Friday, March 27, 2009

Awesome Yummy Cake

Yup....It was an awesome yummy cakes, to celebrate the March birthdays, and March being the beginning of Spring, the spring cake, with a spring and yellow flowers on it.....Thats cool is'nt?




Birthdays indeed are like fresh bloom flowers,
That promise us of joyful hours,
Amidst lifes garden glowing insight,
Of Gods loving crystal light!!



Awesome Yummy cake, the taste still lingers....

But the birthday boys were missing! Happy March Birthday folks!!



Also to Trainers Mom! 50th is indeed especial!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

March....St. Patrics day

17th March 09 is St. Patrics day here.St. Patrick's Day is celebrated by the Irish and Irish at Heart in big cities and small towns alike with parades, "wearing of the green," music and songs, Irish food and drink, and activities for kids such as crafts, coloring and games. Its a time for fun. Some communities even go so far as to dye rivers or streams green! It seems the celebration is more in Chicago...




This is the picture of the Chicago River painted green for this occassion..Hey, it is not like the Chalakudy Puzha, which is naturally green, on which I will write later.and do you know what is the other especiallity of this river....

Today the whole team here, had the dinner, with , Director and Senior Managing director ...at Stone well, who told us, that this was the only river flowing backwards....We could unviel yet another talent of Susan, she even plays piano....



On the food that we had, will right soon...Inshallah!!!

For me, March has always been a month, where in there were many surprises...., things begin before, but the final surprise is in March.or at times, things begin in March..Guess its for most women...Might be because March is womens history month, International womens day. ..

Hope this march is full of positive surprises....All is well that ends well....

Though there is no much of Holi in Kerala, that is yet another especial festival, in the month of march, though there are various stories associated with it, this too is celebrated with colours and sprinkling water....with which the summer begins...with its intensity...

Of course, this was the month in which I saw the first ray of light, so did my grandmother, on the same day, but different years, ...and this was the month of the death of my grandfather, dear friend Anisha, and too good neighbour Wilson uncle...

If wishes come in rainbow colours then I would send the Brightest one to say "HAPPINESS ALWAYS" ...Just remembered the prayer in school, We give you Thanks....Almighty God...For all the benefits, you have conferred upon today....I love you with my whole heart, and above all things, I am very sorry for having offended you, because you are so good, and I firmly resolve not to offend you any more....

Sunday, March 15, 2009

The Jungle Book …By Rudyard Kipling….



Time and again, we reach here…it has been since my childhood…..

One of the all time favourate songs is from Mowgli….

‘Jungle, Jungle, Bath cheeli hey patha chala hey,…….’
Mowgli is a young boy raised by wolves in the wilds of India. Mowgli’s childhood is filled with excitement and laughter, but also with danger. Deep in the shadows lurks his sworn enemy, the ferocious man-eating tiger Shere Khan. Together with his animal friends, including Baloo, a sleepy brown bear; Bagheera, a wise black panther, and Kaa, a powerful python, the ‘man-cub’ learns about loyalty, friendship and the ways of the jungle.

Some used and still do call … Mowgli…

Jungle…is that life!!!


Finally could grab a copy of this book too…'The Jungle Book …By Rudyard Kipling….'

The Jungle Book (1894) is a collection of stories by English author Rudyard Kipling. The stories were first published in magazines in 1893–94. The original publications contain illustrations, some by the author's father, John Lockwood Kipling. Kipling was born in India and spent the first six years of his childhood there. After about ten years in England, he went back to India and worked there for about six-and-a-half years. These stories were written when Kipling lived in Naulakha, the home he built in Dummerston, Vermont (just north of Brattleboro), in the United States.

Mexican Delight…


Here was yet another weekend, my colleagues had been to NewYork, but, I had some preoccupations and could not join them.

Finally met Abhi, and the biggest handicap here of not having a car, was resolved for a day..

Went to Bank of America, and exchanged the TC with cash….…don’t know why they said no earlier to others….the same lady of Delhi orgin, Shain Sheikh….Then we went to the mall…Macys….


behind the big horse….



After few hours of window shopping, at Disney stores, books shops, toy shops, had choclolates and the ' Starbucks Coffee' Capucinno (pronounced cap-oo-chi-no)of the Kannum Kannum Nokia fame took pictures. Purchased The Jungle Book: by Rudyard Kipling....and Abhi gifted the mugs...



We had a Mexican lunch at Rainforest Café, a wild place to shop and eat……


one of the favorite places of children, which reminded me of the Balarama Caves in Veegaland, with Kuttusan, Dagini, Luttapi….here it was monkeys, fishes, snakes, butterflies and the man carry the earth saying save the rain forest…..at Macys….I liked the place.

I had requested Abhi to order for me too since it was my first experience of Mexican food and he being more knowledgeable of the yet-to-be-experienced-yummy Mexican food! What he ordered was ‘Amazon Fajitas’ (Pronounced Fahitas) similar to that my friend who gives his heart away to anything that he comes across! Had put in his blog on ‘Xavier’……




And then things were similar:

There was the red sauce and the chapathi kind of roti; which is slightly thin and small in size, a hand full of rice which reminded me pulao, with a small quantity of salad and white cream color paste. Along with it, we were served an item of chicken with the sliced capsicum smashed, the cool coke…What he had was beef and soda…

The next session was demonstration and Abhi took the shoes of the demonstrator and me; the observer with my eyes set for learning! He placed a look-a-like-roti in his plate and placed beef (chicken) and capsicum;, the salad, the white paste and he rolled it up and held it like a pipe to blow! Yeah; now it was my turn to make my pipe; hmmm… interesting! And I succeeded in making an equally good yummy pipe! Made 4 pipes and blew it! Couldn’t have more; my stomach was full! And the bill to…but it was again courtesy….

The only difference being we did not put the rice in the roti, but had it separate. It was a great experience to have the rice with fork too.

The car stopped at our Hotel and he dropped me till the door, but did not come to our room…I Thanked him, he asked me what for…There were so many things….and after all that was the lesson we learned here, and when in Rome, we need to do as the Romans right…..

Saturday, March 14, 2009

In Bondage!!

Yup....so true...life is flowing and we are flowing along.....Indeed in Bondage!! We crave for liberty, fight for it and finally at times feel we have achieved it, but there is always, something controlling us, an unknown force....why, where ....no one knows....

‘Most people would probably describe their lives as routine, or even mundane. Ask them what’s new or exciting and they’ll probably respond with, ‘same’ or ‘same old’. Every day our schedules are pretty much written in stone: From the time we get up until the time we finally put our heads back down on the pillow, routine is apparent in most of what we do.

Sure there are days that either surprise us positively or negatively (either when something unexpected and exciting happens or when something disastrous and disappointing occurs). But for the most part, life is ordinary and routine.

This was the learning from the only place visited so far, after landing Connecticut, which was this Church of Saint Patric on Sunday, 8th March 2009.




The mass was more or less similar, but there was discipline, and a charming order and queue row wise, when people moved to accept the holy bread in circular motion… could see bonded families, the breeze was cool.



On way saw Miss Porter's School in Farmington, where Jacqueline "Jackie" Lee Bouvier Kennedy Onassis wife of the 35th president of the United States, John F. Kennedy, and First Lady during his presidency from 1961 until his assassination in 1963 studied in 1944–1947. She is remembered for her style and elegance.




Schools, Churches and houses here cannot be easily distinguished. There are not many name boards. Also there are no boundries for anything…except at the rarest of the rare places. Houses are like the picture we learn to make house when in school with slooping roof, and chimney….So that there is heat in the room and during snow fall, it could easily slide down. Also most of them are movable, and they are made of woods….




Also the lesson for the day was: Attending something is different from fully participating. ……

Let us make a difference….

Sunday, March 08, 2009

Time Change....

Daylight Saving Time begins each year at 2 a.m. on the second Sunday of March. We need to Move clocks ahead one hour at the start of Daylight Saving Time.

