Thursday, March 23, 2023

Women, goddess and India

We all need woman in our lives,

Through out the day in different ways,

24 hours.

Vidya - Education

Lakshmi- Wealth

Shanthi - Peace

Usha to Sandhya - Annapurna

Nisha - Nindya and Sapna

Gayathri Mantra, Gita, Pooja, Arti, Vandana - we are still with women when we pray

When in dark we want Jyothi

When lonely - Prema, Sneha

In War - Victory - Jaya

Sympathy , Love - Karuna, Mamta

Forgiveness - Shama

Hope you understood my Bhavana. 

Basically it is a women's world. 

These five goddesses represent the whole universe

No wonder the symbol of a goddess, shakti in Sanskrit—meaning empowerment and existing in the libidinal zone of the body—is the yoni, or vagina.

Here are five goddesses that, put together, represent the whole universe. It doesn’t matter if they’re real, mythological, literary metaphors or imaginary environmental patrons. They’re the original superheroes: semi-naked ladies that don’t give a damn, fight demons and dragons, and protect the planet. And all this by caring, listening to their bodies and following their instinct.

Parvati: Goddess of Fertility

Parvati is the goddess of masculine energy, while her husband, Shiva is the god of feminine energy. Shiva, the blue-ish coloured god who looks like an Indian Medusa, with a pile of snakes coiled on top of his head, is often depicted by a lingam or penis, while Parvati is represented by the yoni.

Together, their union gave birth to the half-man, half-elephant, Ganesh, the god of wisdom. Parvati is depicted fair, bare-breasted and dancing, the final—and emancipated—incarnation of goddesses before her that suffered miserable fates in the face of men.

Parvati is also the daughter of the mountains: elusive as the antelope and changing as the moon. She is that lumber girl that gets down in the bushes, and afterwards, grabs your underwear and runs.

Kali: Goddess of Time

Kali, meaning both black and time, is the fiercest of them all. She is the most misunderstood goddess who kills every demon with her 18 arms, and has a raging temper with her swords and daggers. She can create and destroy with her might, and often needs help harnessing her intensity.

Kali is the coloured woman who is doubly oppressed, but her subtlety lies in the fact that she is not simply a destroyer; she is instead the triumph over death, the woman that has her self-defences down. She is the woman who knows that she’s got to survive in order to win the battle.

At a more spiritual level, she does not symbolise, as many believe, the void, but rather the eternal darkness that surrounds us and into which we meditate. She is the violence that can be softened, the hardness that can be viewed as fear and respected. She is, in a way, the goddess of loss, accumulating power by slaying it.

Saraswati: Goddess of Knowledge

Saraswati means pure water, which comes from her flowing elegance and the ink of the written word. She is the patron saint of science, music and the arts. She played the veena, a Hindustani harp, and appears as the celestial symphony when the universe began.

Today maybe she would play the synth, have an all-girl, post-punk band named, ‘The Lightening Feels’. She is surrounded by books and is said to be the impulse for the creation of one of India’s most important spiritual texts, the Rigveda. She is eloquent, infinitely creative and wise. If you’re studying, reading, writing, singing, free-styling or selling flowers, you should probably look to her for inspiration. And wear yellow, that’s her vibe.

Green Tara: The Female Buddha

At some point in Tara’s long and incessant path towards enlightenment, she was advised to pray to be reborn as a male so she could attain her goal. The very stubborn, tantric deity refused. Instead, she pledged to be born as a woman in every one of her ten thousand or so reincarnations.

Tara is the goddess that transforms the mundane experience of two bodies in pleasure into a heightened experience of total transcendence. In other words, she is ace at converting your taxes into a life’s balance sheet. But here’s her ultimate strength: she doesn’t take her path terribly seriously.

She’s full of play: she does yoga in the morning, masturbates and gets on with her day. In the evening, with whatever gender her partner may be (she often emits rainbows), she elicits a multiple orgasm. Whether she does it with a temporary lover or a long-time love, she is independent without being selfish. She laughs a lot.

Aditi: The Goddess of Limitlessness

Aditi, meaning light, is a cosmic mother. She is the goddess of the 12 astrological signs and is associated with the infinite space—both of the sky and the soul (she flies through the clouds on a rooster).

She is the past, present and future collapsed into one. She is the first element, the origin of everything, the creator of the earth. She is not the source of light of the stars or the sun or the moon, but the eternal luminosity that sustains this light.

Aditi is the pregnant girl at Burning Man wearing blue topaz and sipping tulsi tea. She makes infinity signs with her bicycle and makes the central labyrinth around which the whole town gathers at night. If you’re fighting for free speech, vegetarianism or children’s rights, pray to her.

Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Drishti

Drishti is a 1990 movie Directed by Govind Nihalani with Dimple Kapadia, Shekhar Kapur, Mita Vashisht, Vijay Kashyap.



Happily married for eight years, Mumbai-based couple Sandhya and Nikhil live an affluent lifestyle in an urban, intellectual milieu along with their daughter Rashmi. Originally coming from middle-class families, the couple has managed to rise in their professional lives through merit and hard work: Sandhya is an editor in a publishing house and Nikhil is a research scientist. On their eighth wedding anniversary, a friend of theirs brings his nephew Rahul, who is a classical singer. Sandhya soon develops an attraction towards Rahul and, despite loving her husband, embroils in an affair with him, which lasts a couple of months. Her friend Prabha is the only one who Sandhya confides in and let's know of the affair. Around this time, Sandhya finds out she is pregnant but they abort the child. About a year later, it is Nikhil who notifies Sandhya of his intention to leave, having fallen in love with a much younger Vrinda, his lab assistant. Sandhya is shattered by his decision, and although she pleads for him not to leave, they eventually separate. Four years after the divorce, Nikhil realizes he has never really loved Vrinda and wants to re-enter Sandhya's life. When he finally meets Sandhya after years of separation, wanting to reunite, in a very candid move, she decides to confess to him her affair with Rahul.

The love for rain, and talk on the beach will stay in your mind long after the movie. Then and now, what women go through is the same. 

Monday, March 20, 2023

MyGoals

 I Finance : 

Income, Savings, expenses, investments, MSPI. Money - Make, Maintain and Manifest. Have control of the 5 bank accounts. Have constant income flowing through my salary as well as from my profession. 

1. Job/Career Business: Responsible employee, spread positivity and skill, visualise the route for change; would like to have a balance of job and profession of own. 

