Saturday, April 05, 2025

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff... and It's All Small Stuff ~ Dr. Richard Carlson (15 of 2025)


An amazing Birthday gift. Since long in my 'To Buy' list. 

 The book Don't Sweat the Small Stuff... and It's All Small Stuff by Dr. Richard Carlson is a bestselling guide to living a more peaceful and centered life by not letting little things stress you out.

It contains 100 short, practical chapters—each just 1–2 pages long—offering tips on how to stay calm, reduce stress, and focus on what really matters.

Chapters in Don't Sweat the Small Stuff... (a selection of key ones):
  1. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff
  2. Make Peace with Imperfection
  3. Let Go of the Idea that Gentle, Relaxed People Can’t Be Superachievers
  4. Be Aware of the Snowball Effect of Your Thinking
  5. Develop Your Compassion
  6. Remind Yourself That When You Die, Your ‘In’ Box Won’t Be Empty
  7. Don’t Interrupt Others or Finish Their Sentences
  8. Do Something Nice for Someone Else – and Don’t Tell Anyone About It
  9. Let Others Have the Glory
  10. Learn to Live in the Present Moment
  11. Imagine that Everyone is Enlightened Except You
  12. Let Others Be 'right' most of the time
  13. Become More Patient
  14. Create 'Patience Practice Periods'
  15. Be the first one to Act Loving or Reach out.
  16. Ask Yourself the question, "Will this matter a year from now"
  17. Surrender to the Fact That Life Isn’t Fair
  18. Allow yourself to be Bored - Peace - Release
  19. Lower your tolerance to stress
  20. Once a week write a Heartfelt letter
  21. Imagine yourself at your own funeral
  22. Repeat to yourself, "Life Isn't an Emergency"
  23. Experiment with your back burner
  24. Spend a Moment Every Day Thinking of  someone to Thank
  25. Smile at strangers, look into their eyes and say Hello
  26. Set aside quiet time, everyday
  27. Imagine the People in Your life as Tiny Infants and as One Hundred Year Old Adults
  28. Seek First to Understand
  29. Become a Better Listener
  30. Choose Your Battles Wisely
  31. Become aware of your moods and dont allow yourself to be fooled by the low ones
  32. Life is a test. It is only a test. 
  33. Praise and Blame are al the same. 
  34. Practice Random act of Kindness
  35. Look Beyond Behavior
  36. Se the Innocence
  37. Choose Being Kind over Being right
  38. Tell three people today, how much you love them. 
  39. Practice Humility
  40. When in doubt about whose turn it is to take out the trash, go ahead and take it out. 
  41. Avoid Weatherproofing
  42. Spend a Moment, Every Day, Thinking of Someone to Love
  43. Become an Anthropologist
  44. Understand Separate Realities
  45. Develop your own helping rituals
  46. Every day, tell at least one person something you like, admire or appreciate about them
  47. Argue for your limitations and they're yours
  48. Remember that everything has God's fingerprint on it. 
  49. Resist the urge to Criticize
  50. Write down your five most stubborn positions and see if you can soften them
  51. Just for fun, agree with criticism directed towards you (then watch it go away)
  52. Search for the grain of truth in other opinions
  53. See the Glass as Already Broken (and Everything Else Too)
  54. Understand the statement, "Wherever You Go, There You Are"
  55. Breathe Before You Speak
  56. Be Grateful when You're feeling Good and Graceful when You're feeling Bad
  57. Become a less aggressive driver
  58. Relax
  59. Adopt a child through the mail
  60. Turn your Melodrama into a Mellow-Drama
  61. Read Articles and Books with Entirely Different Points of View from Your own and try to Learn something
  62. Do One Thing at a Time
  63. Count to Ten
  64. Practice Being in the "Eye of the Storm"
  65. Be Flexible with changes in Your Plans
  66. Think of What You Have Instead of What You Want
  67. Practice Ignoring Your Negative Thoughts
  68. Be willing to learn from Friends and Family
  69. Be Happy Where you are
  70. Remember that You Become what you practice most
  71. Quiet the Mind
  72. Take Up Yoga
  73. Make Service an Integral Part of Your life
  74. Do a Favour and Don't Ask for or Expect, one in Return,
  75. Think of Your Problems as Potential Teachers
  76. Get Comfortable Not Knowing
  77. Acknowledge the Totality of Your Being
  78. Cut Yourself Some Slack
  79. Stop Blaming Others
  80. Become an Early Riser
  81. When Trying to be helpful, focus on little things
  82. Remember, One Hundred years from Now, all new people
  83. Lighten Up
  84. Nurture a plant
  85. Transform Your Relationship to your problems
  86. The Next Time You Find Yourself in an Argument, Rather than Defend Your Position, See if You can See the Other Point of View First
  87. Redefine a " Meaningful Accomplishment"
  88. Listen to Your feelings (They are trying to tell you something)
  89. If someone Throws you the ball, you don't have to catch it. 
  90. One more passing show
  91. Fill your life with love
  92. Realize the power of your own thoughts
  93. Give Up on the Idea that More Is Better
  94. Keep Asking Yourself, ‘What’s Really Important?’
  95. Trust your intuitive Heart
  96. Be Open to "What Is"
  97. Mind Your Own Business
  98. Look for the Extraordinary in the Ordinary
  99. Schedule Time for Your Inner Work
  100. Live This Day as if it Were Your Last. It Might Be!
What Makes the Book Unique is easy to read: You can finish a chapter in 1–2 minutes.

