there is a big loss. Neither the consumer is benefited nor the farmer. 

Agriculture bill was in favour of the farmer and they did not understand. 

Middleman has to be reduced and wastage have to come down. 

Housing in rural area is the 5th priority. First is where to keep produce. Logistics. GST has helped considerably as there are no trucks waiting at the borders. 

Bimal Jalal called him to join may public sector banks, but he was never interested. Was happy and content with HDFC.

The HDFC Calling quitting Chase Manhattan Bank, H.D. Parekh persuaded, when H.D.P was in ICICI. Started in Raymond House, in one room. Floor by Floor they brought. 

The Origin of HDFC Bank: Reserve Bank gave a small ad. saying invitation invited for private set up. They were given the first approval. Around the same time, ICICI. They said, ICICI started HDFC, why don't you come back home? They asked. 

The Big HDFC Merger, no concession, no relief, but helped to go through the process, get approval, it was exciting and kept a secret, every one found only when it was in press, it was a sad and a happy day, it's good for institution and country. We need larger banks, who can take larger risk. 

Fuelling Housing Growth developer loan was small porting. Only 15% to 20% was developer loan, because they wanted houses to be build. Only then people would build houses. Banks are not allowed to fund land. That fallacy should go. HDFC Capital, 10% Abudabi - Funding only buying land. Niche and doing well. 

Making Affordable Housing A Reality. Increase supply. Enough demand. There is more cost to build a small own. Cost of construction is high. Most developers are not interested in that. Shipping development investment corporation, there was a necessity that if your buy foreign ship you have to buy Indian, similarly, if a builder build huge building, they should build smaller ones too. 

00:42:59 Opportunities and Challenges of Insurance Sector. Mis selling has spoilt. Selling for commission. 75 year old being sold 30 years policy. Some incentive must be there, or all will put in capital market. Even Unit linked Mutual fund has come down. 

25% in govt. Security, then state security, then infrastructure...available to invest in equity and private debt is less. 

Non-Negotiables for Growth Of India are ease of doing business including land, availability of fund and finance, and some incentive like capital allowance, accelerated depreciation.  Increase liquidity. We have political, economic, stability. Huge consumer demand. 

The Man Beyond the Numbers. Not earlier, Maturity comes over age. Had to travel a lot. Did not have much time for family. Now have time to spend with family, but they don't have time for us. Have 5 lovely grand daughter 6 to 16. Grandparents have to cherish each of those moments. 

00:51:14 Risk Assessment - Build nurtured and never faltered. Have gone wrong in few cases, where I thought I never would go wrong, but have made money where you thought it wont, but basically it's all gut. Inspite of any 50 page documents. Gage, intention of the person. 

Cricket & Leadership: Shared Values - Carrying people together, humble. 

The Unscripted Moment of Life - 40k loan first, in Thane, his photo was put in the Annual report. Behave, act, perform as it is your company. Take that ownership and responsibility. Owner's should behave like professionals and professionals like owners.           

Impromptu Answers Cricket, Coffee, Homely food, Gujrati, simple vegetarian food. Song - Mera Jootha hey Japani, Sleeping late. I don't read book's but Annual reports. App mostly used Cricket score and Sudoko. Be Humble and Kind. Kohli - Strategic thinker, passion, commitment. 

Leadership is not about noise. But about courage, vision backed with execution. 

Sunday, August 10, 2025

First. Forever : N.J.Yashaswi


 Just finished reading First. Forever of the very inspiring 'Dreamer, Doer, Die-hard optimist, Visionary Entrepreneur,  Mentor'; as the footprint describes,  of the founder of ICFAI. 

Though gone too soon at just 61, he has indeed created a legacy with the vast number of universities,  educational institutions and books. 

Through them he has touched many a lives. A must read. 

Also awaiting a detailed Biography on him to be released soon.

When people struggle to complete one professional course he was first rank holder in B.Com, CA and CWA both inter and final.

Thursday, August 07, 2025

Pesarattu & Allam Pachadi

 


Ingredients

Whole green gram (moong dal)

Rice (optional, for crispiness)

Ginger

Green chillies

Cumin seeds

Salt

Water

Oil or ghee for cooking

🥣 Preparation Steps

Soak: Rinse and soak whole moong dal (and rice if using) for 4–6 hours or overnight.