1. Want to be a responsible employee, spread positivity, and have continuous monthly flow of salary.

2. Help people around be happy, build a legacy, but spreading out happiness around. 

II. Health & Fitness : Food, Exercise - Chemical, Physical,  Emotional balance.

1. Physical health: Reduce my weight, and have control over food intake – reduce unnecessary junk food. Eat on time and regularly, exercise daily, so I can reduce my weight from 80 kgs, to 65 kgs in 3 years, and bring it to 70 Kgs in 3 months. Start walking/running regularly. Do Surya Namaskar daily. 

2. Mental Health: Do SAVERS on a regular basis – at least 6 days a week. 

3. Chemical Health: Take my calcium and thyroid medicine daily and have control on my sugar, pressure, cholesterol, with no medicines for it. 

4. Hobby: Read, Travel, Write, Gardening – Complete 3 books self-authored this year, share with as many people as possible, what is read, and read at least 200 books this year.  Plant trees and plants. Visit at least three new places. Live in the present, no worry about the past or future. Take action. 

III. Relationship : How With others - Social, Family, Partner,

1. Personal : Needs - Peaceful Place, People, Prayer

2. CSR: Students, Climate, Help; trees. 

3. Others : Be an excellent daughter, sister, wife, in law, and bring the extended families together. Find time for my family members and friends to support them. See God in everything and everyone. 

Goddess By Design - Awakening

  Holy Trinity. - Desire+Amazingness+Gratitude - You start to activate all laws.

  • Law of Attraction - Have Clarity - Strong Desire list - Put order in the world (Ask-Believe-Receive) - Do - Exhaust
  • Law of Vibration - Own your awesomeness - Fall in love with you - Be
  • Law of Resonance - Ability to keep going back to gratitude. - Have
Temple of learning - Your own darling Goddess, need to be awakened by yourself. 

See beauty within - and that is going to be the Energy of the person. Sauban - See yourself first. 

We need mutual and respectful partner, to have a wonderful life.  We can create our own commandment, to know what each should do and both are respected for that. Don't be a confused women. 

Our goddess within , in us will be our observer, and help us be better. 

Take the remote control of your life in your hands. When someone makes you angry, keep smiling. 

Create safe space (SS) to every other women. Take 100% responsibility to all that you do. Be in control in all that you do. 

Lesser distractions the better. Get the Goddess energy into us. Angels are watching, protecting guiding. 

What an awakened women look like - Goddess vs. Ordinary. - 

Design your own personality and make a difference
Keep aside perfectionisam and work towards progress.

Be Selfish to be selfless. 






Awakened and create our Goddesses 

Build your Goddess - What happened, when we arrived at this space.

Like a phoenix - when you hit the rock bottom, you will rise the most.

If you have a reason - look for the needs of someone - Lord Lakshmi will help you.

Power. 

Adishakti - balancing feminine and masculine. 

Bring back self care


Meditate to invite and invoke her

Sheet 1: Owning:

We can have it all - but not at the same time. And that is the problem. We have a price to pay for everyting.

As you evolve, your goddess will evolve every year

Naming ceremony - Give your goddess a name - Courages Meera

My highest self is.......

Goddess pledge : 'I surrender, to now creating her, by being her as much as I can. As we merge together, my awakening will be complete and authentic. I commit to this journey of choosing her daily.'

Start to choose her. Start to feel your power, start to see her getting into you.

Keep your head held high. 

Feel something different now - experience this version of you.

Resistance - Shadow goddess

Bigger your dream, bigger will be your goddess.

Stop rejecting the shadow side. Nobody is successful without facing them.  

The goddess shadow sheet.

My good ness manifesto - ' I choose to'

Three things to do:

  • complete manifesto             
  • Take pic of goddess and shadow goddess
  • Relook at sheet and complete before next session
'We are all the same at soul level - To feel that we are all same is higher than feeling we are all the same.'

We are being yourself, but for someone, it will be toxic. People can judge you for no reason of yours. 

Bless them and move on. More higher you are, more disliked you will be it is okay, for all to not like you. 

Have conversation of what you want, rather than shouting or being negative


There is lot in good and bad and rich and poor.

Money land in the people who want

Or destiny is created, but we can upoad a new destiny, like new software. 

We are north star - finding our Goddess.

Enlightment - 11 goddess in 77 days.

Creating

Understand the 4 Avatars to become the Goddess.

What is the avatar “QUEEN”?
​What is the avatar “ANGEL”?
​What is the avatar “DIVINE FEMININE”?
​What is the avatar “WARRIOR”?​
Healing

The soothing strategy to heal yourself

How to lose weight
​How to build & grow your income stream
​How to attract the right person
​How to trust or forgive someone
Aligning

How to align with your goals & dreams
Create your Future by Design​
​Get complete clarity on who you want to become
​Learn to balance between different Avatars
Embodying

How to get your goals and dream into reality
How to set effective Rituals and Routines
​The modern world Tools & Techniques for success
​How to start living the life of your dreams confidently

Welcome - Saubana - African term 'I see you' - Your beauty, amazingness - You can add your own words. 

We have stopped being seen. Start encouraged being seen. Open the portals to receive. 

Anything you decide to do in life:

1) Set intention -


Work with emotions after lunch. 

What other people think do not matter, how we feel inside is what matters. 

Next 90 days - live in your tunnel - stop looking for appreciation from others. You keep wanting it, you get dischouraged and dont do again - dont be that. Tunnel life is not we like to be. We want instant gratification. 

Placibo effect - Dr. Jo dekonsa - what we focus on increase.

Activity - see the power of mind - Put your hands together and notice which hand is longer?

Look at your shorter hand and say loudly , clearly and repeatedly - 'Grow longer'. Now look at the same hand and say - 'go back to normal'. 

Power of the mind - what is possible. 

Leave in the energy of positivity.

Develop your new mindset - and things will be as you want. Know the power of your mind. Whatever you are going to tell your mind, your self will become like that. 

Job of our mind:
  • To protect us - mechanism in our mind to remain safe. 
  • To be able to make sense of what is happening around us and give it meaning - We experience things and give meaning to what is happening around us - and it start to give evidence. Reticular activating system - start seeing what we want to see. Our mind is for ever playing with us. We can create new meaning. - What are the things you fell you have given a wrong meaning?

  1. Anger & Hurt - 
  2. Guilt & Shame -  is what you feel,
  3. Doubt & Fear - there are good problems and bad problems
  4. Perfectionism & Procrastination - What is important is progress - If you do 70% it is enough. It's hard till it is easy. 
  5. Worry & Anxiety - Deeper our relationship with divine, better our relationship worry - with diving fait he relaxes not bothering what would happen
  6. Needy & unappreciated - 
  7. Bitter & resentful - When we do not have the courage to say No. 
  8. Greed & insecurity - Two seas in Jordan - both get water from same Jordan river, one has life, other do not. Difference - Dead sea do not have an outflow. Anytime we do not have outflow - we become dead. 
  9. Overwhelm & Betrayal - High achiever - remove from brain to paper. 
Apology accepted, Forgiveness given, Trust denied. 
And then you would be upset. 