Practical wisdom: Simple mindset shifts that really work.

Great for students, professionals, parents, anyone wanting calm.

Top 10 Life-Changing Lessons – Summary

1. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff
Most of what we get upset about is minor. Ask yourself: Will this matter a year from now?

2. Make Peace with Imperfection
You don’t have to be perfect. Let go of perfectionism and enjoy being human—flaws and all.

3. Let Go of the Idea that Gentle, Relaxed People Can’t Be Superachievers
You can be calm and still achieve great things. Inner peace doesn't slow you down—it sharpens your focus.

4. Surrender to the Fact That Life Isn’t Fair
Accepting life’s unfair moments helps you stop fighting reality and start flowing with it.

5. Choose Your Battles Wisely
Not everything deserves your time or energy. Learn to walk away from petty conflicts.

6. Live in the Present Moment
The only moment you can truly live in is now. Worrying about the past or future robs you of joy today.

7. Do One Thing at a Time
Multitasking feels productive, but it creates stress. Focus deeply on one task, and you’ll do it better and faster.

8. Be Grateful When You’re Feeling Good, and Graceful When You’re Feeling Bad
Gratitude grounds you. Grace keeps you steady in tough times.

9. Become the Most Loving Person You Know
Kindness, patience, and compassion make you magnetic. Lead with love.

10. Repeat to Yourself: “Life Isn’t an Emergency”
Slow down. Breathe. Almost nothing is as urgent as it seems.

Friday, March 28, 2025

The Pyramid Principle ~ Barbara Minto (14 of 25)

Work becomes easy, when you  have a structure in place and you need not keep amending/correcting what is done. The Pyramid Principle, Logic in writing and thinking is a book by Barbara Minto, which focuses on structured thinking, writing, and communication. It introduces a systematic approach to organizing ideas clearly and persuasively, making it especially useful for business professionals, consultants, and students as there are tips on how to write Letters, Newspaper Articles, Reports, Essays and Books. We put words in our documentations and presentations and think it's perfect. As we read we are unlikely to see the flows. 



In The Pyramid Principle the author asks us to think and have an overall picture first, before we put down anything in words. The book is divided into two parts, the first six chapters covers logic in writing and the next for chapters cover logic in thinking. 

In the first part on logic in writing, Barbara Minto drives home the need for a pyramid structure and how we can sort our information into Pyramid. Start with the Conclusion (Top-Down Approach) think from the bottom up.  Instead of building up to the main point, present the core message first and then support it with reasoning.

The substructure within a pyramid should have vertical relationship, horizontal relationship and the introductory flow. This follows the SCQA method (Situation, Complication, Question, Answer).