Grind: Drain and blend with ginger, green chillies, cumin, and salt to a smooth batter. Add water as needed.

Rest: Let the batter rest for 30 minutes (optional but helps texture).

Cook: Heat a pan, pour a ladle of batter, and spread it thin like a dosa. Drizzle oil or ghee around the edges.

Flip: Cook until golden and crisp, then flip if desired.

Serve: Traditionally served with ginger chutney or upma.


Here’s a summary of how to make Ginger Chutney (Allam Pachadi), a popular South Indian condiment that pairs beautifully with idli, dosa, vada, and especially pesarattu:


🌶️ Ingredients

Fresh ginger – sliced (not finely chopped to avoid bitterness)

Onions – cubed and separated into layers

Chana dal & urad dal – for texture and aroma (can substitute with peanuts)

Dry red chillies – for heat

Tamarind – soaked or added directly

Jaggery – for sweetness

Salt – to taste

Oil – for sautéing

🍳 Preparation Steps

Soak tamarind in ¼ cup water or set aside for blending later 1.

Heat oil in a pan and fry chana dal and urad dal until golden. Add red chillies and fry until crisp 1.

Remove dal and chillies from the pan and let them cool.

In the same pan, sauté onions and ginger until onions turn pinkish-golden. Avoid browning the ginger 1.

Cool all ingredients, then blend with salt, jaggery, and tamarind until smooth 1.

Optional tempering: You can temper with mustard seeds, curry leaves, and a pinch of hing if desired.

Feedback is'nt a mirror - it's a filter

 

Agree?

Understand and know the difference between Feedback vs. Criticism

Criticism compass: Decode what you receive

Horizontal line Kind to Harsh; through middle verticle line Fair to Unfair.

Put your feedbacks into 4 Quadrants. 

  • Pause
  • Breathe
  • Label - Name the experience 'I feel hurt', 'that felt unfair'
  • Shift - from judgment to curiosity - ask 'what is this feedback really about?'
  • Use - grounding self talk - "I'am safe, This is not personal. I can respond. Not react."

Responding not reacting: ACR method

A - Acknowledge - Thanks for sharing that, I hear you (Doesn't mean I accept what you say)

C- Clarify - Can you help me understand what you say? Example?

R - Respond - That's helpful to know

Open without submission, curious and constructive 

It's a framework and not a new skill. 



Monday, August 04, 2025

Knives Out


 By Nandakishore Varma


Agatha Christie wrote the whodunnits with the most intricate plots. She was never "literary" (even though her language is pretty good); she never created very complex characters; and her stories followed the same formula, with the detective finally assembling all the suspects and pulling the most unlikely one out of the hat. Very unrealistic, as her critics (despicable humans, all of them!) scoff; very enjoyable, as her countless fans (among whom the author of this post considers himself) say. (Those who badmouth Dame Agatha and her works need to be given strychnine in their soup, shot through the heart and stabbed in the back of the neck as they sit reading in their library - but that's the subject of another post.)


I watched the movie "Knives Out", directed by Rian Johnson yesterday night, and was immediately reminded of Christie. I looked it up on Google and - voila! - it seems that he is a fan, and this movie is a tribute to Dame Agatha. And what a tribute! It is intricate, fast-paced, and an extremely ingenious whodunnit; but what makes it special is its level of self-awareness. The tribute is also a spoof on the genre of the cosy British murder mystery.


Harlan Thrombey, a best-selling crime novelist, dies on the night of his 85th birthday. It's apparently a suicide, with author having cut his throat himself. However, renowned private investigator Benoit Blanc is pulled into the investigation by an "anonymous client", who suspects foul play. And in the tradition of all good whodunnits, the whole family is there so that there are no dearth of suspects! As the investigation proceeds, the police doddering about in the time-honoured whodunnit fashion and the private sleuth going about in his own eccentric way his wonders to perform, secret after secret is revealed until the murderer stands exposed.


The movie is full of caricatures of the standard tropes of mystery fiction. The money-grubbing relatives, the never-do-we'el son, the dedicated nurse, the unimaginative police officer and the eccentric detective (who is of French origin, natch!) all playing their roles to perfection. The house is a huge New England mansion with creaking staircases and secret entrances, which all faithfully play their assigned roles. The camera floats through the mysterious corridors and the editing transitions smoothly between the flashbacks and the present. We know that we are watching a great murder mystery - but at the same time, the director is telling us not to take him too seriously.