Standard Time begins each year at 2 a.m. on the first Sunday of November. We need to Move clocks back one hour at the resumption of Standard Time. Daylight Saving time and Time zones are regulated by the U.S. Department of Transportation, not by NIST.

In 2009, Daylight Saving Time begins on March 8 and ends on Nov.1.

So the TV news, and everywhere this is the buzzword now, asking/reminding all to keep a track of the time....There is a loss/gain of time....

So long the difference between India and US was 10.30 hours, going forwad it would be 9.30 hours (i.e. India is -2.5 + 12 for easy calculation)

They say it is for the farmers...and help save energy....Moreover there are five different time zones within US itself.

Guess what would happen if there would be such a situation in India!!!

I stood like a tree.....


Monday, March 2nd 2009, morning when we moved the curtains in the room, it was white white and white...snow white everywhere, couldn’t see the roads....Don't know how the driver managed to drop us to office...Most of them in office were on leave.

Accumalations snarled traffic, travel, as storm pounded East cost with more than a foot of snow.

It wasn’t colder than a well-digger's elbow. That's called "a duck's cold" in French — So — "How cold was it?" I don't have a Johnny Carson answer to that. But then it would have been -5ºC That's about +25ºF. There were heaters everwhere, in the office, hotel rooms, cars...



I just can’t imagine; there are places like that. Thanks to the divine for making me live it….

Thanks to snow; I was back to action. Bye bye to paracetamol….which had kept me going for a week, might be because of jet lag.

It was very filmy, and we took so many pictures that day….and had send across to friends….and the responses where:

‘Are these pictures downloaded from google’?




‘Are these pictures real and taken by you...seems like pictures seen on Christmas greeting cards....lovely.......’

‘You haven’t changed much though. Any of us could have easily recognized you. Even after 17 years.’

And here goes the lines from Prabhu, who motivated me put up the articles in blog today:



I stood like a tree;
Like a tree without leaves!
In the midst of a whiteout;
Alone in the bliss!
I stood like a tree;
My frail arms, apart!
I stood like tree; a tree without leaves!

The peels of heaven;
The shimmering white!
Falling on me; mounting on me!
I neither did run;
I neither did wink!
(Eh, I didn’t either wish)
I stood like a tree; a tree without leaves!!

.. I thought of putting this up here, as there has been no updates in his blog for quite some times, and definitely, thats how trees out here are at this point of time!!!

and so goes the title of this blog...

Day of many firsts:20th February 2009

First air flight….
First international travel.
First longest day.
First taste of non tropical food.
First experience of different climate……

And then followed the days of many other firsts…
First experience of the snow…
First day light saving….

The day commiserated with the 7th death anniversary of my dear muthachan. Missing you a lot, and am sure this was possible as part of your grace too…..

Travel was by Qatar Airways: via Doha, in Qatar, a thumb shaped peninsula of about 11,500 sqkm in the Arabian Gulf, famous for its natural gas and oil reserve.



The first morning rays of light was a beautiful orange line separating the sea from the sky…when otherwise it was difficult to distinguish between the two, as the water, everywhere was very still and matching to that of sky.

And then …. to New York, connecting flight was at 8:30 am, India time 10:50 am, per Subramanian remembered ‘Charles Lindberg’ while crossing Atlantic Ocean. ……The first longest day too……for the time differences on account of different time zone.




Over the mountains, over the rivers, over the plains, we were …flying…It was ‘Aaj hum upar, Asma nichey……’ We could find clouds below us…In India the landscape was green, in Doha, it was desert, but not as beautiful as the song ‘Gujarish..’ but then it was white, and blue white everywhere…except at some places where we could find something like a light brown colored floorings, with ribbons around, which probably where the dwelling places..



For entertainment was the touch screen entertainer, orysc…with movies, music, games, TV, news, shopping, young traveler and discover more….watched, Mere Bap Pehle Aap,Madhu Chandralekha, Home alone, Jungle Book by Rudyard Kipling…




And thus reached Kilometers away on the other side of the globe, traveling for nearly 12 hours, and still when we landed here, it was only Friday afternoon!! Had plenty of time, waiting at Keneddy airport, moving from international to national ‘Terminal’ for the connecting flight to Connecticut which was only at 8:30, by then most of us, from a team of 13, all set to do the transition… had started falling asleep sitting ….


Had the first sip of ' Starbucks Coffee' which was very bitter first, had to add lot of suger....When getting into the connecting flight to Connecticut it was colder than a well-digger's elbow. mere thought of it, still gives a shiver and ……At Hartford, ‘New England’ people were helpful, upon landing at Hartford Airport on Friday, February 20, we were picked up at the airport by Executive Car Service to the Homewood Suites located at: 2 Farm Glen Blvd; Farmington, CT 06032. http://homewoodsuites1.hilton.com/en_US/hw/hotel/HFDFMHW/index.do
There were tons of luggages… The weather being too cold we were asked to carry with us warm clothes and a good coat! We were all looking forward for our first day at Stanley Works which was on Monday, February 23 starting at 10:30am; located at 1000 Stanley Drive, New Britain, CT 06053.




The week end, Jolly and Preethi came to visit us, gave the mobile, went to Indian stores, got the international adaptor for charging the laptop from India, went to their house at Manchister and purchased basic necessities from the super markets here, stop and shop, wall mart, and Indian stores...



First day in office was quite interesting, there was individuals sitting with the SMEs/Team dealing with the assigned BU’s and after talking with each other for 20 minutes, each of us had to introduce our counterparts….Mine was Amanda Gartwaite...
Was quite impressed, with her...hope the first impression, would last long, and help build a good relation...She was interesting, active, confident and a quick person...having two dogs, Jack and Haisel..who had recently purchased a new house..and there was one more hobby of her, which I understood as Skeying, but guess its hiking...still not sure, will ask her one day....

Then there was the especial presentation by Susan, Introduction from Jim, Alladin, and Susan…We had the lunch from office.


Thanks to all those...who made this happen...Please continue your prayers..as we move forward to face new challanges, prepared..

First things do have a special place in our hearts, whatever, wherever, whenever...

Just thought of putting these lines received the day before the journey....

I AM restless. I am athirst for far-away things.

My soul goes out in a longing to touch the skirt of the dim distance.

O Great Beyond, O the keen call of thy flute!

I forget, I ever forget, that I have no wings to fly, that I am bound in this spot evermore.

I am eager and wakeful, I am a stranger in a strange land.

Thy breath comes to me whispering an impossible hope.

Thy tongue is known to my heart as its very own.

O Far-to-seek, O the keen call of thy flute!

I forget, I ever forget, that I know not the way, that I have not the winged horse.

I am listless, I am a wanderer in my heart.

In the sunny haze of the languid hours, what vast vision of thine takes shape in the blue of the sky!

O Farthest end, O the keen call of thy flute!

I forget, I ever forget, that the gates are shut everywhere in the house where I dwell alone!



- Tagore

Jai Ho…. Slumdog Millionaire



Saare jahan se achha.....which could be? Other than a country, who never invades others, but give shelter to all……where there is freedom, the largest democracy….which attracts others for its riches, and when others take away their riches, earns it back….from riches to rags to riches…..

And where there is the bond of love….understanding, sacrifice and adjustments, value……family value……hope its triumph increase and the future generation trying to imitate the west, don’t loose the taste of it….

Undoubtedly every coin has two sides, and may be the worst phase, of the worst side in the best possible way of showcasing the bad side was shown in the movie…., I did not find something very extraordinary in the film Slumdog Millionaire by Danny Boyle…Most of what has been shown was true once upon a time, and I had seen most of the things in reality... Had this film been made by an Indian director, it would’ve been trashed. But now it is here wearing Emperors New Clothes. There are better films no doubt..