Send blessing to those who are jealous of you - it means many people want to be in place of us. 


Embodying - tomorrow - 8 to 10 step to keep the Goddess energy. 

Don't pretend to be happy - choose to be happy. Own and accept your emotions.

Every single day - remember your future, untill your future becomes your present. 

Choose to do things, that will keep you positive. 


God help those who help themselves. 

Don't pretend to be happy - choose to be happy. Own and accept your emotions.

Every single day - remember your future, untill your future becomes your present. 

Choose to do things, that will keep you positive. 

21+7+21+7+21=77 days

God help those who help themselves. 

Feminine - Being; Masculine - 


annotations/Declarations/

Write Top 10 Goals, every single day. 

Wishes turn into goal, when you schedul. 

Carry & Co - diary. 

Daily when you wake up - Jumping Jack. - Pump your heart up.

Feminine - Being; Masculine - 


annotations/Declarations/

Write Top 10 Goals, every single day. 

Wishes turn into goal, when you schedul. 

Carry & Co - diary. 


Daily when you wake up - Jumping Jack. - Pump your heart up.

11 Weeks 77 Days - Transformation to Becoming

 Knowledge Goddess -) Awakened Goddess - ) Enlightened Goddess
Day 0 -) 7 days -) 77 days.

Believer -) Decider -) Willing

Intelligent Decision Making

Any one who no longer has HOPE for their future life! This is not for them.

Change your Habits -) thoughts and enviroment have to be changed - Atomic Habit. 

Just Busy - Doing Karma, for someone elses Dharma - Own your Dharma.

Kali is mother energy


Tuesday, March 14, 2023

Oscar: Academy Awards

Great times.  We had three nominations two won. It shows how important winning is, and it needs lot of hard work.  In a historic first, India had three nominations at the Oscars. Shaunak Sen’s All That Breathes was among five films competing in the long documentary format, but lost out to Daniel Roher’s Navalny, a profile of Russian dissident Alexei Navalny.


Come what may there would be people to troll and make fun of you. It's up to each of us to choose our reactions. 
 


It was the power of two this time, two awards, for two each...


TheElephantWhisperers, helmed by Kartiki Gonsalves, follows a couple, Bomman and Bellie, who adopt two orphaned elephants in Tamil Nadu's Mudumalai Tiger Reserve. 




To the two women who brought home the Oscars for the ElephantWhisperers, here, take a bow! Congratulations to Kartiki Gonsalves and Guneet Monga on this big proud win for India!

In her acceptance speech, Gonsalves, who was flanked by Guneet Monga, said, “I stand here today to speak for the sacred bond between us and our natural world, for the respect of indigenous communities, and empathy towards other living beings we share space with and finally, for coexistence.” She dedicated her award to “my mother and India”.

While presenting Naatu Naatu’s performance at the ceremony, Deepika said, “An irresistibly catchy chorus, electrifying beats, and killer dance moves to match have made this next song a global sensation. It plays during a pivotal scene in RRR, a movie about the friendship between real-life Indian revolutionaries, Alluri Sitarama Raju and Komaram Bheem. In addition to being sung in Telugu and illustrating the film’s anti-colonialist themes, it’s also a total banger. It’s got millions of views on YouTube and Tiktok, has audiences dancing in movie theatres all around the world, and is also the first song ever from an Indian production to be nominated for an Oscar. Do you know Naatu? Because if you don't, then you are about to." The electrifying performance got a standing ovation from the audience.

And Amul remains the best:




Saturday, March 11, 2023

Women's day


After a decade of studying gender inequality, sociologist, Kyl Myers, decided childhood gender socialization needed a creative overhaul. Kyl shares her idea that if we want adulthood gender equality, we have to change the way we treat kids.




Kyl Myers is a sociologist who specializes in gender and sexual & reproductive health. She’s been studying gender inequalities day in and day out for some time the last decade, and has decided to blaze a trail for future generations that will fascinate you. She’s no parenting expert, but she loves helping parents understand gender through a sociological perspective.

Named her child zoomer, and not raising as he or she but they. Now is'nt that too risky and interesting step taken? 

This made me wonder where the world is heading too...



 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eCknUJJc3qU

No one here is to blame for a problem, everyone here is responsible for a solution.

The surprising neuroscience of gender inequality | Janet Crawford | TEDxSanDiego

It speaks on bias is inherent.

This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Janet Crawford dives into the unconscious associations that are often made with regard to gender. It’s hard not to reflect on our own unconscious associations as she talks through how our brain creates associations to help us make sense of the world. Her empowering talk speaks to men and women alike, challenging us all to help create the shift from one of blame to one of action through engagement and curiosity.

Janet Crawford is Principal of Cascadance and Founder of the Women and Innovation Lab.  Combining insights from neuroscience, evolutionary biology, and experimental psychology, she helps leaders build productive, innovative and collaborative corporate cultures.  With two decades of experience coaching and consulting for Fortune 500 companies, her client organizations span the who’s who of Silicon Valley and beyond. Janet holds a Masters from Stanford University and a BA from UC Berkeley.


'Re' - Possibility; from it originated the word Stree. 



Help Grow..

“No one here is to blame for a problem, Everyone here is responsible for a solution”

Am sure most of us would have heard the story of 4 friends, Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody.There was an important job to be done. Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody’s job. Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn’t do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done.

The story may be confusing but the message is clear: no one took responsibility so nothing got accomplished. It’s a story that plays out often in many teams and companies. Excuses aren't leadership..

What we need is the right attitude. From ‘How do we make it work’ to working smarter, in a more controlled way with efficiency, a healthy scepticism over improvement, with an eye on value add. 

~ Right First Time: Effort upfront reduces downstream inefficiencies. 

~Be Inquisitive: Question on results and validity 

~Process: Pay attention to the time taken for completion of the task, can it be done faster? Am I being efficient? Is this the right tool for the job? Are the field and data aligned to the job?

~ Share Idea: Ideas are worthless unless you act upon it. 

Collaborate. 

Grow.

Happiness Humesha!

Wednesday, March 08, 2023

We the Women..