Every good whodunnit usually has something unusual in it. Here it is the strange medical condition that plagues nurse Marta (who is also the central character) - telling a lie makes her vomit! This unrealistic "disease" is used to full potential by the director to drive the tale forward.


Most whodunnits can usually be only watched once - once the cat is out of the bag, we lose interest. But I believe this movie can be watched multiple times to appreciate the beauty of its construction. Kudos the director. Well done, _mon ami_!

Sunday, August 03, 2025

A Gentleman in Moscow ~ Amor Towels (40 of 25)


From 21st June 1922 to 21st June 1955 Count Alexander Rostov live in an attic room at Hotel Metropol  while Russia undergoes decades of tumultuous upheaval.

An historic fiction,  'The Gentleman in Moscow' by Amor Towels deals with the why and how of the life of this gentleman in Moscow. 

Few striking lines from the book:

"Having acknowledged that a man must master his circumstances or otherwise be mastered by them, the count thought it worth considering how one was most likely to achieve this aim when one had been sentenced to a life of confinement"

Parents responsibility "To bring a child safely into adulthood so that she could have a chance to experience a life of purpose and, God willing, contentment."

"But what of poetry? You ask. What of the written word? Well, I can assure you that it too is keeping pace.......our poetry has become an art of action. One that will speed across the continents and transmit music to the stars"

Then comes Mayakovsky's poem:

Suddenly - I

shone in all my might,

and morning range its round.

Always to shine,

to shine everywhere,

to the very depth of the last days,

to shine -

and to hell with everything else!

That is my motto -

and the sun's!

Poem and Poetry and then there is Helena's death in 1916, Nina's desire to experience everything,  friendship with Marina and Andrey and Emile, and Mikhail Fyadorovich Mindich and Katerina and love in different boxes like buttons of Anna and Sofia. 

Where we go, what we do does it matter?

"I am confused about the ending and need help figuring it out. Was Rostov just swinging by his childhood town to see his old home and pick up his gf before finally leaving the country to reunite with Sofia..."

Wanted clarity and so went through goodread reviews and this is what I understood:

Osip is the key! As the Kremlin officer who is "charged with keeping track of certain men of interest" - he is the Kremlin officer at the end who says "round up the usual suspects" - a huge nod to Casablanca and a smirk. So no one probably even looked for him or Anna! 

He did leave Russia before the revolution but came back knowing the risks. He came back, because Russia was his home. And, he made the best of it in the Metropol...what an adaptive individual! But, in the end, he wanted to go back to his old stomping grounds...where the apple trees were blooming. Who knows what happened next. I think that is up to the reader. But, I do think that if Rostov was caught he would have been happy that he was able to get his "daughter" out, that he was re-united with his love, and that he was able to breathe the fresh air of the country while looking at the apple blossoms once more. How it could it get any better than that for a man who had lived the better part of his life inside a hotel?

Bishop will never find the count because the Bishop thinks the count is all about surface aspects of wealth and fame so he would assume The Count will be in some world capital living large. The Count was all about the simple pleasures of courtesy, appreciation, shared history which is why he returned to his home.


Robert Irish Rostov getting out of Russia would be too "romantic" an ending, I think. I thought the twist of going "home" was brilliant for a character who had been entrapped for so long. The presence of the "willowy" Anna does add an element that suggests their love is likely doomed, but in such a small town, and a ruin, maybe not. I think that uncertainty is part of the beauty of the ending.

Count tricked his pursuers into thinking he went to Finland, and even before that he tested what Osip would do by showing him Casablanca. As we saw, Osip has no intention of actually going after Count.

Count did reunite with Anna in his birthplace but his house had been burned down and we saw he is quite capable of letting go. He may be settling in some remote village, Russia is enormous, they would never find him, and it's been 50 years since they got rid of aristocracy, I don't think it's at the top of Party's list of important things to do any more.


But one thing that hints he may be leaving Russia is his conversation with Anna:


“Sasha, I know you don’t want to accept the notion that Russia may be inherently inward looking, but do you think in America they are even having this conversation? Wondering if the gates of New York are about to be opened or closed?