Movie fans flocked to Hollywood on Sunday 22nd February 2009, to watch the stars parade up the red carpet for the Oscars, the world's top film awards at Kodak Theater where the 81st Academy Awards were held and with rags-to-riches romance "Slumdog Millionaire" expected to win the honor for best movie, and it walked away with 8 Oscars: Best Picture, Director, Adapted Screenplay, Editing, Cinematography, Sound Mixing, Score and Song. …

When the West wanted Indians to embrace them and their companies to come to India and capture the lucrative markets, suddenly we had all the Indian women, some very beautiful and some not necessarily so, winning all the Miss Universe and Miss Worlds. Today, they are in a crisis and India is looking unstoppable despite its slums and poverty, and they are losing their businesses to us. Is it the time to paint India as the Slumdog Millionaire?? It might be just a coincidence and nothing intentional...whatever, I dont know..

Actually I wanted to know why was the Screenwriter award given to Simon Beaufoy who wrote Slumdog Millionaire, when it is based on the Boeke Prize winning and Commonwealth Writers' Prize nominated novel Q & A by Vikas Swarup , and I wanted to know the difference between the two:
-I realized movie is only based on the novel, and it is not the novel. There are many differences like:
-The character of Jamal is named 'Ram Mohammad Thomas'.
-Unlike the movie, Ram does not have a biological brother, but Salim is instead his best friend in the novel
-Ram is adopted by a Christian priest as a youth, which is where he learns English, and then is nearly molested by a visiting priest. The priest scenes were not included in the script for the movie,
-Latika is not his childhood friend in the book but rather a prostitute named Nita that Ram falls in love with in a brothel when he's 18.
-The Bombay Hindu-Muslim riots played no role in the book.


For the movie:

Junk pickers, the slums and the life….there including the open air lavatories, unhygienic condition…, riots, underworld, prostitution, brothels, child labour, begging, blinding and maiming of kids to make them into ‘better beggars’, petty peddlers, traffic jams, irresponsible call centre executives…are all portrayed.
The way kid Jamal runs for the autograph, show how crazy people here are, and its really pathetic.
Life’s difficulty teaches you…the answers…Difficulties of poverty, and the life of an orphan….having asked only the questions to which one could give correct answer…it really do happen sometime, and what is it called other than destiny!!! You know what is on a 100$ but not what is on a Rupees 1000 note. You know darshan Do bhagvan, is by Surdas…but .don’t know what is written on the three headed lion….
Destiny takes you places, from the slums of mumbai, to the Taj in Agra..to a chaiwala in a BPO and to being a millionaire…Never trust anyone….but yourself…that’s when he does not answer ‘B’ to the question on cricketer, and thinking the person feeding to be a saint…
Finding true love of 90 million people time and again, shows that things are possible….
Brother Salim’s doings and dying I could not interpret it!!
We actually have a notion that success eludes the poor and is only for the mighty & the rich section of our society..and this movie is for those…if a rich man wins the game of a millionaire, nobody would question him, but when it is a poor boy, there is interrogation even from the police!!.Yes slumdogs too can become a millionaire….Thanks for all those who made it big…..

It is Destiny, and destiny it is written……
Read more of it here...

And courtesy Prajoosh, I could see this movie...

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Buzzwords: Credit Crunch; Recession ...Yes we can

The business world is slowing down and companies are filing for bankruptcies. Not just ordinary companies, but MNC, who had been in business for a long time and are pioneers. To name a few, Lehman Bros, AIG, Merrill Lynch, Indy Mac Bank (the largest mortgage lender in the US), Bear Stearns. The seriousness and impact of this situation can be felt with the following statement by the Judge who ruled the sale of the assets of Lehman Brothers:

‘…In effect the only true icon to fall n a tsunami that has befallen the credit markets. This is the most momentous bankruptcy hearing I’ve ever sat through. It can never be deemed precedent for future cases. It’s hard for me to imagine a similar emergency……’

ICICI Banks in India were badly affected, but that collapsed and worst hit, but not DIRECTLY (because personally I find some relation and that is the link to the real estate) related to this was Satyam. If satyam was Indias Enron, I wonder and would really love to know the Indian Cynthia Cooper!

US sub-prime crisis.

The US sub-prime crisis has its roots in the US housing market. In 2006, out of the total housing loan mortgage assets of banks, 20% comprised of those issued to sub-prime borrowers.

About sub-prime borrowers:

Sub prime borrowers are ‘high risk’ borrowers who are required to pay a higher rate of interest than the regular customers for taking loans. A higher interest rate is levied on this segment of customers due to their lower ability to repay loans, lower/unknown credit history or unhealthy past in honoring their financial commitments to banks or other institutions. The risk of a default is perceived to be higher while lending to such customers, hence they are charged a higher rate of interest due to the higher risk involved. Such lending is referred to as sub prime lending.

The sub-prime crisis:

The sub-prime mortgage crisis came to the surface earlier this year when there were huge defaults in home loans by the sub-prime borrowers and banks had to liquidate their mortgaged property. The US property prices crashed and banks got struck with a severe shortage of liquid funds. The impact of the crisis was as under:

· Citibank and Merrill Lynch suffered losses on account of both their direct and indirect exposure to this segment.
· BNP Paribas halted redemptions in two asset-backed funds.
· UBS reported losses of US $ 700 mn.

The situation became alarming and central bank had to step into control the situation. The Fed announced interest rate cuts to improve the liquidity condition in the system. Since the beginning of the crisis, the US Federal Reserve has cut the Fed Funds rate by 100 bps to 4.25 per cent and has also simultaneously cut the discount rate to 4.75 per cent. The Bank of England also recently cut key rates by 25 bps to 5.5 % amidst growth concerns.

What does this mean to India?

Though US housing market woes continued, Indian Financial Institutions by and large had limited exposure to the US sub-prime sector. Thus the direct impact of the sub-prime crisis on India would be limited to that extend.

While the global linkages between India and the rest of the world have increased substantially in the recent past, the fact remains that the economy is still a largely domestic demand driven one. The rise in the levels of forex reserves to US $ 273 bn together with the structural changes seen over the past few years, in terms of higher rate of domestic savings, also increased the shock absorbing capacity of the Indian economy and leads us to continue to believe in the intrinsic strength of the same. Also our mixed economy culture may be a blessing.

Even though India boosts to be an independent country and a rising star in the horizon of word business, most of the business still comes from the US. Therefore the recession in the US will definitely slow down the growth of the Indian economy. Besides India, most of the worlds including Europe, Asia, and Russia have been affected.

It is hurtening to see people loosing their jobs, as with it comes end of many dreams...

Is it the beginning of the end, end of a wonderful era or the beginning of a new beginning? Can we say that the word is at the risk of coming to a standstill and there is nothing we can do about it!!!

I was just wondering this, and the inspiring acceptance speech, from Barack Obama echoed my ears ‘YES WE CAN’, indeed another lesson from another winner!!

‘……..The world today is connected by our own science and imagination, …..let us ask ourselves-if our children should live to see the next century;….What progress will we have made? This is our chance to answer that call…………………..that out of many we are one; that while we breathe, we hope, and where we are met with cynicism, and doubt, and those who tell us that we cant, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people: ‘Yes we can’.

Monday, December 29, 2008

O Divine one...

Silence is eternal, Resonance is a necessity.
Last year I wondered, if I had missed the train,
This year it was desire to be born a bird,
Life is beautiful but betrays, I wanted to see, understand and experience.

Relationships are divine,
But there are misunderstanding,
What is beautiful fades,
And we have only memories.

I realize, red rose blooms because it is spring,
Or I wonder; if it is its blooming that makes spring, spring.
There is so much to be seen, so much to be done,
What am I doing, except thinking?

O divine one, you make my spirit sour,
You play with my soul.
Would you just fleetingly once make me bloom?
For I know, you want me make my spirit fly.

Winning By Jack Welch with Suzy Welch.


Probably ‘Straight from the gut’ is better, but I could not read it still, nevertheless, ‘Winning’ by Jack Welch, is equaling to many management books. ‘Due to his vintage, he belonged to a very small club: people who have spent their whole careers at one company. He joined GE as junior engineer on getting his degree in 1961 after doing his PHD in Chemical engineering.

