Margaret Mitchell

 

A husband’s teasing remark and a broken ankle — that’s all it took to ignite one of the greatest novels ever written. In 1926, Margaret Mitchell found herself trapped at home in Atlanta with a stubbornly broken ankle that refused to heal. The once-spirited journalist, who had covered city scandals and written sharp editorials, was now confined to a sofa, her restless mind caged in silence. To ease her boredom, her husband, John Marsh, brought her stacks of books from the library. She devoured them all — biographies, romances, histories — and dismissed most with cutting wit.

Finally, one evening, tired of her endless critiques, John set a typewriter in front of her. “Peggy,” he said with a teasing smile, “if you can’t find a book worth reading, why don’t you write one yourself?”

It was meant as a joke. But for Margaret, something stirred.

What began as a distraction soon became an obsession. She started writing about the world she knew — the old South she’d grown up hearing about, filled with war, pride, and the unyielding will to survive. At its heart was a woman both flawed and indestructible, one who refused to surrender no matter how much life took from her: Scarlett O’Hara.

Margaret wrote furiously, often into the night, surrounded by piles of paper. Yet she told almost no one. She hid her manuscript from visitors, mortified at the thought that someone might see her “scribbling.” Even after her ankle healed, she kept writing — secretly, quietly, for nearly a decade.

Her secret might have remained forever tucked away if not for another offhand comment. In 1935, an editor from Macmillan visited Atlanta and casually remarked that Mitchell didn’t seem like someone who could finish a novel. The words struck her pride like a match. The very next day, Margaret handed over her massive, unedited manuscript — thousands of pages thick, wrapped in brown paper and tied with a string.

When Gone with the Wind was published in 1936, the world exploded with it. Within six months, it sold more than a million copies. Newspapers called it “a national sensation.” Critics hailed it as an instant classic. In 1937, it won the Pulitzer Prize.

Two years later, Hollywood transformed her epic into one of cinema’s grandest triumphs. The 1939 film Gone with the Wind, starring Vivien Leigh and Clark Gable, became a cultural phenomenon — winning 10 Academy Awards, including Best Picture. Its sweeping romance, unforgettable score, and the iconic line “Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn” etched themselves into history. To this day, it remains one of the most successful and beloved films ever made, adjusted for inflation the highest-grossing movie of all time.

But fame was never what Margaret wanted. “I will never write another book,” she once said quietly to a friend, and she meant it. The spotlight made her uneasy. She withdrew from public life, declining interviews and avoiding parties. For a woman who’d written one of the most sweeping stories of all time, she lived the rest of her life in near anonymity.

On August 11, 1949, as she crossed Peachtree Street with her husband on the way to see a movie, a speeding taxi struck her. She died five days later at just 48.

Margaret Mitchell left the world as she had entered its imagination — suddenly, unexpectedly, and entirely on her own terms. She wrote only one book, but that single act of creation reshaped American literature — and cinema — forever.

And it all began not with ambition or fame, but with pain, boredom, and a husband’s playful dare.

As John Marsh once said after her death, “She didn’t write Gone with the Wind to make history. She wrote it because she couldn’t sit still.”

#fblifestyle

These lines that scroll across the screen at the beginning of Gone With The Wind are revealing

"There was a land of Cavaliers and Cotton Fields called the Old South. Here in this pretty world, Gallantry took its last bow. Here was the last ever to be seen of Knights and their Ladies Fair, of Master and of Slave. Look for it only in books, for it is no more than a dream remembered, a Civilization gone with the wind...

Following Fish ~ Samanth Subramanian 57 of 25

Starting from Kolkata and its Devi like Hilsa, on to Hyderabad and its miraculous fishy asthma cure, to the Tamil Nadu village of St. Francis Xavier, having toddy, Kappa and fish cooked in coconut oil from Kerala, to realizing the importance of Home food in Mangalore, learning that all Goans pastime is fishing  and how Mumba Devi 

 Goddess of Koli is now that of every one in Mumbai to finally  revealing  Gujarat to be the longest coastline and maximum fish producing and minimum consumption state in India, this book is an amazing read. 

It puts forth that irrespective of the region, all fishers have things in common though the fish vary as  Rupee is called differently across different regions. 

Wondering why nobody recommended Hilsa when in Calcutta? 

The Invitation ~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer

 https://read.amazon.in/?asin=B000WPXTJC&ref_=dbs_t_r_khbodl

Amazon says:

The author expands her prose poem into a spiritual guide to fully examining our lives, learning to live with intimacy & joy, and being true to ourselves.