We can use deductive (why) or inductive (how) reasoning to support the main point. Group Ideas into a Logical Pyramid Structure. Arrange supporting arguments into logical categories under the main conclusion.

Author suggests that we follow the MECE Principle (Mutually Exclusive, Collectively Exhaustive),  ensure points do not overlap (mutually exclusive) and together cover all possible scenarios (collectively exhaustive) and we use Clear & Concise Language by avoid unnecessary complexity and jargon. We can use parallel structures for easy understanding and highlight with the use of Headings, numbering, indents and bullets. 

In Part II on the logic in thinking, Barbara Minto covers questioning the order of a grouping. It could be time order, structural order or ranking order. Try to understand and answer, if there is a problem, where does the problem lie? and why does the problem exist? Use logic trees for understanding. Note down, how things are before, after and what are the changes.  Summarise Action ideas and Situation ideas. Include Deduction, Induction and Abduction in the summary. 


Question the summary statement. Draw inference from conclusions. Then put the thoughts into readable words by creating mage and copying the image in words. Overloading technical communications with Jargon's and employing a tortuous and cramped style is largely a matter of fashion, not of necessity. Dress your ideas in such a fashion that people find pleasure in the process of absorbing them. Do conceptual thinking in images. It will help retention too. 

The Appendix discusses on how to solve problem in structureless situations. 

In any reasoning process you always deal with three distinct entities:

  • A Rule (a belief about the way things are structured)
  • A Case (an observed fact that exist)
  • A Result (Expected occurrence on applying the rule to the case)


An example given in the book in how to make a presentation:



The book has given me a new perspective into the Art of Writing. 

To quote Professor William Minto, "In writing you are as a commander filing out his battalion through a narrow gap that allows only one man at a time to pass; and your reader, as he receives the troops, has to re-from and reconstruct them. No matter how large or how involved the subject, it can be communicated only in that way. You see, then, what an obligation we owe to him of order and arrangement - and why,   apart from felicities and curiosities of diction, the old rhetorician laid such stress upon order and arrangement as duties we owe to those who honor us with their attention. "


Sunday, March 23, 2025

Kochi - The Hues of Spring

**Kochi - The Hues of Spring*

March draws close her days, heralding spring.
In God's very city, as the _Kannikonna_ * trees,
glitter in their bright yellow attire, enjoying the heat.
Hear blessings drop— their soft golden petals.
Listen to the wind whispering.
The _Chuttiyatta's*_ bird song begins before dawn,
almost a lullaby outside my window.
What do the meandering rays of the sun prophecy?
The banana leaves edged with lemony green,
laden with luscious food— did they remark too,
about the arrival of this season?
I sense them, sweltering and glistening too,
ready to enjoy the renewal,
in this period of mellow fruitfulness.
Look, the sky is an infinite deep azure,
brushing puffy cottony clouds of white,
while beneath, the earth throws over herself
a Veridian shawl, sending out shoots of life.
Amber buttercups call excitedly from the street across
bursting open with a fiery promise,
While the pale blue hydrangeas dance in gentle waves,
as if asking for what’s next, and hey, yes,
there is a promise ahead, the city awaits it!

1. The Kannikonna tree, also known as the Cassia fistula or Golden Shower tree, is native to the Indian subcontinent.  The golden-yellow flowers of the Kannikonna tree are often celebrated for their beauty and are linked with festivals like Vishu, especially in Kerala.
2. The Chuttiyatta - The scaly-breasted munia or spotted munia (Lonchura punctulata), is a bird known as nutmeg mannikin or spice finch, native to tropical Asia and known for its enchanting bird song.
This poem won the most votes at the World Poetry Day Event
Written by LEENA ELIZABETH ABRAHAM 🙏🏼

Thursday, March 20, 2025

Importance of Financial Literacy for Students

 

Importance of Financial Literacy for Students

Financial literacy is crucial for students as it helps them develop essential money management skills that can benefit them throughout their lives. Here are some key reasons why financial literacy is important for students:

1. Builds Smart Money Management Habits

  • Teaches budgeting, saving, and spending wisely.
  • Helps students understand the value of money and avoid unnecessary expenses.

