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Wednesday, December 24, 2025

Audere est facere @250th Birthday of Jane Austen


“Audere est facere” is a Latin phrase that means:

“To dare is to do.”

Word by word

audere — to dare

est — is

facere — to do / to make

Meaning in simple terms

It expresses the idea that having the courage to attempt something is itself an act. Action begins the moment one dares.

Common usage

Used as a motto encouraging bravery and initiative

Famously associated with Tottenham Hotspur Football Club

Often quoted in motivational or philosophical contexts

Example sentence

“She believed in audere est facere—that daring was the first step toward achievement.”



It was a dream come true moment to talk about one of my favorite authors. 


What I spoke about was 
Austen's Memory, 
Austen's Magic and 
Why Austen Matter even today. 


Unveiling the Enchanted Realms of Jane Austen’s Fiction



Thanks to the literary community of the Chinmaya school for this opportunity. 


 

Sunday, January 07, 2024

Incredible India ~ Mastercrafted Copywriiting

Masterfully crafted, arresting visuals by Ogilvy for Incredible India. Masterclass in copywriters indeed. It's not just the Amul Ads.


'Not all Indians are Polite, Hospitable and Vegetarian'


'And to think these days men get away with giving chocolates and flowers to their wives'


'One day men will travel at the speed of thought. Pity. "


'The inspiration behind the rapid advancement in camera technology.'


'Rat race, stress, Corporate fiction, rise above it'


'A step by step guide to salvation' 



'Don't panic. There is always rebirth.'


What are your inspiration?

Wednesday, December 20, 2023

Dear Me

 Dear Me…..

Hearty Congratulations, for having come so far. Keep going. Always remember:

 

“Health is the first of life,

Wealth is the next of life,

Characters Courage is the best of life,

Respect is must in life,

Turning is the test of life,

God's blessing is the crest of life,

Love is crucial for life,

Happiness is the perfume of life,

Truth is the search of life,

Death is the rest of life...”

 

Balance is the key to life. Maintain a balance in all that you think, say, and do. Be Mindful. Finding a balance within, will create a balance in all areas of your life. Take care of your physical, mental, and emotional health.  Eat right, exercise well, have sound sleep. If you do not have good health, you do not have anything in life. Health gives you the energy to achieve anything in life.

When you start earning, and can provide for yourself, you become financially independent, but if you are able to not work, and let money work for you, you become financially free. Earn financial freedom in life as soon as possible. It is not only important to be independent, but more important to be free. Learn the trick of the trade.

“Know your chore values and live by it. Courage is the first of human qualities, because it is the quality which guarantees all others.” ~ Winston Churchill. If God brings you to it, he will bring you through it. If it is to be, it is up to us.  This too will pass away. This moment is inevitable. Live in the here and now. Be true, pure, strong, brave, friend to all, giving, humble and look up for there are those who trust you, those who care, there is much to suffer, much to dare, there are the poor and friendless, forget the gift, know you weakness. Live, Love, Lead, Learn and Leave a Legacy. Let this world be a better place, for you having had the opportunity to live here. Do the best you can. We are good, smart and we belong. You can lead too. Believe in yourself and in the strength, you have to shape your destiny, for nothing is impossible for a willing heart. “Grandeur of character is moral principle in practice.” ~ Grenville Kleiser.

 

Respect is a must in life. Courtesy is the foundation of every relationship. With self and with others – both tangible and intangible. There is so much of good in the worst of us and so much of bad in the best of us that it ill behoves any of us, to find fault with the rest of us. Each one is going through a battle; we know nothing about. Don’t blame, complain, or gossip. Have a kind heart. Respect self, others and the nature, and the results will follow.

Only thing constant here is change. How well you can cope with it is what matters. No two moment would be the same. You change, people in your life change, surrounding change, situations change. Adapt and adopt. Turning is the test of life. Pass each of them and move on to the next as soon as possible. There is no blueprint for all situations. Each of them would be unique. That is what would make life beautiful. Here you will have exams first and learnings/teachings will come later.

Remember what your dad always used to say? “All for himself and God for all. Time and Tide waits for no man.” Being religious or not, is an individual choice. All roads lead to the same destination. Once born we all die. But it is good to have a faith to hold on, to give you strength, and uplift you when needed. The belief in what you do not know, so that you can come to know what you believe in is your faith. It is the playing ground of impression developed from birth. Like every other thing, your environment, education and energy moulds it.

‘It is not the years in your life, but the life in your years that count.’ Life is very short. Spend it with gratitude, love and being positive. Let love be your guiding light, and may you light the world with your love. May you shine. Love is the solution for most problems in the world. Nobody is born a terrorist, they become one deprived of love.

With love as the guiding light, spread happiness, everytime, everywhere! May the world be always happy. When you drop the habit of judging others from your head to heart, you will not only be in a state of happiness but will be able to live in constant state of joy. May your joy lead you to blissful living.

Life by itself has no meaning, it is a platform to create your own meaning. Life is a paradox. Many people have spend wondering about it – Philosophers, spiritual leaders, scientist – It is like the chicken and egg paradox, and not a riddle. You can keep debating what came first, chicken or the egg. Keep taking the next step, keep progressing, keep creating, keep contributing and keep experiencing.

Learn from the mistake of others, you cannot live long enough to learn everything from your own life. Everything in life comes with an expiry date, including you and me. We have only one life that we know, and here only one thing is certain, we all die. Life is short. You live your life. Remember where you came from, and you will never be lost. Let the world say whatever they want, stick to your convictions and the rest is assured…

Be Good to self and to all. Live the ‘AND’ life. You cannot have it all at the same time, but you can have it all.

Best wishes for all your future endeavours,

Peace & Happiness Humesha,

With Warm Wishes & Lots of Love,

U No Hu I.

Me Ra

Sunday, December 05, 2021

Areas to work on in 2022

Take up some individual work to always have a hand in the ground work, it will help identify areas for streamlining, automation, issues, any gaps in processes, etc. It will help find things in the team, to improve. 

