Wednesday, February 05, 2025

The Four Sacred Secrets ~ Preethaji and Krishnaji 5/25


 The Four Sacred Secrets: For Love and Prosperity, A Guide to Living in a Beautiful State is a spiritual and self-help book by Indian spiritual teachers Preethaji and Krishnaji, founders of the O&O Academy. Including ancient fables and modern stories that will speak intimately to your heart, this book fuses the transcendental and the scientific, the mystical and the practical, to guide you to consciously create wealth, heal your heart, awaken yourself to love, and help you to make peace with your true self.

Rereading now; earlier review: https://arunoday.blogspot.com/search?q=Four+Sacred

The Beautiful State vs. the Suffering State:

The authors introduce the idea that every individual lives in one of two states of mind: the "beautiful state" or the "suffering state." The beautiful state is one of love, connection, and inner peace, while the suffering state is marked by stress, anxiety, and a sense of separation. The book teaches how to shift from the suffering state to the beautiful state through conscious practices.

These secrets are meant to guide people in transforming their lives and living in what the authors call a "beautiful state." The four sacred secrets are:

1. Living with a Spiritual Vision:


This secret involves cultivating a higher purpose or vision for your life that transcends material goals and focuses on spiritual growth. It's about understanding your deeper intentions and aligning your life with them. By living with a spiritual vision, you move beyond self-centered desires and begin to live in a way that benefits both yourself and others.

2. Connecting to the Universal Intelligence:

This secret emphasizes the importance of recognizing and connecting with a higher consciousness or universal intelligence that guides and influences all aspects of life. The authors suggest that by tapping into this universal intelligence through meditation, mindfulness, and other spiritual practices, you can access greater wisdom, creativity, and insight. This connection helps you make decisions that are in alignment with your true self and the greater good.

3. Awakening to the Power of Consciousness:

This secret is about becoming fully aware of your thoughts, emotions, and actions, and understanding how they shape your reality. By awakening to the power of your own consciousness, you learn to master your mind and emotions, leading to a more peaceful and empowered life. The authors emphasize the importance of self-awareness and emotional intelligence in achieving personal transformation.

4. Fostering the Flow of Love:

The final secret focuses on the transformative power of love in all its forms—self-love, love for others, and love for life itself. The authors believe that love is the most powerful force for personal and spiritual growth. By fostering the flow of love in your life, you can heal relationships, attract abundance, and create a life filled with joy and fulfillment. This secret encourages you to open your heart and live from a place of compassion and connection.

The four life journey covered in the process are:

  1. Heal the wounded child
  2. Dissolve the inner divide
  3. Become a Heartful Partner
  4. Emerge into a Conscious Wealth Creator

The easy-to-follow meditations included in this book will transform your experience of reality and open you to the power of creating a beautiful life for yourself.


It has four chapters and two sub parts each, Preethaji & Krishnaji go beyond strategies and share with us how to make decisions from a beautiful state and how that creates lack of inner-conflict and a boost in creativity that we otherwise would not be able to access. A whole new way of looking at problem solving and at making choices! The implications that this can have in our life and businesses are enormous.

It is said that if we follow the process we will experience calmness in the mind and stillness of energy in the body. The Four Sacred Secrets eloquently presents much needed WISDOM for the entire world to transcend into a harmonious living.

Whatever we do, be in a beautiful state. 

Thursday, January 30, 2025

The Art of Storytelling

Be in control of our stories, to shape it. Shape our self image. As creatures we are programmed for Story telling. 

Our wold needs stories, we are all striving to convey our stories in the most persuasive manner. 

Story is licensed and channelized day dreaming. There is relaxed openness

Story need to have - EMPAT formula

1. Emotion (Heart of the story)

2. Mirror

3. Pattern - Start , middle, end

4. Ability to hold attention 

5. Transformation - (Soul of the story) - Key lesson, Have clear call to attantion

Agoraphobia. Mind the Gap. I am just a copy, of a copy of a copy. Do better. Know what the viewer wants. 

What sets you apart is how you tell the story. What is pulling one is not the katha or story, but the kathakar or the storyteller. 

Orbit shift is what is needed. Be mindful of gravity. Be grounded, and don't fly.  Know of personal gravity,  Gravity of company, industry, social or cultural gravity - prejudice, jugad, cumulative gravity kills idea. Sometime you have to be impractical. Come up with something really innovative, that is Orbit shift. 

Challenge - TV has become second screen, mobile phone has taken up. Find your flavour. Inform - without giving fuss. 

Ethos - Authority on the subject

Logos - Logical Appeal 

Pathos - Emotions - genuine connection with audinece

Metaphor - a thing regarded as representative or symbolic of something else.

Brevity - Punchy lines

Purpose - what is the purpose of what your are doing? Which is your favourate story as child, that shaped you?

Most CFOs are terrible storytellers.