"Poignant and poetic words and meditations on making the most of yearning, joy, beauty, commitment and solitude in our lives." —Spirituality & Practice

Shared by word of mouth, e-mailed from reader to reader, recited over the radio, and read aloud at thousands of retreats and conferences, "The Invitation" has changed the lives of people everywhere. In this bestselling book, Oriah expands on the wisdom found within her beloved prose poem, which presents a powerful challenge to all who long to live an authentic life.

In a world of endless small talk, constant traffic jams, and overburdened schedules, "The Invitation" opens the door to a new way of life—a way of intimacy, honesty, and peace with ourselves, others, and the world around us. Oriah invites us to embrace the varieties of human experience, from desire and commitment to sorrow and betrayal, and to open ourselves to all that is possible. The Invitation is an invaluable guide to overcoming the obstacles that stand in our way and to discovering the true beauty that life has to offer.

Accept the invitation and open yourself to a more meaningful life.

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I ask "Who is Oriah Mountain Dreamer?" and find:

Birth Name: Debra House. She adopted the name Oriah after a dream during a healing process; “Oriah” means light of God in Hebrew, and “Mountain Dreamer” is a medicine name given by a shamanic teacher meaning one who likes to find and push the edge. 

Nationality: Canadian. She grew up in Northern Ontario in a Christian household, later influenced by earth-based teachings of First Nations traditions.

Career:

Internationally renowned writer, poet, and teacher.

Author of several bestselling books, including:

The Invitation (translated into 15+ languages)

The Dance

The Call: Discovering Why You Are Here

What We Ache For: Creativity and the Unfolding of Your Soul

Opening The Invitation

Maintains a blog called The Green Bough.

Health Journey:

Diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome (ME/CFS) at age 30. Despite limitations, she continues writing and teaching, focusing on creativity and spiritual depth.

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The book was written one night, contemplating. With a desire to 'Love well'.

The book explores living authentically and making commitments that go beyond superficial goals. The three promises are about:

Showing Up Fully

Committing to be present in your life and relationships, even when it’s uncomfortable or uncertain. It’s about courage and honesty rather than perfection.

Living True to Yourself

Promising to honour your own truth, values, and desires instead of conforming to external expectations. This involves deep self-awareness and integrity.

Staying Open to Life

Remaining open-hearted and willing to engage with joy, pain, and change. It’s about embracing vulnerability and connection rather than shutting down.

The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer is a deeply reflective book about living an authentic, meaningful life. It expands on a famous prose poem by the same name and explores what it truly means to connect with yourself and others beyond surface-level ambitions.

The author begins with asking us to think what is one thing that we have always wanted to do, and beging with the chapter: 'The Longing'. 

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.

I want to know what you ache for, 

and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

The Invitation: A Guide to Authentic Living learnings from Oriah Mountain Dreamer

 

The Invitation: A Guide to Authentic Living

1. Show Up Fully

Personal Life: Be present in conversations—listen deeply, not just to respond but to understand.

Professional Life: Engage wholeheartedly in meetings and projects. Bring your ideas forward even when they feel imperfect.

2. Honour Your Truth

Personal Life: Make choices aligned with your values, not just what others expect.

Professional Life: Speak up when something conflicts with your principles. Authenticity builds trust and respect.

3. Embrace Vulnerability

Personal Life: Share your fears and hopes with those you trust. Vulnerability strengthens relationships.

Professional Life: Admit when you don’t have all the answers. It fosters collaboration and innovation.

4. Seek Depth, Not Surface

Personal Life: Focus on meaningful connections rather than appearances or status.

Professional Life: Go beyond KPIs—understand the purpose behind your work and how it impacts others.

5. Stay Open to Life’s Flow

Personal Life: Accept change as part of growth. Let go of rigid expectations.

Professional Life: Adapt to new challenges with curiosity instead of fear. Change often brings opportunity.

Quick Daily Practice

Morning: Ask yourself, “What matters most to me today?”

Evening: Reflect, “Did I show up fully and stay true to myself?”

Neuro-Linguistic Programming 56 of 25 NLP 56 of 2025

 

What is NLP?

Neurolinguistic programming (NLP) is a communication and interpersonal skills training model developed in the 1970s by Richard Bandler and John Grinder. Popularized by their 1975 book, “The Structure of Magic,” NLP has become fairly well known around the world.

In a nutshell, NLP suggests that changing unhelpful thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and communication patterns can:

• help shift your worldview for the better
• improve your relationships
• make it possible to influence others
• help you achieve goals
• boost self-awareness
• improve physical and mental well-being

Practitioners also say NLP can help address mental health conditions like anxiety and depression as well as physical symptoms like pain, allergies, and vision problems.