Wear your crown own your queen, do not give the remote control of your life to any other human being. You are an angel, how you say what you say matter. As you respect ‘tonality’ of the world don’t feel guilty in case you need to invoke ‘Kali’ in you when needed. Be in a state of gratitude and become the divine version of the feminine, you will feel good, irrespective of the situation. Learn how to set your own boundaries; you can be a good person with a kind heart and still say ‘No’.

The last of human freedom is to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances – Victory Frankl.

When in crises, deal with the pain, work with your attitude and use it as your wake up and clean up call. Always carry with you your faith, courage, desire and love. Keep moving forward and as you do, take others with you through life. We have come a long way, from being sacred, to being controlled and breaking open again. From similar dresses, to gungat, to dupatas and back again to free choices. Each of us are at different stages in life, there is something that we can always give to to others.

Connect with your own self. Come Alive. Become Awakened. Be present in all that you do. Follow your dreams with all your heart and might with a positive attitude of gratitude and make a difference for having received this wonderful ‘Gift’ of life.

To strong women– may we know them, may we be them, may we raise them!

A MESSAGE TO MEN

When choosing a woman who works, you have to accept that she can't handle the house.

If you have chosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your household, you have to accept that she is not earning money.

If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you must ensure her life.

If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and she has her own opinion.

If you choose a beautiful woman, then you will have to accept big expenses.

If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.

There are no such things as perfect. Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique!❤💪

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I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. 

She smiled and said to me.. 

"I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters. 

I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me...

I stopped fighting with my in laws...

I stopped fighting for attention...

I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me...

I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people..

I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...

And I started fighting for 

my vision, 

my dreams, 

my ideas and 

my destiny. 

The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful."

Some fights are not worth your time.

Choose what you fight for wisely.


Friends, one final post on International Women's Day from poet Maya Angelou to inspire us: "Still, I Rise."


You may write me down in history

With your bitter, twisted lies,

You may tread me in the very dirt

But still, like dust, I’ll rise.


Just like moons and like suns,

With the certainty of tides,

Just like hopes springing high,

Still I’ll rise.


You may shoot me with your words,

You may cut me with your eyes,

You may kill me with your hatefulness,

But still, like air, I’ll rise.



Tuesday, March 07, 2023

Attukal Pongal

March 8th may be Women's day for the rest of the world. But it was sea wave of women in Thiruvananthapuram the capital of Kerala. 

Pongala (literally means to boil over) is a ritualistic offering of a sweet dish, consisting of rice porridge, sweet brown molasses, coconut gratings, nuts and raisins. It is done as an offering to the presiding deity of the temple – the Goddess – popularly known as Attukal Amma. Attukal is a Hindu pilgrimage centre located on the banks of Killi river, in the capital city of Thiruvananthapuram. It is situated about two kilometres to the south east from Sree Padmanabhaswamy Temple.

Attukal Pongal takes place in honour of the Goddess at the Attukal Bhagavathy temple in Thiruvananthapuram. The deity worshipped in the temple is Kannagi, an incarnation of Goddess Parvati, Lord Shiva's consort. Sign of Shakthi.

During this 10 day festival, all male folk are categorically restricted from entering the premises of the temple that is very aptly known also as the Sabarimala of Women. Wondering if there will be protest against it?

Brahmapuram "waste treament" Disaster

Brahmapuram "waste treament" plant has an annual phenomenon of fires.

The plant is dubbed as a waste treament plant,which is in reallity a dump site for waste,with the piles of waste reaching up to 25ft tall. The plant is surrounded by education insitutions,officies,and houses.

During March 2nd,4PM a fire had broke out at the plant, with the blaze getting worse overnight.It has been 5 days since the Initial outbreak, as of March 6th, with the plant still fuming. While the blaze was brought under control after trying for days, the smoke continues to choke Kochi and its suburbs.

The plant has a major impact on the enitre Ernakulam district,with toxic fumes covering all the way to Alapuzzha(60km's away from the plant). 

The plant is under the responsibility of the Cochin Co-operation.

This isn't the first incident that has occured. 

During 2019 Feb, there was fire at the plant, which had brought toxic fumes to the surrounding area. 

The toxic fumes caused by this fire will leave a huge impact on the health standards of the residents of the city, with many suffering with asthama and many falling sick. The current fire has been burning for more that 4 consecutive days, with many of the fire fighters falling sick. 

The city needs a permanent solution with regards to its garbage, and the residents have the right to clean air just like they have the right to food, water and shelter.

Right now its no ones responsibility and all political parties who have ruled the city are equally to be blamed.

The Kerala High Court on Tuesday rapped the Pollution Control Board for the failure to carry out its responsibilities.

Initiating suo motu proceedings regarding the fire at Brahmapuram dumping yard, the court asked the Ernakulam district collector, the chairman of the pollution control board and the Kochi Corporation ...

The high court also asked officials to make their stand on solid waste management clear.


The picture itself speaks the unfortunate story... !!


Cope and Change

 Change, the only constant in life. How do we cope with it? Normal curve goes like this: Kubler - Ross Model




Monday, March 06, 2023

Gulmohar


A two hour movie, on the final four days of the Batra family living in their 31-year-old family home, is all encompassing, covering aspects like family values, relations, class discrimination, hereditary diseases, LBTGS, family disputes, generation gap, festivals, home, religion, love, hope, need for education, gender, regions, watch/Time. Directed and Written by Rahu V. Chittella. Arpita Mukherjee is the co-writer along with the director. 

This shift in their lives is a rediscovery of the bonds that have held them together as a family with secrets and insecurities. An OTT release in Disney Hotstar, Sharmila Tagore, Manoj Bajpayee, Simran, Suraj Sharma, Amol  Palekar, and others did full justice to the character and bonus was Talat Aziz with his song. 

Gulmohar is akin to that kind of tree that is trimmed more regularly than watered by the gardener. It looks good but doesn’t always feel right. As their Gulmohar villa is being brought down to give way to a high rise, the family meets up for one last party before the packers and movers take over. However, over the course of ghazal and gossip, the discordant notes in their relationships get exposed and one gets sucked into their tumultuous present and turbulent past. The house shift becomes an opportunity to clear the cobwebs in the relationships. as Kusum’s son Arun, Manoj Bajpayee squeezes out the emotional pus that Arun has been carrying for years when the will of his deceased father suddenly pricks his latent anxieties and fears. The way Simran navigates between her imposing mother-in-law and the doting but complex-ridden husband is absolutely relatable. A delima of every home maker, the need to have 10 hands, to cater to various personality was just amazing. Loved the dialogue in the hotel room. Shanty Balachandran as the housemaid Reshma, Jeetu the watchman, her old class mate the supervisor, and their story in the back ground reflected various layers of the society. 