Keep checking the work of the team like reviews, etc. that also gives insights, helps strengthen your own functional skill set, keeps you aware of the Financials  try your hand on consolidation if you can..

Just doing your hair can change your full outlook... shift your churis to bright colors with some work on it.. put shawl on one side.

When you are 40 years of age, you have completed only 20 years of working life, you still have 20 years of working life, and another 20 after. 

Do not take hasty decision. Think and act. Keep improving. 

Keep gratitude and be away from complaining. 



Saturday, December 04, 2021

Skill Sets - Focus on Strength - Change for Good

The Secret of Change is to Focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new; with the existing strength:

Reshma: 

Management skills

Coordination

Solution oriented

Team player

Balancing the requirements of the business vs staff

Team building

Team engagement

Recruiting the right candidate with required skill set

Responsibility and dependability

Strategic and futuristic thought process

Maybe foresight is a better word...like foreseeing and planning for the future requirements

Reshmi:

Excellent team player

Passion for learning

Open for feedback for self improvement

Nature lover

Quick learner

Passionate for self improvement

Risk taker

Networking

Spreading happiness

Harnessing relationship s

Bring positive

Saroja

1) Trustworthy with whom I can share (always my first option) my pain/problems, both personal or professional😍


2) Kind and Helpful, have experienced many times in difficult situations. A true friend, that I thank God for giving me. 🙏😇


3) Adventurous - A great co-traveller to hang out with.. You will definitely have a memorable day.


4) Motivates, leads the team by equally contributing to work, appreciates work and nominates people to get recognized and grow. Hardwork and commitment 

Vanessa:

Friend

Helpful

Listens really well (personal, professional, instructions )

Thorough

Reliable

Respectful

Non judgemental 

Sees multiple perspectives on same issue

Respectfully challenging 

Team player

Fantastic at seeing both detail and overview

Proactive 

Problem solver

Approachable 

Clear when explaining / articulate 

Great mentor 

Self motivated

Knowledgable

Multi tasker

Deadline meeter

Amazing team player!!!!

Harshan

Peacekeeping 

Ability to keep calm

Humour 

Ability to empathise

Smile!

Christy

1) Excellent listener, and  remember everything said..

2) very generous: financially, emotionally, physically.. to all

3) thoughtful of others.

4) dedicated in  work matters.

5) act on impulses, mostly in enjoying life to the fullest..

6) great writing skills...

7) a good home maker, keeping  home n surroundings absolutely neat n tidy.. so yea cleanliness..

8) family is everything .. 

9) take strong n bold decisions, when required, outspoken..!!



Friday, July 09, 2021

The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale (Daily Listening)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&edufilter=NULL&t=1s&v=NbBHR_CD56M https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NbBHR_CD56M&t=1s 

Got the book on 25th Aug, and it became the 82nd of 2021



The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale

I'd like to tell you about 'The Strangest Secret' in the world. 

The late Noble Prize - winning Dr. Albert Schweitzer was once asked, "Doctor, what is wrong with men today?"  The doctor was silent, a moment, and then he said, "Men simply do not think". 

1) Men today, simply don't think. When young, all want to successful. Only 5% achieve success. 'Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal.' 

2) Opposite of courage is conformity. Conformity ....people acting like everyone else, without knowing why or without knowing where they are going. At 65 we are not financially independent, though all want to be successful. Instead of competing, what we need to do is create.
 
3) Some people seem to have a magic touch, because of goals. What would happen if the Ship starts from the harbor without knowing where to go? 

4) "We become what we think about." Throughout our history, great men have disagreed on many things, except this. If you think in negative terms, you will achieve negative results; if you think in positive terms, you will achieve positive results. Believe and Succeed. If a person thinks of nothing, he will become nothing. Human mind is the last unexplored continent in the world. A burned house can be rebuilt, but an unexplored mind cannot. Plan the seed in your mind. See yourself doing the things you want to. Every one of us is the sum of what he thinks. Your thoughts will mold your life and determine your future. It will shape your mind. It's up to you. You are in the driver's seat. This is the strangest secret of the world. Life should be an exciting adventure and not boring. As he believes so shall be done. To be successful understand – ‘As he sow so shall ye reap’. Imagine. Think positive. 

5) Human mind is the last great unexplored continent on earth. It contains riches beyond our wildest dreams. It comes as standard equipment at birth. It's free. And things that are given to us for nothing, we place little value on. Things that we pay money for, we value. The paradox is that exactly the reverse is true. Everything worthwhile is free - our minds, our souls, our bodies, our hopes, our dreams, our ambitions, our intelligence, our love of family and children and friends and country. All these priceless possessions are free and the things that cost us money are actually very cheap and can be replaced at anytime. 6See yourself doing the things you will be doing when you have reached your goal. You are in the drivers
seat. People are basically good. As he believes so shall it be done. For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Each of us succeed to our ability to sell. For this we must be willing to pay the price. First, we literally become what we believe. Our limitations are self-imposed. 

30 Day Action Ideas For Putting The Strangest Secret To work for you

Make a test to last 30 days. We can achieve nothing without paying the price.  Each of us succeeds in life to the extent of our ability to sell, 
7) It’s yours for the asking. What is the price? It is many things:
I. Understand emotionally as well as intellectually that 'You become what you think of '
II.Imagine- Cutting away all fetters from the mind and permitting it to soar as it was divinely designed to do.
III. Courage : Use all your courage to force yourself to think positively on your own problem. Set a definite and clearly defined goal for yourself and let your marvelous mind think about your goal from all possible angles, you are standing in the middle of "Acres of Diamond".
IV. Save 10% of every dollar you earn
V. Action Write on a card what you want to be - Ideas are worthless unless we act on them.

30 Day test: 

Every one want something and is afraid of something. 

8) Write on a card 'What you want more than anything else.' Make sure it is a single goal, and clearly written. You become what you think about. Stop thinking about your fear.  Second, Stop thinking about what it is you fear. 

