Friday, December 31, 2021

Fresh water for flowers


We seldom realise, that the greatest gift of life is life itself - life of ourself, and our loved ones around. 

Well this might be the book review I just read and the book I want to read in 2022, but thought of leaving it, as a reminder for next year. 

Have been Thankful always - to mother, mother nature - loved waking up to sunlight, breath and a glass of water, and people around. 

Read in Bindu Manoj's post: " It is a tale that is so well told, of life, death, betrayal, deep friendships, and finding happiness in the most unlikely places. Just when you think you have seen through all the twists and turns, comes the most unexpected one of all....."

That is exactly how the year has been, life is to many of us....So can't wait to grab this as the new year begin. ........

We always need fresh water for flowers........For being fresh in life. 

A year of reads 2021




 The last of 2021 was Great classic Collections by Rabindranath Tagore  -  a collection of 18 beautiful stories, and favourite among them where, The Jewel - where a wife so obsessed with her jewel, do not share it with her husband, and what people say, and what actually could have happened; and Kabuliwala - how love of a father for his daughter is irrespective of where he is. 

Well that was the 112th. Planned to read 120, was short of 8 books for the target. But an amazing year of wonderful books. Difficult to name top 10 as each were amazing - may be there are top 25 books. 

So many variety - and interesting, 75% of the books from the shelf to be read in 2021 is still untouched. Of the 20 here, read only 5, if at all, I had flipped the pages of the others and written the review, I would have reached my target. Books that I carry over to the next year are:

  1. Fatherland by Robert Harris
  2. Love in times of Cholera and One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia
  3. My Name is Red by Orhan Pamuk
  4. Seveneves by Neal Stephenson
  5. The Elephant Catchers by Subrotho Bagchi
  6. Work Rules by Laszlo Bock
  7. The Mahabharata Quest by Christopher C Doyle
  8. The Power of your Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy
  9. Great Works of Franz Kafka - Amercia, The Castle, The Trial.
  10. There is no love in Wall street - Ira Trivedi
  11. Man the Unknown by Dr Alexis Carrel.

Book list for 2022 are:
  1. Fresh water for flowers by Valerie Perrin
  2. In The Dream House: A Memoir by Carmen Maria Machado
  3. And some purchases from Mumbai

Some people say you tube is better than reading, and some ask me they want to get back to reading, and how that can be done. I found the below tips from David Nair useful:

  1. Start with your favorite subject  - if you love sports, read biography of your favorite sport person. If you like science/psychology or anything else, there are books for every type.
  2. Set aside time for reading - Before you start your day, before bed, or after lunch. Set aside 10 minutes a day. Start now.
  3. Carry your book around - You carry your mobile and things you need without second though, make this a nautre.
  4. Target pages per day - Most self development books are of 200 pages. If you read 10 pages a day, you would be able to finish 18 books a year. 
  5. Cut of your useless activities - Do you scroll through your social network on mobile or OTT many times a day? If you do, you still have time.
  6. Use a Visual cue - Sticky notes, circling calender, simple excel sheet - it could be anything, a visual reminder help you track your habit.
  7. Start with a modest target - Start small, keep going, you will turn into a reading machine in no time.
Most successful people acknowledge how their reading habits added value throughout their careers. Cultivating the habit of reading is'nt that hard. All you need is the will to begin. 

2021 The year gone by and respire for 2022

 A lot has been written for 2021, and looking forward for 2022 to be a year of respire.


10 things to leave in 2021 has been aptly mentioned below:

  • Covid, diseases and death of loved ones
  • Excuses
  • Self-doubt
  • Toxic habits
  • Playing small
  • Procrastination
  • Negative Self Talk
  • Swallowing your truth
  • Trying to please everyone
  • Staying in your comfort zone


For me it has been reaching the finishing point but not crossing it - Good or bad. Let's take this blog itself, had plans to read 10 books a month and write review - of all which would have added to 120, but had to stop at 112, and had plans to write at least one post a day, so the total had to be 365, but stopped t 359. 

May the trend be: Push up, Sit up, curl up , but not give up.

In 2022, as Ratan Tata's message to his trust:



We all need to think big, think of doing things, not in small increments, not in small deltas, but seemingly impossible things. Nothing is impossible if you really set out to accomplish things and if you act boldly. 

As you grow you change, as you change you grow. 



May 2022 bring new aspirations, endless possibilities, and innumerable opportunities in your life. Dream big, and let it happen. Am looking forward for healthy times, where people can venture out free without fear of viruses; with peace, joy and happiness, with loved ones around. 

Ahmedabad Memories....

Reaching Ahmedabad was the best part of the trip and dream come true moment for my nephew as we travelled from Mumbai in the double decker train and for us too as our much awaited reunion was being materialised.