“You sound as if you dreamed of living in America.”


“Everyone dreams of living in America.”


Now this could just be what prompted him to send Sophia to America, but the fact that Anna wants to go there and that he meets her at the end could also be foreshadowing where they're going after that. I just don't see Anna as someone leading a quiet and unassuming village life.

Could be, he visited his childhood home one last time, rendezvous with his lover in a place the authorities would never think to look for him, then left Russia to join his beloved adopted daughter . That last part is not stated, but I believe it is so. Russia was no longer the place of his heart when he reached the point of arranging his adopted daughters escape, and he would never have cast his daughter adrift in western society that he himself no longer knew. His lover also had only a shadow of her former Russian life, and would have ventured out to start anew.

‐---‐-----


*A Gentleman in Moscow*


*by Amor Towles*


_Mild Spoilers_


Who – or what – is a “gentleman”?


Well, he can be defined in two ways – one: born of aristocratic stock; two: marked out by distinguished behavior.


Count Alexander Ilyich Rostov, the protagonist of this novel, is both. And he is caught in the wrong place at the wrong time. 1922 Russia, after the Bolshevik Revolution, is not exactly a healthy place for an aristocrat to be. Deemed an enemy of the proletariat by the accident of birth, the most likely fate for such people is either a bullet to the head or a berth in Siberia.


Rostov is spared either, however, on the strength of a revolutionary poem he had written. So he is awarded a strange sentence – permanent house arrest in the Hotel Metropol in Moscow – not in his usual luxurious suite, but an attic room. He is allowed freedom only within the hotel. The Count, with unflappable equanimity, accepts his fate: he is a smart aleck, and has squirrelled away enough clandestine gold to get him through life. However, after a period, ennui starts to set in which has him questioning the meaning of life – until he meets nine-year-old Nina Kulikova.


Nina Kulikova is the daughter of a Ukrainian officer staying at the Metropol. Like the Count, she is also bored – but with a child’s inherent ingenuity, she has found a way out. Nina has the skeleton key to all the rooms of the hotel, and soon the count is following her about on her escapades. Nina gives him back his zest in life – and when she leaves, she gifts her friend with the skeleton key. Along with it, it seems that Rostov also gets the skeleton key to the hidden facets of life.


As the years roll by, Lenin gives way to Stalin. Proletarian rule becomes despotism. Russia is devastated by war. People move in and out of Alexander Ilyich’s life – the actress Anna Urbanova, his lover; his childhood friend, the fiery poet Mikhail Fyodorovich Mindich (Mishka); Osip Ivanovich Glebnikov, Chief Administrator of the Secret Police, who wants the count to tutor him in French, English, and the ways of the capitalist West; Richard Vanderville, an American aide-de-camp who wants the count to spy for him; Emile, the cook at the hotel and Andre, the maître d’ of the hotels restaurant Boyarsky, Rostov’s bosom pals; and the sinister waiter dubbed as the “bishop” by the count, who rises due to party connections to ultimately becomes the hotel manager, and Rostov’s main antagonist… during this journey (from 1922 to 1953: when Khrushchev takes over the USSR), the aristocrat becomes a humble headwaiter – and unexpectedly, the foster father to Nina’s daughter, Sofia. And as she grows up, Count Alexander Ilyich Rostov realizes that there is something more to life than just existing.


***


This novel is extremely readable. The author has a voice that is almost Wodehousian (though not as laughter inducing). Count Rostov, a specimen of the idle rich, looks upon the world with a sort of amused detachment, which the author forces us to share (the title, “A Gentleman in Moscow”, is apt in every sense). Told in such a voice, Russia’s tumultuous and many a times distressing history becomes amusing and sometimes downright hilarious. Verily, Aristotle was right – the world is indeed a comedy to those who think.


But all said and done, this is a contrived novel. We can see Amor Towles trying to be cute on every alternate page – his strain is almost physically visible. In order to keep the novel’s mood from changing, the author has also been forced to gloss over large swathes of history (the war years pass away in the blink of an eye, for example). Also, authorial intervention in the form of footnotes and direct speech inhibits the flow of the narrative frequently. This is purposefully done – it is in perfect keeping with the story’s mood – but it’s a literary device that becomes all too obvious.