4 Books for March - Sweta Samota

Mindset - The Science of Getting Rich - Wallace D. Wattles. Blockage on generating wealth will be removed. When you saw a seed, it will grow, and every seed that comes out of it, grow to their fullest potential. 

Biography - When Breath becomes air - Paul Kalanithi

Skills - Influence The Psychology of Persuasion. Robert B . Cialdini

Spirituality - Autobiography of a Yogi - Paramahansa Yogananda


Hal Elrod's Keynote Speech : "The Miracle Morning"

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR21ynDHwH8

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Make every day the best day of your life. Give every day the best of your life. Wake up, make morning the best. Set the tone and direction for the day in the morning. Thank God for life. Follow SAVERS and grow.

Why did you wake up this morning? Ask this everyday.

Medicore - for daily things to do. Most just because all wake up. Start everyday working on yourself.

Physical, Mental, emotional and spiritual self - You win in the morning, you win the day.

What did you want to be when you grow up?

My way of looking at the world, is just one way, it need not be the right time. There could be another way.


Lived life with 5 minutes rule. 

When there is anything negative happening, bitch/moun/complain/cry - for 5 minutes. Acknowledge and say, Can't change it. No use wishing something different. 

I can't change the past, but I can change everything else. Unconditional acceptance. 

Only two possibility:
  1. On a wheel chair for the rest of the life - but that would not effect my emotional well being. I will be happiest most grateful person. I have decided. What is your wheelchair? It is in the past. You can have the worst time of your life, and choose to be happy. 
  2. Will walk again - Can't predict the future. But I have accepted the worst case, but is visualise me walking every single day. I talk of only what I want. 
Then I was free, No fear, no worry. 

1. Develop Emotional Invincibility
2. Optimise Your Morning Ritual
3. Create & Sustain Level 10 success
In Every Single Area of Your Life.

Don't live in stress. It will be negative. Choose positive mind set. 

When there is anything negative happening, bitch/moun/complain/cry - for 5 minutes. Acknowledge and say, Can't change it. No use wishing something different.

 I will be happiest most grateful person. Decide; Accept the worst case and visualise the best case. 

Unconditional Acceptance.

Freedom from emotional pain. 

Implement: 'Can't change it'.

 Stuck in traffic jam - enjoy every moment. 

Opposite of acceptance is resistance. It causes all the emotional pain. Don't resist the reality. 

Event + Response = Outcome. 

Traffic is a metaphor for life. 

Accept this moment as it is. Find peace with it. It will give you emotional freedom. 

All painful emotions are self created with our resistance to reality. We can choose our emotions at any given moment.

3 Keys to Emotional Invincibility

  1. 5 minutes rule
  2. 'Can-t change it'
  3. Accept life before it happens
Create better circumstances by making our self the best version. Have level 10 out of 10 in every field of our life. Dedicate your day for this. 

The origin of Miracle morning. 2nd Rock Bottom. - Financial crises. 

There is a fine line between optimism and delusion. 

If you want to see something different, you have to do something different first. 

Follow SAVERS:




Everyday morning just do these 6 things...10 minutes each of sitting in silence, Affirmation, Visualization,  Exercise,  Reading and Scribble (writing/Journaling)

4 Steps to create affirmation - That produce Extraordinary results:
  1. What You're committed to
  2. Why it's deeply meaningful to you
  3. Which actions will ensure your success
  4. When You're Committed to those action
2 Parts to Effective Visualization:
  1. Visualize your ideal outcome
  2. Visualize yourself engaged in your ideal activity w/optimum emotion. 
Simple (But Transformative) Scribing

  1. Scribe 1-3 things you're grateful for
  2. Scribe 1-3 top priorities for today. 
The greatest gift you can give to those you LOVE (and those you LEAD) is to fulfill YOUR potential. So that you can show them how to fulfill theirs. 

Both you and your loved ones deserve it. 

Saturday, March 04, 2023

4 Books for Feb

Month of Love 

Mindset - 1986 - Unlimited Power- Tony Robins ; 5 Step Performance; Communication is good. Help better communication in relationship - talking, seeing, reading. 

Success - The Compound Effect - Darren Hardy - Big goals, tiny goals and make it a habit. Install rituals inself. Small habits with consistency, will be compounded - it can be in every area of your life. 

Philosophy - Life Amazing Secrets - Gaur Gopal Das

Resilence/Grit - Against the Storm.Anthology. 


Joy & Life


Every tree, every growing thing as it grows, says this truth : You harvest what you sow.

With life as short as a half -taken breath do not plant anything but love.
The value of a human being can be measured by what he or she most deeply loves.

Rumi ❤️
The Big Red Book


If you are seeking, seek us with joy.
For we live in the kingdom of joy.

Do not give your heart to anything else but to the love of those who are clear joy.

Do not stray into the neighborhood of despair.
For there are hopes: 
they are real, they exist.

Do not go in the direction of darkness.
I tell you: suns exist.

Rumi ❤️


JOY CHOSE YOU

Joy does not arrive with a fanfare, 
on a red carpet strewn with the flowers of a perfect life.

Joy sneaks in, as you pour a cup of coffee,
watching the sun hit your favourite tree, just right.

And you usher joy away,
because you are not ready for it. 
Your house is not as it must be,
for such a distinguished guest.

But joy cares nothing for your messy home, you see.

Joy is supposed to slither through the cracks of your imperfect life,
that’s how joy works.

You cannot invite her, you can only be ready when she appears.

And hug her with meaning,

because in this very moment, 

joy chose you.

unknown 🌸


 Yes, its a simple yet deep concept. Two critical factors, the avoidance of pain and the quest for pleasure motivate human behavior.- Donald Trump and Mother Theresa are driven by the exact same force. They made conscious choices of what to reward or punish themselves for. 'Not what we have but what we enjoy, constitutes our abundance. Happiness is not a possession but a lack of pain and sorrow.' -Greek philosopher Epicurus in The Art of Happiness.

Life & Happiness..


 " All doubt, despair and fear become insignificant when the intention of life becomes love."

🧡 Rumi



Thought for the day (to blow your mind…)

“You are comprised of 84 minerals, 23 Elements, and 8 gallons of water spread across 38 trillion cells. 


You have been built up from nothing by the spare parts of the Earth you have consumed, according to a set of instructions hidden in a double helix and small enough to be carried by a sperm. You are recycled butterflies, plants, rocks, streams, firewood, wolf fur, and shark teeth, broken down to their smallest parts and rebuilt into our planet’s most complex living thing.