This book is based on the thousands of questions, which have been asked to the author, and according to him, most of them come down to this: What does it take to win?

Winning lifts everyone it touches-it just makes the world a better place. It is great! Not just good. When companies win, people thrive and grow. There are more jobs and more opportunities. So also when people win, family grows.

Every day in life there is a new question, in fact it is that which keeps us going. And the general advice given is:
‘Have a positive attitude and spread it around, never let yourself be a victim, and for goodness’ sake-have fun.’
The book is divided into four parts, and this is how it goes:

UNDERNEATH IT ALL

Conceptual in nature containing management philosophies namely:

1. MISSION AND VALUES

Mission announces exactly where you are going, and the values describe the behaviors that will get you there. Effective mission statements balance the possible and the impossible. Setting the mission is top management’s responsibility. A mission cannot be delegated to anyone except the people ultimately held accountable for it. In most common scenario, a company’s mission and its values rupture due to the little crises of daily life in business. The disconnections may sound minor or temporary, but when left unattended, they can really hurt a company. In the worst-case scenario, they can literally destroy a business. Eg. Arthur Andersen and Enron.

Missions and values cannot be vague and generic.
We need to take the time. Spend the energy.
Make them real.

2. CANDOR

Lack of candor blocks smart ideas, fast action, and good people contributing all the stuff they’ve got. It’s a killer.
THE CANDOR EFFECT:
i. Candor gets more people in the conversation, and you get idea rich.
ii. Candor generates speed.
iii. Candor cuts costs.
Why Not?
We are socialized from childhood to soften bad news or make nice about awkward subjects.
Eventually, you come to realize that people don’t speak their minds because it’s simply easier not to.

How to get it done?
We need to reward it, praise it, and talk about it. Most of all, you yourself demonstrate it in an exuberant and even exaggerated way.

It is true that candid comments definitely freak people out at first. It is impossible to think of everyone going on saying everything they think; it would be too much of information. Candor works because it unclutters.

3. DIFFERENTIATION

A company has only limited money and managerial time. Winning leaders invest where the payback is the highest. They cut their losses everywhere else.

GE concentrated on strong business that was No. 1 or No. 2 in its market. If it wasn’t, the managers had to fix it, sell it, or as a last resort, close it. Managers at every level have to make hard choices and live by them.

Differentiation form peoples part is the process of assessing the employees and separating them into three categories in terms of performance: top 20% (they are the best and needs to be treated that way), middle 70% (keep them engaged and motivated) and bottom 10% there is no sugar coating this: they must go. They often go on to successful careers at companies and in pursuits where they truly belong and where they can excel.

Differentiation is something that is seen in the playground children play, or in school grades. Not all become doctors right.

Protecting underperformers always back fires, they hurts the people themselves. Differentiation rewards those members of the team who deserve it, and it can be linked to a candid performance appraisal system. It clarifies business and makes it run better in every way.

4. VOICE AND DIGNITY
‘Know what you believe said Rudy Giuliani, and the belief is this: ‘Every person in the world wants voice and dignity, and every person deserves them’.

Everyone’s opinions cannot be put into practice or every single complaint cannot be satisfied. That’s what management judgment is all about. But everyone should be heard and respected. They want it and you need it.

YOUR COMPANY

Deals with the innards of organizations, about mechanics like people, process and culture.

5. LEADERSHIP

There is no easy formula for being a leader. If only!

Leadership is challenging- all those balancing acts, all the responsibility, all that pressure.

And yet good leadership happens, in all kinds of packages: quiet, bombastic, analytical, impulsive, tough, and nurturing. On the surface, you would be hard-pressed to say what qualities these leaders share. On the underneath, the best care passionately about their people, growth and success.

Are leaders born or made? Both. Some qualities like IQ and energy seems to come with this package, on the other you seems to learn some skills like self-confidence.

WHAT LEADERS DO?
i. Leaders relentlessly upgrade their team, using every encounter as an opportunity to evaluate, coach and build self-confidence. (Use ample praise, the more specific the better.)
ii. Leaders make sure people not only see the vision, they live and breathe it.
iii. Leaders get into everyone’s skin, exuding positive energy and optimism.
iv. Leaders establish trust with candor, transparency, and credit. (They never score off their own people by stealing an idea and claiming it as their own.)
v. Leaders have the courage to make unpopular decisions and gut calls. (You are not a leader to win a popularity contest-you are a leader to lead. If you’re left with that uh-oh feeling in your stomach, don’t hire the guy.)
vi. Leaders probe and push with a curiosity that borders on skepticism, making sure their questions are answered with action. (Don’t be just satisfied with statements that mollifies like ‘we’ll look into it’
vii. Leaders inspire risk taking and learning by setting the example. (just because you’re the boss doesn’t mean you’re the source of all knowledge)
viii. Leaders celebrate. (Work is too much a part of life not to recognize moments of achievement. Grab as many as you can. Make a big deal out of them)

6. HIRING

Every person you hire has to have integrity, intelligence and maturity.
Then there should be the 4-E namely Energy, ability to energize others, edge: the courage to make tough yes or no decision, execute and the P-Passion.
Beyond that at the senior level, look for authenticity, foresight, the willingness to draw on others for advice, and resilience.
Put them all together and those are the people who win.
Then there is few hiring FAQs discussed, and one most common question: What is the one thing to ask in an interview to decide whom to hire, and it is Why the candidate left his previous job and the one before that? Keep digging, dig deep.

7. PEOPLE MANAGEMENT

To manage people well companies should
i. Elevate quality HR to a position of power
ii. Use rigorous, nonbureaucratic evaluation system, monitored for integrity.
iii. Create effective mechanisms-read: money, recognition, and training-to motivate and retain. (Plaques and public fanfare have their place, but without money, rewards lose a lot of their impact.)
iv. Face straight into charged relationships-with unions, stars, sliders and disrupters. (Stars should be replace within 8 hours, sending message that no individual is greater than the company)
v. Fight gravity; treat middle 70% like heart and soul of the organization.
vi. Design org chart to be as flat as possible, with blindingly clear reporting relationships and responsibilities.

This takes time, but matters more, as companies are not buildings, machines or technologies but people.

8. PARTING WAYS

Firings are part of the business but they need not be bitter. It should be managed with little pain and damage as possible. Not all parting are created equal.
Firing for integrity violations-like staling, lying, cheating or any other fom of ethical or legal breach, should be immediate and all should know why, so that there is no breach.
Then there are layoffs due to economic downturns. Every employee should know how the company is doing.
Finally there are firing for non performance.
There should be no surprises, no humiliation. Every person who leaves goes on to represent co. They can badmouth or praise.

9. CHANGE

There are just four practices that matter:
i. Communicate a sound rationale for every change.
ii. Have the right people at your side.
iii. Get rid of the resisters.
iv. Seize every single opportunity, even those from someone else’s misfortune.

10. CRISIS MANAGEMENT

There will be crises, and eventually the flames will die down, and the whole place would be better.
· Know the anatomy of crisis
· Create a plan of action. Keep in mind the five assumptions:
a. The problem is worse than it appears.
b. There are no secrets in the world and everyone will eventually find out everything.
c. You and your organizations handling crisis will be portrayed in the worst possible light.
d. There will be change in the process and people. Almost no crisis ends without blood on the floor.
e. Your organization will survive ultimately stronger for what happened.
· Seek immunity.
a. Tight control
b. Good internal process
c. Culture of integrity.

YOUR COMPETITION


This is about the world outside the organization.

11. STRATEGY

It means making clear-cut choices about how to compete. You cannot be everything to everybody.
· Come up with a big aha for your business-a smart, realistic, relatively fast way to gain sustainable competitive advantage.
· Put the right people in the right jobs to drive the big aha forward.
· Relentlessly seek out the best practices to achieve your big aha, whether inside or out adapt them, and continually improve them.
The steps to test your strategy are:
i. Know what the playing field looks like now.
ii. Know what the competition has been up to.
iii. Know what you’ve been up to.
iv. Know what’s around the corner.
v. Know whats your winning move.


