What You are looking for is in the library - Michiko Aovama

Yet, another Japanese book, with cat on it's cover? In Japanese folklore, cats are the symbols of good luck and are said to have protective powers. Let's take the story of maneki-neko for example. Centuries ago a feudal lord, standing under a tree, saw a cat waving at him. Curious, he moved towards the cat and just then lightning struck the tree. Thus was born the story of maneki-neko .

Cats and Window makes us stand eye to eye with what lies inside us. It also helps us evaluate how meaningfully we are engaging with the world around us. 'One can almost hear Tiger, the feline protagonist from another Japanese best seller Cat Who Saved Books remind us, “Books have tremendous power.”

Another list of 65 books to read before I begin reading the book in hand : https://japanobjects.com/features/japanese-books; in addition to 'Details of the books mentioned in the book', listed below:

What you are looking for is in the library by Michiko Aoyama, translated by Alison Watts, read inspired by Bindu Manoj's post in FB. This book is about the magic of libraries and the discovery of connection. 

This inspirational tale shows how, by listening to our hearts, seizing opportunity and reaching out, we too can fulfil our lifelong dreams.

Sayuri Komachi Tokyo’s most enigmatic librarian is able to sense exactly what each visitor to her library is searching for, and provide just the book recommendation to help them find it as she kept felting and giving the right gifts with the book. According to her 'You may say that it was the book, but it's how you read a book that is most valuable, rather than nay power it might have itself. ' Nozomi Morinaga is following her and making cards for each of the visitors. This book has five examples:

A restless retail assistant looks to gain new skills - Tomoka, 21, Womenswear sales assistant

Felt like an extension of the previous book and was a bit confused with the similarity of Tomoka's life and name - both moving to Tokyo for a job in early 20s and their struggle. 

“In a world where you don’t know what will happen next, I just do what I can right now.”

 “The day that customer first appeared,I was so itching to take my break I didn’t give her my complete attention and I’m sure she sensed it.”

Mrs. Numauchi and  Magneta comes to her rescue. Kiriyama  who earlier worked in publishing company and now moved to glasses helped her.

 "What I do know is that there's no need to panic, or do more than I can cope with right now. For the time being, I plan to simply get my life in order and learn some new skills, choosing from what's available. I'll prepare myself, like Guri and Gura gathering chestnuts in the forest. Because I never know when I might find my own giant egg."

Book: 'Guri and Gura'  by Rieko Nakagawa- Each of the people who had read it, had a different take on the book and different learning. Again an extension from the previous book. 

A conscientious accountant yearns to open an antique store - Ryo, 35, Accounts Department of a Furniture Manufacturer

One day when I have enough money saved up, I will quit my job, find somewhere to open a shop and curate the shelves....One day...But will one day ever come....?

But if you need to know what lies beyond the dream, you need to know.

A parallel career means having two careers that are complementary, with neither being secondary to the other. (Being active in more than one field)

Most of the time we humans only look at the flowers or fruit of a plant, because we live above ground. We switch our attention to below ground only when the roots have a particular interest for us, as in the case of sweet potatoes or carrots. Yet from a plant's perspective, above ground and below ground are equally important and in perfect balance. Humans only see what suits them most, and make that their main focus, but for plants...Both are main. 

Yasuhara a writer : ' Before I  had this place, all I ever used to think about was quitting my office job, but now that job is what gives me the means to enjoy running this bookshop. If the bookshop was all I did, however, then I'd have to spend a lot more time thinking about sales strategies and so on. Which would be far more demanding. And I don't really want that.'

Job secures you a place in society. With parallel career, you can have two places, with neither a side business. ..Above ground and below ground - Plant world. 

One would give mental and emotional satisfaction, other would give money. Yes, that might reduce the time for other activities like travelling etc. 

Turn don't have time, money or courage into a goal. 

'Everybody is connected. And any one of their connections could be the start of a network that branches in many directions. If you wait for the right time to make connections, it might never happen, but if you show your face around, talk to people and see enough to give you the confidence that things could work out, then 'one day' might turn into 'tomorrow'. 'Timing is all important. Don't let the right moment slip by.'

Both are equally important. That could be true for a couple too. 

What makes the world go round?  - Rio: Love; Hina: Trust.

There are so many things to do, but I won't make the excuse that I have no time any more. Instead, I will think about what I can do with the time I have. 

Gift: A cat with a brown body. 

Book: 'How do worms work? A Gardener's colleciton of Curious Questions and Astonishing Answers' by Guy Barter. 

A mother tries to overcome demotion at work after maternity leave, - Natsumi, 40, former magazine Editor

'We all come to understand at some point in our lives that there is no Santa Claus. But the reason Santa Claus remains an integral part of Christmas celebrations is not for the sake of small children. It is because grown-ups who were once children themselves continue to hold the truth of Santa Claus in their hearts even after they become adults, and they live that belief. 

Futaba her daughter. Raising a child is like "the difference between thinking that Winnie-the-Pooh is cute, and actually living with a bear."

Children don't just come into the world, do they?' she said. 'Giving birth was a huge event in your life, wasn't it?

It gave great respect to all mothers in the world........While it was hard work for mother to give birth, it also took me every ounce of my own strength to endure the extremely difficult process of being born. ....thrust into an entirely new and strange environment. 

Count your blessings and think - Wasn't that worth all the effort of being born? Everything else that comes afterwards is nowhere near as hard. If you can survive the ordel of being born, you can get through anything. 

Book: 'Moon Petals' or 'Door to the Moon' by Yukari Ishii . 'In the world of astrology the moon signifies mothers, wives, incidents from childhood, emotions, the flesh, changes and so on. ' 

'The Heart has two eyes toe perceive that which is not visible to the eye. One is the 'Sun Eye', which sheds a bright light on our understanding of things from a rational and logical perspective. The other is the 'Moon Eye', which perceives things through instinct or emotion, in our imagination or dreams, such as seeing ghosts in the dark or entertaining a secret love. Both eyes exist in our hearts. 

'When one reads or writes a novel, it is the Moon Eye that is in play. But when one works on a manuscript to help get it into shape before sending it into the world, the Sun Eye comes to the fore. Both eyes are essential. From now on, I will try to keep both of mine wide open, letting them work together, neither at the expense of the other. 