You are not living on Earth. You are Earth."


——-


You are incredible just as you are!!!!!


Words by Aubrey Marcus

Incredible painting by Emily Fiegenschuh



Thursday, March 02, 2023

Great Bank Robbery - V. Pattabhi Ram & Sabyasachee Dash (39 of 2023 & 3rd of March)




"The Great Bank Robbery by V. Pattabhi Ram & Sabyasachee Dash is a unique piece of writing where the contents of the book wake up the brains that forgot the biggest scams that happened in India. Using fiction as a weapon, weaving a story with some characters with conflicting central points as actual incidents is fascinating. 

On 24 Dec 2036, the price of a blue-chip stock, the National Bank of Hindustan, crashes after a leak of the forensic auditor's report. This triggers a series of conversations between Lobin Stephen Senior, and his two great-grandchildren. 

This book clearly describes the nuances and complexities of banking, which anybody dealing with economic crimes and banking experts must comprehend. Economic offenses and financial crimes have been prominent in India’s criminal justice system. To avoid forgetting about the 11 frauds, it is essential to understand and document them."

Do you want to know which are the 11 frauds mentioned here? Am sure most of them are the ones you would be interested in knowing more about...get your copy today, it's a very interesting read.... 

The book is divided into three parts:

Part I covers 'Setting the Trap' : The Stephens chat; Moon, Money and Madam; Bank and Barbers; Multiple Balance Sheet Problems; How Banks Make profit and Krishna revises his notes.

Part II covers 'Scamming the Bank' : which covers:

  1. Mundha and Nagarwala: Conmen
  2. Harshad Mehta: The Pied Piper
  3. Ketan Parekh: The Bombay Bull
  4. Vijay Mallya: Grounded
  5. Anil Ambani: From Hero to Zero
  6. IL&FS: Infrastructure Runs into a Roadblock
  7. Nirav Modi: Diamonds Aren't Forever
  8. DHFL: Mortgage Major's Muddle
  9. No to Yes Bank
  10. PMC Bank: Uncooperative Banks
  11. Lakshmi Vilas Bank: The House of Wealth
Krishna begins his draft. 

Part III covers 'Sleeping at the Wheel?'

Auditors, bank regulators, credit raters, and directors were the A, B, C, and D in the monumental banking mess. 

In short, what has been the role of bankers and of the big daddy, RBI, in the Great Bank Robbery? 

What is the stated role of the credit rating agency? Is it not to assess and rate an instrument regarding the safety of both principal and interest? 

Krishna returns to his notes. 

Getting Bulletproof. 

6 R's for Banks 

He finally gave a six-point action plan.

One, launch a new asset quality review to cover banks and NBFCs (Recognition)

Two, make changes to the IBC to better align incentives (Resolution)

Three, create two executive-led public sector asset restructuring companies aka bad banks' (Resolution)

Four, strengthen oversight, especially of NBFCs (Regulation)

Five, link recapitalization to resolution (Recapitalization)

And six, shrink public sector banking (Reform)

When Subramanian left one year into his second term to pursue his interests in academia, Finance Minister Arun Jaitley complimented his work, saying Subramanian's early diagnosis of the twin balance sheet led to the government outlining higher public investment in the budget. 

. "Often, those who should be in the know are the last ones to know."

Full Book-17Jan2022-Revised - Reviewed this book on 23rd Jan 2022

Awaken the Giant Within - Anthony Robbins (38 of 2023 & 2nd of March)

Awaken the Giant Within - Anthony Robbins begins with this powerful quote: 

"Deep within man dwell those slumbering powers; powers that would astonish him, that he never dreamed of possessing; forces that would revolutionize his life if aroused and put into action. " ~ Orison Swett Marden


 

The book is divided into four parts, 

First part part covers Unleash Your Power

All of life is a cycle of planting, reaping, resting and renewal. God's delays are not God's denials. 

Harness the power of decision making, 

  • It is a tool you can use in any moment to change your life
  • Hardest step in achieving anything is making a true commitment
  • Make decisions often
  • Learn from your decisions
  • Stay committed to decision but flexible to approach. 
  • Enjoy making decisions
Know that it is your decisions and not your conditions that determine your destiny. 

  1. The power of decision-making is the single most important factor in personal growth and transformation
  2. The three elements of significant personal change are raising standards, altering limiting beliefs and adopting fresh strategies for action. Know what you will not tolerate. 
  3. Two critical factors, the avoidance of pain and the quest for pleasure motivate human behavior.- Donald Trump and Mother Theresa are driven by the exact same force. They made conscious choices of what to reward or punish themselves for. 'Not what we have but what we enjoy, constitutes our abundance. Happiness is not a possession but a lack of pain and sorrow.' -Greek philosopher Epicurus in The Art of Happiness.
  4. To change a negative behaviour, people must learn to associate pain with the behaviour instead of pleasure. 
  5. Events are neither good nor bad, but the meaning people ascribe to them will affect their emotional state for better or worse.
  6. Change can happen instantly as long as there is a clear strategy and a willingness to question existing beliefs.
  7. Personal responsibility is essential to growth and transformation.
  8. People can utilize the power of their brains to effect lasting change by conditioning their nervous systems to react to certain behaviors. 
  9. People crave the feelings that they believe will come with certain achievements as opposed to the achievements themselves. 
  10. Well-crafted questions are key to directing change and achieving success in all areas of life. 
  11. People can learn to harness the power of their emotions, positive and negative to direct their lives in a more productive and fulfilling way. 
As the German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer stated, all truth goes through three steps:

First it is ridiculed.
Second it is violently opposed.
Finally, it is accepted as self-evident. 

Part Two: Taking Control: The Master System

This covers:

  • Ultimate Influence: Your Master System
  • Life Values: Your Personal Compass
  • Rules: If You're Not Happy, Here's why!
  • References: The Fabric of Life
  • Identity: The Key to Expansion
Part Three: The Seven Days to shape your Life
  1. Emotional Destiny : The Only True Success
  2. Physical Destiny: Prison of Pain or Palace of Pleasure
  3. Relationship Destiny: The Place to share and Care
  4. Financial Destiny: Small Steps to Fortune
  5. Be Impeccable: Your Code of Conduct
  6. Master Your time and Your Life
  7. Rest and Play
Part Four: A Lesson In Destiny : The Ultimate Challenge: What One person can do. 