→ Net profit is $18.2 million, down from $21 million

→ Operating margin decreased from 22% to 19%

→ Revenue grew by 7.3% since last quarter

→ G&A expenses increased by 12.5%


You know what's wrong with this?

This is data dumping. 


The audience doesn't know what to do. 

No decisions get made. 


Instead the better way is this.

(WHAT) - (WHY) - (GOOD/BAD) - (NEXT STEPS)


Here's how.


(WHAT)

Last quarter, revenue grew by 7.3%. But that growth came at a cost. Our G&A expenses increased by 12.5%. This led to a drop in operating margin from 22% to 19%.


The result?


Net profit fell to $18.2 million, down from $21 million.


(WHY)

Here’s why this happened

We invested heavily in marketing to drive top line growth.

Operational inefficiencies increased costs in key departments.


(GOOD OR BAD)

But it’s not all bad news.


Our investments are paying off in improved brand awareness.

And we have identified three areas to optimize operations and reduce expenses.


(WHATS NEXT)

Next steps-

Streamline our supply chain by Q2.

Reassess non core spending.

Focus on high margin products for sustainable growth


This is storytelling.

- It gives context.

- It connects the dots.

- It drives decisions.


Follow this flow -

- WHAT

- WHY

- GOOD OR BAD

- NEXT STEPS

Wednesday, January 29, 2025

Truth - Discover - Change


 The truth is, it is difficult to predict anything. 


We can’t event correctly identify the causes that led us to where we are. 

Replicating the causes will not guarantee the same results again. 


Perhaps that is why it is important derive pleasure from your actions, and not its fruits.



Everything on this plant is in constant change - seasons shift, tides turn, even mountains reshape. Change isn't your enemy; it's your Evolution.  Instead of resisting, ask yourself: What is this change teaching me? How can I grow from it? Transformation isn't here to break you; it's here to refine you. 

So, let go of the familiar and embrace the unknown - it's where GROWTH begins. If you don't change, how will you ever uncover who you're truly meant to become?

Monday, January 27, 2025

Silence and Values


Major life decisions shouldn't be based on short term emotions. They should be guided by long term values.  Feelings are better mirrors than maps. They reflect our present state, but they don't come with future directions.  Don't let today's mood drive who you become tomorrow. 

Be firm. Be fair. Stay silent. Yes, No, AM sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you.

Be you. Have your individuality. 
"Change is a gift.  People change to teach us to let go, things go wrong to help us appreciate the good, and sometimes things fall apart to make room for something better.  Trust the process.

Don't underestimate the power of self-respect.  It's not about making demands, but about knowing your worth and setting standards for how you want to be treated.


Life is too short for drama and conflict.  Choose calmness, choose gentleness, and choose to surround yourself with those who bring peace to your life."

7 places to stay silent at all cost:

1. If you don’t know the full story.
2. When you feel too emotional. 
3. In the heat of anger.
4. If your words can offend a person.
5. If your words can destroy a friendship 
6. If you can't talk without yelling. 
7. If your silence can save bonds.

"‘Crumbs,’ said She, ‘how embarrassing.’"

Succinct it is to be.

It's more about ballpark of the numbers they will be looking at

Ernest Hemingway once wrote: "The hardest lesson I’ve had to learn as an adult is the relentless need to keep going, no matter how shattered I feel inside."

"Take care of yourself.  It's okay to acknowledge your burdens and to seek support when you need it.  Remember, just because you carry it well doesn't mean it wasn't heavy.  You are strong, and you are worthy of care."

Most important word "Help".

Sunday, January 26, 2025

Yellowface ~ Rebecca.F. Kuang 4/25


 Spoilers for Yellowface by R.F. Kuang possible; the title Yellowface mean "the practice of white actors changing their appearance with make-up in order to play East Asian characters in films, plays, etc."

The story revolves around June Hayward, also known as Juniper Song, who stumbles upon her friend Athena Liu's unpublished manuscript after her tragic death due to a pancake choking incident. June decides to publish the script under her name, leading to her debut novel's success.

Throughout the book, the author skillfully sheds light on the darker side of the publishing industry, white entitlement, the Chinese labor corps in WWII, modern-day racism, and plagiarism. The author's clever genius in bringing out the truth makes this a compelling read that can be finished in just 1-2 sittings.

Although the story is fast-paced and completely hooks you in, I couldn't help but feel a bit unsatisfied with the ending. June's character portrayal as someone who always thinks she's right but turns out to be a terrible person adds depth to the narrative. It delves into real-life situations, the complexities of morality, the impact of the internet on our lives, and the incredible power that a simple lie can wield. There is mention of Buadrillard, a philosopher who coined the term hyperreality. June is simply quoting him without any deep knowledge of the concept. It shows how June is shallow, she quotes him without reading him fully. 