2. Prepares for Future Financial Responsibilities

  • Equips students to manage student loans, credit cards, and other financial obligations.
  • Helps them make informed decisions about college tuition, housing, and personal expenses.

3. Reduces Debt and Financial Stress

  • Teaches the importance of avoiding excessive debt.
  • Encourages responsible credit card use and loan management.

4. Encourages Saving and Investing Early

  • Helps students develop the habit of saving money for emergencies and future needs.
  • Introduces basic investing concepts like compound interest, stocks, and mutual funds.

5. Prevents Financial Mistakes

  • Raises awareness about financial scams and frauds.
  • Helps students understand the impact of bad financial decisions on their future.

6. Promotes Financial Independence

  • Encourages entrepreneurship and financial self-sufficiency.
  • Prepares students to handle real-world financial situations confidently.

7. Improves Economic Understanding

  • Helps students understand taxes, inflation, and economic trends.
  • Makes them more responsible citizens who contribute to a healthy economy.

By learning financial literacy at an early age, students can make smarter financial choices that will benefit them for a lifetime.

Tips to Improve Financial Literacy for Students

Here are some practical ways students can improve their financial literacy and develop smart money habits:

1. Learn the Basics of Budgeting

  • Track your income (allowance, part-time job, scholarships).
  • List your expenses (food, transport, entertainment).
  • Use the 50/30/20 rule:
    • 50% for essentials (food, rent, bills).
    • 30% for wants (entertainment, shopping).
    • 20% for savings and investments.
  • Use budgeting apps like Mint, YNAB (You Need A Budget), or PocketGuard.

2. Understand Saving & Emergency Funds

  • Save at least 10-20% of your income regularly.
  • Open a savings account and consider a high-interest account.
  • Start an emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses (medical, repairs, etc.).

3. Avoid Debt & Credit Card Traps

  • If using a credit card, pay the full balance every month to avoid interest.
  • Understand loan interest rates before borrowing money.
  • Avoid spending more than you earn.

4. Learn About Investments Early

  • Understand compound interest—small investments grow over time.
  • Explore mutual funds, ETFs, and stocks (use beginner-friendly platforms like Robinhood or Acorns).
  • Start a retirement savings plan (like a Roth IRA) if possible.

5. Know How to Differentiate Needs vs. Wants

  • Always ask: “Do I really need this?” before spending money.
  • Prioritize spending on education, food, and savings over luxury items.

6. Gain Practical Experience

  • Open and manage a bank account.
  • Try a part-time job or side hustle (freelancing, tutoring, selling online).
  • Set financial goals (saving for a trip, laptop, or college expenses).

7. Educate Yourself Continuously

  • Read personal finance books like:
    • Rich Dad Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki
    • The Total Money Makeover – Dave Ramsey
    • The Psychology of Money – Morgan Housel
  • Follow finance YouTube channels (Graham Stephan, The Financial Diet).
  • Take free online courses on Coursera, Udemy, or Khan Academy.

8. Understand Taxes & Financial Documents

  • Learn about income tax, deductions, and savings plans.
  • Know how to read bank statements, pay slips, and loan documents.

By developing financial literacy early, students can make informed financial decisions and secure a financially stable future. 🎯💰

Would you like recommendations on specific financial tools or apps for students? 😊

Best Financial Tools & Apps for Students

Here are some great tools and apps that can help students manage their money wisely:


📊 Budgeting & Expense Tracking Apps

  1. Mint (Free, iOS & Android)
    • Automatically tracks spending and categorizes expenses.
    • Helps set budgets and get bill reminders.
  2. YNAB (You Need A Budget) (Paid, iOS & Android)
    • Best for proactive budgeting—assigns every dollar a job.
    • Great for students who want to avoid debt.
  3. PocketGuard (Free, iOS & Android)
    • Shows how much money you can safely spend after bills & savings.
    • Good for tracking daily expenses.