At one time or another, everyone has had a glimpse of their best life, or who they think they could become in an ideal world. Sustaining the motivation to make those dreams a reality can be daunting in the face of everyday responsibilities. Overtime people adopt limiting beliefs about what they can accomplish; some even abandon their highest visions altogether. With knowledge of human behavior and why people do what they do, individuals can develop a personalized strategy for changing their behavior so that it aligns with ultimate goals and values. This will allow them to take charge of their lives, effect real, lasting change and improve the quality of their relationships, professional life, physical health and emotional well being. 




Wednesday, March 01, 2023

Nanpakal Nerathu Mayakkam

Nanpakal Nerathu Mayakkam; Malayalam-Tamil bilingual drama film directed by Lijo Jose Pellissery and written by S. Hareesh from a story by Pellissery. Was reminded of his father. An open ended movie, left to the interpretation of the viewers. First reaction after the movie was, what was it? Though the cinematography, was amazing. There was a lot to ponder, with amazing dialogues. 


The film portrays some incidents in James's life. After visiting Velankanni, Tamil Nadu, a group of Malayali tourists take a bus back to Kerala. While settling the bill, he enquires of Thirukurral.  James stops the bus at a village in rural Tamil Nadu while the tourists snooze. James enters into a house nearby, and starts acting like a member of the family living in the house. He behaves like a Tamilian and speaks in Tamil like a local of the area. It confuses everyone who travelled with him as well as the local people of the village. Eventually the people realise he has taken on the character, mannerisms and language of Sundaram, a member of the family who had disappeared two years earlier. James has knowledge of the village and villagers that only Sundaram would have known. The full is full of long shots, except when James as Sundaram is looking at himself in the mirror. 

James/Sundaram grows confused at the apparent sudden changes in the village, such as a temple being built that had not started construction when Sundaram went missing. James' family and friends plot how to drug him in order to return him to Kerala and get him treatment for his presumed mental disorder. It hurts to see James in pain. The way Malayalee and Tamil people see each other has been very well portrayed very well. 

However at the end, James regains his true identity and willingly goes with them to return home. In the end, it is shown that Sundaram's character was merely a dream. Or was that a dream? Its only the mother and the dog who see Sundaram in James and not others. 

Every scene and every shot is open ended and as you keep thinking more about the movie, you come up with more interpretations and conclusions - it is in creating this continuous audience engagement with the narrative that LJP has succeeded as a filmmaker. This is not a movie that you can watch and forget - instead you carry it with you for many more days.

The climax shot reveals the title of the theatre play which the troupe is currently performing, that is, Oridathu directed by Thilakan. Thilakan is the one who introduced LJP's father Jose Pellissery to the film industry, Thilakan even played a prominent role in LJP's debut film, Nayakan. So, this climax shot is LJP's tribute to Thilakan sir. On a concluding not LJP and JP are from our home town, so a soft corner for them, nevertheless, this move has brought out the best of Mammotty and LJP. 

Untamed - Glennon Doyle (37 of 2023)

Stop pleasing, Start living. 

For every woman resurrecting herself.

For the girls who will never be buried.

Mostly, for Tish. 



Interestingly everything begins in small letters in this book, and not even the book name, author name or chapter names are in capital:

Here's to 'The Untamed:

May we know them.

May we raise them.

May we love them.

May we read them.

May we elect them.

May we be them.

The book is divided into three parts:

Viz. Caged, keys, free.

Prologue says Cheetah and epilogue: human.

'caged' covers: sparks, apples, blowjobs, directions, polar bears, tick marks, algorithms, gatherings, rules, dragons, arms. 

'keys' covers: feel, know, imagine, let it burn.

'free' covers: aches, ghosts, smiles, goals, adam and keys, ears, terms, erikas, beach houses, temperatures, mirrors, eyes, gardens, vows, touch trees, buckets, attendants, memos, poems, boys talks, woods, cream cheeses, bases, island, boulders, bloodbaths, racists, questions, permission slips, concessions, knots, decals, girl gods, conflicts, streams, lies, deliveries, invaders, comfort zones, elmer's, luckies, buzzes, sandcastles, guitars, braids, seconds, ideas, sidelines, levels

Forceful and tender. Untamed is both an intimate memoir and a galvanizing wake-up call about what is possible when we step out of our cages and say:

Here I am. 

For many years Glennon Doyle denied her discontent. Then one day, at a conference, she glanced up at a woman and three words flooded her mind: There. She. Is.  This was the voice she had buried beneath her, and she decided to let go of the world's expectations of her and reclaim her true untamed self. 

The book is divided into three parts:

Viz. Caged, keys, free.

This reminded me of the book 'Unlocking the Golden Cage : 7 Simple Steps to Designing The Life You Love ~ Puja Puneet'; where she writes about the cage, finding the key, opening the lock and freeing oneself. 

As mentioned in the first chapter:

10 is when the world sat me down, told me to be quiet, and pointed towards my cages:

These are the feelings you are allowed to express.

This is how a woman should act.

This is the body you must strive for.

These are the things you will believe.

These are the people you can love.

Those are the people you should fear.

This is the life you are supposed to want. 

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Poem: The Secret of Life

It becomes what you'd most protect

if the government said you can protect

one thing, all else is ours...

it's what 

radiates and what can hurt

if you get too close to it. 

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Dropping Keys

The small woman

Builds cages for evryone

She 

Knows.

While the sage,

Who has to duck her head

When the moon is low,

Keeps dropping keys all night long

For the 

Beautiful

rowdy

Prisoners.

~ Hafiz.

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Emotions

Intuition

Imagination

Courage

Those are the keys to freedom

Those are who we are. 

Will we be brave enough to unlock ourselves?

Will we be brave enough to set ourselves free?

Will we finally step out of our cage and say to ourselves, to our people, and to the world: Here I am. 

Key 1:Feel it all- You can feel everything and survive and You can use pain to become. First pain, then waiting, and then rising. pain is not tragic but magic. Suffering is tragic, it happens when we avoid pain and miss our becoming. 

Key 2: Be Still and Know - Go within, do'nt go for outside validations. 

Key 3: Dare to Imagine - A lifetime is exactly how long we have.

Let's conjure up, from the depths of our souls:

The truest, most beautiful lives we can imagine.

The truest, most beautiful families we can fathom.

The truest, most beautiful world we can hope.

Let's put it all on paper.

Let's look at what we've written and decide that these are not pipe dreams; these are our marching orders. These are the blueprints for our lives, our families and the world.

May the invisible order become visible.

May our dreams become our plans. 

Key 4: Build and Burn

Destruction is essential for construction.

What kind of life/relationships/family/world might I have created if I'd been braver?

I cannot hold too tightly to any riverbank. I must let go of the shore in order to travel deeper and see farther. Again and again and then again. Until the final death and rebirth. Right up until then.