9) Take control of your mind for 30 days. Maintain cheerful positive outlook. Know where you are going. “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. Or what man is there among you who, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? " Nothing great is possible without inspiration, don't let petty things bother you. If you sow positive thoughts your life will be cheerful, if you sow negative thoughts your life will be so. All you need is a purpose and faith. Do the best of whatever you are doing for the next thirty days. 

10) "Wake up and Live"  by Dorothea Brande- 'Act as if it was impossible to fail.' Provide service and product that are useful. Persist. Persistence is another word for faith. Habit will form. Don’t worry. Worry brings fear, and it is crippling. Be calm and cheerful. Don’t let petty things annoy you. Don’t be a failure or mediocre. Inspiration is important. 

11) Making money is the result of success and not vice versa. Only people who make money are those working in the mint, we need to earn money. For this we need to serve. Built, work, dream, create. We need to put the fuel in before we get the heat. You will get back what you put. Delude and you will get it back.  Prosperity is based on mutual exchange. To every action, there is equal and opposite reaction. Returns are equal to service. This is the price you want to pay for what you want. Don’t delude.

12)Success will depend on the quality and quantity of the service you render. If you want more provide
more service.Dr. David Harold Fink. Six steps for success: 
1. Set yourself a definite goal 
2. Quit putting yourself down. 
3. Stop thinking of all the reasons why you cannot be successful and start think of all the reasons why you can. 
4. Go back and think of the childhood, and why you thought you can’t be successful, if that is what you have been thinking 
5. Change the image that you have been thinking, by writing out the description, of the person you like to be 
6. Act the person you want to become.

13) Pay the price, by becoming the person you want to be. Flood gates of abundance will be open to you. 

Money?

Yes, lots of it.

Have peace. 

Start Today. 

You have nothing to lose, but you have a whole life to win.

This is Earl Nightingale,

Thank you,

“ HE IS EXACTLY WHERE HE IS BECAUSE THATS EXACTLY WHERE HE REALLY WANTS TO BE’ REGARDLESS’ HE LIKES IT OR NOT,  SO very powerful

Thursday, July 08, 2021

DISC Test

 https://www.tonyrobbins.com/disc/

"If there is a rare opportunity in life, it's self-awareness. Self-awareness of the difference between you and your patterns and the impact of your patterns on those around you."

- Tony Robbins -

Learn how to communicate better and achieve your goals:

DISCOVER WHAT DRIVES YOU WITH A DISC TEST

Self-awareness is essential to success. If you don't understand what drives your actions and behaviors, it's difficult to cultivate positive growth. As you discover what inspires you, you’ll identify what may hold you back from success, as well as the traits, habits and behaviors that propel you forward. When you take the DISC assessment, you will learn how to leverage the various aspects of your personality for a life of achievement that aligns with your personal values. Who is an ideal candidate for the DISC test? The DISC personality test is for anyone who wants to gain insight into themselves. It increases self-knowledge and can uncover limiting beliefs that hold you back from achieving your goals. It can also help you develop strategies to create a breakthrough in any area of your life. In most cases, a DISC assessment is used in a team-based setting. Identifying the communication needs of the individuals on a team facilitates better conflict resolution and overall stronger cohesiveness. These assessments are also useful in a sales environment, training members of a sales team to recognize and respond to the unique styles of their prospects or customers.

WHAT IS A DISC ASSESSMENT?

More than two million people have taken the 15-minute DISC assessment to better understand their personality type and behavioral style. Developed by psychologist William Moulton Marston, the DISC assessment examines how an individual ranks in the four areas of behavior – Dominance, Influence, Steadiness and Conscientiousness. Designed for both individuals who want to identify and maximize their strengths and motivators, and organizations looking to integrate high-performance teams, this $250 DISC profile is yours free of charge. DISC stands for “Dominance, Influence, Steadiness and Conscientiousness,” which are the four primary personality traits the test measures. Everyone has these four characteristics, but the strength of each varies depending on the person. The assessment can provide a common language that people can use to understand themselves and others. For example, you may score highly in dominance and influence while your colleague ranks in steadiness and conscientiousness. This can lead to misunderstandings and conflict if you and your colleague don’t attempt to understand what makes you different and how to best communicate with each other. None of the DISC personality traits are inherently positive or negative. The test and results are non-judgmental and help those who take it respond to conflict, resolve problems and discover what lies behind their common habits or working styles.



