Well this is the story of Appu Ettan and Mini Cheechi, the made for each other couple....from my office....
Mini Cheechi, hyper optimistic, hyper confident person, fair, long hair, anybody would love to have such a wife, but guess a litter over talkative...but thats good, you wont be bored...
And Appu ettan, the perfect husband any women could dream about, ambitious, hardworking, handsome, educated, and qualified, who would be hers, do all the household processing for her, and anything to see that she wont shed her crocodile tears......
Well they cannot be always together in office right..And once I was surprised to hear Appu ettans conversation with other male colleagues of his in office, the Shamikuna Kayutha, Para Sivan, and the big boss....
Para Sivan, a great Sahityakaran asked do you know what does WIFE stand for???
And came the reply Worry Invited For Ever.
They begin by loving all in the family, and gain her husbands heart, by proving herself to be the best.
Then slowly she will start showing how all her inlaws are at fault, and only she is the perfect person in the world, with so much of love and understanding for her husband, who fall in her words and slowly become henpecked, if not at least begin to have a distance from his family....
Once they have children, he has to forget his family, else she will keep reminding him, what all they need to do, for their childrens sake....And he is so engrossed, that he forgets that he too was child once upon a time....
Far away he is busy working for his wife and children, forgetting his parents....And she has to take care of her children, send them to school, do the shopping for her children, husband and parents, visit all the malls and luxrious place for them and their status in the society,....And if there is anything that her inlaws need, its a burden, if at all they come to their house any one, wether it be his parents or siblings, or their children its a disturbance a hinderance. If they sit, they are at fault, if they dont sit, they are at fault....So much so that, if at all once in a while someone of the inlawa says they would be comming home, and they are little late, Mini Cheechi and kids are off to the neighbours house, and if it is her brother or family members, they would call a hundrend times to know why they are late, where have they reached???
And in case her husband wants to be back, she keeps prompting him, and making him realise, the need for him to be away to have more or of her having to take up the job, and finally she did, when he decided he wanted to be at home with his kids, at least for sometime, as they are about to get married, and would soon go away...And why not make all the best use of the available opportunity?? He wanted to spend at least some time in his life with his brilliant,talented and beautiful daughter, and the ambitious, handsome son.
But see Appuettan is having a pefect life, with a palatile house in the heart of the city, an enviable job, for both of them, and an elite club membership. What more do they want...And a bit of secret...who has a perfect married life, but named his daughter, in rememberance of his exgirlfriend, without his wifes knowledge.
For little satisfaction when he had such a loving wife, he needed Martha to flirt around....
Now we fear, if Martha would become a Vartha.....
But life goes on.....
Mini, too is not bad in that front...She has so many fans...
She belives that her loving Son and Daugher would always be with them, but after years all for her daughter-in-inlaws (Again inlaw - you see)fault, the son is no more hers.......And the story continues, daughter too is the same with her laws, well trained by her mother, but after all she is the only person to left to care for her and Appuettan..And our Big B says, the son, would be a Rebel, or may follow the footsteps of his father.
Better to have a life partner than a spouse.Its difficult if there is BP (Bhariya/Bharathavney) Peady.....Moreover if Male is effected, i.e. he becomes henpecked...Isnt it very bad and sad to see some male being a tiger (puli) in front of the world, but rat (elli) in front of his wife??
But now son and son in law, is with a difference, Earlier even if husband would not listen to his wife, she had to adjust, had no other go...now if son/daughter do not listen to their spouse, who is also equal to their counterpart economically, financially and with a brilliant careere, then they are there with their pen to sign the divorce......Thats generation next ....baby......
Anyway, so, my dear future generation, hope you have lesson to learn from the life of Mini Cheechi and Appu Ettan. ...Learn from the mistakes of others you cannot live long enough to make them all yourself and then learn......
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