From big things to little, there are somethings we simply cannot force to go to plan, no matter how hard we try. 

Like Komachi's felting, she one can start again half way through, changing direction.

Perpetrator and Victim. Make own choices. Cant we have both? Is it too much to want to have a child and a satisfying career? Am I not allowed to voice my dissatisfaction?

Madam Mizue, who published her book with the help of Natsumi tells her: 'The merry-go-round, it's a very common condition', 'Singles are envious of those who are married, and married couples envy those with children, but people with children are envious of singles. It's an endless merry-go-round. But isn't that funny? That each person should be chasing the tail of the person in front of them, when no one is coming first or last. In other words, when it comes to happiness nothing is better or worse - there is no definitive state. 

Life is one revelation after another. Things don't always go to plan, no matter what your circumstances. But the flip side is all the unexpected, wonderful things that you could never have imagined happening. Ultimately it's all for the best that many things don't turn out the way we hoped. Try not to think of upset plans or schedules as personal failure or bad luck. If you can do that, then you can change, in your own self and in your life overall. 

'The playground is big. Madam Mizue's words still rang in my head. Had she been suggesting I get off the merry-go-round and try out something else in the playground? Never swerving from a path is not necessarily a virtue -isn't it better sometimes to be honest about what you really want.'

'Things change, even if you want them to stay the same. At the same time, you can try to change, but you will still remain the same. '

Kiriyama - from the first part who earlier worked in publishing company and now moved to glasses helped her but said. " There is no 'why', its just the way things turned out. Isn't it a good thing to want more great books in the world? I want to read them too.'

The Santa claus that parents teach is not a lie, but part of a larger truth. Likewise do the eyes of the sun and moon on our hearts cooperate, without denying each other's existence, in formulating our perceptions of the world. 

She sends out an email 'I would like to open a new door with you'. 

The Earth goes around. We gaze at the moon, illuminated by the sun. Feet on the ground and facing the sky, we go forward, changing as we do. In order to deliver a larger truth to the person looking down at an open page. 

Hiroya, 30, NEET (Not in Employment, Education or Training)

Goes in search of 21 Emon, text and illustrations by Fujiko.

His gift was not a manga as we wished, but a plane with a tiny grey body, white wings and a cool green tail. 

Book : 'Evolution: A visual Record by Robert Clark and Joseph Wallace - a book of photographs of the natural world.

Favourable variations would tend to be preserved and unfavourable ones to be destroyed. 

Komachi also adds "When reading biographies and history... You have to remember that it is merely one version of events and only the parties involved can ever know the real truth. There are always numeroud interpretations and hearsay, about who said or did what. Misunderstandings occur even in real time; you can see that on the internet. So when it comes to events deep in the past, it's very difficult to be sure of what is accurate."

Seitaro, friend of Hiroya who finally publish his book says: "My job with the waterworks Bureau is the reason I could keep writing. I'm not quitting. "

A recently retired salaryman searches for newfound purpose - Masao, 65, Retired. 

In Komachi’s unique book recommendation, they will find just what they need to achieve their dreams.

Book: Genge and Frogs by Shinpei Kusano - 20th century Japanese poetry collection. Wanting to get a book on 'Go' a game. 

What am I looking for? What am I looking for?

A new way to live from now on, perhaps. 

'When you are in contact with the poets soul and their attitude to life, your response to their poetry becomes even more powerful. You can, in a sense , even enter into the life of the poet and feel moved in the same way. '             - You start writing poetry.   

'Books belong to everybody: the creators, the sellers and the readers. That's what society is all about, I believe.' - Says his daughter Chie working for a publishing company. 

Library.

What a nice sounding word.

So comforting.

I feel like I'm a student again.

Library...

"Am I allowed to borrow books?"

Relationship

Relationship a very wide concept. It begins with inner self, body, parents, siblings, spouse, children, friends, relatives, team and the list can go on and on. 

What make relationship last, have you ever wondered?

There could be different views, but I would like to put forth 6 pillars for any strong relationship - Let me know your thoughts/views. They are:

1. Compassion and Love - Acceptance

2. Truth - Authencity

3. Kindness

4. Attitude of gratitude

5. Mindfulness

6. Respect - Last but not the least. This is the foundation:

It does not come in isolation, it comes out of admiration for some specific traits/values. Become someone worthy of respect. Be inspiring.

Vibes you put in boomerang. Become irrestiable ...Touch the lives of people around you too.

The relationship we can choose is that of partner/spouse and friends. Lot of time people choose their partner/friend/spouse based on the phase they are going through.  Which would create problems.  They should be chosen based on values and not phase.

To know more about marriages and if they are made in Heaven, read my book -'Are marriages made in heaven', link is in the bio. 

Writing and Marketing your Book

Promoting the sale of a book can be a challenging endeavor, but there are several strategies and actions you can take to boost the sales of your book Here are some suggestions:

Optimize Your Book Cover and Description:

Ensure that your book cover is eye-catching and professionally designed. Your book description should be compelling, providing potential readers with a clear idea of what the book is about and why they should read it.

Leverage Online Retail Platforms:

Make sure your book is available on popular online platforms like Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and other e-book retailers. Optimize your book's metadata, including keywords and categories, to improve discoverability.

Request Reviews:

Reach out to book bloggers, book review websites, and social media influencers in your genre to request reviews. Positive reviews can significantly impact sales and credibility.

Build an Author Platform:

Create a professional author website or blog to showcase your work and connect with your readers. Establish a presence on social media platforms where your target audience hangs out.

Engage with Your Audience:

Interact with your readers on social media and through your website or blog. Engage in conversations related to your book's theme and build a community of loyal followers.

Utilize Email Marketing:

Build an email list of interested readers and send them newsletters with updates, exclusive content, and promotions related to your book.

Book Launch and Promotion:

Consider hosting a virtual book launch event where you can discuss the book, answer questions, and offer signed copies or special promotions. Use platforms like Zoom or social media for these events.

Collaborate with Other Authors:

Partner with other authors in your genre for cross-promotions, joint giveaways, or co-authoring projects to expand your reach.