A single approach that offers such a wide range of benefits might sound pretty great, and NLP has received plenty of positive attention and acclaim.

But the approach has also received plenty of scrutiny and criticism from experienced mental health professionals because almost no evidence supports any of its purported benefits.

The creators break down the name as follows:

• Neuro- refers to the mental, emotional, and physical aspects of your neurology.
• -linguistic refers to the language and communication patterns you use with yourself and others.
• Programming refers to the impact your emotions, thoughts, and life experiences have on your present life.

According to NLP theory, the approach can help you improve communication with your unconscious mind and modify your mental “programs,” or the models guiding your interactions.

The way you think affects the internal and external language you use and the concepts you hold. This in turn affects the way you behave. It is a dynamic and synergistic process: the who is greater than the sum of the parts. Any internal or external change to any of the components will have an impact on whole. 

Basic principles of excellence are:

• We have all the resources we need
• The meaning of any communication is the effect it had
• There is no failing,  only feedbacks
• The map is not the territory:every persons map is unique.

Identifying and establishing outcomes is a central and first step in NLP. Focus on outcomes that you do want. It's more engaging and gives clear indication of your commitment.  

Make your choices or others will do it for you.

Outcome checklist

Positive: What do you want? What would you like to happen?

Specific: Where, who, when, what and how?

Evidence: What will you see, hear and feel when it happens?

Ownership: whose outcome is it, and what is your part in it?

Fit: How much do you want it? How does it fit with other aspects of your life?

Resources: Which have you used before and are transferable? Which do you need?

Personal and working beliefs:

Start with self. What drives you to be the way you are before considering other people's style and preferences. 

Beliefs are the assumptions we make . But us and others. On how we expect things to be.  These assumptions determine the way we behave and shape our decision making process.  They are often based on emotions than facts. 

What you believe about yourself is what happens to you. Hence the term 'self-fulfilling prophecy'.

Know the beliefs that are Empowering and change or discard those that are limiting. 

Create some questions to help understand as many views as possible of any situation.  Behind every action is a positive intention. Try to understand that.

Knowing yourself and others

What will help you recognize your own ond other people's preferred thinking and communication styles are called accessing cues or clues. It will help us access the way someone is processing whatever is happening around them. Processing of information is the representational system.  Predicates are the words we use that differentiate between representational system. Some like to view, some to read and others to listen. 

According to NLP’s creators, everyone has a personal map, or view, of the world that guides their choices and behavior. You create this “map” with the sensory input you receive as you go about your life:

• visual (things you see)
• auditory (things you hear)
• kinaesthetic (things you feel or sense)
• olfactory (things you smell)
• gustatory (things you taste)

According to NLP theory, you’ll likely find yourself using one of these more often than the others. That’s your PRS. Preferred representational system (PRS), or your preferred mode of sensory input.

The first is your language. A tendency to say:

“This looks…” or “I see what…” would suggest a visual PRS.

“I feel that…” would suggest a kinaesthetic PRS.

“I hear you” or “I’m hearing that…” would suggest an auditory PRS.

Another way to identify your PRS relates to your eye movements:

Visual involves upward movements to either side.

Auditory involves horizontal movements to either side, or downward movements to the left.

Kinaesthetic involves downward movement to the right.

NLP practitioners aim to identify your PRS to better understand your personal experiences and worldview. This insight can guide them toward the techniques best suited to your needs.

Of course, learning your own language isn’t the only aspect of NLP. Understanding how other people perceive the world through their own PRS can increase your awareness of their experiences and improve your communication

https://www.healthline.com/health/nlp-therapy#the-basics

Rapport is the process of building and sustaining a relationship of mutual trust, harmony and understanding.  This happens through matching the accessing cues from words, eye movements and body language. 

Rapport is partly established by matching the representational system and body language of others. There could be occasional mismatches.

We can disagree with someone and yet build a rapport. An extreme form of mismatching is turning your back. Pacing extends rapport by representing snd responding to someone's emotional state. Someone being 'infectious' show our ability to pace with them. Before leading to change, pace a couple of times to make sure you have understood.  

What exactly do you mean?

To  understand better use Meta Model, I.e a series of devices including specific questions. Take time to practice questions in your own way based on the circumstances.  Look for clarity.

Filter Systems

Metaprograms are the internal filters which people use to sort information they receive in a systematic way and which then determine their behavior.  It helps to appreciate and understand differences.

