Sunday, August 13, 2006

M's


Some smile, some admire, some smirk, some raise quizzical eyebrows-all at one issue. Worse still some are bashed up, some are burt alive, some are buried alive, when it comes to intercaste and/or interreligious marriage.

Some say extra marital affair is wrong, marrying a married person is wrong…,For a modern, young, NRI, full of dreams, and green card, it would be a dilemma, when he is asked to marry his sister-in-law, when brother is dead, if otherwise, he looks at her, in any other way, it is wrong, for she is in the position of a mother.

Why did Krishna leave Radha?
Why did Krishna make Rukumini elope?
Why did Kansa put his sis & BIL in the same prison, when he knew that their son would kill him?
How did Virgin Mary give birth to Jesus?

When its time, any thing can happen? Impossible itself says I’m possible…we are no one to decide, what is wrong, and what is right. When we point a finger at others, three fingers are pointing at us.

Love is blind, when someone is in love, they will not see or understand anything…..

At times the things that give us pain, others cherish, while that give us pleasure, others are hurt….But then, what to choose??

Marriages are made in heaven….and elsewhere…..Adults have the right to choose who they want to live with…One needs to understand that ‘honour’ killings should not exist in a civilized society. It’s a shame that it is still going on…It is sad that parents take it as a personal vengeance when their own children marry outside of their caste or religion. What is more important to a parent? A child’s happiness or a false pride and honour?? But then what to do, they think of the society, where they live in.

One thing common in most human being is they find pleasure to see others suffering….They don’t want to see other rise…


When once, I told to a friends mother ‘Mothers are crazy…’ MOTHERS ARE NEVER CRAZY. By crazy, I meant extremely passionate, but they took it other way out……….When I said, Inshallaha (which means God willing to me) Reena told, …I don’t belive in that…Infact, there is only one perfect child and every mother has it..Come what may, they will understand, and forgive their children, but not others…..Doesn’t one become to some extend, a little selfish, once they become a mother…Anyways...No care and love like that of theirs...

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

you are right .for every mother her own child is the best one .no doubht .you will realise it when you get married and become mother .i pray the almighty sincerely that this day comes at the earliest .my prayers are always answered .so let me start from today

Anonymous said...

"some say that extra martial relationship is wrong ?-----what do you mean .you mean to say it is right .dont you think it affects somebody else s life .i was shocked to read this .
inter caste marriages affect an innocent child when she grows up for no fault of hers .please tell me whether you agree or not

Anonymous said...

Some say extra marital affair is wrong, marrying a married person is wrong…,

When its time, any thing can happen?

Love is blind, when someone is in love, they will not see or understand anything…..

these lines shocked me and left me sleepless. think of a girl like you, i bet there are many others like u , who feel love towards a married man is justified, even if it means trampling on some one else(the man,s wife and children.) is there anyone who feels stronly about this issue?

Anonymous said...

i fully agree .why go and spoil a married man s life whn there are so many bachelors on earth .it is a curse no dought for some

me ra said...

Thanks, Could you put your name too, it would be great if yes.

ചാത്തങ്കേരിലെ കുട്ടിച്ചാത്തന്‍. said...

EMA is not wrong, provided if you can convince you inner concoius. That's what I have learned. This is true in any relationship.

When I read some rape cases in News papaer, I wonder how they gets the courage........??!!