Monday, January 16, 2006

Just Few thoughts............

When the people, whom I had been trusting so long, turn to be untrustworthy, how can I trust or belive, the people I meet, today, or at this juncture of life? Why do you love some people so much?? So much more than anything………..or anybody else…..Why do we admire somebody so much….And how hurting is it to know later that they are untrustworthy……Anyways…There is so much of good in the worst of us, and so much of bad in the best of us………..Are all person selfish, and nobody, trustworthy? Hey no…..You should never think so…..

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Why are all always busy?? What do you mean by being busy? Doesn’t it depend on us, we find time for all the things we wish to do.....There is no time for the
things we dont want to do...... NEWS- happen daily,....Just office problems, & friends problems,family problems, country problems....+ our role.... zindegay main choti choti bathey hothey rehethy hey...Khya kare..... Namaku viswasamullathum, news agencyude swabhavamillathathumaaya aarodenkilum manasu thurannu parayan chilapol thonum, when mind is filled with things, we feel if we do that we will be free, but in the long is it worthwhile sharing secrets with anybody?? " Isnt there some self-interest behind every friendship? There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth." Mutability is the way of life, friends are made by men, relations are made by God....Which is more stronger, depends.....but in the long run, nobody can overtake the will of God......As per the comment from Sibila, decided not to put any forwards here, and for that created yet another blog……..
http://forwardsandthoughts.blogspot.com/
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There is so much in life, so many people we meet in and out, daily, there are so many things that has happened in our and others life, which have taught us so many things, why don’t we learn from that, and not repeat them…..why do we at time have mad thrills towards others, why don’t we accept advise of elders and those who love us?? In every case, both, the right person and the wrong persons, have justifications to make, do think over if your justifications are right….. Nobody can stop an idea whose time has come., Kanuna swapnagel ellam phalichal, kalathil kalpaney khey enthu mukliyam you live life only once, live it right, live it with dignity. Life is much more than getting all that you want, desire what you deserve, desire is the root cause of all sorrows.
What we know is like pebbles on the shore, what we have to learn is vast like the sea before-There are so many things that u do not know about u, and I do not know about myself…...A bitter truth of life is We make them cry who care for us, we cry for them who never care for us, and we care for them who will never cry for us……Those who care for us, would like to see us as a person, whom all loves, and respects, but for the sake of some other person, we get the curse and hatred of all those who love you……..Who cares/cared for you, did so much for you….. Then what will you gain from those who care for us??….not blessings, but curse, which will make our lives more miserable.
Not education but character is mans greatest need and mans greatest safeguard. Why not we be men of character with courage. Though in real life academic excellence is not enough to be successful, it gives us some amount of value, and respect in society. So many people had wanted to see you as a successful Chartered accountant, not only you; but once you become a CA, the advantages of that would be enjoyed only by you, don’t get demoralized, it is something, for which you have strived so many years, spend so much of your time and energy, and come this far….Success is not final, failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts. Life is queer with its twists & turns, when things go wrong as they sometimes will, you musnt quit, and turn to mad things, forgetting what you were into……Please do Forget & Forgive, and have no grudge towards others, and take away others peace and happiness……..It will help you to be happy always….And you will get your share of reward definitely, in the long run.
I dont know or understand what could I do now, but hope that this message, will not be a waste.As I know that you have got a caring heart, which is just surrounded by some cloud now, hope you will be able to clear that.....Hoping, wishing & praying for the best and that things will turn out right, positive and for the good, soon. Nobody, but only you yourself can do it. Inshallaha.....

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3 comments:

Sajeev said...

There need not be any guilt because you did not confirm to a norm set by society. Questioning the norm set and individuality is the essence to excellence in anything, otherwise we end up like clones.on the same lines you are busy because there were higher pririorities (may be personal) and you have only limited energy and time.....

me ra said...

:-) Thanks...Looking for more such comments, which really is a boost...

me ra said...
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