We’ve all heard the adage that the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. I’d like to congratulate you on joining the group of people who know, as I do, that the #1 secret to happiness isn't fame, money, freedom or even love. It's growth. It's progress. And I am not talking about CHANGE. There have been so many changes this year, due to circumstances in the external world that are beyond our control. Change is automatic. Progress is not. Progress is the result of conscious thought, decision, and action – and these are all internal, within ourselves. Despite what is happening in the world, you are 100% in control of your own progress. Here is a simple formula for you: Progress = Happiness. If you are progressing personally, professionally, emotionally, spiritually...you will be happy. Happiness comes from setting a goal, and moving towards it, step by step, until you finally achieve it. The question now is, what have you been meaning to do that you’re afraid to tackle? What journey are you longing to take but can’t seem to get started? Is it the journey to a peak state of health, to start a new business, to renew the passion in your relationship? Whatever it is, I will help get you there. As part of my community, you now have access to everything you’ll need to start your journey towards happiness and fulfillment. When you are ready, head over to my website to find more information on my virtual events, training programs, and coaching services. I’m honored that you’ve chosen me as your partner on this incredible journey to make your life a masterpiece – to do, be, and create exactly what you wish. Live with passion! Tony Robbins UNDERSTANDING DISC & MOTIVATORS DISC STYLES DISC is a simple, practical, easy to remember and universally applicable model. It focuses on individual patterns of external, observable behaviors and measures the intensity of characteristics using scales of directness and openness for each of the four styles: Dominance, Influence, Steadiness, and Conscientious. Your DISC Style: Formalist Formalist rely upon procedure and structure in all aspects of life. They are detailed oriented and seek perfection. They need to know the expectations and the timetable for their work. They can get bogged down in detail and will not rush important decisions. They will take a risk if they have the facts to support it. They may be initially suspicious of personal compliments, praise or flattery.  Emotionally: Internally focuses energy on holding themselves to exacting standards and doing things right; may appear reserved and restrained.  Your goal: To achieve stable and reliable accomplishments.  How you value others: The consistent ability to be precise and accurate.  How you influence a group: Through detailed and accurate input to team efforts.  The value you bring to an organization: Will embrace and support high quality and expected standards.  Cautions: Rely too much on past procedures; can become rule bound.  When under pressure: May revert to too much diplomacy and overly careful maneuvering.  What you fear: Aggressive, risky and confronting interactions; superficial personal relationships An Overview of Your DISC Style Below are some key behavioral insights to keep in mind and share with others to strengthen your relationships. Meera, people who score like you may tend to get bogged down in details during the decision-making process, thinking that there may be more information forthcoming that might impact the choice. It's true that there will almost always be more information available if we continue to wait; however, there is also a time at which the collection of data must stop and the decision must be made. Be aware of this when facing a series of data-driven decisions. Your response pattern indicates that you tend to hide your emotions. You are generally quiet in a group unless asked for input, or if the topic is one of high importance to you. Our advice is to move out of that comfort zone and be a bit more verbal. It will benefit the team, because many will not have considered the issues as deeply as you have. Your input will raise the quality of the conversation. And you will benefit by being perceived as a more open and interactive person. You take calculated, educated risks only after a thoughtful analysis of the facts and data, and after you have examined all options and potential outcomes. This is a strength. However, when the team has a deadline, you could be perceived as a bottleneck to the process. Not maliciously, but because you want to analyze the facts and data and determine all possible outcomes as a result of a decision. Be aware of this, and be prepared to abbreviate the analysis a bit when the clock is ticking. You tend to evaluate others by how well they implement and execute procedures, standards, and quality action. You hold others accountable to the same high standards that you maintain for yourself. Those who demonstrate these high standards (as you know, they are somewhat rare) are individuals that you will tend to hold in esteem. Your score pattern indicates that you tend to maintain a keen awareness of time. You tend to be on time or early for appointments, and expect the same consideration of your time from others. It annoys you when certain people are perpetually late, or when meetings drag on with no assigned time to end. You tend to make decisions slowly and carefully, only after consideration of all variables and input from others. Of the many patterns of behavioral styles, your scores put you among a minority of the population (a positive minority) who show the trait of careful and deliberate decision making when it comes to important decisions. We specify "important," because you may make routine decisions rather rapidly. An Overview of Your Motivators Aesthetic - Strong desire and need to achieve equilibrium between the world around us and ourselves (within) while creating a sustainable work/life balance between the two. Creative, imaginative, arty, mystical and expressive, this style may redefine or resist real world approaches to current challenges. Based on your Motivators assessment Aesthetic score: You appreciate real-world approaches and “feet on the ground” thinking and will view those with their “head in the clouds” as impractical. • You may view "feeling good" as a secondary and not a primary driver at work. • You likely believe creative people waste time and are too focused on non-essentials. • You are not likely to connect with impractical ideas emotionally or professionally. • You believe something's usefulness is more important than its appearance. Economic - The motivation for security from self-interest, economic gains, and achieving real-world returns on personal ventures, personal resources, and focused energy. The preferred approach of this motivator is both a personal and a professional one with a focus on ultimate outcomes. Based on your Motivators assessment Economic score: You will balance yourself between being satisfied with what you have and a need for more. • You are realistic and down-to-earth in regards to getting what you believe you deserve. • Your score indicates that there would be no excessive need to win when engaging with others. • You have the ability to identify with individuals who have both high and low satisfaction rates. • You may have already achieved substantial economic goals of your own. Individualistic - Need to be seen as autonomous, unique, independent, and to stand apart from the crowd. This is the drive to be socially independent and have opportunity for freedom of personal expression apart from being told what to do. Based on your Motivators assessment Individualistic score: You will seek independence, freedom, and positions of autonomy where you can freely express and display your reasoning. • You will likely have out-of-the-box ideas and want to share them. • If you were a penny in a jar of 500 pennies, you'd need to be the red one. • You will seek your own personal niche where you can be seen as unbelievable. • You'll likely take the necessary risks depending upon your appetite for jumping off the cliff and building your wings on the way down. Power - Being seen as a leader, while having influence and control over one's environment and success. Competitiveness and control is often associated with those scoring higher in this motivational dimension. Based on your Motivators assessment Power score: You can mediate all available ideas without an excessive need to control outcomes. • You will likely be on board with leaders who are competent, but may struggle with leaders who seem unskilled. • You can be both cooperative and competitive depending on the situation at hand. • You're a stabilizing force in normal team operations and will lead if necessary, but you don't need to. • You are able to understand both aggressive and passive leaders An Overview of your Motivators - Continued Altruistic - An expression of the need or energy to benefit others at the expense of self. At times, there’s genuine sincerity in this dimension to help others, but not always. Oftentimes an intense level within this dimension is more associated with low self-worth. Based on your Motivators assessment Altruistic score: You will seek to benefit others at your own personal expense and may find it very difficult to fight for what you want. • You will see the value in others much quicker than you will see it in yourself. • When your loss creates a win for someone else, you win. • When it comes to monetary things, you believe "you can't take it with you." • Selfish people turn you off. Regulatory - A need to establish order, routine and structure. This motivation is to promote a black and white mindset and a traditional approach to problems and challenges through standards, rules, and protocols to color within the lines. Based on your Motivators assessment Regulatory score: You believe there’s always another way when the current situation changes or roadblocks are apparent. • You'll likely do things "by the book," but it's your book. • You will more or less march to the beat of your own drum. • You probably don't appreciate being told what to do or handholding. • You're looking for freedom and autonomy in your work. Theoretical - The desire to uncover, discover, and recover the "truth.” This need to gain knowledge for knowledge sake is the result of an “itchy” brain. Rational thinking (frontal lobe), reasoning and problem solving are important to this dimension. This is all about the “need” to know why. Based on your Motivators assessment Theoretical score: You will tend to skip over information you consider unnecessary and will rely solely on what you already know. • You may find learning easier when you love the subject matter and may rebuff everything else. • You will not likely spend resources on continuing education. • You simply don't have a strong need to know what you don't know. • You won't likely appreciate learning for learning's sake as it may zap your energy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Meaning: A General Overview of the Four DISC Styles The Dominant ‘D’ Style: look at my accomplishments! Goals and Fears Dominant ‘D’ Styles, driven by the inner need to lead and be in personal control, take charge of people and situations so they can reach their goals. Since their key need is achieving, they seek no-nonsense, bottom line results. Their motto is: "Lead, follow, or get out of the way." They want to win, so they may challenge people or rules. Similarly, Dominant ‘D’ Styles also accept challenges, take authority, and go head first into solving problems. Closely related to Dominant ‘D’ Styles' goals are their fears: falling into a routine, being