Thursday, January 22, 2026

Learning from 8th Social Science Research Colloquium

 


Outside my scope of understanding is the subject is what I felt,  when I heard the topic. But went there to meet the Chief Guest Dr. Sudhakar Rao Sir. Could see SCMS college for the first time. Lo and behold realised there is something for us to learn from every event/situation. My key take aways were:

From the Intro: Write, Write better.  Think further, have an open mind. 

Sudhakar Sir covered, Social science Trajectory.

What do we do? We wait till whistle blow, engine begin moving, and the moment become urgent. 

Why do we do it? We delay until urgency forces, and we confuse presence with performance. 

We don’t see urgency until things go hay way because of temporal discounting and normalcy bias. 

What is needed is a shift from reactive behaviour to reflective behaviour and crises driven meaning to conscious meaning. 

We need not wait for the train to start moving, but we need to say important things while there is still time. 

What we produce should be relevant and not abstract. Avoid contextual blindspots. 

We need to ensure integrity and ethics in the age of data, devoid of shortcuts. 

The way forward is impact oriented but intellectually independent. 

Collective gain is important than individual gain. A new trajectory is the relearning society. Conscious and not crises driven. 

Conclusion by Deepankar Sir: Pledge to avoid plagiarism, and not to resort to junkification and unethical means.   



Thank you for extending the invite and for a great day today!

Wednesday, January 21, 2026

Good reads : 5 Short books

Short and good work in English, that can be selected as book of the the month for a Literature society

We Have Always Lived in the Castle — Shirley Jackson (1962)

A gothic, claustrophobic, psychologically rich novel told by an unforgettable narrator.

Overall Plot

The Blackwood family lives in near‑isolation after most of their relatives were poisoned at dinner six years earlier. Only Merricat, her older sister Constance, and their infirm Uncle Julian remain. The townspeople hate and taunt them. When a charming but manipulative cousin, Charles, arrives, the fragile balance of their world fractures. A fire, mob violence, and complete societal breakdown follow, culminating in Merricat and Constance sealing themselves away from the world entirely.

It is a story about ostracism, trauma, family bonds, and the dark comfort of isolation.

Chapter‑wise Summary

Chapter 1

Merricat introduces the Blackwoods, her routines, and the townspeople’s hostility. We learn Constance never leaves the estate, and Uncle Julian obsessively documents the poisoning.

Chapter 2

Merricat fetches groceries and endures public ridicule. Uncle Julian recounts the night of the poisoning to a visiting couple, revealing that Constance was tried but acquitted.

Chapter 3

Merricat constructs protective rituals (buried coins, nailed objects). Signs of change unsettle her. A sense of impending disruption builds.

Chapter 4

Cousin Charles arrives unexpectedly, charming Constance and criticizing their lifestyle. Merricat immediately perceives him as a threat.

Chapter 5

Charles grows controlling, moving into the father’s room, and tries to dominate Constance financially and emotionally. Merricat becomes increasingly resistant.

Chapter 6

Merricat attempts magical “warding,” destroying objects to drive Charles away. Constance scolds her, widening the emotional gap between them.

Chapter 7

Merricat causes a spill in Charles’s room; he leaves a lit pipe, which sparks a fire. The villagers arrive — first to help, then turning into a violent mob, destroying the house.

Chapter 8

In the aftermath, Constance and Merricat hide in the woods. The house is a burnt shell. Charles flees in fear.

Chapter 9

The sisters clean the remains and begin living in total seclusion. Food is left on their step as villagers feel guilt and superstition.

Merricat imagines an eternal world where she and Constance are safe together.


2) Small Things Like These — Claire Keegan (2021)

A quiet moral powerhouse confronting complicity, kindness, and courage in 1980s Ireland.

Overall Plot

Set in 1985 in a small Irish town, the novella follows Bill Furlong, a coal merchant and father of five. During Christmas deliveries, he discovers signs of cruelty involving girls forced to work and live in the local convent’s laundry (a Magdalene institution). He struggles between maintaining his livelihood and doing what is morally right. Ultimately, he chooses compassion, rescuing a girl named Sarah despite community silence.