The portrayal of the influence of social media in the story is well-executed and thought-provoking.  it felt like a reflection of the real-world issues we see on platforms like Twitter. It's as if R.F. Kuang was drawing from her own experiences and observations to craft this narrative.

The places Kuang describes when June shot to fame are simply unbelievable nuances you will enjoy. The book tours, the publishing numbers, June's envy of Athena and her success, are all gripping, right from the beginning. What an unputdownable book!

It is a gripping and interesting fiction that has a strong take on various things among writers, the publishing industry, Plagiarism, social media, Book clubs. 

 I could not help but think of the possibility that Kuang's own experiences writing her book Babel may have played a part in her writing of Yellowface. Like the experiences of the character Athena in Yellowface, Kuang's Babel was (rightfully) praised. I have not read Kuang's The Poppy Wars series, but I loved all the historical research that she put into Babel, a bit preachy, but it really is a tremendous undertaking. I have to respect any author who puts so much time and effort into a work of fiction. At the same time, I did feel some of the characters were stereotyped to prove the author's point. 

That idea also plays into the characters' experiences in Yellowface. I pondered whether this work was a way for Kuang to address issues she feels are important, or if it was a "Shake It Off" passive-aggressive statement. It may have been neither. Maybe she just wanted to write a good novel. She succeeded. In my opinion, it may have been a little of all three. 

The climax did not fit well in Yellowface. It still seemed sensationalized to me. I do not feel it fit with the character development throughout the novel. That is, only downfall to me.

"How I could resonate with many points mentioned in the book, especially "Writing is the closes thing we have to real magic. Writing is creating something out of nothing, is opening doors to other lands. Writing gives you power to shape your own world when the real one hurts too much. To stop writing, would kill a writer. "

Sister of My Heart ~ Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni 2/25


The writing was amazing, the story was engaging, the characters were real, there was emotion - joy, sadness, heartbreak, wonder, hatred. 

Anju is the daughter of an upper-caste Calcutta family; her cousin Sudha is the daughter of the black sheep of the family. Sudha is as beautiful, tenderhearted, and serious as Anju is plain, whip-smart, and defiant. Yet since the day they were born, Sudha and Anju have been bonded in ways even their mothers cannot comprehend.

Despite those differences, since the day on which the two girls were born, the same day their fathers died--mysteriously and violently--Sudha and Anju have been sisters of the heart. Bonded in ways even their mothers cannot comprehend, the two girls grow into womanhood as if their fates as well as their hearts were merged.

But, when Sudha learns a dark family secret, that connection is shattered. For the first time in their lives, the girls know what it is to feel suspicion and distrust. Urged into arranged marriages, Sudha and Anju's lives take opposite turns. Sudha becomes the dutiful daughter-in-law of a rigid small-town household. Anju goes to America with her new husband and learns to live her own life of secrets. When tragedy strikes each of them, however, they discover that despite distance and marriage, they have only each other to turn to.

Set in the two worlds of San Francisco and India, this exceptionally moving novel tells a story at once familiar and exotic. 

Girl in Scarlet Hijab ~ Suresh U Kumar 3/25

 









1981. Cochin, Kerala. The city is in chaos as student revolutionaries form a human barricade on the streets, bringing the home minister’s convoy to a standstill outside a hospital.


Inside, their beloved leader—an ageing freedom fighter-turned-celebrated writer and guiding light of the burgeoning socialist movement—lies at death’s door, the victim of a brazen assassination attempt orchestrated by the corrupt political elite.


With widespread protests engulfing the state, a group of youth leaders rally to challenge the oppressive regime. At the heart of this uprising stands a mysterious girl in a scarlet hijab, whose fierce courage and tactical genius make her indispensable to the revolution.


As tensions rise, secrets begin to surface, threatening to upend the lives of everyone involved.


In Girl in Scarlet Hijab, Suresh U. Kumar crafts a riveting tale of heroism, sacrifice and the battle for justice, where every choice could alter the course of history.

Though I couldn't attend the talk at KLF today, glad that I could attend the book launch at French Toast and read it through today. Nostalgic,  timetravell, unputdownable!      You can visualise it like a good movie, that has history, politics,  Patriotism and fiction at its core. Ah! What better time to finish reading it on a republic day, wondering do revolution ever end? 


Tuesday, January 21, 2025

5 rules everyone must follow ~ Simon Sinek

 Find your spark and bring your spark to life. 

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/-murataydin_simon-sinek-in-this-amazing-speech-shares-activity-7287200632266977281-mtiJ?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_android

Simon Sinek in this AMAZING SPEECH shares the 5 rules everyone must follow in life.