Offer Discounts and Promotions:

Periodically offer discounts or promotions to incentivize readers to purchase your book. You can also participate in Amazon's Kindle Countdown Deals or Free Book Promotions.

Book Awards and Contests:

Submit your book to relevant book awards and contests. Winning or being nominated can lend credibility to your work and attract more readers.

Guest Blogging and Media Outreach:

Write guest posts for blogs and websites related to marriage, relationships, and your book's theme. Reach out to local newspapers, magazines, and radio shows for potential interviews.

Utilize Paid Advertising:

Consider running targeted online advertising campaigns on platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and Amazon to reach a broader audience.

Create Book Trailers or Teasers:

Produce short video clips or book trailers that give a visual preview of your book. Share these on social media and video-sharing platforms like YouTube.

Attend Author Events and Book Fairs:

Participate in author events, book fairs, and literary festivals to connect with readers and other authors.

Keep Writing:

Continue writing and publishing new content. Having multiple books can help promote your backlist, and readers who enjoy one book may seek out your other works.

Remember that book promotion is an ongoing process, and results may take time. Be persistent, adapt your strategies based on what works best for your target audience, and consider seeking the advice of experienced book marketers or publicists if your budget allows.

Marketing:

 Crafting a marketing strategy using Porter’s 7 Ps can provide a comprehensive framework for success.

 Let’s delve into a detailed strategy with specific action plans and the rationale for each P: 

 MARKETING AND COMMUNICATION 

 1. Product (Services): Your services are the core offerings . Highlight your specialised services to stand out in the competitive market. Action plan: Create a service catalogue that outlines each specialised service, Showcase the value and benefits of each service to address specific client needs. Rationale: Clearly defined services help potential clients understand what you offer, making it easier to identify the solutions that best match their requirements. 

2 Price: Your pricing strategy should reflect the value your services provide while considering market competitiveness. Action plan: Conduct a comprehensive market analysis to understand competitors’ pricing structures. Set your pricing based on your offer’s value, ensuring it’s reasonable compared to the market. Rationale: Pricing that aligns with the value of your services establishes a fair exchange between your expertise and client investment while remaining competitive. 

3. Place (distribution): Decide how your services will reach your target clients effectively. Action plan: Choose a strategic location for your office that’s easily accessible to your target audience. Utilise digital platforms and a user-friendly website to reach potential clients beyond geographical constraints. Rationale: A convenient location and a robust online presence enhance your firm’s accessibility and visibility, enabling potential clients to find you easily. 

4. Promotion: Promotion involves creating awareness and interest in your services. Action plan: Develop a content marketing strategy. Regularly publish articles, blog posts, and videos on your website and social media platforms to showcase your expertise and attract clients seeking valuable insights. 289 Rationale: Providing valuable content establishes you as an industry authority, attracting potential clients. 

5. People: Your team’s expertise can set your firm apart. Action plan: Highlight the qualifications and experience of your team on your website and marketing materials. Foster a culture of ongoing professional development to ensure your team is up-to-date with industry trends. Rationale: Showcasing a skilled team builds trust and demonstrates your ability to deliver high-quality services. 

6. Process: Transparent processes enhance client experience. Action plan: Develop streamlined procedures for client in[1]teractions, from initial consultations to project completion. Communicate the steps at the start of each engagement. Rationale: Transparent processes minimise misunderstand[1]ings and build trust, ensuring a positive client experience. 

7. Physical evidence: Physical evidence encompasses the tangibles that convey the quality of your services. Action plan: Design your office space with a professional and welcoming ambience. Create marketing collateral that reflects your brand identity, including brochures, business cards, and presentations. Rationale: A well-designed office and visually appealing marketing materials provide a positive first impression, instilling confidence in potential clients. 

By crafting a marketing strategy using Porter’s 7 Ps, you create a comprehensive approach that addresses all aspects of your CA firm’s operations. This strategic alignment attracts clients, builds lasting relationships, and establishes a reputable presence in the accounting industry. Regularly review and adapt your strategy.

  

How can I elevate my writing? 

Here are some tips to elevate your writing skills to the next level: 

• Read, read, read: The more you read, the more you’ll absorb different writing styles, vocabularies, and storytelling techniques. Fill your creative fuel tank! 

• Write regularly: Practice makes perfect. So, write daily if you can, even if it’s just a paragraph or a journal entry. Flex those writing muscles! 

• Embrace feedback: Don’t be afraid to share your work with others and accept constructive criticism. It’s how you learn and grow as a writer. 

• Edit like a boss: First drafts are rarely perfect. Edit and revise your work to make it shine like a diamond! n AN EVENING CHAT WITH CHATGPT 

• Find your voice: Be authentic and let your unique voice shine through your writing. Don’t be afraid to be yourself! 

• Experiment with genres: Try writing in different genres to explore your strengths and discover what you enjoy the most. 

• Stay curious: Explore new topics and ideas to keep your writing fresh and exciting.

These are the offline appearances that will help promote book sales:

1. Writers forum

2. Authors literary agents

3. Book club

4. Rotary club

5. Rotaract club

6. Lions club

7. ONGC forum

8. International material management association 

9. Doctors circle

10. Pharmaceutical  circle 

11. Health club

12. Gym

13. Mental wellness forum

14. Youth centre

15. Kitty party

16. Yoga centre

17. Literary circle (children)

18. Book shops 

19. Community centre

20. Kiosks in malls

21. Book reading clubs (BRC)- old age home

22. BRC- widow home

23. BRC- alchohol anonymous 

24. BRC- widow homes

25. BRC- substance abuse rehabilitation centre 

26. Friends association 

27. Alumni association 

28. Old students association 

29. Whatsapp group

30. Temples 

31. Schools

32. Colleges

33. University student forum 

34. Book cafe

35. Toast masters club/speakers club

36. Book club (virtual)

37. Book fairs

38. Literary festivals 

39. Pandals (temple)

40. Literary meets

41. Book launch meets

42. Going live on social media 

43. Brahmakumaris

44. Orphanages

45. Sports club

46. Colloboration (online)

47. ISCON temple 

48. Entertainment ( drama, skit) in school/ college drama clubs

49. Morning clubs

50. Park reading groups

Remember, people do not like to be sold. They like to buy things. 