Timeliness and Metaprograms are generalization of how people process information and their resultant behavior.  They are not absolute and will alter with context. They are not right or wrong, just different.  They enable to think about patterns that help to understand and communicate better. 

Our memory will focus on people, place, things, activity, time and information.  It will vary from people to people. 

Chunking helps get a broader more general perspective of task. It can be up, down or sideways. 

Levels of change and reframing:

The way we communicate and process information is shaped by our representational systems, language,  thinking patterns and reframing. 

One of NLP's leading thinkers, Robert Dilts, suggests that there are 6 levels of learning,  communication and change termed as Neuro logical level because they fit together in a logical, hierarchical way. From the highers level to lowest, they influence you:

1. Spiritual/Purpose - who else?
2. Identity/Mission - who?
3. Belief systems and values- why?
4. Capabilities  - how?
5. Behavior- what?
6. Environment - where?

Think about an issue that is not right for you at present.  In which level is it based? Where might you start to intervene? Once you start to ask yourself the right questions, you may find you move around the levels. 

Reframing is changing the frame. It's a way of getting to say: 'How else can I do or consider this?'

Context reframing enables you to recognize that there is a positive place for any behavior.  Do the right thing, in the right place at the right time. 

Content reframing is where you change the meaning of a limiting behavior.  Like 'going blank', is ', concentrating.

Choice is better than no choice.

Increase your options 

Submodalities are how we code experiences and distinguish different sensory systems. 

Recognize the words that describe your good day, choose how to use them.

By changing tour Submodalities,  you can change the impact and meaning of your thoughts.  You can also change your approach to any outstanding tasks. It is connected with feeling confident and motivated. 

An anchor is any stimulus which evokes a consistent approach.  'We have all the resources we need' viz confidence, calm, energy,  concentration,  humour.

Locate your resource. Be in your chosen state. Choose your anchor(s).

Modeling is the process of understanding the thoughts and actions that enables someone to accomplish a task excellently.

As children we learn by modeling the people around. 

• Take the map of the world, based on the person whom you model on.
• Test the model element by element. 
• Design a way to teach the skill to others.

Be flexible.  

Aishwarya

 

I clearly remember the moment I came across an ad that starts with only eyes on the TV screen; the eyes you have never even imagined can exist; the beauty, the depth, and the mysteriousness were breathtaking. I was in a trance when the face that had those eyes apeared on the screen and said in a calming other worldly voice, "Beauty contest me aap se tarah tarah ke sawal puche jate hain, jaise jate waqat duniya ko kya dekar jayenbge aap?? Main apni ankhen eye bank ko de jaungi, jisse koi ye khubsurat duniya fir se dekh sake... mere jaane ke bad."

It's been about 25 years since but I can still feel those eyes watching me from the TV screen. I can still feel the rush of emotions in my little heart—the emotions of awe, admiration, and love. It was the moment I first fell in love. I still believe that when poets write about the eyes of the beloved, they must have imagined those very eyes, the eyes of Aishwarya Rai.

Over the years as I grew up, I witnessed the rise of Aiswarya Rai as an actress, as a cultural icon and as a symbol of women's empowerment, which is not just attributed to her successful career in the entertainment industry but also to her persistent efforts in advocating for social causes and gender equality. Her journey from a girl next door in Mangalore to being crowned Miss World to becoming a celebrated actress and a global influencer is a tale worthy of many retellings.

Aishwarya Rai was born on November 1, 1973, in Mangalore, Karnataka, into a Tulu-speaking family of Krishnaraj Rai, an army biologist, and Vrinda Rai, a homemaker. Her father's transfer took her to Mumbai, where she attended Arya Vidya Mandir and Jai Hind College for her early education. She then joined D. G. Ruparel College, Mumbai, for further education. She is also a trained classical dancer and underwent years of classical dance and music training, especially in Bharatnatyam and later Kathak.

Despite her academic success and a budding interest in architecture, which led her to enrol in the Rachana Sansad Academy of Architecture, Rai's destiny took a turn towards the glamour of modeling. It was the time when she won an international supermodel contest by Ford Motor Company, which led to her being featured in American Vogue. This win launched her modeling career, opening doors to numerous assignments and TV commercials. One of her most famous commercials came in 1993, when she teamed up with Amir Khan and Mahima Chaudhary for the now iconic Pepsi ad.

The pivotal moment in Rai's early career was the Miss India pageant in 1994, where she was placed second. However, her charm and elegance did not go unnoticed, and she was crowned Miss World later that same year. This victory was not just a personal triumph but also a national one, as it placed her on a global platform, representing India's beauty and culture to the world.