💰 Saving & Investing Apps

  1. Acorns (Low-cost investing, iOS & Android)
    • Rounds up spare change from purchases and invests it automatically.
    • Best for beginner investors who want to start small.
  2. Robinhood (Free stock trading, iOS & Android)
    • Commission-free investing in stocks, ETFs, and crypto.
    • Good for students who want to learn about the stock market.
  3. Fidelity Youth Account (For students under 18)
    • Allows teens to start investing with parental oversight.

🏦 Banking & Money Management

  1. Chime (Free online banking, iOS & Android)
    • No hidden fees & offers automatic savings features.
    • Good for students who need a simple, fee-free bank account.
  2. Revolut (Best for international students, iOS & Android)
    • No foreign transaction fees & easy money transfers.
    • Great for students studying abroad.

💳 Credit & Debt Management

  1. Credit Karma (Free credit score monitoring, iOS & Android)
    • Tracks your credit score and gives tips to improve it.
    • Good for students who are starting to build credit.
  2. Tally (Debt repayment, iOS & Android)
  • Helps pay off credit cards efficiently and saves on interest.

📚 Financial Education Resources

  1. Khan Academy – Personal Finance (Free, Web)
  • Offers simple, beginner-friendly financial literacy lessons.
  1. Coursera – Financial Literacy Courses (Free/Paid, Web)
  • Courses from Yale, Stanford, and other universities.
  1. The Financial Diet (YouTube & Blog)
  • Great for student-friendly money tips and savings strategies.

Bonus Tip: Use Spreadsheets!

💡 Google Sheets / Excel Budget Template

  • Create a simple income vs. expenses tracker using a spreadsheet.
  • Free templates are available online to make budgeting easier.

By using these apps and tools, students can save money, avoid debt, and build financial confidence early on. 🚀💰

To summarise:

Importance of Financial Literacy for Students

Financial literacy is essential for students as it equips them with vital money management skills for lifelong financial stability.

Key Benefits:

1.     Smart Money Management – Teaches budgeting, saving, and responsible spending to avoid unnecessary expenses.

2.     Prepares for Financial Responsibilities – Helps manage student loans, credit cards, and college-related costs.

3.     Reduces Debt & Stress – Encourages responsible credit use and debt avoidance.

4.     Promotes Saving & Investing – Develops saving habits and introduces investment basics.

5.     Prevents Financial Mistakes – Increases awareness of scams and consequences of poor financial choices.

6.     Encourages Independence – Prepares students for real-world financial challenges.

7.     Improves Economic Understanding – Enhances knowledge of taxes, inflation, and the economy.

Tips for Improving Financial Literacy:

·       Budgeting: Track income/expenses using the 50/30/20 rule. Use apps like Mint or YNAB.

·       Saving & Emergency Funds: Save 10-20% of income, open a savings account, and create an emergency fund.

·       Debt Management: Avoid high-interest debt, pay credit card balances in full, and understand loan terms.

·       Investing: Learn about compound interest, stocks, and retirement savings (e.g., Roth IRA, mutual funds).

·       Spending Wisely: Differentiate between needs and wants before making purchases.

·       Practical Experience: Open a bank account, try a side hustle, and set financial goals.

·       Continuous Learning: Read books (e.g., Rich Dad Poor Dad), follow finance blogs, and take online courses (Khan Academy, Coursera).

Best Financial Tools for Students:

·       Budgeting: Mint, YNAB, PocketGuard

·       Investing: Acorns, Robinhood, Fidelity Youth Account

·       Banking: Chime, Revolut

·       Credit Management: Credit Karma, Tally

·       Education: Khan Academy, Coursera, The Financial Diet

By developing financial literacy early, students can make informed financial choices and secure a stable future.

Automate Excel to PPT


Step 1: Automate Data Extraction & Formatting in Excel

1. Ensure Consistent Data Structure

Format the Excel report so that the key tables (P&L, variance analysis, KPIs) always appear in the same location.

Use named ranges or structured tables to ensure easy reference.

2. Use Power Query for Data Cleaning

If your report needs formatting adjustments, use Power Query in Excel to automate data transformation.

3. Automate Calculations with Pivot Tables & Formulas

Set up Pivot Tables or Power Pivot for dynamic reports.