The story explores small acts of bravery that ripple against entrenched societal wrongdoing.

Chapter‑wise Summary

(The novella is not divided into numbered chapters, so this is a section‑based summary following its narrative arc.)

Section 1: Bill’s Work and Routine

Bill Furlong manages winter coal deliveries. His reflections reveal he was born to an unwed mother and raised kindly by her employer. He is grateful for the stability he now has with his wife and daughters.

Section 2: The Convent Delivery

During a delivery to the Good Shepherd convent, Bill finds a traumatized young girl locked in a coal shed. He senses wrongdoing but is subtly warned not to interfere.

Section 3: Community Silence

Bill sees how the town avoids criticizing the convent. He recognizes parallels to his own mother’s precarious past and feels morally implicated. His wife fears social and financial consequences if he meddles.

Section 4: Inner Conflict Intensifies

Bill becomes increasingly burdened by guilt and outrage. Memories of his mother and of all the kindness given to him sharpen his sense of responsibility.

Section 5: The Act of Courage

On Christmas Eve, Bill returns to the convent. He finds Sarah again, cold and desperate, and decides to take her home with him — a quiet but radical act of moral defiance.

Section 6: Open‑Ended Aftermath

The book ends with Bill walking home with Sarah in his arms, knowing the consequences may come but accepting that he has finally acted according to conscience.


3) The Stranger — Albert Camus (1942)

A stark, existential novel examining absurdity, emotional detachment, and society’s need for meaning.

Overall Plot

Meursault, an emotionally detached French Algerian, narrates his mother’s death, a new love affair, and an impulsive killing of an unnamed Arab man on a sun‑scorched beach. He is tried less for the murder than for his refusal to conform to expected social emotions. Condemned to die, he embraces the philosophical “absurd”: life has no inherent meaning, and peace comes from accepting this truth.

Chapter‑wise Summary

Part 1, Chapter 1

Meursault’s mother dies; he shows no grief. His indifferent behavior at the vigil shocks others.

Chapter 2

Meursault resumes ordinary life the next day, swimming and starting a relationship with Marie.

Chapter 3

He observes neighbors and coworkers with detached curiosity, demonstrating his emotional distance.

Chapter 4

Meursault encounters conflict involving Raymond, a shady acquaintance. He helps Raymond write a manipulative letter to his mistress.

Chapter 5

Marie proposes marriage; Meursault says he doesn’t care but would if she wanted. Absurd emotional neutrality is emphasized.

Chapter 6

On a beach trip, a confrontation escalates. Under blinding sunlight and heat, Meursault impulsively shoots the Arab man — “because of the sun.”


Part 2, Chapter 1

Meursault is interrogated. Officials are shocked more by his emotional indifference than the murder.

Chapter 2

During the trial, his lack of remorse, his behavior at his mother’s funeral, and his atheism dominate the prosecution’s case.

Chapter 3

The prosecutor paints Meursault as a moral monster. Meursault realizes his fate is sealed regardless of the facts.

Chapter 4

Meursault is sentenced to death. He refuses a priest’s attempts at religious consolation.

Chapter 5

He fully embraces the “absurd” — life is meaningless, death is inevitable, and acceptance brings freedom. He imagines “a crowd of spectators” greeting his execution with “howls of hate.”


4. Ghachar Ghochar — Plot Overview

A newly wealthy Bangalore family unravels under the weight of money, control, secrecy, and unspoken tensions. Told by an unnamed narrator, the story reflects how sudden financial comfort alters relationships, increases dependence, and ultimately corrodes the family’s moral core. The title phrase — “ghachar ghochar” — means “entangled beyond repair.”

The novella explores power, gender dynamics, financial dependence, and quiet brutality within domestic walls, all delivered in spare, piercing prose.


📖 Section‑wise / Chapter‑wise Summary

Section 1 — The Coffee House & Vincent

The narrator spends his days at a quiet coffee house, speaking to the waiter Vincent, who acts as a kind of moral compass. Their conversations hint at the narrator’s passivity and dependence on his family. This framing device foreshadows the inner turmoil he cannot express openly.


Section 2 — Before Wealth: A Tight Household

We see the family’s earlier life:


The narrator’s father worked for a spice company.