Days at the Morisaki Bookshop ~ Sathoshi Yagisawa

Thanks to Bindu Manoj's post in FB, could not resist buying Days at the Morisaki Bookshop by Sathoshi Yagisawa. Satoshi Yagisawa won the Chiyoda Literature prize, one of the most prestigious literary awards, named after the the district, that is home to Tokyo's beloved Jimbocho neighborhood of bookshops for 'Days at the Morisaki Bookshop' debut novel of his. "A tale of families, love, new beginnings, and the comfort that can be found in books."; in two parts is what this optimistic and charming novel all about. Yagisawa's debut novel evokes nostalgia by placing the fictional Morisaki Bookshop in Tokyo's real-life book town “Jimbocho”. It is named after the samurai Jimbo Nagaharu who resided there in the 17th century. In the wake of the Meiji restoration of 1868, many universities opened in the vicinity of Jimbocho. This led to the proliferation of shops selling academic texts. Later with the mass production of “one yen books” that aimed at making books available to the Japanese public, several second-hand bookstores mushroomed in the area.

As the inside front cover say, Hidden in Jimbocho, Tokyo, is a book-lover's paradise with coffee shops. On a quiet corner in an old wooden building lies a shop filled with hundreds of second-hand books. Twenty five year old Takako has never liked reading, althought the Morisaki bookshop has been in her family for three generations. It is the pride and joy of her uncle Satoru, who has devoted his life to the bookshop since his wife Momoko left him five years earlier. 

Takako had moved to Tokyo after graduating from a local college in the south, she hardly knew anyone other than some of the people she worked with, there was no one close enough in the city that she could talk to. has been going out with her colleague and boyfriend, Hideaki for more than a year. One day, he blurts out, “I’m getting married.” Not “let’s get married,” or “I want to get married.” To add to her misery, it is another colleague of theirs he is planning to get married to. He had been two-timing her all along. Unable to face anyone, she quits her job and shuts herself out to the world, literally. She spends the next month, sleeping in her rented room, untill her Uncle invites her to come and live with him in Jimbocho, upstairs in the spare room at Morisaki bookshop, where she move eventually to continue sleeping. She hadn’t met her uncle in ten years, she knew her mother would have asked him to check on her. She had two options, either to go back to her mother or her uncle. She choose the latter fearing that she would have to settle for an arranged marriage if she went back to her mother. 

The musty smell of old books hit her as she walks into the shop with Satoru. The rooms are filled with old books from roof to floor. She settles in slowly, and her uncle puts her in charge of the shop in the mornings. One night out to a coffee shop, her sleep is disrupted and she gets hold of 'Until the Death of the Girl, the book by Saisei Muro that sparks Takako's passion for reading. She befriends, the coffee shop girl Tomo, for whom the book Schoolgirl by Osamu Dazai had played the magic. Then on there was no looking back. 

“And for all I read, I found book after book that I still wanted to read.”

Hoping to nurse her broken heart in peace, Takako is surprised to encounter new worlds within the stacks of books lining the Morisaki bookshop.  As summer fades to autumn, Satoru and Takako discover they have more in common than they first thought. 

Satoru, had unexpectedly taken over the store from his father, when one day, in the midst of his drifting and travels, his father dropped dead. It was'nt something what he had dreamt of doing when young, now he go back and forth all the time on his decision, trying to figure out what he was trying to search for. He says:

"It's important to stand still sometimes. Think of it as a little rest in the long journey of your life. This is your harbor. And your boat is just dropping anchor here for a little while. And after you're well rested, you can set sail again."; 

having said that he complained when Takako was sleeping all the while. To that 

"He laughed. "Human beings are full of contradictions"."

To the question from Takako, If travelling around and reading has helped him learn a lot, he says:

"It's funny, No matter where you go, or how many books you read,you still know nothing, you haven't seen anything. And that's life. We live our lives trying to find our way. It's like that Santoka Taneda poem, the one that goes, 'On and on, in and in, and still the blue-green mountains."

For uncle his niece was 'epiphany', that she did not know. The moment of great realisation or revelation, to get moving, look around, learn. Leading him to visit places and read books. 

“I flew all over the world only to end up back at the place I’d known every bit of since I was a child. Hilarious, isn’t it? After all that time, I came back here. That’s when I realized it wasn’t just a question of where I was. It was about something inside me. No matter where I went, no matter who I was with, if I could be honest with myself, then that was where I belonged. By the time I realized that, half my life was over. So I went back to my favorite harbor, and decided to drop anchor. For me, this is a sacred place. It's where I feel most at ease.”

Like Sabu said, he was the shops Savior. He did that because it had his memories. 

Niece started seeing uncles worries and pains. 

'My boat travels lightly, drifting aimlessly at the mercy of the current.' ~ Naoe Kinoshita in Confessions of a Husband. 

When niece decided to move out, the parting advice was:

"Don't be afraid to love someone. When you fall in love, I want you to fall in love all the way. Even if it ends in heartache, please don't live a lonely life without love. .....Love is wonderful....Those memories of people you love, they never disappear. They go on warming you heart as long as you live. "

Bowing deeply - the culture that Japan still hold on to, is mentioned through out. 

Takako moved out of Morisaki Bookshop after recharging her batteries. She was like a butterfly waiting patiently to come out of its chrysalis. 

Part 2 is about aunt Momoko's return. 

The second part of the book deals with Momoko’s reappearance after five years. This subplot details the tenderness and fragility of human relationships. Takako’s maturity and sensitivity help the couple reunite. The novel manoeuvres through the unhappiness of life and the reader connects with universal human experiences in this immensely readable book. 

Takako meets Akira Wada. Who tells her "I don't think it really matters whether you know a lot about books or not. ......What matters far more with a book is how it affects you. "

Indeed, 'The Morisaki bookshop has something to teach',  all of us, 'about life, love, and the healing power of books.' Days at the Morisaki Bookshop is a bibliophile’s delight and reaffirms the reader’s faith in the life-changing power of books.