Use Excel formulas (SUMIFS, INDEX-MATCH, DAX, etc.) to create variance analysis.


📌 Step 2: Automate PowerPoint Creation

🔹 Option 1: Use PowerPoint’s “Link Excel Data” Feature

1. Copy Data from Excel

Open PowerPoint and paste Excel tables as a linked object (Paste Special → Paste Link).

Any updates in Excel will reflect in PowerPoint automatically.

2. Use PowerPoint “Refresh” Feature

When the new month’s data is added, simply refresh the linked tables.

3. Automate Chart Updates

Create Excel charts and link them to PowerPoint to update automatically.


🔹 Option 2: Use VBA for Full Automation

If you want to completely automate PowerPoint pack creation:

1. Create a PowerPoint template with placeholders for tables & charts.

2. Write a VBA script in Excel to: 

Extract data from Excel.

Copy relevant tables & charts.

Insert them into PowerPoint slides dynamically.

Example VBA Snippet (Excel to PowerPoint Automation)

vba

Copy code

Sub ExportToPowerPoint()

    Dim pptApp As Object

    Dim pptPresentation As Object

    Dim pptSlide As Object

    Dim ws As Worksheet


    ' Open PowerPoint and create a new presentation

    Set pptApp = CreateObject("PowerPoint.Application")

    pptApp.Visible = True

    Set pptPresentation = pptApp.Presentations.Add


    ' Reference Excel Worksheet

    Set ws = ThisWorkbook.Sheets("Report")


    ' Add Slide and Copy Table

    Set pptSlide = pptPresentation.Slides.Add(1, 2) ' 2 = ppLayoutText

    ws.Range("A1:D10").Copy

    pptSlide.Shapes.PasteSpecial DataType:=2 ' 2 = ppPasteEnhancedMetafile


    ' Save and Close

    pptPresentation.SaveAs "Monthly_Report.pptx"

    pptApp.Quit

End Sub

📌 Benefits of VBA:

Fully automates data transfer.

Generates PowerPoint in seconds.

Reduces manual errors.


📌 Step 3: Use Power Automate (Advanced)

For cloud-based automation:

Use Microsoft Power Automate to extract Adaptive Insights data, format it in Excel, and generate PowerPoint decks.

You can schedule the workflow to run automatically every month.


🚀 Best Approach for  Team

✅ For quick updates: Use Paste Link method in PowerPoint.

✅ For semi-automation: Use Excel Pivot Tables + Linked Charts.

✅ For full automation: Use VBA or Power Automate.


 

Keep Writing

 But one of my boss suggested me to WRITE


He said


Write as much as you can.


• Write your experiences

• Write your failures

• Write your journey

• Write your lessons


And following his advice

I started writing. 


During the course of my career - 


--> I was promoted back to back

--> I was given 50% increment twice

--> I managed to secure international job


All because, I WAS WRITING. 


I had a documented list of my achievements.


I used it for 


- interviews

- building my CV

- appraisal meetings


I also used it for


- out of turn salary negotiation

- writing my content on Linkedin..

- networking, interacting & much more


All it takes is 30 minutes per month.


• Document your achievements

• Build a confidence boosting document


Use it for multi purposes.


Its benefits far exceeds the effort.

Tuesday, March 18, 2025

Silence ~ Rain


 

The silence after every rain

On the edge of the fresh grass
There is the smell of death and pain
The rainy wind carries the weight of my sorrows
I can't feel this rain like before!
I can't walk in this rain like before!
I can't feel it on my bones like before!
All I know is I'm just a girl
Bowled up in her old room
Crying for her mother's absence!
Damn!! How am I going to survive all the rainy nights?!

_swathi_santhosh_

Sunday, March 16, 2025

Yuganta: The End of an Epoch ~ Irawati Karwe 13 of 25

 


Yuganta: The End of an Epoch is a  critical analysis of the Mahabharata written by anthropologist Irawati Karve originally  in Marathi  and is translated to English by W. Norman Brown.