Be Free: 

To be really free, we need to be free from many things . Bulimia is private. We need to be free of aches, ghosts, smiles, goals, adam and keys, ears, terms, erikas, beach houses, temperatures, mirrors, eyes, gardens, vows, touch trees, buckets, attendants, memos, poems, boys talks, woods, cream cheeses, bases, island, boulders, bloodbaths, racists, questions, permission slips, concessions, knots, decals, girl gods, conflicts, streams, lies, deliveries, invaders, comfort zones, elmer's, luckies, buzzes, sandcastles, guitars, braids, seconds, ideas, sidelines, levels. 

Each of us have our own stories around these. 

Money Matters & Manifestation

 Posted this 10 years ago and followed it almost

Make a will. Pay off your credit cards. Get term life insurance if you have a family to support. Fund your ELSS to the maximum. Fund your pension fund to the maximum. Buy a house if you want to live in a house and you can afford it. Put six months' expenses in a money market fund. Take whatever money is left over and invest 70% in a stock index fund and 30% in a bond fund and never touch it until retirement. #ThankYouScottAdams






What you believe about money, yourself and the world shapes how your life will unfold. Every single day you have the power to make decisions that will move you forward financially or set you back. It’s up to you.

Most of us are wired for lack and scarcity and we can turn this around by learning how to recondition and rewire our subconscious for abundance and wealth.


  1. What is the taboo of money you had as you grew up?
  2. Are you fine talking about money?
  3. Do you feel guilty of having too much or too little of money?
  4. Are you a spender or horder? - Frugule, kanjoos,  High maintanence, 

Somewhere in this world, we have negative association with money. Change that. 

Spiritual people especially, attached negative thought with money. 

Like petrol is needed to drive, once we have a destination; money is a tool which enable us a better life. Let's not make money the destination. We do not buy a car to store money. 

Steps in money are:
  1. Create
  2. Manifest
  3. Maintain
When this come together, you become super duper rich.

Story about Shiva - Greatest sorrow - hunger. It's hunger that brings in aliveness. Drive is all that is needed. 

Our drive is what makes us alive. Earlier it was hunger for food. It could be hunger for anything.  Hunger is the drive. To follow your dreams and desire is good. To make money is good. For all other speciies of the world, there is a limit for their hunger. Our hunger at some   point turn into greed. 

There is a difference between greed and ambition. 

Greed is when you are looking at life for only your personal benefit, when you help others in due course, it is ambition. 

Bring goodness to your hunger. 

Let money be the enabler of life, and not the life. 

Money = Freedom. Helps live out of choice. 

Money is not important, but it impacts everything that is important. 

Limiting beliefs on money:

  • Someone else will do it for me. We expect someone else do it for us:- Nobody owes me anything. Take the power back of your life, make money; make your own wealth. Become independent, create your own identity. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. It's not me being negative, but me being wise. 
  • I am not good with money. Even God needs money to spend religion - Vetican, meca madina, Tirupathi...More good I am, more money I need to have, more money I manager, more money I will have
  • I can - Anything I put my mind into, God helps me get it. (Never say, I can't afford it : It block's your abundance portal)
To do:

  • Read books on money
  • Take a chart and write - 'Make me a channel' - 
  • Book - Invitation - write letter inviting money - write 4 reasons. 
  • Command the universe and stop begging 
  • Write three future gratitude's - below the 5 current gratitude.
  • Keep your environment upgraded- It's not about richness but about cleanliness. 
  • Grow your heart
  • Grow your will power, and you will grow your aura. Give 
  • Value yourself - write appreciation for self. You become your biggest cheerleader. 

12 steps to manifest money.  

Context: Stop thinking money as money. Know your destination. Product or experience. 

  1. Create your why - Set Clear intention. 
  2. Put a relative timeline to this. (Manifestation - everything depends on your belief system: What's your timeline - It's your guideline)- goals within timeline is a wish. 
  3. Write letters to money - with the intend of invitation to money. Everyday, give three reasons, why your life will be more happier when you have money. 
  4. TFC - Think about your why, Thoughts/Feelings/ Command- Feeling of gratitude, pride, of dreams coming through, happiness, security, safety. - Or mind creates electric charges, that pulls the opportunity and pulls things towards us. Decide and declare, and it brings power to the universe. 
  5. Create a parallel Universe - Build a life where all of this has already come true, and you visit here everyday. 
  6. Future Gratitude - Capture your feelings into gratitude. 
  7. Dress up like a rich person every single day. (Act as if, until you make it)
  8. Make your environment also upgraded - clutter is a damp. Our physicality is a reflection of our environment. Annoyance has no power to attract money, and when things are broken at home, you feel annoyed. Start with whatever area you can work with. 
  9. Arigatou in, Arigatou out - Ken Honda- Keep blessing the money, when it comes and goes out. 
  10. Create flow through giving - Lakshmi is chanchal, it is flowing, but if you try to hold her, her sister Jeshta will come to release her. Think of self like an ocean. Ocean is never afraid of loosing water, as it knows that it will come back. 
  11. Law of spirituality - Anything you give up in the materialistic world, you will be rewarded in the spiritual world. 
  12. Clean out our abundance pipe - i) What have you collected in the last 24 hours, that sucks your energy out?  Journal it out. Don't get negative. Resistance will turn into assistance. Say 'Godji this or something better.'.

Manifestation is thoughts becoming things. Money Thermostat - is coming out of our range. Miracle zone is when you stop manifesting and it happens everyday. It becomes a channel. You ask how did it happen? Work the whole of March on this. 

Deservability. Limiting belief after being removed, new should be created. 

  1. Money only magnifies who you are. Money does not have its own energy. Start doing good with your money. 
  2. Concept of Circulating wealth - Don't let Saraswathi go, when Lakshmi comes. 
  3. Give to receive. - Stop haggling. Stop asking for discounts. Stop trying to juice someone out. - we fight with people lesser than us - stop doing that, give them for being lesser than us. Labh - Indra; Shubh labh - Vishnu - Win-Win. 
  4. Nothing is cheap about money - Take little commitment from clients. overdeliver. Give more than your promise. 
  5. Value your self - Grow your self esteem muscles. Write out things about your love about yourself. Stop chasing for love from others. BF - Be your biggest fan. 

Learn to Create Money. Learn to Save Money. Learn to Spend Money. Learn to Invest Money. Learn to Share Money. 

Stages of money:
  1. Create
  2. Save
  3. Spend
  4. Invest
  5. Share
Once you start the last two, others will follow. 

Make me a channel...Of peace, of money manifestation.