taken advantage of, and looking "soft". So, they may go to extremes to prevent those fears from materializing. They may act impatient, but they make things happen. "Do as I say" Since Dominant ‘D’ Styles need to have control, they like to take the lead in both business and social settings. As natural renegades, they want to satisfy their need for autonomy. They want things done their way or no way at all. Strengths and weaknesses They work quickly and impressively by themselves. They try to shape their environments to overcome obstacles en route to their accomplishments. They seek maximum freedom to manage themselves and others, using their leadership skills to become winners. They often have good administration and delegation skills. These assertive types tend to appear cool, independent, and competitive. They opt for measurable results, including their own personal worth, as determined by individual track records. Of all the types, they like and initiate changes the most. We symbolize this personality type with a lion--a leader, an authority. At least, they may, at least, have the inner desires to be #1, the star, or the chief. Less positive Dominant ‘D’ Style components include stubbornness, impatience, and toughness. Naturally preferring to take control of others, they may have a low tolerance for the feelings, attitudes, and "inadequacies" of co-workers, subordinates, friends, families, and romantic interests. From general to specific Dominant ‘D’ Styles process data conceptually by using deductive reasoning--from general to specific information. They are more comfortable using the left brain more than the right. When combined with their need for control, this helps us better understand the emphasis on getting down to the bottom-line results. Masters of "mind control" They are adept at blocking out distractions when they immerse themselves in projects. They don't hear voices, sirens, or doorbells. They seem to channel all their energies into specific jobs. Venting relieves their tension Under pressure, Dominant ‘D’ Styles are likely to rid themselves of anger by ranting, raving, or challenging others. They naturally react to tense situations with a fight response. Although this venting allows the relief of their own inner tensions, other styles may feel intimidated by this stress reducing practice. But the Dominant ‘D’ Styles' barks usually exceed their bites, and they may soon forget what specifically upset them in the first place. ---------- The Interacting ‘I’ Style: hey, look at me! Outgoing, Supporting, Interacting ‘I’ Styles Interacting ‘I’ Styles like to go where the action is. Typically, they are outwardly energetic or fast-paced, and relationships tend to naturally take priority over tasks. They try to influence others in an optimistic, friendly way focused on positive outcomes, whether in the social or work environment. In other words, if they show others that they like them, they figure others will be more likely to reciprocate by responding favorably towards them. Since recognition and approval motivate him, he often moves in and around the limelight and hub of activity. Goals and Fears He wants your admiration and thrives on acknowledgment, compliments, and applause. "It's not just whether you win or lose. . .it's how you look when you play the game." People's admiration and acceptance typically mean more to this type than to any other. If you don't talk about him, he may spend considerable time talking about his favorite subject--himself--to gain the acceptance he wants. His biggest fear is public humiliation--whether appearing uninvolved, unattractive, unsuccessful, or unacceptable to others. These frightening forms of social rejection threaten the Interacting ‘I’ Style's core need for approval. Consequently, he may go to extremes to avoid public humiliation, lack of inclusion, or loss of social recognition. Strengths and weaknesses Interacting ‘I’ Styles' primary strengths are their enthusiasm, persuasiveness, and friendliness. They are idea people who have the ability to get others caught up in their dreams. With great persuasion, they influence others and shape their environments by building alliances to accomplish results. Then they seek nods and comments of approval and recognition for those results. If compliments don't come, Interacting ‘I’ Styles may invent their own. "Well, Harry, I just feel like patting myself on the back today for a job well done!" They are stimulating, talkative, and communicative. This type can be represented by a porpoise--playful, sociable, and talkative. Their natural weaknesses are too much involvement, impatience, being alone, and short attention spans. This causes them to become easily bored. When a little data comes in, Interacting ‘I’ Styles tend to make sweeping generalizations. They may not check everything out, assuming someone else will do it or procrastinating because redoing something just isn't exciting enough. When Interacting ‘I’ Styles feel they don't have enough stimulation and involvement, they get bored and look for something new again. . .and again. . .and again. When taken to an extreme, their behaviors can be seen as superficial, haphazard, erratic, and overly emotional. "Let me entertain you!" If they pursue the entertainment field for careers, Interacting ‘I’ Styles typically allow their natural, animated emotions to show and flow. They become stimulated by the movement and reactions of the audience, trying to get the audience to figuratively fall in love with them by acting charming and friendly. They want viewers to feel, "He (or she) is fabulous!" --------------- The Steady ‘S’ Style: notice how well-liked I am Goals and fears Steady ‘S’ Styles seek your sincere personal attention and acceptance of them. Steadiness and follow-through actions characterize these people. They prefer a slower and easier pace. They focus on building trust and getting acquainted because they aim for long-standing personal relationships. Pushy, aggressive behavior secretly irritates them. They strive for security. Their goal is to maintain the stability they prefer in a more constant environment. To Steady ‘S’ Styles, while the unknown may be an intriguing concept, they prefer to stick with what they already know and have experienced. "Risk" is an ugly word to them. They favor more measured actions, like keeping things as they have been and are, even if the present situation happens to be unpleasant due to their fear of change and disorganization. Consequently, any disruption in their routine patterns can cause distress in them. A general worry is that the unknown may be even more unpleasant than the present. They need to think and plan for changes. Finding the elements of sameness within those changes can help minimize their stress to cope with such demands. Strengths and weaknesses Steady ‘S’ Styles naturally "wear well" and are an easy type to get along with. They prefer stable relationships which don't jeopardize anyone, especially themselves. Steady ‘S’ Styles can be represented by the koala with its accompanying slower, steady pace; relaxed disposition; and appearance of approachability and warmth. Steady ‘S’ Styles have a tendency to plan and follow through. This helps them to routinely plug along. But they have their own type of unique difficulties with speaking up, seeming to go along with others or conditions, while inwardly, they may or may not agree. More assertive types might take advantage of this Steady ‘S’ Style tendency to give in and avoid confrontation. Additionally, Steady ‘S’ Styles' reluctance to express themselves can result in hurt feelings. But if Steady ‘S’ Styles don't explain their feelings, others may never know. Their lack of assertiveness can take a toll on this type's health and well-being. Take it slow Steady ‘S’ Styles yearn for more tranquility and security in their lives than the other three types. They often act pleasant and cooperative, but seldom incorporate emotional extremes such as rage and euphoria in their behavioral repertoire. Unlike Interacting ‘I’ Styles, Steady ‘S’ Styles usually experience less dramatic or frequently-occurring peaks and valleys to their more moderate emotional state. This reflects their natural need for composure, stability, and balance. "Just plain folks" Steady ‘S’ Styles lend a tone of continuity, coziness, and project a genuine liking and acceptance of others. They are comfortable people to watch and listen to who emanate that "I'm just a regular person" modesty. They put on no airs and project contentment with present conditions--just as they are and always have been. ------------------------- The Conscientious ‘C’ Style: notice my efficiency Goals and fears Conscientious ‘C’ Styles concern themselves more with content than with congratulations. They prefer involvement with the performance of products and services under specific, and preferably controlled, conditions so the process and the results can be correct. Since their primary concern is accuracy, human emotions may take a back seat with them. Their biggest fears of uncontrolled emotions and irrational acts relate to their fear that these illogical acts may prevent goal achievement. Similarly, they fear emotionality and irrationality in others. They strive to avoid embarrassment, so they attempt to control both themselves and their emotions. Strengths and weaknesses Conscientious ‘C’ Style strengths include accuracy, dependability, independence, clarification and testing skills, follow-through, and organization. They often focus on expectations (e.g., policies, practices, and procedures) and outcomes. They want to know how things work so they can evaluate how correctly they function. Conscientious ‘C’ Styles can be cagey, resourceful, and careful. Because they need to be right, they prefer checking processes themselves. This tendency toward perfectionism, taken to an extreme, can result in "paralysis by over analysis". These overly cautious traits may result in worry that the process isn't progressing right, which further promotes their tendency to behave in a more critical, detached way. Complex and serious They prefer tasks over people, clearly defined priorities, and a known pace which is agreeable to them, especially where task timelines and deadlines are involved. Other types typically live life through a single predominant time orientation--past, present, or future. But Conscientious ‘C’ Styles are apt to be concerned about all three, as one aspect of their complex mental makeup. They tend to see the serious, more complicated sides of situations as well as the lighter--or even bizarre side--which accounts for their natural mental wit. Conscientious ‘C’ Styles concentrate on making decisions in both logical and cautious ways to ensure that they take the best available action. Think deeply Due to compliance to their own personal standards, they demand a lot from themselves and others and may succumb to overly critical tendencies. But Conscientious ‘C’ Styles often keep their criticisms to themselves, hesitating to tell people what they think is deficient. They typically share information, both positive and negative, only on a "need to know" basis when they are assured that there will be no negative consequences for themselves. When Conscientious ‘C’ Styles quietly hold their ground, they do so as a direct result of their proven knowledge of facts and details or their evaluation that others will tend to react less assertively. So, they can be assertive when they perceive they're in control of a relationship or their environment. Having determined the specific risks, margins of error, and other variables which significantly influence the desired results, they will take action.