  1. Go behind what you like. There is two ways to see the world - some people see what they want, and some people only see what prevents them from getting what they want. You can do your way, break the rules, but don't get in somebody else's ways in getting what they want. (Bagel story)
  2. Black Death of Child Birth - Europe, during renaissance. It happened because doctors did not wash their hands properly. Sometimes you are the problem. Take responsibility, accountability and credit. 
  3. Take care of each other. Who can become a seal? Physically and emotionally spend, they are able to find energy to dig down and help person next to them. It's not about being tough, fast, smart, its about being good about being helpful to others. If you find your spark, learn that skill by helping each other. Ask for help if you need. 
  4. Nelson Mandella, universally regarded as great leader. Always sit in a circle, be the last to speak. Keep your opinion to yourself. Don't say yes or no, just ask question if needed. Understand, from where they are speaking and why they are saying what they are saying. Practice being the last to speak. 
  5. Former Undersecretary of Defence - As you gain fame, fortune, position, seniority, none of it is meant for you, but for the position you hold. You will always deserve a styroform cup. Remember the lesson of gratitude and humility. Remember what is meant for you and what is for your position. 

Monday, January 20, 2025

Paramjyothi ~ Ekam

 



*PADAPRANAMAMS MY DEAR AMMA BHAGAVAN ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™*

Thank you very much for the beautiful darshan and super class. A great class where lot of new and surprise information were unfolded ❤️❤️❤️

My humble observations are :

Immensely happy to see the new Srimurthy. Really overwhelming explanation about the formation and the salient features ❤️

Thank you BHAGAVAN for the detailed and wonderful explanation of the PARAMJYOTHI phenomenon and the three divisions in the Srimurthy for the three major functions ๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน

PARAMJYOTHI appeared in the form  on top of EKAM years ago which was photograhed (physical evidence )

PARAMJYOTHI wanted to be housed in EKAM temple. The EKAM temple was designed by a person (siddha yogi) in Odissa 600 years ago with advise to hand over to BHAGAVAN. The Vasthu expert designed in 3D format and EKAM was built step by step as per the advise from PARAMJYOTHI ( even selection of the marble, wood etc). The energy field is in the ground floor of EKAM. The construction is still going on which may be completed in the next three years, where PARAMJYOTHI would be installed. The power of PARAMJYOTHI would increase several times. First, it would speed up the Dharama process. Once it is done the movement will move fast. Our country India will then become world Viswaguru. India would emerge as a greater power economically, financially, spiritually etc.

Without the grace of PARAMJYOTHI one won't be able to move upward. PARAMJYOTHI Bhagavathi would look after the Iham desires of devotees, while PARAMJYOTHI BHAGAVAN would look after the param needs of the devotees.

PARAMJYOTHI KALKI is involved in worldly affairs.

So the picturization with all these included in the Srimurthy, is to be used in futue ❣️❣️❣️

There is no *FREE WILL.* Our Dharama is unique.

The 7 Koshas are controlling us.  At different times one behaves differently; one is not the same throughout the day.

As mystics, for AMMA BHAGAVAN there is no TIME. For scientist like Newton, there is  absolute time and for Einstein time is not absolute. For BHAGAVAN
Time does not exists. It is only maya.

If one is not enlightened how could one live? BHAGAVAN answered: Possibly in 3 years from now we the devotees can  get the Grace for achieving enlightenment ❤️. In EKAM top floor is for meditation. Then, Iham, Param and enlightenment!!!

Normal people can live and enjoy. But it should be "live and let live". Help others.

*SPACE* also does not exists.

Some Gods reponds to our parayers but few don't. If and only if one has real connection with his God, can he get his desires fullfilled๐Ÿ‘. There is no *CENTRAL GOD*. Mainly kuladevatha / Ishtadevatha are concerned about us. Do our poojas and rituals. Homa and such sort of rituals are in a sence a business/trading. One get wealth, health etc. God also expext in return something.

Regarding, difference between conscious being, enlightened being and unenlightened beings the explanation given by BHAGAVAN should be seriouly noted. As of today there are hardly 18,000  conscious. In everything one does, there is self!  Lesser number of people are awakened.  People who doest have self at all, are very few... may be 300 or so. Alas!!

The most important teachings in our Dharama to understand are:

*Understanding and Seeing*

Underdtanding is intellectual. Seeing is by a change in the brain. One can't change one's brain. He should get power from other dimension/ divine. Power is GRACE. SEEING is possible only through Grace.

BHAGAVAN very much appreciated the recent questions in the MM class. So questions are evolving. The quality of questions have improved to high level.

BHAGAVAN also explained the starting stages of Dharama and the difficult situations faced.

Sri BHAGAVAN 's JANMADINA DARSHAN AND DEEKSHA ARE to make us ready to go fast in journey. 

*And today's process is " you see that there is no FREE Will"*

*Process*

Completely involved in the process when I could seek AMMA to bless me with good health. Glad to inform "it is done". I am 100% healthy๐Ÿ˜„ now.