12. BUDGETING

It’s too important. Everyone knows about the Negotiated Settlement and the Phony smile dynamics. But there is another right budget process that can change the way companies compete. It may be awkward at first, but change can begin when you start talking. And the better way is that it should be focused on the two questions:
· How can we beat last year’s performance?
· What is our competition doing, and how can we beat them?

13. ORGANIC GROWTH

Opportunities of every size and variety await you. Grab them. Pick passionate, driven people to lead them, resource them with everything you’ve got, and give them oxygen to breath. There is nothing like the fun and sheer thrill of starting something new.
You are always going to want more autonomy than you get. Your best shot is to earn it. Fight like hell: Even through a few elbows.

14. MERGERS AND ACQUISITIONS

It means change, and you can reap the rewards of what happens when 1+1=3, is you avoid the seven pitfalls. Six are related to the acquiring company and just one to the acquired:
i. Believing that a merger of equals can actually occur. Despite the noble intentions of those attempting them, the vast majority of MOEs self-destruct because of their premise.
ii. Focusing so intently on strategic fit that you fail to assess cultural fit, which is just as important to a mergers success, if not more so.
iii. Entering into a ‘reverse hostage situation’, in which the acquirer ends up making so many concessions during negotiations that the acquired ends up calling all the shots afterwards.
iv. Integrating too timidly. With good leadership, a merger should be complete within ninety days.
v. Conqueror syndrome, in which the acquiring company marches in and installs its own managers everywhere, undermining one of the reasons for nay merger-getting an influx of new talent to pick from.
vi. Paying too much. Not 5 or 10 percent too much, but so much that the premium can never be recouped in the integration.
vii. One afflicting the acquired company’s people form top to bottom is: Resistance. In a merger, new owners will always select people with buy-in over resisters with brains. If you want to survive, get over your angst and learn to love the deal as much as they do.

15. SIX SIGMA

http://enrichknowledge.blogspot.com/2008/11/six-sigam.html

YOUR CAREER

It’s about managing the arc and the quality of your professional life.

16. THE RIGHT JOB

Find it and you’ll never really work again. The things to be considered while taking up a new job is: people, opportunity, options, ownership, and the work content (stuff). Finding the right job takes time and experimentation and patience. It gets easier the better you are. So choose something you love to do, and then give it your all.

17. GETTING PROMOTED

Sorry, No shortcuts. To get ahead you have to want to get ahead. Some promotions may come by luck, but very few.
Basically; getting promoted takes one do and one don’t:
§ Do deliver sensational performance, far beyond expectations, and at every opportunity expand your job beyond its official boundaries.
§ Don’t make your boss use political capital in order to champion you.
The most reliable way to sabotage yourself is to be a thorn in your organizations rear end.
Also there are four other dos and one more don’t:
§ Manage your relationships with your subordinates with the same carefulness that you manage the one with your boss.
§ Get on the radar screen by being an early champion on your company’s major projects or initiatives.
§ Search out and relish the input of lots of mentors, realizing that mentors don’t always look like mentors.
§ Have a positive attitude and spread it around.

· The don’t is: Don’t let setbacks break your stride.

18. HARD SPOTS-Working for a bad boss.

That Damn Boss. The world has jerks and some of them get to be the bosses. In any bad situation, you cannot let yourself be the victim. Generally speaking, bosses are not awful to people whom they like, respect and need. Think hard about your performance. It is indeed an awful feeling when your boss is not on your side. And you bump into such situation in your career, and if you endure the situation the potential reward could be big! Spend time with people you like, doing what you like, and reviewing business. Be careful. Uncertainty about the final outcome can make you do something foolish-that is, pull an end run. You may feel the impulse to sneak upstairs and talk to your boss’s boss about the situation. But that can be suicide. The big boss may have your best interests at heart when he scolds your boss for his behavior, but you can be absolutely sure that your life will only become more unpleasant afterwards. There is a reason why kids don’t tattle on bullies. Unfortunately, the same principle applies in the office.

19. WORK LIFE BALANCE

It is a swap-a deal you’ve made with yourselves about what you keep and what you give. Understand the reality:

1. Your boss’s top priority is competitiveness. Of course he wants you to be happy, but only in as much as it helps the company win. In fact, if he is doing his job right, he is making your job so exciting that your personal life becomes a less compelling draw.
2. Most bosses are perfectly willing to accommodate work-life balance challenges if you have earned it with performance. The key word here is: if.
3. Bosses know that the work life policies in the company brochure are mainly for recruiting purposes and that real work-life arrangements are negotiated one-on-one in the context of a supportive culture, not in the context of “But the company says…!”
4. People who publicly struggle with work life balance problems and continually turn to the company for help get pigeonholed as ambivalent, entitled, uncommitted, or incompetent-or all of the above.
5. Even the most accommodating bosses believe that work-life balance is your problem to solve. In fact, most know that there are really just a handful of effective strategies to do that, and they wish you would use them.

If you don’t fulfill your own joy with your work life plan, one day you’ll wake up in a special kind of hell, where everyone is happy but you.


TYING UP LOOSE END

Answers nine questions that did not fall into any of the above categories.

20. HERE, THERE AND EVERYWHERE
Managing the china threat, diversity, the impact of new regulations like the Sarbanes-Oxley act, how business should respond to societal crises like AIDS, how successor, Jeff Immelt is doing, and whether he think he will go to heaven.

Legendry entrepreneurs like Henry Ford, Dave Packard, and Bill Gates are undeniably examples of the excitement and glory of starting something new from scratch and watching it grow to astonishing proportions.

Though this was one of the three books received on renewing subscription to readers digest, a year before, Courtesy: training on leadership by Biju Sir in office, which prompted me to ponder over this book once again.

BONWIKK – OPI’s Annual Day

‘What is this life if full of care,

We have no time to stand and stare’



Amidst the busy schedule, soon after we saw

‘Mumbai standing at the edge of the sea, begging to sea Gods, for mercy; begging to carry her in the waves… to a world where there is no terror, violence and atrocity’, and

Awaiting the worst recession in the near past,



The Sports and Cultural committee of OPI brought out BONWIKK on 14th of December 2008 at Ramada Resort, a beautiful and natural site.



We had our special guest of honor from Symcor, KPMG and Cargill.



Function started by 6.30 pm with the formal inauguration by our President Kishore Mirchandani; welcome address by our Senior Vice President Suryaprakash Kukyan; and addresses by our guests.



As we celebrated our 3rd annual day, we remembered those who laid down their lives in Mumbai so that we are safe.



The highlight of the award function was to include drivers, security guards and housekeeping personnel over and above our employees who excelled in cultural and sports events.



This followed various cultural events, a lot of fun, music and OPIans putting up a fabulous show up there to delight the crowd.



S&C Committee did a skit on OPI’s recruitment & appraisal process and named it as OPI - Star Processor 2008. Alex Abraham walked away with the special gift hamper being the winner for the event organized for the managers. We also witnessed some enthusiastic OPIans displaying their singing talent in the Ganamela, and dancing talents with their dance performances. In addition, there was a skit cum dance by Leo and team.



Our Vice President Nilanjan Majumdar delivered the vote of thanks. M.C. for the day was none other than Ranjani Haridas of Idea Star Singer fame.



It was not yet over. We enjoyed a delightful dinner with family, colleagues, and the melodious music by DJ Savyo in the background, and OPIans dancing to the tune…!!!

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Mumbai, mere Jaan!!!


Mumbai: She always has unhealed wounds on her! When one fades, the other tears her off into pieces. She picks up the pieces and builds up herself when days wither. But when I see you standing at the edge of the sea, begging to sea God, for mercy; begging to carry you in waves…to a world where there is no terror, violence and atrocity, I hold my hands together to the heaven……

Mumbai, I want to hug you once, and cry!!