Following her success in the pageant, Rai transitioned into acting, making her debut in Mani Ratnam's Tamil film "Iruvar" in 1997 and her Hindi film debut in "Aur Pyaar Ho Gaya" the same year.

Rai's performances have been lauded both by critics and audiences alike. She has received numerous accolades, including two Filmfare Awards for Best Actress for her roles in "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam (1999)" and "Devdas (2002)." Her portrayal of strong, nuanced characters in films like "Taal (1999)," "Chokher Bali (2004)," "Raincoat (2004)," "Provoked (2006), "Guru (2007)," "Jodhaa Akbar (2007)," and "'Guzaarish (2010)" has been particularly praised.

Some of her other notable roles include Bride and Prejudice (2004), Shabd (2005), The Mistress of Spices (2005), Umrao Jaan (2006), Dhoom 2 (2006), The Last Legion (2007), Sarkar Raj (2008), The Pink Panther 2 (2009), Raavan (2010), Jazbaa (2015), Sarbjit (2016), and Ae Dil Hai Mushkil (2016). More recently, she was seen in Mani Ratnam's historical epic series "Ponniyin Selvan: I" and "Ponniyin Selvan: II" in 2023.

Rai's personal life has also been a subject of public interest. She married actor Abhishek Bachchan in 2007, and they have a daughter, Aradhya, together.

Rai Bachchan's influence extends beyond the silver screen. She has been a vocal advocate for various social causes, including her work with the United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS), where she has used her voice to raise awareness and combat stigma associated with the disease. She has also been a part of stage shows, brand endorsements, and is an investor in various ventures.

Her role as a UN Microcredit Spokesperson further exemplifies her dedication to social causes. Microcredit is a critical tool in fighting poverty, and Rai Bachchan's advocacy has helped bring attention to the importance of providing small loans to entrepreneurs in developing countries, enabling them to start or expand businesses and improve their livelihoods.

Moreover, Rai Bachchan's thoughts on women's roles in a patriarchal culture highlight her belief in gender equality. She has spoken at various international platforms, including the United Nations, where she has addressed issues such as gender-based violence and the need for equal opportunities for women and girls.

In interviews, she has imparted valuable life lessons, encouraging women to look beyond gender stereotypes and to be comfortable in their own skin. She emphasises the importance of self-conviction and cherishing one's journey, regardless of societal expectations.

Rai Bachchan's philanthropic journey is marked by her establishment of the Aishwarya Rai Foundation in November 2004. The foundation is dedicated to helping the underprivileged in India, providing support in various forms to uplift and empower the needy. Her vision for the foundation is to create a world where every individual has the opportunity to lead a life of dignity and purpose.

Rai Bachchan's commitment to eye donation is another facet of her philanthropic work. She pledged to donate her eyes to the Eye Bank Association of India and appeared in a public awareness film to encourage others to do the same. This act of generosity aims to give the gift of sight to those in need and raise awareness about the importance of eye donation.

As a passionate supporter of PETA India, Rai Bachchan has lent her voice to the cause of animal rights, advocating for the humane treatment of animals and raising awareness about issues such as cruelty-free living and the adoption of homeless animals.

Perhaps one of the most touching aspects of Rai Bachchan's philanthropy is her association with Smile Train, an international children's charity that provides corrective surgery for children with cleft lips and palates. As Smile Train’s first Goodwill Ambassador, she has not only advocated for these children but also celebrated the 'Day of Smiles' in memory of her late father, Krishnaraj Rai, who was a passionate supporter of the cause. Through her foundation, she has pledged to transform the lives of 100 children with clefts, ensuring they have the opportunity to smile and lead fulfilling lives.

Aishwarya Rai's influence extends beyond the silver screen. In 2009, the Government of India honoured her with the Padma Shri, and in 2012, the Government of France awarded her the Ordre des Arts et des Lettres. Time magazine named her one of the 100 most influential people in the world in 2004, highlighting her global impact.

As we celebrate the birthday of Aishwarya Rai, we wish her all the happiness and fulfilment of the world in her life and endeavors.

Credit for Pass when you Goal

 **What if your boss behaved like Harmanpreet Kaur?*

Sunday night, India created history — winning the 2025 Women’s Cricket World Cup Final.

A proud moment for every Indian. A watershed moment for women’s sports.

But amid all the fireworks, cheers, and tricolour celebrations, one quiet act stole the show.

As the team took their victory lap, Captain Harmanpreet did something extraordinary — she invited two legends, Jhulan Goswami and Mithali Raj, both retired stalwarts, to hold the trophy and walk with the team.

That single gesture defined leadership culture in its purest form.