The Four Makeover - Naga Swati T J

https://www.amazon.in/dp/9358470518?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_MXFWVQ3RHJ2MHVRBZX4H&fbclid=IwAR3FDsIg16PTgLEnzkgGuWZEzJxGCjOw6jIfTELkZgohMtpMaM2MUVYCHnw

The Four Makeovers - Indeed effective tools to unlock hidden potential and live life to the fullest. 

Naga Swathi T J is an amazing person and an effective 'Energy transformation Coach'.

In this profound book you will discover:

• How to overcome childhood trauma
• Who is our greatest companion
• How to win the inner battles
• What can we 'Be' or 'Do different to have exemplary relationships. 

This book has pragmatic tools, exercises and guided meditations which act as an accelerator for 'self-transformation' and helps to live the life to the fullest and 'Be the Magical You'.
 

Proofreading

 A. Language and Grammar:

1 Check for spelling errors.

2 Look for grammatical mistakes.

3 Ensure subject-verb agreement and proper verb tenses.

4 Review your use of commas, periods, semicolons, colons, and other punctuation marks.

5 Verify that proper nouns and the beginning of sentences are capitalized, and ensure consistent capitalization throughout the document.

6 Look out for words that sound the same but have different meanings (e.g., "there," "their," "they're").

7 Confirm that you've used the right word in context (e.g., "its" vs. "it's," "your" vs. "you're").

8 Check for run-on sentences and sentence fragments, and ensure sentences are clear and concise.

9 Ensure smooth transitions between paragraphs and ideas.

10 Ensure that only the first letter of each word in titles is capitalized unless the title is a known or accepted title.

B. Document Formatting:

1 Verify consistency in formatting, style, and tone.

2 Check for consistent font, size, and line spacing if applicable.

3 Confirm that quotes and citations are correctly formatted and attributed.

4 Check the consistency and accuracy of numbers, including dates and measurements.

5 Ensure that acronyms and abbreviations are defined and used consistently.

6 Verify the proper use of bullet points and numbered lists.

7 Check that all hyperlinks are working, relevant, and correctly formatted.

8 Ensure that tables and figures are labeled and formatted correctly.

9 Confirm that references are accurate and properly formatted (if applicable).

10 Review the use of special characters and symbols for accuracy.

11 Check for consistent spacing between words and paragraphs.

C. Document Structure:

1 Check that chapter titles in the index and chapters themselves are in sync.

2 Ensure that British English is used consistently throughout the document.

3 Ensure that page numbers are correct and sequential (for printed documents).

4 Verify that fonts and styles (e.g., italics, bold) are used consistently and appropriately.

5 Read through the document to ensure it flows logically and cohesively.

6 Read the document aloud to catch errors that you might overlook when reading silently.

7 Consider the intended audience and purpose of the document and make sure it aligns with those expectations.

8 If possible, have someone else review your document for a fresh perspective.

9 Perform a final review to ensure that all changes have been implemented correctly.

Deathiquette

 Deathiquette – its not about u the condolence giver. Its about the bereaved who have lost a big chunk of their heart.

Offer help if you can – silenly and discreetly.

And say some kind words about the departed if you knew them well enough. Or be quiet and let the bereaved mourn in peace

But for gods sake at my most intense time of grief do not be so self absorbed and insensitive enough to only talk about ur past losses … its painful. 

Death is not a social outing… its a heart wrenching , soul devastating irreparable loss.

Grief is real – only the real will understand.

If the bereaved do not respond to ur calls/ messages be gracious. Not righteous. If they dont respond, be empathetic. This is not about you… its about them.

Do not ever ever advise them to move on This is the most insensitive of it all.

A Widow Rebirth from her Ashes: Mridu

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0CFY1TTGK?th=1&psc=1&geniuslink=true
 

Lessons for life you can learn from this inspiring true tale of dear Mridu, word flow like a poetry, keeping us ponder and inspiring us as we read on, with a pinch of pain in our hearts. 