Indeed what a way of expressing the feelings, and who else could do it this way other than Prabu!! You can read him at a href="http://nightrain.rediffiland.com/iland/nightrain_diary.html">

Being so far, and busy with our daily routine, when it has effected us so much, cannot phantom the plight of the people there.....

Will there be an end to this terror or would it be an end of the world!!!

Had written about it earlier on 9th May 08 at http://arunoday.blogspot.com/2008/05/amchi-mumbai.html and had uploaded the beautiful photo of the Gateway of India, and the Taj! Indeed my jaan who had molded me into what I am today, given me shelter for the first 17 years of my life....

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Values

Getting my mobile after nearly one year, lost on 6th November 07, and got back on 31st October 08, after a span of nearly one year, was indeed a remarkable incident. And both happened, in the midst of my examination!

Well friends, here is a piece of information, please note the IP # of your mobile, and if you happen to loose your mobile, do not forget to launch the complaint with the police. They will get it searched from the cyber cell. The need is that the recipient should have started using the lost/stolen mobile.


Trust Lost on friend, proved to be genuine, and the person, a teacher….who has to teach the students, values, stealing a mobile, reveal the values practiced by today’s generation. She is a teacher, from a school in Kakkanad.

We have the ‘ashtadharmas’ taught in school, namely ahimsa, dharma, jnanam, satyam, sevanam, shanti, thyagam, and vinayam.

Practice of the same begins from within, as character is what we are in darkness. What is the use of preaching something and practicing something else? What is the use of serving the society, if one cannot serve the family?

Also the recent performance appraisals, also have brought to light that, just as birds of a feather are flocked together, knowingly or unknowingly people cherishing similar values, tend to be more friendly, to each other….It differs from people to people. For some it is respect, and for others it could be sincerity, honesty, punctuality, tolerance, Dignity….and so many…apart from the Ashthadarmas.

It is seen that, any person who can stick to a ‘maximum’ (It could be even lesser, say three ) of five values, irrespective of the situation is assured of achieving success in life…Values could be anything.

And this history as proved. Mahatma Gandhij, is related, to Truth and Ahimsa. Nehru, for his love for children……

The Inner beauty by Brahma Kumari was a book worth reading on this subject and, the advertisement on TATA mobile has left a mark Suno Dil khee Awaz, Dunya khi math suno, with people like Abdul Kalam, Karan Johar…..

"...I had a mixture of relations and experiences. Some of the relations were wonderful, and some of the experiences were awful, but the awful teachers served a good purpose by being a bad example. All examples are good" – something related said by Larry Ellison

To quote Swami Vivekananda, “let the world say whatever they want, stick to your convictions and the rest is assured, the world would be at your feat"

Mission announces exactly where you are going, and the values describe the behaviors that will get you there...One of the major reason for big shots like Arthur Andersen and Enron,to collapsed in flames, is the vision-mission melt down.

SHARE FOR PHYSICALLY CHALLANGED

To share is the best way to show we care.

Share, the way we show, we care; So let us cheer the special as spectators cheeer the goal.

Special could be those below poverty line, orphans, elderly people, physically challenged, natural calamity/terror attacked, or any other ways.Well how we forget, the first and the basic: Educate all. Our thoughts should have expression or it is of no use!!


Happen to meet few special people and have found that the inequality experienced by people 'disabled' by and in modern society is beyond expression. They do not have access to proper services for their needs and is forced to wait to be put to bed. They are excluded from mainstream society, forced to accept their condition, their impairment, and the society find it difficult to accommodate him. Society refuses to adapt itself to his impairment.

‘He sat in a wheeled chair, waiting for dark,
And shivered in his ghastly suit of grey,

Some cheered him home, but not as crowds cheer Goal.’ - Wilfred Owen


FINANCIAL

Assistive Technology like wheelchair, standing frames, text telephones, accessible keyboards, large print, Braille, & speech recognition computer software or sign language can be provided to the really genuine people. Also some need financial assistance to get operated.

The need is to ascertain the genuiness, and priorities them. There are some, who are just waiting to give a try, if they are able to get some financial assistance, which may not be a real success.

One member of the team is entrusted to measure, their requirement, collect the required details and ensure their genuiness in each of the following areas:

FAMILY FIRST: As service begins at home, the effort in this direction is communicated to the family members.

SCHOOLS & HOSPITALS: There are especial schools for such people, and even in government schools, and other schools, there are so many needy, which are found from references, of the teachers, and nurses/doctors, and the staff working there. Then they can be met in person, or in groups.

SOCIAL ORGANIZATIONS: There are many service organizations, working for the welfare of such people, like the Ramakrishna Mission, Chinmaya Trust, Christian Missionaries, Association can be set with them.

NEIGHBORHOOD: There are so many people in our surrounding, and we find so many of them on our way from home to office, place of worship, playground or market. Also it is seen that people around some polluted organizations face specific disability. These are to be tapped.


NON FINANCIAL

SELF HELP: What most of them need, is a regular help. Indeed there is no greater help than self help. And the need of the hour is to find means so that they can help themselves in the long run.
 We have identified Employment exchanges catering to the needs of such people.
 We need to identify disability insurance, nationalized and private: Disability benefit, or disability pension, is a major kind of disability insurance, and is provided by government agencies to people who are unable to work due to a disability, temporarily or permanently. In the U.S., disability benefit is provided within the category of Supplemental Security Income, and in Canada, within the Canada Pension Plan. In other countries, disability benefit may be provided under Social security systems. These need to be identified, communicated, and provided.


DONATION OF ORGANS: There are few acts in life that are nobler than donating our organs. Donating our organs after we are gone from this world is the closest and simplest that we can do, but we are reluctant, or ignorant about. Organs that can be procured include the heart, intestines, kidneys, lungs, liver, pancreas. These are procured from a brain dead donor or a donor where the family has given consent for donation after cardiac death, known as non-heart-beating donation. The following tissues can be procured: bones, tendons, corneas, heart valves, femoral veins, great saphenous veins, small saphenous veins, pericardium, skin grafts, and the sclera (the tough, white outer coating surrounding the eye). These are only procured after death. Organs that can be donated from living donors include part of the liver or pancreas and the kidney. An awarness about this has to be created, and proper matching has to be done.

CULTURAL/SOCIAL ACTIVITY PARTICIPATION: The Paralympic Games (meaning 'alongside the Olympics') are now held after the (Summer and Winter) Olympics. There is a need to popularize and encourage people towards this.

COUNSELING: Disability is not just a status condition, entirely contained within the individual. Rather, it is an interaction between medical status and the environment. There are many people who are in need of counseling, and in many of the cases, it is not just the special individuals, who need counseling, but their supporters.


To quote Sachin Tendulkar on: The Great Indian dream

“Let us work towards an educated, healthy and poverty free India. You may say I am a dreamer, Let me not be the only one….come share the dream…..

There is more to life
than cricket!!”

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Independence Vs. Freedom

These thoughts flash upon my inward eye, on seeing the pictures displayed at OPI-Kochi Cafeteria, for the photography ‘Expression’ competition. What would your favorite Parrot do as soon as you open its cage and if you have not cut its wings? Before you blink, it would fly away. A picture, like that of Nemo, raised a question, would the fishes have thoughts like Nemo in ‘Finding Nemo’ (computer-animated American family film).



How would you feel if you are taken away from your parents or loved ones, and put alone in a new circumstances/environment? How do you feel when your loved one is not around you or is no more?



Doing what you like is freedom. To do what you like you need not necessarily be independence. It may not be always possible to do what you want if you are independent. You may have to depend on others to do what you like. It is said that the biggest human freedom is the choice between Hate and Forgiveness. Freedom is normally with respect to internal realization.



When we normally speak about independence, it is a relative term. Nobody can be completely independent, unless they make a captive economy for themselves. One has to depend on so many things, so many times. Independence is dependent on outside objects.