Money was scarce, but family structure was simple and functional.

His sister Malati and mother worked hard to maintain the home.


These memories contrast starkly with the upheaval that follows.


Section 3 — The Rise of Chikkappa (Uncle)

The turning point arrives when Chikkappa, the narrator’s enterprising uncle, loses his job and starts a spice business. The venture is unexpectedly successful, transforming the family’s financial situation almost overnight.

With newfound wealth:


A larger house is purchased.

Responsibilities shift.

The narrator stops working entirely.

Chikkappa becomes the de facto authority — benevolent, but increasingly controlling.



Section 4 — Wealth Reshapes the Family

We see the darker underside of comfort:


The father loses his job and retreats into silence.

The mother becomes indulgent and status‑driven.

Malati becomes entitled and abrasive.

The narrator grows dependent and purpose‑less.


Class and power dynamics warp everyday interactions. The narrator feels guilt but remains passive.


Section 5 — Marriage to Anita

The narrator marries Anita, a confident, modern working woman whose clarity unsettles the family.

Key conflicts arise:


Anita asks simple, rational questions the family cannot handle — especially about finances.

She notices the men do not work and finds the household claustrophobic.

Malati and Anita clash repeatedly.

Chikkappa only tightens his psychological grip.


Anita becomes the only person who threatens to expose the family’s unhealthy dynamics.


Section 6 — Domestic Tensions Escalate

Anita’s attempts to create boundaries — especially around privacy and fairness — are resisted by everyone.

The narrator, though sympathetic to her, offers no real support. His helplessness reveals how entangled he is in the family’s comfort and control.

After a particularly explosive fight with Malati, Anita leaves the house abruptly.


Section 7 — Anita’s Disappearance and Family Denial

The narrator half‑expects — and half‑hopes — that Anita will return. But the family behaves as though she never existed, erasing her from conversation.

Vincent’s warning at the coffee house — “If we do something wrong, the world has a way of settling scores” — rings ominously.

The narrator is trapped in guilt, paralysis, and dependence.


Section 8 — The Ending (Ambiguous, Chilling)

The novella closes with a symbolic scene:


Ants invade the house (repeating a story from earlier).

Chikkappa responds ruthlessly, crushing them without hesitation.


The narrator realizes that he too lives in an ecosystem where any dissenting presence is eliminated to preserve the family’s illusion of harmony.

The story ends before telling us Anita’s fate, leaving the reader with the unsettling sense that the family’s moral entanglement — the ghachar ghochar — is complete and irreversible.


Three Men in a Boat — Jerome K. Jerome (1889)

Genre: Comic novel

Setting: A two‑week boating holiday along the River Thames, England

Characters:


J. (the narrator, representing Jerome himself)

George

Harris

Montmorency (their mischievous fox terrier)


 What the Book Is About

Three friends, convinced that they are suffering from various imaginary illnesses brought on by “overwork,” decide to take a restorative boating trip on the Thames. Their journey, meant to be peaceful and revitalizing, quickly becomes a tapestry of comic misadventures, bungled tasks, absurd anecdotes, and gentle reflections on life.

They camp, cook disastrously, get lost (notably in the Hampton Court Maze), argue, reminisce, and poke fun at themselves and Victorian society. Despite the chaos, their friendship holds steady, and the narrative flows with Jerome’s signature lightness and wit.


Why It’s Still Loved


Timeless humor: The jokes remain surprisingly fresh even today.

Relatable misadventure: The trio’s incompetence in the simplest tasks makes the book deeply endearing.

Travel & nostalgia: It doubles as a snapshot of the Thames and English life in the late 19th century.


Originally intended as a travel guide, it became a comic classic when the humor overtook the “serious” content.


Three Men in a Boat — Chapter‑wise Summary (Ch. 1–19)

(Ch. 20 is historically a concluding chapter with reflections; included below.)

The novel is episodic — each chapter mixes the Thames journey with humorous digressions, anecdotes, and observations.


CHAPTER‑WISE SUMMARIES

Chapter 1

J., George, and Harris meet and complain about imaginary illnesses. Hypochondria convinces them they need rest. They decide a holiday will cure their “overwork.”