1. We had dream of settling outside the city on the outskirts and living simple life after our 50s who knew that it was a futile plan. We should have only lived our present.  - We only have now, this moment is ours, make the best of it?
2. "Don't think y are alone. We are all with you. " But the harsh reality is "You would know who is with you when you are at the lowest point in your life."
3. Challenge you to ask your loved ones, those who claim they can't live without you, this question: "Would you still love and care for me the same if I ceased to be of use to you today?"
4. Prepare yourself to uncover the truth beyond spoken words. The reality may be harsh, but if someone genuinely values your presence without requiring you to prove your worth every single day, my friend, you have triumphed in the intricate game called Life. 
5. Highlighting the divide between the 'responsible' and the 'unconventional'.
6. Rituals are created with a purpose and not to belittle or hurt anyone. 
7. In stages of being a widow/griefing it was thought provoking to read:
1. When as a teenager we were imagining our marriage to the prince charming we never thought that the man of your life would leave us all alone to face the cruel enemy of his kingdom. As the queen we had to rule and protect his lands and people. 
2. Spectrum of emotions that we go through during this stage are: Disbelief and deniel, bargaining, anger, depression and acceptance. 
3. Reality check, Doctor recommended reading a series of five books by Brian Weiss including 'Many Lives, Many Masters', 'Only Love is Real', 'Messages from the Masters', 'Same soul, many bodies' and 'Through time into healing'.
4. Financial Challenges: Impulsive investments fueled by fear, lack of insurance, absence of coverage for home loan, leading to losses in misguided investments. 
5. Battle with envy: Psychiatrist said feeling jealousy and sadness when witnessing couples together is a natural response. Emotions can be overpowering leading to self doubt. These are part of grieving process and not indicative of becoming a psychopath. 
6. Life took a desolate hue, the very essence of celebration, enjoyment and happiness seemed to evaporate. Gradually learned to honor the memories embracing the present. 
7. Navigating the labyrinth of bureaucratic procedures took a toll on emotions
8. Retreat: Traversing through the realms of grief. Self-discovery, self-care, pondering about afterlife/soul/mortality. connecting with school, old colleagues, past life. 
9. Unearthing identity: Young girl chasng delicate butterfly, undeterred, untainted by fear. Now needing solace. In angel. "My time too shall come." Until then, I must live. Journey towards shillong stopping at Bounihat. Manas national park on the cusp of Assam and Bhutan. Embark on you journey of self-discovery, peel back the layers of illusion and uncover the radiant truth that resides within your heart. 
10. Be the Phoenix who rise from the ashes, the butterfly who emerges from the cocoon, recognise self. 
11. Writing is more than mere words on paper, its emobieng liberation. It grants the mind a canvas to unleash its musings, allowing it to tame the chaos that often resides within. 
12. Moral of trips: React on your impulse , trust your instinct and make all the other back up plans. 
13. Spiritual voyage trip to Kedarnath - earlier desire for privacy, perspective shifted after grief. Empathy became compass, driving to connect with the pain of others. Supoort noble causes
14. Scraped the bottom of her reslience, to rise like phoenix from the ashes, a blazing emblem of rebirth. 
15. I am in love with the woman I am becoming. I have been seeing the inner person grow into a beautiful soul. This lady seems to know her purpose in life. She thinks differently, she speaks differently, she feels differently. She doesn't judge anyone. She let them be. She knows they have their own story. She doesn't question them because she knows they have their own story plot and we don't share the same journey. Even though we might have been born off the same parents may be twins we differ in thoughts even if we look alike. She knows today her thoughts are magical. She loves the universe and receives its gratitude with open hands. She wakes up each morning with a new hope.Routine doesn't upset her anymore. She no longer longs to prove things to others. She had in her past proved quite a bit to the world. She now rests and admires herself; she at times says love quotes to the soul itself. She is magical and she feels it. She is a breeze a ray of sunshine may be someone she dont know but for herself she is the most important person.
16. When life pushes you to the deepest point in the ocean just be there don't fight the ocean waves you won't win. Instead enjoy the beauty of the deepest darkness. Love the secret of the depth and leave it all. Magically you may survive and come floating on the surface. 
17. Born alone. There is a purpose for each human on this earth. The earth is a learning ground for the souls where the lucky ones get a body to live in. Each one of our lives is time boxed and we need to utilize the limited time we have here with utmost care. If you get entangled in the shallow drama of hatred, jealousy, revenge, show off etc. time may just end and the sould would have to conitnue its journey in another life depending on it karma. 
18. Equip yourself, engage in crafts, business, studies - stay occupied and distance yourself from the persistent negative chatter of the mind.
19. Progress takes time and avoiding the rat race is a virtue.
20. Class 3:" What do you want to be when you grow up?" Have you achieved that aspiration? Delve deeper and nurture the essence of your soul. The professional labels we acquire are merely for our physical beings; the true quest lies in understanding and fulfilling the desires of our inner self. 

23rd June: Embracing Widowhood. author.mridu@gmail.com

Hook: ". Who would not want to Embark on a journey of self-discovery, peel back the layers of illusion and uncover the radiant truth that resides within our heart. " –

Intro : Hi my dear lovely, gorgeous listener, Meera here, author of the book, 'Are Marriages Made in Heaven', praying for Happiness Always! Every time, everywhere, every one. Happen to read this amazing book ; ‘A Widow Rebirth from her Ashes by Mridu’; In her beautiful words; “She is magical and she feels it. She is a breeze a ray of sunshine may be someone she don’t know’

Content a sweet heart and the light who having risen from ashes like a Phoenix, is out to inspire the world, with her true story. Having had to go through the only harsh reality of life, twice in quick succession - first her mother, and then husband, quite unexpectedly. Having married her prince charming never thought he would leave letting her  face his kingdom. She is the queen protecting his lands and people.

Spectrum of emotions during this stage were that of Disbelief and deniel, bargaining, anger, depression and acceptance.

There are, Financial Challenges,  need to Battle with  inner demons, navigate the bureaucratic procedures taking a toll on emotions

Life took a desolate hue. Gradually she learned to honor the memories embracing the present.

Traversing through the realms of grief Needed constant Reality checks, had to consult Doctor who recommended reading a series of five books by Brian Weiss

Thus Unearthing identity ike Young girl chasing delicate butterfly, undeterred, untainted by fear.

When life pushes you to the deepest point in the ocean what do you do? Read the book to know.

Progress takes time and avoiding the rat race is a virtue.

Delve deeper and nurture the essence of your soul. The professional labels we acquire are merely for our physical beings; the true quest lies in understanding and fulfilling the desires of our inner self.

 CTA -  Why wait, grab a copy of the book, now. Both the digital version and paper back is available on Amazon. Praying that may this book reach many readers as I believe all need this and May the novel act as a friend, mentor and guide to all ; as we do not know when we may have to go through tough times. It comes quite unexpected. Tough times do not last, but tough people do. Get A Widow Rebirth from her Ashes by Mridu from amazon now. Have a good day!

Don't Believe Everything You Think - Joseph Nguyen

 Thanks to Aarthi for this book recommendation in this month's read and immense gratitude to Rashmi for including me into Happy Souls Club.

What an amazing and thought provoking book covering:

Chapter 1: The Journey to Finding the Root Cause of Suffering

Chapter 2: The Root Cause of All Suffering

Chapter 3: Why Do We Even Think?

Chapter 4: Thoughts vs. Thinking

Chapter 5: If We Can Only Feel What We're Thinking, Don't We Need to Think

Positively to Feel That Way?

Chapter 6: How the Human Experience is Created - The Three Principles

Chapter 7: If Thinking Is the Root Cause of Our Suffering, How Do We Stop

Thinking?

Chapter 8: How Can We Possibly Thrive In the World Without Thinking?

Chapter 9: If We Stop Thinking, What Do We Do About Our Goals, Dreams &

Ambitions?

Chapter 10: Unconditional Love & Creation

Chapter 11: What Do You Do Next after Experiencing Peace, Joy, Love &

Fulfillment In the Present?

Chapter 12: Nothing Is Either Good or Bad

Chapter 13: How Do You Know What to Do without Thinking?

Chapter 14: How to Follow Your Intuition

Chapter 15: Creating Space for Miracles

Chapter 16: What Happens When You Begin Living in Non-Thinking (Potential

Obstacles)

Chapter 17: Now What?