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Wednesday, July 07, 2021

6 Human Needs - SF Walker

 Everyone experiences the same six human needs, however we all find different ways of satisfying these needs.

They can be met in ways that are positive and constructive or negative and destructive.

Six Human Needs Test (sfwalker.com)


What do they mean?



First three are the needs of the BODY. Adding LOVE, makes the first four, needs of the PERSONALITY and these four are essential to human survival.

Everyone must feel they have met these human needs on some level, even if that means being dishonest with one self in order to do satisfy the need. The last two are essential to human fulfillment and they are the needs of the SPIRIT.

Not everyone finds a way to satisfy last two even though they are necessary for lasting fulfillment. When our needs for contribution, growth and love are satisfied, they tend to encompass all our other needs.

Why are six human needs so important to understand?

It is important to understand they are not goals nor merely desires, but profound needs that underlie and motivate every choice, every belief and every decision we make.

Because they are the driving force behind any person’s behavior, understanding the needs and the vehicles used to meet them, we will have a better understanding of why life is the way it is currently and more importantly, how to facilitate change.


There is a test to be taken in the link to understand this:


Focus, meaning and physiology are essential to understanding individual motivation, as there are four stages to spiritual or moral development:

1. the need to dominate and control

2. the need to be loved

3. the need to love and protect others

4. the need to repent and to forgive


FIND OUT NOW

If you really connect with the statement and it truly describes you and how you feel, please choose YES.

If the statement partly describes how you are, its not a 100% yes, but its neither a complete no, please choose PARTLY.

If the statement makes you feel this is probably not how I am, please choose NO.

There is a total of 6 sections and the test will take 5-10 minutes to complete. Don’t overthink it and remember to HAVE FUN!

Write down what you think your need is before taking the test and than see what happens after you take it.