Used as synonymous often, there have been numerous debates, as to if they are same or not. Whether it is at the level of individual, family, corporate, or country, there is some difference between independence and freedom. In celibacy there is independence, but in marriage there is freedom.



One would prefer going to US or Dubai, than Saudi Arabia? Most individualistic society is USA according to a 1980 study, and a centre of attraction for many. It could obtain this distinction, because of the function of the reasoning minds, of the people there, which began since its independence, declaration of the legal separation from Great Britain, on 4th July, 1776. Atmosphere there have made individuals independent, strong, reliable, and confident. Above all, you find freedom there. There is one of the greatest symbols of freedom, the Statue of Liberty, also known affectionately as "Lady Liberty". She welcomes arriving immigrants to US



Independence (of a nation) means the nation is not subject to the government of another nation. Freedom of a nation means that its citizens are free to determine their own fates and live their own lives. A country may be independent and not free and vice versa. Whatever, Independence Day, is a day of great rejoice for any country.



More than half of the independent countries in the world are democratic today. We can see that as years roll by, more and more nations are willing to accept democracy as a form of Government. It began with New Zealand becoming the first country to give full voting right to its people way back in 1900. The map of democracy is constantly changing since then.



The salient feature of democracy, which makes it outshine other form of governance, are:

1. There could be real freedom to express our views or opinion.
2. People could choose or change rulers.



During 2004-07 we would have come across this about India:



Headed by a Sikh economist,
Presided by a Muslim scientist,
Directed by a Catholic Italy born lady,
With 82% Hindu population,
Proclaimed to be worlds largest democracy,
We live in a country with a rich & varied heritage,
Willing to accept everything and everyone.
It can happen only in India……….





61 years ago, we broke ourselves from the clutches of British rule, and have become independent. But are we free now? Can we be free from the clutches of inequality, communalism, corruption and the like?

Good bye for sometimes…

Would this be the last minute dip? Don’t know, but would cage my thoughts and stop this for sometime.

As Achan always said about the King, who lost the battle seven times, and tired, but was motivated by the spider creating its web.

There are two of my colleagues, friends and parallels, Jomon and Beena who cleared, in May 2008.

Abhinav Bindra, began with the Sydney Olympics 2000: 11th position, Athens Olympics, 2004: Finalist, but nobody, knew or remembered him, till it was 2008 Gold, and this would not be easily forgotten.. It was not easy. At 16 year old, PT Usha was a baby of the Moscow Olympics 1980. At Los Angeles, she was a different athelete, but lost the medal by one-hundredth of a second. Came back after a break and marriage, but felt she could not make it, so set up a school and says that there would be medals, in 2016. Same is the case with Anju Bobby George, Virendar or Saina.

The real iceing on the cake, and truely inspirational and motivational was the way of Vijay...from Veegaland....Vijooos veega, within a span of 8 years, from accountant with M. Com in Veegaland, has qualified his MBA, and is a qualified professional Company Secretary. Along with his job intact, with promotions. And now is also a proud father of two lovely sons....A balanced, family, professional, personal and career life....Kudos to you....May you sail in the ship of ambition and anchor on the port of success....Indeed, the world is richer for those who aspires to ever reach higher and higher.

‘Its hard to give it away. When you want to, or you think you want to, something stops you.’ So I am back to my exams…..Oh! Examination what a botheration!!!

The great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do..

There are broadly two schools in art and literature. The first is ‘Art for art’s sake’ like that of Shakespeare or Kalidas, and the second is ‘art for social purpose’ like that of Shaw or Tagore. Though I could not excel in both, this gave me satisfaction, but as there are other important thing, Good bye for sometimes…

But I may be there at Erudition.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

A retrospect on India Today on Independence Day

Missing the flag hoisting, patriotic songs, dance, drama and speeches with the parade during the school days, could see them in Veegaland, now again after a break in OPI at the stroke of midnight hour!!

Otherwise it was only A Day off, but some jobs do not even have that!!! As said in the meeting, I thought of having a retrospect on India Today and this is what I could find:

TERRORISM:
On the way home on 15th morning had to go through the bomb detector at the railway station.
The most serious threat to democracy and nationhood since independence seems to be terrorism. A singe 11/9 attack on the twin world tower way back in 2001 is still unforgettable to the Americans, but terrorist attacks seem to be a daily cup of tea for the Indians. In 2007, the United States National Institute of Counter Terrorism calculated that between January 2004 and March 2007, the death toll in India from all terrorist attacks was 3,674, second during the same period only to Iraq, a country which has a civil war on its hands and an occupying army. It is time to say enough is enough, with a zero tolerance to terrorism. 23 blasts in 2 days, 54 dead 221 injured all metros on high alert. Attacks on successive days in Bangalore and Ahmedabad followed by People seem to be clueless about the attacks and attackers. Is there insider trading in this, or is it Islamic terrorist attack? Was scrapping POTA right saying that attacks on Parliament and Akshardham temple occurred when POTA was in force?

It is said that the suicide attack by ISI backed Taliban militants on the embassy in Kabul is aimed at derailing India’s reconstruction efforts in Afghanistan which has earned it considerable goodwill.

SPORTS:
Since 08.08.08- 08.08.08 (Second-Minute-Hour-Date-Month-Year: Wonderful isn’t it!)
all eyes are on the "Bird's nest" in Beijing, as things are unfolding at the greatest sporting event in the world. Thanks to 25 year old Abhinav Bindra, armed with an air rifle and nerves of steel, India has won its first ever individual gold at the Olympics. It should indeed be an inspiration for the young Indians! Last time at Athens it was silver by chilly Rajyavardhan Singh Rathore, who’s winning was an alchemist turning India’s dreams to gold. It was a step by step move forward beginning with one bronze. Any person can win or loose, but taking part with sincere support, hardwork, commitment, knowledge is necessary, and it seems to be beginning now. The boys from Bhiwani are showing better prospects with people like Dinesh kumar, Akhil Kimar, Vijender Singh and Jitender kumar in boxing, just missing the sip in badminton, like P.T. Usha, who almost lost her medal by 1/100th of a second. Isnt it too less for such a vast country and population like ours? Indeed, a lot of opportunity here!!

There are people like Sathyajith, completing his IIM and rejecting the highly paid job, for encouraging football in India. Though the hokey team showed a poor performance with motivating movies like chak de, expecting to have a bright future ahead in all sporting activates, with the increase in awareness, resources and talents in India.

Cricket team India, facing humiliating defeat in international games, are doing what they do best-getting in front of the camera.

It was skeptical to see cricketers sold like slaves at the IPL auction in January. Business men like Mukesh Ambani and Vijay Mallya and celebrities like Shah Rukh Khan and Preity Zinta, bidding for cricket franchises seemed more like acquiring a new hobby or a toy to play with than serious business. But Rs. 9,000 crores extravaganza has revolutionized the business of cricket giving everything together that India love- Bolly wood/ cinema, cricket and money. Millioners watched it, aired at the prime time, soon after the office hours, during summer break, ensuring maximum participation, and an opportunity for many new talents, who could not or still have not made to the Indian team. Eight teams, 128 players, 59 matches, in 44 days, at multiple venues, indeed involved mammoth logistical challenge. In the face of a serial bomb blast in one of the venue, Jaipur. Hats off to Lalit Kumar Modi, an Idea that changed the life of cricket. Modi- a Marwari born in Delhi, in 1963 and based in Mumbai, the scion of 8,000 crore K.K. Modi group. After school, where he occasionally connected willow to leather, Modi left for Duke University in North Carolina for a degree in management, but had to depart in baste in the wake of charges of drug abuse, in mid 1980s. To him the arithmetic of TV viewership and the almost-religious fervor that cricket triggered in India made immense business sense. No doubt, there would not be success without a good team work. Also there was Pawars support. On asking what IPL was for him, he said ‘Living this dream’. He is not planning to bill it as one-summer success, and there are even rumors that, there are plans for even second knock out session, from 2010, plans to sell franchise in Dubai!!! If his track record never set Dalal street on fire, there was Anil Ambani who failed to bid; asking why only eight team, why not nine, which itself is a proof that it was a ‘want factor’. Management technique of Kingfishers failed in cricket, but Vijay Mallayia had his brands emblazoned across not only his team’s jerseys but also across four other IPL teams. . Losing Royal challengers could afford to give gold plated gift to all the participants, the semifinals where like fixed, Chennai super Kings owned by India Cements, whose MD N. Srinivasan is also BCCI treasurer. And Rajasthan Royals one of whose owners is his brother-in law , a business man from Africa. It was a fight to the finish between M.S. Dhonis canary yellow clad Super kings and the blue-blooded Rajasthan Royals led by the bleached blond Shane Warne. Yes, it was the trainer, the captain, from the team, which was considered as underdogs, which emerged victorious. New faces/stars that emerged where, Manpreet Gony, Piyush Chawla, Yusuf pathan, Swapnil Asnodkar, Rohit Sharma and Amit Mishra. Dhone and Yuvraj too was wonderful, but there were some of our senior players who could not be upto their mark, but are still there in our team.