Chapter 2

The men debate where to go. A sea trip is rejected after J. narrates disastrous stories of seasickness. They choose a boating trip up the Thames.

Chapter 3

Planning begins. They argue over whether to “camp out” or stay at inns. Weather unpredictability makes camping contentious.

Chapter 4

Packing lists are made. J. reflects on over‑packing and how people carry unnecessary items. They argue over responsibilities.

Chapter 5

Montmorency the dog is introduced — mischievous, energetic, and always causing trouble. The men doubt whether he should accompany them.

Chapter 6

They attempt to pack the bags. A comic sequence follows where they repeatedly unpack for forgotten items (like the toothbrush). Tensions rise.

Chapter 7

They leave for Waterloo Station but encounter chaos: nobody knows which train goes where. They finally bribe a driver to reach Kingston.

Chapter 8

They collect their boat and begin the journey. J. describes earlier experiences on the river and expresses admiration for the Thames scenery.

Chapter 9

They struggle with steering and rowing. J. narrates stories about boating etiquette and collisions. Harris attempts to cook but fails humorously.

Chapter 10

They visit historical sites. J. gives comedic accounts of Henry VIII stories and local legends. The chapter blends travelogue with satire.

Chapter 11

They continue upriver. Harris gets lost in a hedge maze (a famous humorous episode). They mock human folly and confusion.

Chapter 12

Rain sets in. The men complain about weather forecasts and the unreliability of barometers. Mood dips; they long for comfort.

Chapter 13

They stop at Marlow. J. reflects on picturesque villages and romanticizes past stories. Harris and J. bicker over trivial things.

Chapter 14

Food scarcity becomes an issue. They fail at cooking again. A comic incident follows with a kettle that refuses to boil.

Chapter 15

They attempt to wash clothes in the river — a complete disaster. Montmorency interferes, making things worse.

Chapter 16

George joins them after work. The three men share drinks and swap exaggerated stories about hardships and bravery.

Chapter 17

An incident with a swan and some aggressive behavior leads to panic. The men are hilariously unprepared for nature.

Chapter 18

At Oxford, J. narrates more historical digressions and stories of students, mishaps, and social observations.

Chapter 19

The weather worsens sharply. The boat becomes damp and miserable. The men debate the meaning of “roughing it” and begin craving home comforts.

Chapter 20 (Final Chapter)

They decide to abandon the trip. At Oxford, they take a train home. That night, in a warm restaurant, they celebrate “escaping” nature.

They conclude that while the Thames is beautiful, comfort and civilization are deeply underrated.

Gag & Loathe

 “I gag but loathe” means, based on the definitions found:


Meaning Breakdown

“Gag”

To gag can mean:


To choke or retch in disgust

To react strongly to something unpleasant

In slang, to be shocked or overwhelmed (less likely in this context)

 [bing.com]


“Loathe”

To loathe means:


To deeply dislike or feel intense disgust toward something

 [merriam-webster.com]


Putting it together


If someone says “I gag but loathe”, they likely mean:


“I physically react with disgust (gag), and I also intensely dislike (loathe) it.”


It’s an exaggerated way to show:


Something is so unpleasant that it causes a physical response and

They strongly hate it emotionally.


Example (based on typical usage):

“I loathe vegetable soup — even the smell makes me gag.” 


Monday, January 19, 2026

The Success Principles ~ Jack Canfield (6 of 26)

Time to reread "The Success Principles: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be." by Jack Canfield. 

Why reread this now? You may ask. I do not know. It just fell into my hands. May be because these I are affirmations I am doing now. 

Life is like a combination lock; your job is to find the right numbers, in the right order, so you can have anything you want ~ Brian Tracy. 

As motivational philosopher Jim Rohn has so aptly put it, “You can’t hire someone else to do your push-ups for you.” You must do them yourself if you are to get any value out of them. Whether it is exercising, stretching, meditating, reading, studying, learning a new language, creating a mastermind group, setting measurable goals, visualizing success, repeating affirmations, or practicing a new skill, you are going to have to do it. No one else can do these things for you. 