The final verdict: an extremely enjoyable novel – but not great literature by any means.

(Review of Nandakishore Sir)

Friday, August 01, 2025

Working Guidelines - Values/Growth


 In 1951, Yoshida delivered the renowned "10 working guidelines" in Dentsu

  1. Initiate projects on your own instead of waiting for work to be assigned
  2. Take an active role in all your endeavours, not a passive role
  3. Search for large and complex challenges
  4. Welcome difficult assignments. Progress lies in accomplishing difficult work
  5. Once you begin a task, complete it. Never give up. 
  6. Lead and set an example for your fellow workers
  7. Set goals for yourself to ensure a constant sense or purpose
  8. Move with confidence, it gives your work force and substance
  9. At all times, challenge yourself to think creatively and find new solutions
  10. When confrontation is necessary, don't shy away from it. Confrontation is often necessary to achieve progress. 
Tag Values

  1. Integrity: Be Fair
  2. Innovation: Be Original
  3. Sustainability: Go Green
  4. Growth: Laser Focus
  5. Accountability: Own it
  6. Trust: Build it

I Will Judge You by Your Bookshelf ~ Grant Snider


*I Will Judge You by Your Bookshelf*

*By Grant Snider*

Courtesy: Nandakishore Sir

I have been a great fan of Grant Snider for a long time. I follow his quirky "Incidental Comics" on FB.

This book is a collection of his cartoons on reading and writing. As usual, it's full of his funny quips and cute drawings. The way he gives shape to literary metaphors through simple images is mind-blowing.

This book is recommended for reading - and re-reading - and re-re-re-re... reading (ad infinitum).

(I attach a few of his full page illustrations with this review.)













T.N. Manoharan ~ Spotlight 39 of 25

 

He was one in a million.

He taught taxation,  his clarity and grace on stage was admirable.

He co-authored Tech Phoenix—in just 75 days. His meticulousness was legendary. Every version, every discarded draft, every appendix—tracked with precision.

In a private conversation, he told that he would walk into the sunset at 70. So he did.

He was a scholar, statesman, and teacher. But above all, he was authentic.

Steering the Satyam Recovery

But then came Satyam in 2009. When India faced one of its worst corporate scandals, when trust in the profession was shaking, the government didn’t look for the loudest voice or the most connected player. They looked for the steadiest and Mano sir was called in. He calmly stabilised the company, reassured employees, and convinced banks with meticulous financial plans, orchestrating a historic rescue without seeking the spotlight.

 There is his  story we did on him for the book Flying High (also published in A Few Good Men). It captures the life and quiet legacy of an extraordinary CA. Also read the spotlight on him. 

Read the full story here:https://industrialeconomist.com/the-man-who-led-by-listening-remembering-t-n-manoharans-legacy/

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1kbEQxe3g6GySdQ4iXB8u_8i81w92vAz6/view?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR7ygQFn_bSbrUxWhWTlhp_g5EDGc9sro-t5Lss1ldSCQY_WttDY1-eNtooXsQ_aem_9Sps6qJh78HixgxoVQck9A

We must justify

our existence by

touching as many

lives as possible

by sharing and

caring.

When you win, don’t take it to

the head and feel headstrong

but take it to the heart to

feel rejuvenated and humbled.

When you face setbacks,

don’t take it to the heart to

feel depressed but take it

to the head to analyse why

it occurred and prevent

recurrence. With EGO we are

gone, without it we can go on.

Tuesday, July 29, 2025

Salman Rushdie (Contemporary World Writers) ~ Andrew Teverson (39 of 2025)

 


Thanks to CBC and the topic of discussion being Salman Rushdie, got a copy of this book. 

The book Salman Rushdie (Contemporary World Writers) by Andrew Teverson offers a comprehensive and insightful critical study of Salman Rushdie's literary work and public persona 

Teverson explores the intellectual, biographical, literary, and cultural contexts that shape Rushdie’s fiction. The book is designed to help readers navigate the often complex and polarising debates surrounding Rushdie’s life and work. It positions Rushdie as:

  • A politicised fiction writer whose narratives engage deeply with global politics.
  • A controversialist, unafraid to provoke and challenge dominant ideologies.
  • A novelist of extraordinary imaginative range, blending myth, history, and fantasy.
  • A fearless commentator on contemporary issues, especially those concerning identity, migration, and postcolonialism.

