Irrespective of the level of education, status in society, region people come from – basically human beings are ‘thinking’ animals ; what they think makes the difference
What cannot remain with us in rain, will not be there with us in storm and therefore we would not want them to be together in the sunshine.
At times it is difficult to realise that things are falling apart – could be because we trust beyond how much has to be trusted.
It is easy to break things, but difficult to bring them together. So hurting to see relations break so easily these days; and more so to what extend learned people do it and fail to understand things falling apart.
An Engineer was asked: “ What is the Technical Difference between welding and wedding?” He replied “Not much, both are joints in a way, in welding there are sparks first and bonding forever, and in wedding there is bonding first and sparks forever.
Things and relations fall apart, not always because one is bad (at times may be); but because things and people are not compatible. But there is integrity and trust – especially expected from Human Beings. Heart breaking to see how events in life unfold.
One should not be killed; so also there should not be forged divorce. It should be by mutual consent.
Better people are separated if they are destined or not compatible; but there should be human integrity and basic decency in the way it is done.
They come to us when we least expect them. – All things especially –
• Wedding – People who never want to be married get married, and some marriage turn out to be a success; while those we expect to end up in marriage never happens; this is from time immortal.
• Home – There are people who are unable to construct homes/even a proper roof over their head; some are able to construct but are never fortunate enough to live in their own house
• Death – The only truth of our life. – We never know when we are bound to embrace it.
And divorce is death of a relationship. A delicate one for that matter; made in heaven?
Life is not easy, and Truth is stranger than fiction.
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