Summary Of Non-Thinking

A Guide to Stop Thinking

How You Will Know If You’re In A State Of Non-Thinking

A Guide To Creating A Non-Thinking Environment

Is'nt it interesting?

Book is even more.

 "There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so." —

William Shakespeare

All you have to do is remember that thinking is the root cause of how we’re feeling. Once this is brought into your awareness, don’t fight the thinking. Just become aware that it is your thinking that’s causing the ill feelings, welcome it with love, and it will slowly dissipate before your eyes. Not too long after, you’ll return to your natural state of peace, love, and joy.

 On a piano, there are 88 keys. When we look at a piano, we don't point out specific keys for no reason and say that that key is "wrong". We only think a specific key is "wrong", if we think someone is playing a specific song and hits a key that isn't in the song. Inherently, the piano has no wrong keys though. There are only keys and notes that sound more or less pleasant when played consecutively.

Just like how there are no wrong keys on the piano, there are no "wrong". There’s only thinking that give us pleasant or not so pleasant feelings. When we put things into a bucket of right or wrong, good or bad, this creates duality and conditions in our lives, which determines how we feel.

For instance, if we believe that that opposing political parties are wrong or bad, this can cause animosity within us and make us feel a concoction of negative emotions.

If, on the other hand, we see different political parties in the same way as there are different keys on the piano and how there are no inherently "wrong" parties, then we open ourselves up to experience love, joy, and peace in the moment.

 Instead of looking for right or wrong, good or bad in the world, look for truth. Instead of trying to prove we are right and they are wrong, or how they're better and we're worse, look for the truth in what's in front of you. I would only caution this by saying that many people believe what they think is the truth. For the most part, without this deeper understanding of life, most of what we think is not truth, even though it may seem like it.

True truth is not subjective. If it is "true" for one person, but not for another, then it is not universal truth. Look for what is universally true for every single conscious human being on the planet, no matter who they are, where they're from, and what their background is. That is the true truth and that is where you'll find everything you've been searching for. Remember that the only place you can find this is deep within your being, so don't try to go looking for it outside of you.

 The truth is most of us know what to do, but we are just afraid to do it.

Henry Ford once said, “Whether you think that you can or can’t, you’re right.” If we walk around our lives thinking we can’t, then we immediately block ourselves from the limitless possibilities of what we can do in any given moment in time. But when we release the brake in our mind and realize that it’s just our thinking holding us back, we automatically return to our natural state of abundance and unlimited possibilities and in that moment, we can receive any answer we need on what to do.

In short, know that you already know and if you don’t know, know that you can know what you need to know.

If you know that you can always know, then what you need to know will always come to you. Trust in your own intuition and inner wisdom. It has always and will always be there for you when you need it as long as you trust that it will.

 This state of non-thinking also means a directconnection to Infinite Intelligence. The state of flow, that we need to be in.

Many will attribute the state of non-thinking or flow with a particular activity that we love to do and that’s the only time we can be in flow. This is far from the truth. We can be in a state of nonthinking at any point in time. The only time we can really be in a state of non-thinking is in the present moment. We can only see reality in the present moment and when we are actively thinking, it means we are either in the past or future (which don’t exist). Only in the present moment can the truth be found. This is why all of the spiritual masters and leaders always teach to meditate, pray, and to be in the present moment. In the Bible, when Moses asks God her name, She replies with “I am.” God didn’t say that She was or will be

When you’re following your intuition, you’re completely tapped into something greater than your personal self. You’re in a state of nonthinking (flow) and direct connection with God. In this state, you always know what you need to do without thinking and are guided by

Infinite Intelligence. It almost seems like we’re not doing anything when we’re in this zone because we lose our sense of personal self and become one with life. When we’re in this state, miracles occur.

SUMMARY OF NON-THINKING

Thinking is the root cause of all suffering.

There is no other answer to why we feel negative emotions other than that it is from our own thinking. 

Everything can be traced back to our thinking, which makes problem solving very simple. Once we realize that our thinking is causing how we feel, we can let go of it and we return to our natural state of peace, love, and joy. When we let go of our thinking, it creates space for us to be able to allow all positive emotions we want to feel to surface from within us.

We don’t live in reality, we live in a PERCEPTION of reality, which is created by our own thinking.

Thinking is NOT an effect of our experiences, but the CAUSE of it.

The thoughts in our minds are not facts.

Our thinking only has control over us if we believe it. 

Let go of the belief in the thought to let go of the suffering.

Our feelings are direct feedback and an innate internal guidance system to let us know whether we are lacking understanding or have absolute clarity of truth. Feelings are an invitation to deepen our understanding of the truth.

We are in flow when we are not thinking.

There is no separation between us and the Universe and all of life when we are not thinking. It is only when we think that we cut ourselves from Source and feel separate from all things (the birth of the ego).

Thinking and thoughts are two different things. Thinking is a verb and requires our manual effort, which causes suffering. Thoughts are nouns, which do not come from us and are divine downloads from the Universe.

We think because it is a biological response to survive.

Our minds think only because it is trying to keep us alive, but it does not help us thrive. It is only concerned with our safety and survival, but not our fulfillment. Thinking holds us back from our Highest Selves by causing negative feelings within us that prevent us from following our true callings.

Our minds are limited to our personal experiences. If you want to receive insights, creativity, and knowledge beyond the capabilities of your current self, simply choose to listen to Infinite Intelligence rather than your finite mind. This infinite source of truth is available to all people at all times if we allow it to be.

Universal Intelligence/Mind is the energy that is everything in this universe. It is the source of where everything comes from that is before form and we are made up of it. This energy has a feeling, which is the feeling is love, peace, joy, connection, and well-being. This is what we fall back into when we let go of our thinking and it is our natural state.

Since we are all always connected to the same source of Infinite Intelligence, once we let go of our thinking, we access new thoughts, ideas, and insights, even if we have never experienced them before. The more we trust our intuition and this Infinite Intelligence, the more we will receive these insights that are always available to us.

Peace, love, joy, and all positive emotions are our default states as humans. It is only when we begin thinking, then we get taken out of that natural state. Once we let go of our thinking, we fall back into our natural state of being and experience all positive feelings effortlessly.