Regarding param, I have already started tasting the bliss and getting the GRACE ❤️❤️❤️

*Thank you my dearest AMMA BHAGAVAN ❤️❤️❤️๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™*

*Thank you dear Dasaji ❤️❤️❤️๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™*


Chola Temples



The iconic Chola temples ..Thanjavur, Gangaikondacholapuram and Darasuram .. are among the most amazing structures in India. I have visited all three, and used to drive  down to Thanjavur from Trichy many an evening, when I was FACT's Regional Manager in the late 1960s. The first two Brihadeswara temples were built by Rajaraja I in 1010, and son Rajendra in 1040, while Darasuram's Airavateshwara was built 100 years later by Rajaraja II.
Apart from their sheer architectural beauty, as a civil engineer, I was struck by the technology used which was far in advance of the times. Even today, we are left awestruck by the feat of rolling the huge 85 tonne sikara up a 6.5 km long ramp!
The earliest known Chola was Karikala ( burnt leg) of the Sangam period who built the Grand Anicut on the Kaveri later in 10 AD. However, it was only centuries later (circa 850), that Vijalaya established a small kingdom in Thanjavur, which grew into a mighty empire. What a wonderful history Tamilnadu has!
But I am reserving the feats of the Cholas as grand builders and mighty conquerors for another day.
JPA





 

Thursday, January 16, 2025

English Vs. Poetry

 







In English, we say: “I miss you.”

But in poetry, we say:

“I trace the shape of your absence in the spaces where your laughter used to linger,

and let the echoes of you fill the hollow hours.”


In English, we say: “I don’t know how to let go.”

But in poetry, we say:

“I carry you in my chest like a stone—

heavy, unyielding, and carved with the sharp edges of what once was.”


In English, we say: “I feel lost.”

But in poetry, we say:

“The compass of my heart spins wildly now,

its needle drawn to places it can no longer call home.”


In English, we say: “I wish it were different.”

But in poetry, we say:

“I water the garden of could-have-beens with tears,

waiting for flowers that refuse to bloom.”


In English, we say: “I hope you’re happy.”

But in poetry, we say:

“May the sun that warms your days and 

be as kind to as the first kiss of dew on the dawning light upon the leafs of the laurel that we once made love under”


In English, we say: “You hurt me.”

But in poetry, we say:

“You planted thorns in my chest with hands I once trusted,

and now every breath feels like an apology I shouldn’t owe.”


In English, we say: “I wanted to stay.”

But in poetry, we say:

“I lingered at the edge of your world,

a star burning quietly, unnoticed in your vast, indifferent sky.”


In English, we say: “I’m trying to move on.”

But in poetry, we say:

“I untangle your name from my veins each morning,

only to find it woven into my dreams again at night.”


In English, we say: “I’ll be okay.”

But in poetry, we say:

“I gather the shattered pieces of myself like broken glass,

knowing someday, even scars can catch the light.”


With poetry I write paths through gardens of grace with words in ways my body dare not go as a whole.

Tuesday, January 14, 2025

Caste ~ Isabel Wilkerson

 Thanks to Nandakishore Sir.

*Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents*

*by Isabel Wilkerson*

As a child, I was fed the myth that America was "the land of the free"  and "the land of equal opportunity". The right-wing liberals prescribed  it as the antidote to the "communist hell" of the Soviet Union, where  everyone was living a life of perennial poverty, and ordinary citizens  were tortured and murdered for just speaking even a single word against  the government. In similar fashion, Hinduism was touted as the  "tolerant" religion, unlike Christianity and Islam, where all beliefs  were accepted as the way to the ultimate Godhead.

It took me a long time to realise that these were half-truths, worse than lies.

Hinduism,  despite all its lofty philosophy, is institutionalised apartheid in  practice. And in the USA, the "equality", "freedom" and "opportunity"  are available only for the privileged class, much like "free" countries  anywhere in the world.

In this book, Elizabeth Wilkerson links  the evils of both these cultures to one common cause: caste. The  deep-rooted belief that certain groups of human beings are inherently  better than others, and that certain groups are so utterly devoid of any  merit that the only fate they deserve is to live a semi-human existence  at the bottom rung of the social ladder. When these feelings become  extreme, we have something like the "final solution". (Nazis were  directly influenced by the Jim Crow laws in the USA. More about that  later.)

//We in the developed world are like homeowners who  inherited a house on a piece of land that is beautiful on the outside,  but whose soil is unstable loam and rock, heaving and contracting over  generations, cracks patched but the deeper ruptures waved away for  decades, centuries even. Many people may rightly say, "I had nothing to  do with how this all started. I have nothing to do with the sins of the  past. My ancestors never attacked indigenous people, never owned  slaves." And, yes. Not one of us was here when this house was built. Our  immediate ancestors may have had nothing to do with it, but here we  are, the current occupants of a property with stress cracks and bowed  walls and fissures built into the foundation. We are the heirs to  whatever is right or wrong with it. We did not erect the uneven pillars  or joists, but they are ours to deal with now.

