Silence and Values

Major life decisions shouldn't be based on short term emotions. They should be guided by long term values.  Feelings are better mirrors than maps. They reflect our present state, but they don't come with future directions.  Don't let today's mood drive who you become tomorrow. 

Be firm. Be fair. Stay silent. Yes, No, AM sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you.

Be you. Have your individuality. 

"Change is a gift.  People change to teach us to let go, things go wrong to help us appreciate the good, and sometimes things fall apart to make room for something better.  Trust the process.

Don't underestimate the power of self-respect.  It's not about making demands, but about knowing your worth and setting standards for how you want to be treated.

Life is too short for drama and conflict.  Choose calmness, choose gentleness, and choose to surround yourself with those who bring peace to your life."

7 places to stay silent at all cost:

1. If you don’t know the full story.

2. When you feel too emotional. 

3. In the heat of anger.

4. If your words can offend a person.

5. If your words can destroy a friendship 

6. If you can't talk without yelling. 

7. If your silence can save bonds.

"‘Crumbs,’ said She, ‘how embarrassing.’"

Succinct it is to be.

It's more about ballpark of the numbers they will be looking at

Ernest Hemingway once wrote: "The hardest lesson I’ve had to learn as an adult is the relentless need to keep going, no matter how shattered I feel inside."

"Take care of yourself.  It's okay to acknowledge your burdens and to seek support when you need it.  Remember, just because you carry it well doesn't mean it wasn't heavy.  You are strong, and you are worthy of care."

Most important word "Help".