We can have the road map, but we will have to drive the car. We can learn the principles, but will have to apply them. If we choose to put in the effort, rewards will be well worth it. 

 This book is organised into six sections with 64 principles. 

 Section I, “The Fundamentals of Success”

 It contains 25 chapters that are the absolute basics you must do to get from where you are to where you want to be. You’ll start by exploring the absolute necessity of 

  1. Taking 100% responsibility for your life and your results. 
  2. From there, you’ll learn how to clarify your life purpose, your vision, and 
  3. what you truly want. 
  4. Next we’ll look at how to create an unshakable belief in yourself and 
  5. your dreams. 
  6. Become an Inverse Paranoid
  7. Then it is turning vision into a set of concrete goals and 
  8. an action plan for achieving them. 
  9. How to harness the incredible power of affirmations and visualization—one of the success secrets of all Olympic athletes, top entrepreneurs, world leaders, and others. 
  10. The next few chapters have to do with taking those necessary but sometimes scary action steps that are required to make your dreams come true. Release the break
  11. See what you want, get What you see
  12. Act As if
  13. Take Action
  14. Just lean into it
  15. Feel the fear and do it anyway
  16. Be Willing to pay the price
  17. You’ll learn to ask for what you want, Ask! Ask! Ask!
  18. reject rejection, 
  19. solicit and respond to feedback, and 
  20. Commit to constant and Never ending improvement
  21. Keep score for success
  22. persevere in the face of what can sometimes seem like insurmountable obstacles. 
  23. Practice the Rule of 5
  24. Exceed Expectation

 Section II: "Transform Yourself for Success" covers principle 25 to 38.

 This addresses the important inner work you’ll need to do —work that will help you remove any mental and emotional blocks you may have to success. It’s not enough to know what to do. There are many books that will tell you that. You also need to understand the importance of and the methodology for removing self-defeating beliefs, fears, and habits that are holding you back. Like driving your car with the emergency brake on, these blocks can significantly slow your progress. You must learn how to release the brakes, or you will always experience life as a struggle and fall short of your intended goals. 

  1. Drop out of the 'Ain't it awful' club...and surround yourself with successful people
  2. Acknowledge your positive past
  3. Keep your eye on the prize
  4. Clean up your mess and your incompletes
  5. Complete the past to embrace the future
  6. Face what isn't working
  7. Embrace change
  8. Transform your inner critic into an inner coach
  9. Transcend your limiting beliefs
  10. Develop four new success habits a year. 
  11. 99% is Bitch; 100% is breeze
  12. Learn more to earn more
  13. Stay motivated with the masters
  14. Fuel your success with Passion and Enthusiasm

You’ll learn how to surround yourself with successful people and how to acknowledge the positive past and release the negative past, face what isn’t working in your life, embrace change, and make a commitment to lifelong learning. We’ll look at how to clean up any physical and emotional messes you have created and complete all the “incompletes” in your life robbing you of valuable energy that could be better used in the achievement of your goals. How to transform your inner critic into an inner coach and develop valuable success habits that will change your life forever. 

 Section III, “Build Your Success Team,” covers principle 39 to 47:  reveals how and why to build different kinds of support teams so you can spend your time focusing exclusively on your core genius. We’ll learn how to redefine time, find a personal coach, and access your own inner wisdom—an untapped but ultrarich resource for most people. 
  1. Stay Focused on Your Core Genius
  2. Redefine Time
  3. Build a Powerful support Team and Delegate to them
  4. Just say No!
  5. Say No to the Good so that you can say yes to the great
  6. Find a wing to climb under
  7. Hire a Personal Coach
  8. Mastermind your way to success
  9. Inquire within

 Section IV, “Create Successful Relationships,”  covers principle 48 to 55: Number of principles, as well as some very practical techniques, for building and maintaining successful relationships. In this day ofstrategic alliances and power networks, it’s literally impossible to build large-scale, long-lasting success without world-class relationship skills.