Just one simple, powerful act that said everything about who she is as a leader.

Harmanpreet didn’t see them as “the past.”
She saw them as the foundation — the women who made it possible for this generation to dream.

And by inviting them, she set an example that didn’t reduce her stature — it multiplied it.
Because only a secure leader can share the spotlight.

And in doing so, she gave her team something priceless — a culture of trust, humility, and belonging.

Now, let’s flip the scoreboard and talk about our workplaces.

In many offices today, leaders act more like insecure captains.
They downplay others’ contributions, hold back recognition, or feel threatened by anyone who could shine brighter.

And then they wonder — “Why is my team not motivated?”

Simple. Culture trickles down from the top.

If the leader plays politics, the team plays safe.
If the leader steals credit, the team stops taking ownership.
If the leader can’t celebrate others, the team stops celebrating altogether.

I’ve seen it too often — high-potential teams collapsing under poor leadership.
Not because they lacked skill, but because they lacked psychological safety.

When leaders operate from fear instead of trust, even talent turns timid.

Now imagine if Harmanpreet had walked that lap with her team, trophy in hand, soaking up the glory for herself.
The message would’ve been — “This is my win.”

But by bringing Jhulan and Mithali in, she turned “my win” into “our legacy.”

That’s how culture is built.
Not through mission statements, but through moments of humility.

Corporate leaders can learn a lot from that victory lap.

True leaders don’t compete with their team — they complete them.
They don’t chase validation — they create loyalty.
They don’t fear being replaced — they build people who can replace them, and still revere them.

That’s how you build cultures that last — where success isn’t a one-time event but a living tradition.

As I watched Jhulan and Mithali lift that cup with tears in their eyes, one thought struck me —
Leadership isn’t about holding the trophy. It’s about knowing who deserves to hold it with you.

That’s how you build teams that don’t just win once —
They keep winning, long after you’re gone.

And in that one act, Harmanpreet didn’t just win a World Cup.
She won something rarer — the hearts and respect of her team and many more like me.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

*Gopal Sharma on LinkedIn*

Then what she did was when everybody started celebrating,  she called them and asked them to shake hands with South Africa first. 

The Writer I wish to be.

The writer  I wish to be:

1. Unapologetically me.

2. A catalyst for connections

3. Bridging the gap between ideas, people and generations

4. Creating lasting imprint

5. Committed to honing the craft

To be a writer:

1. A pen that doubles as a sword

2. A thick skin

3. Love for tea or coffee

4. Glide of imagination in thoughts. Trust your thouggts

5. A delete key

6. A stubborn streak in you

7. Turtle theory

8. Curiosity bordering on mild madness

9. Portable ego small enough to keep in your back pocket. Strong enough to survive feedback you receive 

10. Love hate relationships with deadlines 

It Takes a faith to be a writer. In your words and in yourself

Cricket: Women’s World Cup 2025

After years of heartbreak, near-misses, and endless grit, Harmanpreet Kaur and her team have made history — India are World Champions.

The stadium is roaring, players are in tears, and across the country, millions are wide awake, soaking in the moment that generations of women cricketers dreamed of.

“This means everything. We’ve been waiting for this for so long,” said Harmanpreet, her voice breaking with emotion.

“We said this is the last day of the tournament, whatever we have, we give it all. Whether it’s your body, your energy, your last bit of strength, we play for each other.”

For Smriti Mandhana, the victory was about more than a trophy, it was about legacy.

Amanjot Kaur, beaming through disbelief, added, “This one’s for every woman watching, and for everyone who believed in us.”

From the early pioneers who played without recognition to the current generation that filled the stadium, this victory belongs to them all.

As coach Amol Muzumdar called it — a watershed moment, this win is more than just a sporting triumph.

It’s a declaration: Indian women’s cricket has arrived, and the world is watching.

A brilliant performance by @shafalisverma17, who set the tone with the bat and struck crucial blows with the ball.

@officialdeeptisharma delivered a complete all-round performance, steady with the bat and turning the match with 5 massive wickets.

@smriti_mandhana capped off an outstanding tournament, leading India’s charge with consistency, elegance and grit.

And @richa9105 batted with solid determination, holding the innings together when it mattered most.

Congratulations to Captain @imharmanpreet_kaur for leading with belief and composure and to Coach @amolmuzumdar for shaping a side that plays fearless, united and full of heart.

Is this what you call destiny?

Shafali was dropped after inconsistent performance. She was probably watching this World Cup on television. 

Then Pratika gets injured and she is back in the team. And she contributes both with bat and ball in the final to make it a dream comeback! 