And any further deterioration is, in fact, on our hands.//

The USA is a country which was created out of the massive genocide of  the native occupants of the land: and it was built up through the labour  of hundreds and thousands of Africans who were treated as property and  lived a sub-human existence for centuries. Even after the Civil War  which emancipated the slaves, under the infamous "Jim Crow" laws they  were forced to exist as beings which were considered barely human. Of  course, they were free, but the state allowed them to do only the lowest  of jobs which ensured that they lived in virtual penury; there was  strict segregation to ensure that they stayed at the bottom of the  social ladder; and they had no say in the government because they had no  voting rights. Even the small transgressions on the part of an  African-American resulted in the most horrendous punishments.

Even  after the Civil Rights movement succeeded in the repeal of the Jim Crow  laws and African-Americans slowly managed to move into the mainstream,  things were far from egalitarian. Segregation still remained in the mind  of the White American, and it was there to stay. And it is here that it  resembles the caste system of India.

//Each of us is in a  container of some kind. The label signals to the world what is presumed  to be inside and what is to be done with it. The label tells you which  shelf your container supposedly belongs on. In a caste system, the label  is frequently out of sync with the contents, mistakenly put on the  wrong shelf and this hurts people and institutions in ways we may not  always know.//

Caste is very resilient because it is  ingrained in the minds of people: and not necessarily only in those at  the top. Caste works because everyone more or less accepts it as the  "natural" order of things.

Ms. Wilkerson defines eight pillars on which caste stands.

1. Divine will and laws of nature: sanction for the gradation of humans based on "holy" texts, like the Manusmriti of India, and the labelling of Africans as the sons of the cursed Ham from the Old Testament.

2. Heritability: caste is generally understood to be inherited, and its supposed characteristics are considered genetic traits.

3. Endogamy and control of marriage and mating

4. The concept of purity. The "lower" castes "pollute" the "upper" castes through contact.

5. Occupational hierarchy: the "lower" castes are allowed to do only  undignified jobs, which are beneath contempt for the "upper" castes.

6. Dehumanising and stigmatising people on a regular basis, based on their birth.

7. Cruelty and violence as a means of control.

8. The inherent superiority of the "upper" caste versus the inherent inferiority of the "lower".

Anyone  from India will have no problem in recognising these in their own  country; however, it may come as a surprise that the same system holds  in the USA too, with minor variations.

In fact, the Jim Crow South was what gave inspiration to none other than the Nazis.

//Hitler  had studied America from afar, both envying and admiring it, and  attributed its achievements to its Aryan stock. He praised the country's  near genocide of Native Americans and the exiling to reservations of  those who had survived. He was pleased that the United States had "shot  down the millions of redskins to a few hundred thousand." He saw the  U.S. Immigration Restriction Act of 1924 as "a model for his program of  racial purification," historian Jonathan Spiro wrote. The Nazis were  impressed by the American custom of lynching its subordinate caste of  African-Americans, having become aware of the ritual torture and  mutilations that typically accompanied them. Hitler especially marveled  at the American "knack for maintaining an air of robust innocence in the  wake of mass death."

By the time that Hitler rose to power, the  United States "was not just a country with racism," Whitman, the Yale  legal scholar, wrote. "It was the leading racist jurisdiction-so much so  that even Nazi Germany looked to America for inspiration." The Nazis  recognized the parallels even if many Americans did not.//

Most people will dismiss these as things of the past. _After Civil Rights Act of 1964, things are on the mend,_ they will say. _Of  course change will take time. But look at America now - you have to  admit it's much, much better than what it was fifty years ago, isn't it?  Hell, we even had a two-term African-American President!_

Yes,  things are changing - but the hard-core patriarchal white supremacists  are unchanged, and they still call the shots. That's why a person like  Donald Trump is sitting in the president's chair.




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Repeat Quotes:

"We in the developed world are like homeowners who inherited a house on a piece of land that is beautiful on the outside, but whose soil is unstable loam and rock, heaving and contracting over generations, cracks patched but the deeper ruptures waved away for decades, centuries even. Many people may rightly say, "I had nothing to do with how this all started. I have nothing to do with the sins of the past. My ancestors never attacked indigenous people, never owned slaves." And, yes. Not one of us was here when this house was built. Our immediate ancestors may have had nothing to do with it, but here we are, the current occupants of a property with stress cracks and bowed walls and fissures built into the foundation. We are the heirs to whatever is right or wrong with it. We did not erect the uneven pillars or joists, but they are ours to deal with now.

And any further deterioration is, in fact, on our hands."

- Isabel Wilkerson, Caste

She is talking about the USA, but this is 100% applicable to India too.

Would you believe that USA was the model for Nazi Germany? Many of us, who have been fed the lie about "the land of the free" and "land of equal opportunity" would be shocked at the comparison. But unfortunately, that seems to be the fact.