You get an email saying:

THANK YOU for taking the time to complete the 6 Human Needs Test. Please follow the link at the bottom of this email to get to your designated personal 6 Human Needs page, containing your results with detailed explanation. Will your expectations be met or will you be surprised? How well do you know your Self? Over the next 3 days, I will be sharing valuable resources I have created that will support you on this road of becoming the greatest version of your Self. This will help you learn, understand, accept and manage your own life in order to become Self Actualized. You can control what you think and what you feel. Practice is all that is needed. Be on the lookout for an emailed titled "Ch. 1 of 3: Took the test, whats next?" Just in case this email somehow is placed into your promotions or spam folder you can take these simple steps to move it to your primary folder: 1. Click on the "Promotions" tab to find the message 2. Click and drag it to the "Primary" tab 3. You'll be  asked if you want future messages from this email to go to "Primary"; click "Yes" In today’s fast paced world, more often than not we forget some simple, yet ultimate truths that make our life, and lives of those around us, so much better. I am here to remind people to slow down, to reduce the noise, to listen.

Love&Respect

Igor - SF Walker
International Best Selling Author
http://www.sfwalker.com/mystory
415.967.2131





Took the test? What next? - Chapter 1 of 3: So what is Strategic Intervention anyway? S.I. is a project created with a goal of identifying the most effective methods needed in order to improve everyday life. To improve performance and in order to accomplish individual change or change in group culture, through communication, raising awareness and strategic planning. Strategic Intervention accomplishes this by connecting the most effective ways of communication and strategies from disciplines like: Ericksonian psychology, strategic family therapy, human needs psychology, organizational psychology, neurolinguistic programing, psychology of influence, tradition of diplomacy and negotiations and other strategic studies.

Chapter 2 of 3

Knowledge is power, they say. I say, NOT REALLY. Knowledge is nothing more than information. 

APPLIED KNOWLEDGE, now that is power. 
 
A famous quote sums it up well: “Knowledge is knowing what to say. Wisdom is knowing when to say it.” Knowledge relates to facts that you have learned; wisdom is the ability to put that knowledge to good use.

The energy of knowledge when used and combined with the the power of emotion, you are moved into action and you transform that energy into wisdom. Now you actually felt it, big difference. This where awareness of the Emotional Intelligence enters.

Using this knowledge we can answer some of these basic questions we all have on our minds and become more wise:


Who am I?

Who do I want to be?

What will I do to get there?

How can I give back?

How will I help myself and how will I help others?

How do I realign with my CORE being?

What is it that I am supposed to do?

What is my gift to the world?

How do I wake up the amazing, beautiful, creative child inside of me and create a new world?

Better world for myself and everyone else that rewards me with sharing their time and space with me.

Today, the right questions and knowledge. Tomorrow, wisdom and results.

Chapter 3 of 3

WE CAN BE joyful, happy, healthy, curious, loving, kind souls, we always actually were!

WE CAN BE growing and contributing beyond ourselves!

WE WILL GET RESULTS BY:

- going deep inside.

- searching for the light within our own darkness.

- shifting the ways of thinking.

- taking responsibility and looking into the mirror instead of blaming the world.

- discovering what the driving forces behind everything we do are.

- reconnecting with core.

- working with mentors.

 We will discover how do we operate, the body, the mind, the soul.

It is time to get absolutely clear on one key distinction in life:

I am driving or I am being driven?

This is the time to learn how to program this amazing tool inside of our heads, guide it from our hearts and act from our guts.

We can use our minds and to be guided by our souls.

We can do this by doing work.

It is time to re-evaluate values, beliefs, habits, memories, experiences. Time to decide which ones stay and which ones finally do get replaced with something that serves better!

INSIDE OUT.

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Frozen Thought...

Thank you Smitha for sharing the wonderful magazines with us....

There was this wise old man who answers to all life-related questions. He was an enlightened person. A boy, in his adolescent years, wanted to test the wise old man. He caught hold of a little bird. Holding it in the palm of his hands, and with his hands hidden inside his coat, he asked the wise old man, “ I have a bird with me. Is it alive or dead?” The old man smiled and said, “If I tell you, the bird is alive, you will crush the bird and show me a dead one. If I tell you, the bird is dead, you will release the bird and show me it’s alive.


Embarrassed, the boy dropped his head and began to walk away. He would have hardly walked a few steps. He heard the voice of the old man, “ Mind you my son, in fact, this is the philosophy of life – your life and your death are in your own hands.”


In spite of the canvas, despite the paints and the brushes involved, the quality of a painting is the responsibility of a painter. Similarly, the quality of a sculpture is the responsibility of a sculptor. If so, then the quality of your life is your responsibility, and yours alone. Your life and your death are in your own hands. No blame is allowed.


If I ask you to carry a 12-Kg single granite stone and walk a kilometre, you would struggle with it. Now, I ask you to carry your child who is 12-Kgs for the same one kilometre and you will happily do it. Anything in life that is perceived as Kashtam Kashtam will only appear to be even more difficult. Do the same thing perceiving it as Ishtam Ishtam, the most complex of tasks can be done with effortless ease. Stop viewing responsibilities as a burden and start seeing them as opportunities. Stop saying Kashtam Kashtam to responsibilities and step forward to take responsibilities saying Ishtam Ishtam.

I will assume....don’t wait for others to offer your responsibilities. You take the initiative. You Volunteer. You step forward. Announce your presence.



I will assume unconditional...what is not unconditional never gets done. There is no point in keeping the ‘exit’ door open all the time. Burn the bridges. Conditions are required only to pass on the blame, in case there is a failure. Don’t even consider failure as an option. Where conditions succeed, responsibilities fail. Where responsibilities succeed, conditions are redundant. Just take it and do it.



I will assume unconditional responsibility.
The Lord may have borne the corss of your sins, but even he will not bear the cross of your growth. The cross of your growth is your responsibility, and yours alone. You alone must carry it.

Only when you feel responsible for your life, you can respond with ability. Else, it will be responding with disability. Put your hands up and be counted.


It is the eternal law of life- the law of impermanence – anything that begins will end. If it had a beginning, then it will have an end.


Did the day begin? Yes! Then the day will end. Did the year begin? Yes! Then the year will end. Did your relationship begin? Yes! Then it will end – either by parting with each other when life is still on, or through the death of one. We all have come into this planet with confirmed return ticket. The date is the only unknown factor to us.