Shafali masterstroke the highlight of India women’s cricket’s historic title win

Ten days ago, no one expected Shafali Verma to be anywhere near the World Cup final. Today, she shone with bat and – unexpectedly – with ball on a night Indian women’s cricket will never forget.

 

Boria Majumdar

 

She wasn’t even part of the squad, and was eventually called up in the most unfortunate circumstances when Pratika Rawal was injured. Call it divine providence or call it an absolute masterstroke, but Shafali Verma played the stellar hand in winning the Women’s World Cup for India. First with the bat, with a brilliant 87. An innings that was worth more than a 100. She kept the scoreboard moving and decidedly put the pressure on South Africa after India lost the toss yet again. A strong start was a must and Shafali and Smriti Mandhana ensured India got it. Some of her shots were brilliant and the best part was she did not give it away, something she had been guilty of in the past.

But then, with the bat, one expected her to do something at the top. Not so much with the ball. All tournament, Harmanpreet Kaur was called out for her captaincy. The Shafali move was the one that will be remembered forever. South Africa were going well when the skipper went to Shafali. And it was met with instant success. Two wickets in two, one of which was the legend Marizanne Kapp – that was when India got the match under control. And in that wicket, Richa Ghosh, who has been average at best as wicketkeeper, moved perfectly to take the catch down leg. It was the moment that summed up the match. Every aspect that India needed to improve – with the ball and on the field – was seen and, all of a sudden, the blue wave erupted at the DY Patil. This is not to forget the run-out by Amanjot Kaur that set the tone and her juggling catch of Laura Wolvaardt that finally put the seal on an unforgettable display.

This is a victory for the ages, and will change the game forever. Tomorrow morning, thousands will pick up the bat or ball and decide to become cricketers. Overnight, this sport will become a viable profession, and finally, women’s cricket has its own 1983 moment. The men weren’t able to get over the line in November 2023. The women did so in 2025. India will celebrate this for long, and a home World Cup win will take us back to that night of April 2, 2011. This is a night like no other for Harmanpreet, Smriti, Jemi and every player who played today. And the ones on the bench. They are now a cult that a billion will celebrate.

India crossed the 50-run mark in 6.3 overs and got to 64/0 in 10 overs and then went past 100 runs in 17.2 overs, reaching 102/0.

Deepti Sharma (58*) and Shafali Verma (87) got half-centuries as India reached 298/7 in 50 overs.

Shafali and Smriti Mandhana attacking Kapp. But Mandhana eventually outside-edged Tryon in the 18th over, and was caught at 45 off 58 balls. 

India's semifinal hero Jemimah Rodrigues failed to continue her good form, losing her wicket for 24 off 37 balls. Harmanpreet Kaur also failed to build on her form from the semis, and was dismissed for 20 off 29 balls.

 It was a delayed toss due to rain, and it took place at 4:32 PM. South Africa captain Laura Wolvaardt won the toss and opted to bowl. She played an amazing match. Only person to take a century.  Woman of steel.

The Shefali Show.

 As Sachin Tendulkar puts: "1983 inspired an entire generation to dream big and chase those dreams. 🏏 

They prove that "Mhaari choriyo choro se kam hai ke"! 🩵🇮🇳

Jhulan Goswami & Mithali Raj finally watching their dream come true!

They built the fortress of Indian women'scricket, brick by brick, in an era when the crowds were sparse and the struggles were many. 

They carried the weight of a billion dreams on their shoulders, so that one day, another generation could lift it with a billion cheers.

This is for Mithali Raj, whose bat wrote the first chapters of our belief. For Jhulan Goswami,whose fiery spirit paved the path with passion.

They never got to hold this trophy, but make no mistake—their fingerprints are all over it. This victory is also their legacy, finally realized. 

The pillars of Indian women's cricket. Forever our champions. 

 Smriti Mandhana took Pratika Rawal to the stage for the celebration👌♥️Just one word 'Compassionate' Champions 🏆

Today, our Women’s Cricket Team has done something truly special. They have inspired countless young girls across the country to pick up a bat and ball, take the field and believe that they too can lift that trophy one day. 🏆 

This is a defining moment in the journey of Indian women’s cricket.

“A heartfelt salute to those parents who let their daughters step out, chase their dreams, and live life on their own terms. You are the true heroes behind every strong woman.”

It's for every girl who was told "no," for every coach who believed in the "what if," and for every unsung hero whose quiet work built this magnificent roar.