Isabel Wilkerson, in 'Caste', says:

'Hitler had studied America from afar, both envying and admiring it, and attributed its achievements to its Aryan stock. He praised the country's near genocide of Native Americans and the exiling to reservations of those who had survived. He was pleased that the United States had "shot down the millions of redskins to a few hundred thousand." He saw the U.S. Immigration Restriction Act of 1924 as "a model for his program of racial purification," historian Jonathan Spiro wrote. The Nazis were impressed by the American custom of lynching its subordinate caste of African-Americans, having become aware of the ritual torture and mutilations that typically accompanied them. Hitler especially marveled at the American "knack for maintaining an air of robust innocence in the wake of mass death."

By the time that Hitler rose to power, the United States "was not just a country with racism," Whitman, the Yale legal scholar, wrote. "It was the leading racist jurisdiction-so much so that even Nazi Germany looked to America for inspiration." The Nazis recognized the parallels even if many Americans did not.'


As a child, I was fed the myth that America was "the land of the free" and "the land of equal opportunity". The right-wing liberals touted it as the antidote to the "communist hell" of the Soviet Union, where everyone was living a life of perennial poverty, and ordinary citizens were tortured and murdered for just speaking even a single word against the government. The reality was, in fact, very different: the "equality", "freedom" and "opportunity" was available only for the privileged class, much like "free" countries anywhere in the world.


Here is Isabel Wilkerson talking about the "Manusmriti" of Louisiana! An eye-opener, really!


'Louisiana had a law on the books as recently as 1983 setting the boundary at "one-thirty-second Negro blood." Louisiana culture went to great specificity, not so unlike the Indian Laws of Manu, in delineating the various subcastes, based on the estimated percentage of African "blood." There was griffe (three-fourths black), marabon (five-eighths black), mulatto (one-half), quadroon (one-fourth), octaroon (one-eighth), sextaroon (one-sixteenth), demi-meamelouc (one-thirty-second), and sangmelee (one-sixty-fourth). The latter categories, as twenty-first-century genetic testing has now shown, would encompass millions of Americans now classified as Caucasian. All of these categories bear witness to a historic American, dominant-caste preoccupation with race and caste purity.'


"The first African-American to win an Academy Award, Hattie McDaniel, was commended for her role as Mammy, a solicitous and obesely desexed counterpoint to Scarlett O'Hara, the feminine ideal, in the 1939 film 'Gone with the Wind'. The Mammy character was more devoted to her white family than to her own, willing to fight black soldiers to protect her white enslaver.


That trope became a comforting staple in film portrayals of slavery, but it was an ahistorical figment of caste imagination. Under slavery, most black women were thin, gaunt even, due the meager rations provided them, and few worked inside a house, as they were considered more valuable in the field. Yet the rotund and cheerful slave or maidservant was what the dominant caste preferred to see, and McDaniel and other black actresses of the era found that those were the only roles they could get."


Isabel Wilkerson, 'Caste'


//When people have lived with assumptions long enough, passed down through the generations as incontrovertible fact, they are accepted as the truths of physics, no longer needing even to be spoken. They are as true and as unremarkable as water flowing through rivers or the air that we breathe. In the original caste system of India, the abiding faith in the entitlement of birth became enmeshed in the mind of the upper caste and "hangs there to this day without any support," Ambedkar wrote, "for now it needs no prop but belief-like a weed on the surface of a pond."//

- Isabel Wilkerson, 'Caste'

In India, this is further reinforced by privilege masquerading as "merit". The entrenched caste hierarchy in society ensures that very few Dalits come up in life, even with reservations, which are nothing but paper placebos. Except in states like Kerala and Tamil Nadu, the people on the lower rungs of the social ladder would find it impossible to climb up to a level where they can make use of them; and even the few who do are bullied and harassed and hounded out of the educational system. Their failure is then used to reinforce their image as underperformers. It is a huge vicious circle.


"Germany bears witness to an uncomfortable truth-that evil is not one person but can be easily activated in more people than we would like to believe when the right conditions congeal. It is easy to say, If we could just root out the despots before they take power or intercept their rise. If we could just wait until the bigots die away. . . It is much harder to look into the darkness in the hearts of ordinary people with unquiet minds, needing someone to feel better than, whose cheers and votes allow despots anywhere in the world to rise to power in the first place. It is harder to focus on the danger of common will, the weaknesses of the human immune system, the ease with which the toxins can infect succeeding generations. Because it means the enemy, the threat, is not one man, it is us, all of us, lurking in humanity itself."

- Isabel Wilkerson, 'Caste

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Sunday, January 12, 2025

The Golden Road CBC Discussion - BOTM






 An amazing weekend discussion on books in two parts. This time the highlight was more of women readers and new youth. 