 We reached there at night, roads were wide, and all excited for the reunion, with birthday decorations, which made Neil grin.  Biju arranged for our cab and was waiting for us down as we reached home. 




Rashmi gave us a great surprise.  She kept warning about the cold there, so we were prepared, and my sis and hubby expected it to be so much, that they did not feel cold. 

Next day we went to 

  • Jain temple


  • Adlej - Step well and 


  • Nehru Science Centre,


 






Had cake cutting after returning home. Not just the boys we were excited , Neil loved the gifts.


 

I completed the rest of my vacation in Ahmedabad, had quality time with Rashmi and Kids, loved to know all the books they read and painting they make. While others went to Vadodara, visiting rope temple,




Lakshmi Vilas museum, 



the SOU - Statue of Unity. 








We had loads of shopping and Nautanki by sisters, which mom called Kodamattam. This was all done at the SoBo centre of South Bopal, the most happening place, the centre of action, housing all the needs from restaurants, clinics, clothing, bakery, you name it and they have it. Just opposite was the Gujrat exhibition and Circus. 





 The festive atmosphere was hijacked by the sad news of the untimely demise of Anusha - Ramesh's wife, which was beyond belief. Had plans to visit Monika - our Padmini Kolhapuri, and her lovely daughters - wanted to watch their dance, and visit Akshardam if possible. Nothing worked, but did pray for Ramesh and family at the Iskon temple. 








End of the Year was with a dream come true of the much awaited reunion at Ahmedabad with yummy food and lovely people. And then we return, spending the Sun set and Sun rise of the old and the new year at the airport. 






Elephanta Caves

Finally the wait is over. This is one place I wanted to be since childhood. 





It was too hot, when we were in boat to the Elephanta Caves which is 11 kms northwest of Apollo Bunder the departure point for ferries, near Gateway of India. About 1050 hectors, 173 meters above sea level, with a cost line of 7 kms, it consists of two hillocks separated by a narrow valley with three small villages viz. Raj Bunder, Shet Bunder and Mora Bunder with roughly around 1600 inhabitants. 






Not sure, when this first came into existence, there are various schools of thoughts about it. It is believed to be build in between 5th and 7th Century AD - around the times of Pallava, Chalukyas and Harshas. This was earlier known as 'Sripuri' and 'Gharapuri' as well. 


It is believed that different dynasties held their sway over this island such as the Mauryas of Konkan, Trikutakas of Badami, Silaharas, Rashtrakutas, Kalyani Chalukyas, Yadavas of Devagiri and later by the Muslim rulers of Ahmedabad, the Maratha, the Portugues and the British. There was a Clossal stone Elephant there from which the Island received its name. 


At the entrance of the first Cave. Here in the sculptors you can see the three aspects of Shiva -  - that of creation, preservation and destruction - combined. The Mahesh Murthi represents Mahadeva, with Aghora or Bhairava on the left side and Vamadeva or Uma on the right, and the fourth face which is not visible is said to represent Sadyajata or Nandin. The main cave at the Elephanta is a large excavation, supported by rows of massive pillars which rest on the square base and have fluted shafts with bulging cushion capitals. It faces north, with two porches to the East and West of it. Unfortunately, there has been lot of damages done to the sculptures. You will find Mahayogi Shiva, Natraj Shiva,  


Then we have Gangadhar- shiva, Ardhanarishwar Shiva , Vishnu riding Garuda. Then we have the Shiva Shrine with the Shiva Linga. 

This is Kalyanasundara Murti, showing Shiva's marriage to Parvati. 

From here we move to the West Court by a flight of stairs. On the North side is the figure of Shiva seated on a lotus resembling yogi, then there is Shiva performing the Thandava dance, the Ravananugraha Murti, Uma-Mahesha Murti where Shiva-Parvati is seen to be playing a game of dice.






On the East Court is the Shiva Shrine in the middle, the Dvarapala to the left, the four handed dvarapala to the right, Ganesha, Karthikeya, and mother Goddesses.

Beside these three main caves, there are other smaller or minor caves. Entry is restricted, only to be seen from far, because it was told, rocks fall inside and might cause damage. 



One need to be careful while walking around, as damage can come in any form. Monkeys, took away, the bottle of cold drink that Neil was carrying. 


 The Cavers are a quarter mile off, you have to climb 120 steps to reach the caves temples. There are shops selling beautiful items along side, with sugarcane juice , food items etc. An Archaeological officer is available near the entrance to the cave. This monument is under the protected control of superintending Archaeologist, Archaeological survey of India, Mini Circle, Mumbai now. Coming under "World Heritage" list of the UNESCO due to the outstanding universal value representing a masterpiece of human creative genius and bear a unique and exceptional testimony to a cultural tradition. 

Open on all days except Monday form 9 am to 5 pm there is a proposed new ropeway form Mumbai to the caves, which is expected to take you  there in 15 minutes.