CRIMES OF PASSION:
Crimes of passion are ever rising, extra marital affairs, possessive males, liberated women. It’s providing a deadly mix. What’s behind it?

In the last 12 months, India has been witness to series of horrific murders which have happened in somewhat unusual circumstances. A few real life and not movie stories:

• A man named Reji Kumar, killing his wife and three children, and wife’s skeleton found from the septic tank of his house.

• The murder of teenager Arushi Talwar in Noida became a high-profile case due to the fact that her parents were prominent city doctors, and was the initial suspects in the case.

• The developments in the murder overshadowed the gruesome killing of Neeraj Grover from Synergy Adlabs, by the small-time kannada actoress Susairaj, who was dreaming big, with her boyfriend, Navy based, Lieutenant Emile Jerome in Mumbai, which added another chapter to urban India’s growing list of crime of passion. There are so many aspiring persons, who willing to outshine take up any ways, no matter what the price or the way.

• Infosys engineer Amit Budhiraja smothered his wife Sachdeva of one year after an argument over her alleged affair with a colleague.

• These are not new, almost 50 years ago, navy commander Nanavati had shot his English born wife Sylvia’s lover. But either they were lesser then, or less publicized.

• Husbands killing wives, and vice versa, with suspicion.

• Fake Swamis being unveiled in major parts of our country and ashram bapus being attacked.

• Fake currency, temple statues missing, corruption, black market, which existed are still not ruled out, but continues.

• Sixteen years later sister Abhaya, the nun who was found dead in a well at her convent in Kottayam, kerala, her case has been reopened.

Today’s young India is increasingly defined by lust, love and violence, which outpace everything else in life. Along with coke and Nokia, we have become net importers of social and sexual habits that are alien to a society still anchored in tradition. Isn’t it saddening to hear the association of fiery and a wonderful word like passion with crime?? But that is what is happening today.

As the present generation gallop towards professional success, they are leaving convention and their Laxman Rekhas far behind.

POLITICS:
There is more than one striking feature in BJP’s sweeping win in the Karnataka Assembly elections. Until this victory, the party was always seen as a north Indian phenomenon. It could not quite make inroads south of the vindhyas where, it is said, India is another country. Born in the Hindi heartland, the parties core constituency and its national appeal, was always limited. But Karnataka promised to change all that.

The Governments flip-flop over land allotment to the Amarnath Shrine Board has exacerbated tensions in the state and gives BJP one more chance to whip the congress, thus beginning another unholy war.

The UPA had earlier claimed high growth and low inflation as its own. But in the last six months, despite whatever the UPA has done, inflation has risen from 3.89% to double digit, till 12%. For sometimes there was no looking back. Fuelled by rising costs, inflation has wrecked household budgets and government finances. As it threatens to touch double digits and impact growth, the UPA dream team is faced with an economic challenge that is also a political nightmare, and as usual, their first reason is it’s a global phenomenon. History has an annoying habit of repeating itself, particularly through the utterance of politicians.

The dividends of three years of 9+% GDP growths are on its way to being eroded. As in 2004, with the NDA, the UPA Government too is faced with an India that is shining in part but that part either does not vote or doesn’t count for much. It seems it is the part that is suffering make its displeasure known at the polls. We could find the retired bureaucrat, as the father of two great legacies-liberalization and now becoming a true politician winning the no confidence motion, and with the nuclear deal.

If anyone ever doubted the oft quoted adage that in politics, there are no permanent friends or enemies, only permanent interests, then they can have no better proof than what is happening in Indian politics today.

BUSINESS & ECONOMY:
As acquisitions become an integral part of their strategy, Indian companies put into place innovations in the cultural and business landscape to make the mergers deliver results. My friends working for M&A consultancy astonish me by saying about the number of mergers taking place daily, though it is only the hi-fi ones that last long discussions like the Tatas, Birlas, UB Group, M&M, DRL, Mittals.

Then there is outsourcing, ever on its rise. Because people look for better service, rather than doing it all by self, they are willing to hand over non core activities of theirs to the specialist in that specific area, whether it is accounting, HR, transportation, marketing or whatever.

With waste management proving profitable, the world over, Indian entrepreneurs look at rubbish as a resource to build new business. People are making liquid fuel using plastic and organic waste. All the developments would be of waste, if the waste is not properly managed, and clean atmosphere provided for the residence, travelers and workers.

Infrastructure in India is improving whether it is roads, ports, retail outlets, communication, banking or insurance. But still there is dearth of electricity or agricultural products.Do not know why there are so many buildings for IT comming up, when there are many lying vacant, with no users to take them up. Rising cost is making it difficult to make both ends meet for the common people. Will there be an end to this, or a recession?

ENTERTAINMENT:
What is this Forbes First wives club? With Usha Mittal and Tina Ambani from India?? The past six months have seen debuts by several young men but the race to be Bollywoods next boy is still wide open, and the khan’s fights go stronger. Award nights increasing are becoming monopoly of who promotes and who hosts. Bachans are planning to carry their camp on their world tour; their lists are always, selective.
Radio, FM channels, TV channels, Reality shows, have all multiplies and opened up opportunities. Blogging, orkuting, and increase in use of the internet are the growing passion and interest of the present generation. We are not aware what is happening next door, how our immediate relative or friends is. Space, relationships, and the products we use are all becoming temporary or of shorter duration.

We do find time to pay homage to the dead like Brigadier Mehta, Surjith Singh, and ponder over the things done by them, see, re see and re listen to the things done by them, but do not find time to visit the neighbors who died.

Having celebrated our Independence Day, we are looking forward to celebrate our freedom!!!

In a world where you can be anything, let us be ourselves!!! Let us ask what positive we can give to our country too!!

Friendship day Again......

Do we really need a day for this!!! Indeed Take time to be friendly, it is the road to happiness!!!

International Friendship Day celebrations take place on the first Sunday of August every year. The tradition of dedicating a day in honor of friends began in US in 1935 and today it is celebrated in large number of countries. This year it was on Sunday, August 03, 2008


Well it is good to get at least one sentence mails from friends with whom we have lost touch as 'people come into our life for a season, reason or life time'

One of the favourate mails received this friendship day:

"I am quoting some lines from a famous song on friendship from Namak Haram



Diye jalte hain Phool Khilte hain

Badi Mushkil Se Magar Duniya Mein

Dost Milte Hain



Daulat Aur Jawani Ek Din Kho Jaati Hai

Sach Kehta Hoon Saari Duniya Dushman Ho Jaati Hai

Umra Bhar Dost Lekin Saath Chalte hain.

Diye jalte hain Phool Khilte hain

Badi Mushkil Se Magar Duniya Mein

Dost Milte Hain

It is indeed very difficult to find true lasting friendship."

So whats your opinion?


Happy Friendship day!!