Part1: 2024 Reads

It was interesting to know how the interest,  knowledge and preferences are changing over a period of time. A group who love the books from 'The Golden Age' and consider today's writers not up to the mark, leading us to discuss Ram c/o Anandi. Gen A have different taste altogether. Good to see that among them  there are still those who would like to tap the knowledge and benefits from the well read seniors.  Most of us like honey bees go from page to page and book to book as Philip Abraham Sir rightly said.

Then we had a break for the photo session,  informal chitchat, know others and most important of all the Tea and Samosas.

Part 2: BOTM - The Golden Road by William Dalrymple: A very lively and intense discussion,  with extreme opinions graciously accepted and heard by all was the highlight.

We are blessed to have author with great wisdom having the years, wars and historical events on his fingertips John Alexander Sir who could bring out errors and question the 'trivia' jotted by  someone of Dalrymple's status. There were insigts  from the world of journalism, local history,  Mavelikkara Buddha, past battles especially the changes in Spain that were invaluable. Everyone felt that the book was not linear.

A question that remained was why are these not taught in our history syllabus? Why even in India it is taught that Double entry system of accounting was born in Italy? Why indian historians didn’t attempt to write anything on this topic especially on Pallava& chola empire & their efficiency in maintaining trade routes through the sea a full thousand years ago? Why is the silk route more glorified than the Maritime route?

An insightful evening indeed. Immensely grateful ๐Ÿ™  to each one of you who made this happen.

#TheGoldenRoad #BOTM #cochinbook #CochinBookClub #BookMeet #WilliamDalrymple #Weekend

Friday, January 10, 2025

Cheeni Kum

 



Two extremes... in age, character and attitude, meet and against all odds fall in love. Cheeni Kum, R Balki's debut movie released in 2007 focuses on Buddhadev Gupta/Gaspus (Amitabh Bachchan), Nina Verma/Chicken Thagda (Tabu) and Sexy(Swini Khara)



Grouchy, uptight 64-year-old Buddhadev Gupta lives a fairly wealthy lifestyle in London, England with his widowed TV- and wrestling-addicted mom (Zohra Sehgal). His only friend and confidante is his 9-year-old neighbour, 'Sexy' (Swini Khara), who is diagnosed with cancer. Buddha is arrogant and egocentric, often rude to his chefs and sarcastic to those around him.

He is the owner of Spice 6, one of London's top restaurants that specializes in Indian dishes. One day a customer, Nina Verma, complains about the zafrani pulao which had sugar in it, and Buddhadev does not take it well, only to find out that the pulao was indeed imperfect. Buddhadev Gupta believes that he runs the best Indian restaurant in London, so when attractive Nina Verma sends his zafarani pulao back to the kitchen, he gives her a piece of his mind. She irritates him again a couple of days later by sending round the dish properly cooked.


He decides to make amends to Nina and lends her his umbrella during a rainy day. Both subsequently become friends, fall in love, and decide to get married. She is introduced to Buddhadev's mom, who instantly approves of her. Nina, who lives in Delhi with her widower dad, cuts short her visit when her dad gets sick. Buddhadev and his mom also travel to India so that Buddhadev can ask for Nina's hand from her now-fully-recovered dad. Buddhadev does meet with Nina's dad and, after considerable hesitation, does manage to ask for Nina's hand and is abruptly refused--for Nina is only 34, and Buddhadev is six years older than Nina's dad. When Nina and Buddhadev insist on getting married, her Gandhian dad decides to undertake a fast unto death (satyagraha).

Buddha leaves their home feeling heartbroken and as once suggested by Nina puts his hand around kutubminar's Ashoka Pillar make a wish , only to find out that Sexy has now passed away from cancer. He is heartbroken and curses himself for being selfish and not asking for Sexy's life. In the meantime, Omprakash has begrudgingly agreed to Buddha and Nina's relationship, at which an overjoyed Nina comes to find Buddha at the Qutub Minar, where she finds out about Sexy as well. She consoles Buddha while he grieves his best friend and gently lets him know that her father has changed his mind.

The final scene shows Buddha and Nina having brought Buddha's mother and Nina's father to Spice 6, and Buddha bonding with Omprakash promising a ticket at the Lord's for a Test cricket match playing near them.

Tuesday, January 07, 2025

Books that make you question & Think


 The midnight Libraray

Room by Emma Donogue

Free will by Sam Harris

The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath

Introduction to Psychology by Ciccarelli๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜… Many many years ago in college

The Hero with a Thousand Faces by Joseph Campbell

100 years of Solitude. All of a sudden I didn't want to grow old

Saturday, January 04, 2025

India Travel


India's Longest National Highway 44...
4112 Kilo Meter. Kanyakumari to Srinagar♥️๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ



 

Kanyakumari

 









Nagarcoil

 









Mathur Thotti Palam







Nagercovil is also beautiful with its beaches n dams ...No this is not a village. Has everything ...very accessible place.

Pechiparai Reservoir