Initially there were broadly two versions Vaishampayana and Jaimini. Of the latter version only a fragment apparently remains.  We have three narrator, Ugrashrava, who tells the story up to a point, and then tells it as told by second narrator, Vashampayana, who in his turn is the chief narrator up to a point and then tells it as told by the third narrator, and after the battle portion resumes the narration.

The book is an essay, where the author character studies and  treats the protagonists of the book as historical figures rather than as mythical characters. In this book the author has attempted to interpret many of the events of the Mahabharata in a socio-political context. 

The underlying philosophy that remains and mark Mahabharata from other writings is that there is no hero worship here. Ever character have their shades of grey driving home the point,  that 'There is so much of good in the worst of us and so much of bad in the best of us, that it ill behoves any of us to find fault with the rest of us.'

The book begins with Bhishma and his life of fruitless sacrifices, Gandhari her courage and ordeals, Kunti born to endure only sorrows, Vidura who knew much an incarnation of Yamadharma so could be the father of Dharma?, Dhraupadi also called Yajnaseni and Parshati, who was a wife to all five Pandava sons, said to Bhima  with her last breath, 'In our next birth be the eldest, Bhima; under your shelter we can all live in safety and joy.' The book throws light on 'The palace of Maya'. Taking over another's Dharma is dangerous so says Bhagavadgita, XVIII. Paradharmo Bhayavahah covers The two Brahmans who have an important role in the story and are an integral part of it are the father and son, Drona and Ashvatthama. Karna was caught in a vicious grip of who he was. He had no definite position in society. He struggled all his life to gain what he thought was his rightful status and his bitterness lay in not having got it. On two occasions his thoughts were clear and decisive. First when Krishna asked him to join Pandavas and when Kunti told him she was his mother. He was a noble person, a true friend,  a man tied to his foster family by love and duty, an incorruptible vassal. Having spent his life among the Sutas, he was unwilling to break away from them. Krishna enters the story of Mahabharata at the time of the marriage of Draupadhi.  His mission was to establish his claim to the title of 'Vasudeva'. He lacked nothing,  found something good in everything and never fought standing on the ground. His guidance just before the war now famous as Bhagavadgita is originally said to have six chapters.  The others are said to be added later. 

The Mahabharata marks the end of Dwapara yuga, an era, epoch or age. The society then was restricted in many ways. Economy dependent on agriculture and cattle. 

After the war Dharma, after defeating all his enemies said, 'The victory does not feel like victory at all.'

As the book's  concluding sentence, I am indeed fortunate that I can read today a story called Jaya, sung 3 to 5 thousand years ago and discover myself in it.

Jaya, as she was called initially, the young girl who is three or five millennia old  have survived the test of the time. Genera­tion after generation arrive to perform yet another act of interpretative Ashwamedha, sharpening their knives, as the horse of the Bharatas wanders yet again, trying to interpret this philosophy. Our present Mahabharata is the result of many additions and interpretations of the composition by sage Vyasa who played a part in the events and who was an eye-witness of many of them. Was he the original composer or took it as told by suta bards and arranged it, we will never know. 

Mahabharata still retain its moral and imaginative primacy even after modernity has traduced many national epics into antiquarian or linguistic curiosities.

Untameable, prodigious, consuming all that comes in its way— stories, morals, conceits, philosophies—like a horse let loose to wander before an Ashwamedha sacrifice, the Mahabharata appears beholden to none but its own magisterial instincts. .

Saturday, March 15, 2025

Pon Man

 


A lesson for those who are passionate to achieve their Goals and a movie with a message against a wrong trend in society,   “PON MAN “ directed by Jothish Shankar .  Director, the lead characters done by Basil,Sajin Gopu, Anand Manmadhan,Lima Mol, Deepak and all others characters, I mean everyone of the movie , entire crew and its camera man, casting director, songs , Superb Script, I think everyone made it an outstanding one. 