The book includes detailed critical readings of all Rushdie’s novels up to Shalimar the Clown, including:

  • Grimus
  • Midnight’s Children
  • The Satanic Verses
  • The Moor’s Last Sigh
  • The Ground Beneath Her Feet

Each chapter situates the novels within broader literary and political frameworks, offering interpretations that are both accessible and academically rigorous. This book is a guide particularly valuable for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of Rushdie’s narrative strategies and ideological engagements.

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Not from book but otherwise:

Marriages and Romantic Life

Salman Rushdie has been married five times, with his first four marriages ending in divorce:


Clarissa Luard (1976–1987)


A literature officer at the Arts Council of England.

They had one son, Zafar Rushdie, born in 1979.

Though divorced, they remained close until her death in 1999.

Marianne Wiggins (1988–1993)


An American novelist.

Their marriage coincided with the publication of The Satanic Verses and the issuing of the fatwa.

Wiggins went into hiding with Rushdie, but the stress led to their separation.

Elizabeth West (1997–2004)


A British editor.

They had one son, Milan Rushdie, born in 1997.

Padma Lakshmi (2004–2007)


An Indian-American actress, model, and TV host.

Their marriage was highly publicised but ended in divorce after three years.

Rachel Eliza Griffiths (Married in 2021)


An American poet, novelist, photographer, and visual artist.

Born in 1978, she is known for her work Seeing the Body (2020), which blends poetry and photography.

Their relationship is described as a meeting of minds and muses, with Griffiths complementing Rushdie’s literary genius.


Rushdie has expressed deep affection for both sons and values his role as a father.


Salman Rushdie was in a romantic relationship with fellow Booker Prize-winning author Kiran Desai. Their relationship became public in the late 2000s and was widely covered in literary and media circles.


While the two never married, they were known to have shared a close and intellectually rich partnership. Desai, who is the daughter of acclaimed writer Anita Desai, has spoken admiringly of Rushdie’s influence on her work, and they were often seen together at literary events. Rushdie, in turn, praised Desai’s writing, including her Booker-winning novel The Inheritance of Loss.


Their relationship eventually ended, but both have continued to maintain prominent literary careers. Desai was recently in the spotlight again for her long-awaited novel The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny, which has been longlisted for the 2025 Booker Prize.


Salman Rushdie has written and published over 25 books, spanning novels, short stories, essays, memoirs, and plays. Here's a breakdown of his major works by category, based on the most up-to-date bibliographic sources .


 

Novels

Grimus (1975)

Midnight’s Children (1981)

Shame (1983)

The Satanic Verses (1988)

The Moor’s Last Sigh (1995)

The Ground Beneath Her Feet (1999)

Fury (2001)

Shalimar the Clown (2005)

The Enchantress of Florence (2008)

Two Years Eight Months and Twenty-Eight Nights (2015)

The Golden House (2017)

Quichotte (2019)

Victory City (2023)


Short Stories / Novellas

The Prophet’s Hair (1981)

The Firebird’s Nest (1997)

Home (2017)


Children’s Books

Haroun and the Sea of Stories (1990)

Luka and the Fire of Life (2010)


Non-Fiction

The Jaguar Smile: A Nicaraguan Journey (1987)

Imaginary Homelands: Essays and Criticism 1981–1991 (1991)

Step Across This Line: Collected Non-fiction 1992–2002 (2002)

Joseph Anton: A Memoir (2012)

Languages of Truth: Essays 2003–2020 (2021)

Knife: Meditations After an Attempted Murder (2024)


Plays

Salman Rushdie’s Midnight’s Children (2009)

Salman Rushdie was born on 19 June 1947 in Bombay, which is now known as Mumbai, India. He was born into a Kashmiri Muslim family, the son of Anis Ahmed Rushdie, a Cambridge-educated lawyer-turned-businessman, and Negin Bhatt, a teacher


Salman Rushdie has lived in several countries over the course of his life, reflecting both his personal journey and the global themes of his writing:


India (1947–1964)

Born on 19 June 1947 in Bombay (now Mumbai), British India, into a Kashmiri Muslim family.