We are ever only one thought or one insight away from expanding our consciousness and experiencing a deeper feeling of love at all times, which comes from a state of non-thinking.

Clarity is the nature of our minds and our default state. It is only when we get caught up in our thinking that things do not seem so. If we let go of our thinking, we return to our “factory default” setting of peace, love, joy, and a quiet mind.

There is nothing inherently wrong with anyone or anything in the Universe, but our thinking will make us think so. You do not have to be fixed because you are not broken. There is only something for you to realize and remember, which is that thinking is the root cause of our suffering. You do not have to do anything about your thinking. All you have to do is shift your understanding of thinking and you will fall back into the truth of who you are, which is beyond your thinking, your body, and everything you think you know. As soon as you let go of your thinking, you become one with Infinite Intelligence, allowing you to feel a never-ending abundance of love, peace, and joy that is always available to you because that is your true nature.

When you make space for Infinite Intelligence, it makes space for you. The more you trust it, the more it trusts you.

There’s never an end to how much space you can make for it. When you prioritize making space in your life and in your mind for Infinite intelligence to come through, your life will change.

Here’s the process for receiving divine downloads when you’re confronted with a challenge:

1. Become aware that your thinking is the root cause of all negative emotions.

2. Create space by surrendering any manual thinking from the personal mind and have complete faith that your inner wisdom (God/Universe/Infinite Intelligence) will give you the answer. Also surrender the how and when the answer will come to you.

3. Become aware of any feelings that arise as you surrender and magnify those feelings of love, peace, and joy. Meet what you’re facing with love and the answer will come to you.

If it seems almost too simple, that’s a good thing. The truth is always simple. Although it may be simple, it’s not always easy and even the greatest spiritual masters struggle at times.

Bonus was interacting and email exchange with the author:

I emailed author asking if he wrote the book without Thinking 🤔

To this: For anyone that is interested in connecting with me even further, I

would love to hear from you at hello@josephnguyen.org about

anything and everything. It brings me such a deep feeling of joy to

hear other people's stories, so I do keep my inbox open for those

who would like to share. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

With Love & Light,

Joseph

Ruskin Bond Summit

 3rd Sept 2023, Sweta Samota took us through this amazing session. 

Introduction

Ruskin Bond was born on 19th May 1934 , in Kasauli, Punjab States Agency, British India. His father, Aubrey Alexander Bond,was born in a military camp in Shahjahanpur, a small town in north India. Later he became a tutor in a small school in the Jamnagar palace for their princes and princesses, where Ruskin also studied for his first six years. He taught English to the princesses of Jamnagar palace and Ruskin Bond and his sister Ellen lived there till he was six. Later, Ruskin's father joined the Royal Air Force in 1939 and Ruskin along with his mother and sister went to live at his maternal home at Dehradun. Shortly after that, he was sent to a boarding school in Mussoorie. When Ruskin was eight years old, his mother Edith Clerke separated from his father and married a Punjabi Hindu, Hari. His father arranged for Ruskin to be brought to New Delhi where he was posted. He was very close to his father and describes this period (1942-1944) with his father as one of the happiest times of his life. When he was ten, his father died due to malaria, while he was posted in Calcutta. He was buried in the Bhowanipore War Cemetery in Calcutta. Ruskin was at his boarding school in Shimla and was informed about this tragedy by his teacher. He was thoroughly heartbroken. Later, he was raised in Dehradun.

His Favourite book was Alice in Wonderland. 

17th Century - Drama

18th Century - Essays

19th Century - Short Story and Essay. 

Writing

He did not get much inspiration from school, and he thought formal education was not essential for formal writing. He would be in the glorious company of authors. 

Logic and clarity at the age of 15. 

In October 1951, he went to Jersey, worked as travel agent, lost his job, and moved to London. 

"It is the desire of recognition and applause that lures me away, I tell myself fame is not greatness, and that if I remain as I am long enough I shall soon grow accustomed to obscurity. At least I shall retain my individuality, and in art that is most important".

In India he was writing for different magazines. Writing stories.  Short stories are fast to write, and help earn his living. So started with short stories. 

1951 - Untouchable - short story

1953 - First Book - The room on the roof. (Diana Athill - Editor and Publisher)

Got Padmasri in 1992 - after 40 years. 

Key takeaways:

1. Embrace simplicity
2. Weave Personal Experience
3. Cultivate observation skill
4. Connect with Nature
5. Value relationships
6. Write from heart - Don't filter your thoughts. 
7. Preserve through rejections
8. Experiment through genres
9. Read Widely
10. Capture Nostalgia - Memories, observations, life experiences, 

Publishing

1956 and then 1980 - Traditionally published. His works translated into 12 languages. 

Key takeaway:

1. Know your audience - Profitability of your idea
2. Adapt to market trends
3. Build relationships
4. Leverage literary network
5. Global Appeal

Publishing Industry in India:

1. Pre Independence: Oxford university, Macmillan
2. Post: Rupa
3. 50s and 60s - Sahitya Akademy and National Book Trust
4. 70s and 80s - Jananpit award, Penguine, HarperCollings
5. 90s and 2000s - internet and digital technology - 1971 - Project Gutenberg
6. 2000 and 2010 - Digital publishing started
7. 2013 on - Kindle

Book reading sessions, go to book shops and give author signed copies. 

Marketing

1. Word of mouth - Relatable and memorable
2. niche book releases
3. Use of personal anecdots
4. Read Aloud session
5. Book signing and literary events
6. Social media mgt
7. Interview and media appearance
8. Website and online presence
9. Library and social visits

Instructions:

Write daily, never underestimate the power of writing your goals everyday. Write your goals daily, and let universe help you achieve it. 

Be mindful of your life. You are having such a beautiful experience. Draw experience and document from your life. It can provide rich experience in story telling. Document your experience. For depth in writing, create observational skills to capture vivid details. How is water dropping - the sound, the shape. 

Develop thick skin, accept good, ignore the rest. 

Rendeep R from Kochi

Cover : Canva and Midjourney

Author - Inflection : Available from 5th of Sept. 

And I got my first award.