Success is failure delayed. Failure is success delayed. Good times will be followed by recession and recession will be followed by great times. Every beginning will end and every end will result in a new beginning.

This isn’t a pessimistic view of life. It is the other way around. Because we know there is death, let us make the most of life. Because we know the day will end, let us make the day count. Because we know the year will end, let us do something significant to do it memorable. Because we know our tough times too will end, let us endure it with strength and courage. Because we know the best of times too will end, let us be humble even in our success. Because we know every relationship will eventually end, let us give ourselves completely and unconditionally to our loved ones.



Above all, because we know even we will end, let us live such a life that we leave a legacy.

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Prayer


Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.

Everybody today seems to be in such a terrible rush, anxious for greater development and greater riches and so on, so that children have very little time for their parents. Parents have very little time for each other, and at home begin the disruption of peace of the world.

Little things are indeed little, but to be faithful in those little things is a great thing.

A sacrifice to be real must cost, must hurt, must empty ourselves. The fruit of silence is prayer, the fruit of prayer is faith, the fruit of faith is love, the fruit of love is service, and the fruit of service is peace.

Make us worthy lord to serve those people throughout the world who live and die in poverty and hunger. Help me, help them come out of it and give them through our hands this day their daily bread and by our understanding love, give them peace and joy.

And as I type this, Neil is born...

Saturday, September 11, 2010

A miracle happens!


Miracles still happen and will happen…never loose sight of your signs…

We all need to be aware of our personal calling.

Omens, the language in which God talks to you. Strange but true. Learning a language is not an easy thing for everybody. This silent voice leads us to places.

At times some boost of their skills, abilities, acts. Would all that be possible if it was not destined?

Do not give up hope. There’s always a chance.


Some miracles have nothing to do with angels.

People would say that these are luck but has it got anything to do with luck! Can we say that it is God hearing our prayers! A miracle happens!

We cannot know anything for sure. Everything that we see, everything, that is in front of us, is only the visible part of reality. There are some questions in our life, about which we dont know, and it is a fact that we can't have answers for everything~

What is a Miracle? Is it something for which we have no answer, or something, for which we do not know the answer, or something else?

Friday, August 20, 2010

Energy


Most of the pages in todays Hindu had Rajiv Gandhis photo. As I wondered why, I realised today was his birthday. (20.08.1944-21.05.1991). Indeed, he has left a mark behind. Destined! Will of God?

Ad in todays Hindu, by the Ministry of petoleum and Natural Gas, Govt. of India...

'Energy is the key to the growth and development of any nation'

...upgrading ourselves in everyway and securing energy is the future of the nation....

Conserve energy for a bright future:

• Drive at optimum speed of 45-55 km/hr
• Maintain correct tyre pressure
• Switch off engine at traffic signals
• Light your stove only after you have kept all the ingridents within your reach and is ready to cook.
• Pressure cooking saves fuel and time.
• Use optimum quantity of water while cooking.
• Use higher efficency 'ISI'marked LPG stove.


There can be one criterian for measuring the development, how much high technology is used in the life of common man..Well this is external.

Look out for positive, spread positive, thoughts, energy..

Positive thoughts, positive feelings attract positive energy,and brings joy..
Negative thoughts, negative feelings attract negative energy,and brings sorrow..

That is what the Law of attraction also says...

Never discourage anyone who continually makes progress, no matter how slow..Never tell a person he is wrong...

Sunday, March 21, 2010

ICAI Logo..



Having been together just for two years, soon after our tenth, we My friend Geetha and myself, had made some decisions, which determined our destiny....
Since then, we had always been seeing this logo of the institute:
The logo of an organization packs in both heritage and brand DNA.

Nestle’s ’small nest’ bird family has stood for baby food, milk and milk products for the past nearly 100 years.

Chennai-based chartered accountant CS Shastri, a devotee of Sri Aurobindo and a Council member of the ICAI, sought his advice on a symbol that would capture the spirit and intent of the newly formed organization. According to Prasanta Mukherjee, who wrote about the history of the organisation’s emblem in `The Chartered Accountant’ “Sri Aurobindo gave CS Shastri the emblem with a Garuda in the center and a quotation from the Kathopanishad: Ya esa suptesu jagarti, One who is awake amongst those who are asleep.” This logo was finally selected amongst all the suggestions which were received.

The choice of Garuda as a mascot was an interesting one. The Garuda packs in strong symbolism as the Vahana of Lord Vishnu. He flies faster than thought and destroys the Nagas and Serpents. Sri Krishna, in the Gita, in the verse 10.30 says:
“Vainateyashcha Pakshinam” (I am Garuda, the son of Vinata, among the birds.)
The connection between Garuda and the Nagas is crucial to the philosophy of the logo for the newly founded organization. As Sri Aurobindo once described the connection between Garuda and Nagas thus, “….the winged Garuda revered to be the upbearer of divinity, who opens his vans to the sunlight and soars to the highest seat of Vishnu,” is also the eternal destroyer of the Nagas and “the Naga is the symbol of the mysterious earth-bound force in man.” The emblem was placed and adopted at the first meeting of the Council of the Institute in New Delhi on August 15, 1949


From an Indian perspective, Garuda is the Hindu name for the constellation Aquila and the Brahminy kite is considered to be the contemporary representation of Garuda.
Garuda is depicted as having the golden body of a strong man with a white face, red wings, and an eagle's beak and with a crown on his head. This ancient deity was said to be massive, large enough to block out the sun.

Other nations adopt a more stylistic approach to the Garuda's depiction, where it depicts an eagle (being much larger than a kite)
The eagle is the symbol for quiet power and scope. We must open our lenses, like the eagle, to see the forest and the trees, and to spot opportunities to create synergy by joining individual parts of our lives to make a greater, more dynamic whole person-a person who understands the meaning of team and time.
Team work, is like running a relay race. What is needed is supporting each other achieve our collective deadlines. Work together under difficult circumstances to ensure we have collective success.

Whatever we do, we must remember our aim at every moment. If you dream to fly with eagles, don't waste time in swimming with the ducks...