He attended the Cathedral and John Connon School in South Bombay 1.

🇬🇧 United Kingdom (1964–2000)

Moved to England in 1964 to attend Rugby School in Warwickshire.

Later studied at King’s College, University of Cambridge, where he earned a degree in history.

Lived in London for many years, where he began his writing career.

After the publication of The Satanic Verses in 1988 and the subsequent fatwa, he spent nearly a decade in hiding under British government protection 1.

🇺🇸 United States (2000–Present)

Since 2000, Rushdie has lived primarily in the United States.

He has held academic positions at Emory University and New York University, where he was named Distinguished Writer in Residence at the Arthur L. Carter Journalism Institute in 2015.

He became a U.S. citizen in 2016 .

Salman Rushdie has been at the centre of several major controversies, most notably surrounding his 1988 novel The Satanic Verses.


Publication and Backlash: The Satanic Verses was published in 1988 and quickly drew criticism from many in the Muslim world for its perceived blasphemous references to Islam and the Prophet Muhammad 1.


Fatwa Issued: In 1989, Iran’s Supreme Leader, Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini, issued a fatwa calling for Rushdie’s death. This led to:


Violent protests and riots in several countries.

Bans on the book in multiple nations.

Attacks on translators and publishers, including the murder of Japanese translator Hitoshi Igarashi and the stabbing of Italian translator Ettore Capriolo 1.

Rushdie in Hiding: He lived under British police protection for nearly a decade, moving between safe houses and using aliases.


Ongoing Threats: Although Iran’s government distanced itself from the fatwa in 1998, it was never officially revoked. In 2019, Iran’s Supreme Leader reaffirmed the fatwa as “solid and irrevocable” 1.


2022 Attack: Rushdie was stabbed multiple times during a public lecture in New York. He survived but sustained serious injuries, including the loss of sight in one eye 2.


Other Literary and Political Controversies

Midnight’s Children (1981): Angered Indian Prime Minister Indira Gandhi, who sued Rushdie for defamation. The case was settled out of court, and a line was removed from later editions.

Shame (1983): A political allegory that criticised Pakistan’s military and political elite, particularly Zulfikar Ali Bhutto and Zia-ul-Haq. It was banned in Pakistan.

Political Commentary: Rushdie has been outspoken on issues such as religious extremism, censorship, and freedom of speech. His critiques of both Western and Islamic governments have drawn both praise and condemnation 3.

No Criminal Allegations or Legal Charges

There are no known criminal allegations or legal charges against Salman Rushdie. The controversies surrounding him are primarily ideological, religious, and political, not legal or personal in nature.


On 12 August 2022, Salman Rushdie was brutally attacked while preparing to speak at the Chautauqua Institution in New York. The assailant, Hadi Matar, a 24-year-old from New Jersey, rushed the stage and stabbed Rushdie multiple times, causing life-threatening injuries including the loss of his right eye and partial use of his left hand 

Hadi Matar was reportedly influenced by Islamic extremism and the 1989 fatwa issued by Iran’s Supreme Leader Ayatollah Khomeini, which called for Rushdie’s death following the publication of The Satanic Verses

Matar pleaded not guilty to charges of second-degree attempted murder and assault, but was ultimately convicted and sentenced to 25 years in prison in May 2025 

Rushdie’s 2024 memoir, Knife: Meditations After an Attempted Murder, is a deeply personal and reflective account of the attack and its aftermath:

He recounts the 27-second assault and the surreal experience of lying in a pool of his own blood, believing he was dying.

The book explores his physical and emotional recovery, including the vital role played by his wife, Eliza Griffiths, whom he calls the “heroine” of his story.

Rushdie initially resisted writing about the incident but later saw the memoir as a way of “taking the power back” and reclaiming his narrative.

He describes Knife as both a literal and metaphorical weapon:

“It’s about a knife, but it also kind of is a knife... I don’t have any guns or knives, so this is the tool I use. And I thought I would use it to fight back.”