Art director Jothish Shankar makes his directorial debut with “Ponman” set in a fishing hamlet in Kollam district of Kerala. Steffi Graf (Lijomol Jose in excellent form) is engaged to be married to Mariyano (Sajin Gopan, effective) and the groom’s family wants 25 sovereigns of gold in dowry. Steffi’s mother (Sandhya Rajendran, firmly in character) is worried since they don’t have the money and her son, Bruno (Anand Manmadhan, first rate) is a Communist party comrade who doesn’t work and does not earn anything for the family. 


When his mother abuses him for not being able to contribute anything towards the wedding, his party colleagues introduce him to Sharma (Deepak Parambol, competent) who further introduces him to Ajeesh (Basil Joseph putting in his career best performance) who promises to bring the required gold to the bride’s house on the day prior to the wedding on the condition that all gifts in cash donated by the attendees of the wedding will be taken by Ajeesh and in the event of a shortage, remaining gold will also be taken back by him. 


The plan works just fine, and Steffi is married off. However, getting the extra gold back is not easy as everyone thought. Does Ajeesh manage to get the gold back? Do Steffi and family give him the gold back? How does Mariyano react to all this? Watch “Ponman” to get answers to all your questions. 


What works the most in favor of the movie is the rooted script and characters. The script tackles the serious social issue of dowry, but it is not preachy or over emotional. Nevertheless, the impact of this social evil on multiple lives is clearly felt. Kudos to the writing team (G R Indugopan and Justin Mathew – the movie is based on the former’s short story “Nalanchu Cheruppakaar”) for getting the script and the messaging right and for creating flesh and blood characters who you can relate to. Jothish has a firm hand on the narrative and makes a confident directorial debut. Cinematography by the experienced Sanu John Varghese captures the backwaters and seaside of Kollam with all its pristine beauty. The landscape of Monroe Island has never been captured this beautifully on screen. Editing is by Nidhin Raj Arol and despite only 127 minutes long, the narrative does feel overlong towards the climax and could have been trimmed by another 5 – 10 minutes. Justin Varghese works up a good musical score and it helps to have K S Chithra croon the track that sums up the story and the situations that the characters are going through.

The remaining departments – Make up, costumes, action choreography (the climax fight makes you nauseous for the right reason) and art direction – also contribute to the overall narrative and casting department has done a fabulous job by identifying the right actors to portray all characters with each performance adding to the overall quality of the narrative. 

+ Basil who played the role of P P Ajeesh is truly inspiring character for today’s youngsters and professionals to learn many things and situations which he faces and overcome as a winner only because of his confidence with high attitude, throughout the movie PP Ajeesh displays a character in which , though he is getting cheated by powerful Rowdies and their family he shows the courage to face it alone , also the movies shows that in life only if you take risk and have got the courage to face that risk to achieve your goals you will be able to reach your podium of success, many dialogue which makes us to think and do evaluate our life . His persistence to conquer the villain and to take the gold from his hand , His loyalty to the job he is doing , his commitment and honesty which he is showing to his own life and work which he worship , his responsibility and the way he take care his family without making them know his struggles ( the best part is when the hero is got stabbed by the Villain , he goes under cover to get recovered without informing the family his mother and sister which his friends identify when they search for him ) that’s a great point that he himself try to fix when he fall down ,   The character PP Ajeesh played by Basil gives many messages to the society how you need to live life with all positives come whatever happens. 

Whatever the technology growth and advancement happens , Art and Artist plays a big role in shaping a society, the influential people and celebrities have got the responsibility to shape and build culture and bring up the coming generations, Movies influence society nature and culture very much and local flavoured stories which can help and develop the young generation to grow in life will add value and a true blessing which all producers,directors, and actors can contribute. I don’t think that any movie maker should try do more violence which inspire young generation to follow such path by thinking that we are into business and we mean profit. They don’t realise the influence the society is getting how many people getting affected real world , when they do it unreel world. I am not criticizing violence in movie it’s acceptable to an extent not to the extent where in people getting affected real influenced. Movies like PONMAN are the best example which proves it’s the content is the real hero which was well carried by the safe hands of an amazing director like Jothish Shankar , Characters played by Basil, Sajin Gopu ( what an actor with his style performance), Anand Manmohan and Lija Mol( heroine who made it stunning with her powerful character).