Looks like a scene out of Chak de India- somewhere I want to thank Shah Rukh Khan for that movie- somewhere i truly believe it changed something for Indian women’s team sport. Very appropriate that this win happened on Shah rukh Khan’s bday. This  must feel like  the best gift for him today.

They say the best view of the victory parade is from the driver's seat. But what about the one who built the chariot? The one who drew the map, fixed the wheels, and whispered, "You can," when the destination seemed a world away.

Domestic star Amol Muzumdar’s dream of playing for India was a chapter fate never wrote. But he never closed the book. 

Instead, he kept honing his craft, unaware that his greatest innings was waiting in the wings -- not on the field, but in the training grounds.

When he took charge of the Indian women's team in 2023, he didn't bring noise; he brought a profound calm. He built a fortress of belief where doubt once lingered. 

Today, as the World Cup trophy gleams under Indian skies, this victory belongs as much to the players as it does to the man whose own dream transformed into a nation's reality. 

Amol Muzumdar, your legacy is no longer about the caps you didn't earn, but the belief you instilled, the World Cup you helped win, and the profound lesson you taught us all: sometimes, the most beautiful dreams are the ones we help others achieve.

Your time was always coming. It was just waiting for the perfect moment to make a country proud. 🇮🇳🏆

The leaders of a WORLD CUP WINNING TEAM 🫡❤️

Captain Harmanpreet Kaur and vice-captain Smriti Mandhana soaking it all in 🏆

Indeed A Chakde story, with Amol Muzumdar Sir as Coach. 

This is the sound of glass ceilings shattering, set to the tune of a country's cheers. This is history, held in their hands. This is for India. This is forever.

Well done, Team India. You’ve made the whole nation proud. 🇮🇳 💙"

We have been there and know the pain of wanting to but not winning. 

Two centuries! One in semifinal and one in final. Unbelievable stunning performance! Still a loser. Is it right to call her that? Definitely not! Winning and losing are part of the game of life. She has won billion hearts by her performance. Don’t ever lose hope. Everything happens for a reason. Just accept and increase the bar and keep slogging. Believe in yourself! Stay positive!

Shadow and Jungian Philosophy

 Jungian philosophy, developed by Carl Jung, is a psychological and philosophical framework that explores the human psyche, emphasizing the collective unconscious, archetypes, and the process of individuation.

Key Concepts:

1. *Collective Unconscious:* A shared reservoir of archetypes common to all humans.

2. *Archetypes:* Universal symbols, images, and patterns that recur in human thought and experience.

3. *Personal Unconscious:* Unique, individual experiences and memories.

4. *Individuation:* Integrating the opposites (e.g., conscious and unconscious, rational and emotional) to become a whole, balanced individual.

5. *Shadow:* Repressed or hidden aspects of one's personality.

6. *Anima/Animus:* The feminine/masculine aspects of the psyche.

Influences and Applications:

1. *Psychology:* Jungian concepts influence psychotherapy, personality development, and depth psychology.

2. *Philosophy:* Jung's ideas intersect with existentialism, phenomenology, and hermeneutics.

3. *Literature and Arts:* Jungian themes appear in literature, film, and art, exploring the human condition.

Core Principles:

1. *Holism:* Emphasizing the interconnectedness of the psyche and the importance of integrating opposites.

2. *Self-Discovery:* Encouraging individuals to explore their unconscious and develop a deeper understanding of themselves.

Jungian philosophy offers insights into human nature, creativity, and personal growth, influencing various fields beyond psychology.

Let's dive deeper into Jungian concepts and their applications.

Archetypes

1. *The Mother:* nurturing and protective

2. *The Father:* authoritative and guiding

3. *The Child:* innocent and curious

4. *The Trickster:* mischievous and transformative

5. *The Hero:* courageous and determined

Shadow Work

1. *Confronting repressed aspects:* acknowledging and integrating hidden parts of oneself

2. *Self-awareness:* recognizing one's flaws and weaknesses

3. *Personal growth:* developing a more authentic, whole self

Individuation

1. *Integration of opposites:* balancing conscious and unconscious, rational and emotional

2. *Self-realization:* understanding one's true nature and potential

3. *Wholeness:* achieving a sense of completeness and unity

Applications in Daily Life

1. *Personal growth:* self-reflection, journaling, and therapy

2. *Creativity:* exploring archetypes and symbolism in art, literature, and imagination

3. *Relationships:* understanding and working with different personality types and archetypes

Modern Relevance

1. *Mental health:* Jungian concepts inform therapy and counseling practices

2. *Spirituality:* exploring the collective unconscious and archetypes in spiritual practices

3. *Culture:* analyzing cultural phenomena through a Jungian lens