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Philip Abraham Sir:

"Salman Rushdie,  about his creativity and playfulness with words, examples of which are 


"Salman Rushdie playfully reimagined Shakespearean titles in the style of Robert Ludlum, a popular thriller writer. He transformed Hamlet into The Elsinore Vacillation, Macbeth into The Dunsinane Reforestation, The Merchant of Venice into The Rialto Sanction, and Othello into The Kerchief Implication. These titles were noted for their Ludlum-esque formula of a definite article followed by a proper name and an abstract noun, suggesting a conspiracy or intrigue. 

Here's a more detailed breakdown: 

The Challenge:

The game involved taking classic Shakespeare plays and giving them Ludlum-style titles.

Rushdie's Responses:

Hamlet: The Elsinore Vacillation

Macbeth: The Dunsinane Reforestation

The Merchant of Venice: The Rialto Sanction

Othello: The Kerchief Implication

Ludlum's Style:

Ludlum's titles often feature a definite article ("The," "A"), a proper noun (place name, character name), and an abstract noun suggesting a plot or scheme.

Beyond the Game:

Rushdie's exercise demonstrates his familiarity with both Shakespeare and the thriller genre, highlighting his ability to play with language and literary styles.


 "Rushdie and Hitchens also played a game whereby you change one word of a famous book – rendering it more pedestrian than epic.  The examples they reeled off:


–         A Farewell to Weapons


–         Laugtherhouse Five


–         Toby Dick


–         Blueberry Finn


And so on 🙂

 He also spoke about two friends Martin Amis and Christopher Hitchens.


Harish said:

"I remembered a particular article about the downfall of Indian-English writing brought by mediocre writers like Shobha De and Rushdie. But then a brilliant defense of the writer by Kundera in a book of his made me pick up Midnight's Children, which was my second favourite novel at that time. 


While migration is the most important of his topics, I talked about two other important and recurring themes in Rushdie's work- the importance of the narrator and the power of stories. In most of his fiction, it is important to seek whose narrating voice is speaking to us to understand the narrative. For example in Victory City, the hidden narrator may be one or more scholars who re-tell the old manuscript in  today's voice and sensibilities.


Also while Rushdie extensively uses recorded and documented narratives like history, religious texts, etc., he superimposes fictional narratives in them to challenge and mock their linearity. He questions the causality assigned to history by authoritative historians and demonstrates how a subjective, fragmented and non-linear history is nearer to reality. While we believe that an aural discourse could corrupt the narratives, he points out the reason why any narrative that's set in stone and not ready to modify itself with time has more chances to get corrupted."

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Victory City by Rushdie has been my favourite book in the last year...the epic style was superb and the setting in Vijayanagar..

For me it has always been Moors Lash Sigh


Dilbert

 Dilbert is an American comic strip and his one liners are famous. They are all classic!



*Here are few Dilbert's one liners:*


1. I say no to alcohol, it just doesn't listen. 

2. Marriage is one of the chief causes of divorce.

3. Work is fine if it doesn't take too much of your time. 

4. When everything comes your way you're in the wrong lane. 

5. The light at the end of the tunnel may be an incoming train..

6. Born free, taxed to death. 

7. Everyone has a photographic memory, some just don't have film.

8. Life is unsure; always eat your dessert first. 

9. Smile, it makes people wonder what you are thinking. 

10. If you keep your feet firmly on the ground, you'll have trouble putting on your pants. 

11. It's not hard to meet expenses, they are everywhere.

12. I love being a writer... what I can't stand is the paperwork. 

13. A printer consists of 3 main parts: the case, the jammed paper tray and the blinking red light.

14. The guy who invented the first wheel was an idiot. The guy who invented the other three was the genius.

15. The trouble with being punctual is that no one is there to appreciate it.

16. In a country of free speech, why are there phone bills? 

17. If you cannot change your mind, are you sure you have one? 

18. If you can't convince them, confuse them. 

19. It's not the fall that kills you. It's the sudden stop at the end. 

20. I couldn't repair your brakes, so I made your horn louder. 

21. Hot glass looks same as cold glass - Cunino's Law of Burnt Fingers

22. The cigarette does the smoking you are just the sucker. 

23. Someday is not a day of the week

24. Whenever I find the key to success, someone changes the lock.

25. To Err is human, to forgive is not a Company policy.

26. The road to success ....is always under construction. 

27. Alcohol doesn't solve any problems, but if you think again, neither does Tea, Coffee or Milk. 

28. In order to get a Loan, you first need to prove that you don't need it.