Monday, September 05, 2022

Darlings

 Shefali Shah talks about the biggest red flag in any relationship. It is disrespect. It starts at a very slight level of humour. 'Oh, she don't know anything.' As Earl Nightingale say in the video on Happiness - In a relationship most important thing is 'Courtesy'. 

You want to say something and you hold it back, there is a serious problem. If you are worried of being yourself, in front of someone, good, bad, ungly then there is a problem. In a relationship you are supposed to feel safe, secured and accepted. 

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The interview made me think of the movie - domestic violence is common in most household irrespective of a person being poor or travelling in Benz. 

Vijay Verma (Hamsa Sheikh) says - if I don't love why will I beat you, and if you don't love why would you suffer? Badru hopes her volatile husband will reform if he stops drinking. However, when his rage goes too far, she and her mum boldly, albeit clumsily, seek revenge. Best thing about the movie was the suttle humour and the mother daughter - relationship and how expressive they eyes of mother Shefali Shah was. Roshan Adrews was Amazing too. 


A movie with just handful of characters, but all well enacted. 

Domestic violence is not love, its a strict no-no.

And as always, I loved the movie and Thara did not. 


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