  1. Be Hear now
  2. Have a heart talk
  3. Tell the truth faster
  4. Speak with Impeccability
  5. When in Doubt, Check it out
  6. Practice Uncommon Appreciation
  7. Keep your Agreements
  8. Be a Class Act

Section V is entitled “Success and Money.” Covers Principles 56 to 62. Finally, because so many people equate success with money, and because money is vital to our survival and the quality of our life, this will help develop a more positive money consciousness, how to ensure that you have plenty of money to live the lifestyle you want, both now and after you retire, and the importance of tithing and service in guaranteeing your financial success. 

  1. Develop a positive Money consciousness
  2. You get what you focus on
  3. Pay yourself first
  4. Master the spending game
  5. To spend more, first make more
  6. Give more to get more (tithing - financial or time)
  7. Find a way to serve 
There is a science of getting rich, and it is an exact science, like algebra or arithmetic. There are certain laws which govern the process of acquiring riches, and once these laws are learned and obeyed by anyone, that person will get rich with mathematical certainty. ~ Wallace D. Wattles

 Section VI, “Success Starts Now,” consists of two short chapters on : 
The importance of getting started now and empowering others in the process. 

Reading these chapters will jump-start you in creating the life you’ve always dreamed of but up until now may not have fully known how to create.

But, but, "No amount of reading or memorizing will make your successful in life. It is understanding and application of wise thoughts which counts." ~ Bob Proctor, Author of You were born rich. 

Put into action what you have learned. A journey of 1000 miles must begin with one step. Keep adding little progress everyday. 

The principles only work, if you work the principles. 

 "Believe nothing. No matter where you read it, or who said it, even if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense." - BUDDHA 

 Everyone learns differently, and you probably know how you learn best. And though there are many ways that you can read this book, I’d like to make a few suggestions that may be helpful. You may want to read this book through once just to get a feel for the total process before you start the work of creating the life you truly want.

The principles are presented in an order that builds one upon the other. They are like the numbers in a combination lock—you need all the numbers, and you need them in the right order. It doesn’t matter what color, race, gender, or age you are. If you know the combination, the lock has to open for you. ask yourself, Am I currently practicing them? If not, make a commitment to put them into action—now! Remember, the principles only work if you work the principles. The second time you read through this book, you’ll want to read one chapter at a time, then take whatever time necessary to put it into practice. If you’re already doing some of these things, keep doing them. If not, start now. Good to do it together with others, it will help to have an accountability partner. Success takes time, effort, perseverance, and patience. If you apply all of the principles and techniques covered in this book you will achieve your goals. You will realize your dreams. But it won’t happen overnight. 

5 Lessons from Aishwarya Rai on Parenting

5 Lessons from Aishwarya Rai on Parenting: 1. Importance of being confident Teaching your child to grow into a confident individual is more important than you think. A parent who is secure and confident in themselves teaches their child exactly that. Moreover, kids mirror their parents’ behaviour early on in life. Hence, parents should always show their confident side. Valuing your self-worth can help kids grow in life, and that’s exactly what Aishwarya teaches the parents of this generation. 2. Limited rules help you grow in life Parents shouldn’t lay too many rules for their kids and should prioritise their child’s happiness above everything. While some rules are important, it is not necessary to bind your children with rules and regulations all the time. 3. Importance of a positive attitude Parents should teach their kids to see the positive in every situation and learn from it. It gives them a bigger and better perspective towards life while boosting their confidence. 4. Be an attentive parent Aishwarya has often been open about how it’s important to give your kids time, understand their needs, and help them grow in life. 5. Respect children’s curiosity Follows modern parenting methods which are also deeply rooted.Parents should answer their children’s questions and respect their curiosity.

A R Rahman

Speak Nothing… I do not understand the inner politics of the Hindi film industry. But I do understand something far more basic and far more important. A human being’s right to speak. An Oscar winning artist, A R Rahman, expressed how he felt. He spoke from his lived experience. You may agree with him. You may disagree with him. You may even strongly reject his view. That is how free societies function. What is unacceptable is what followed. People who were praising him till yesterday suddenly discovered horror stories about his character. Colleagues queued up to disown him. His faith was dragged into the argument. His professionalism was questioned. His art was belittled. All because he spoke. If you disagree, say you disagree. Argue facts. Present a counter view. That is debate. What happened instead was humiliation. Character assassination. Moral policing. And this is no longer just about one artist. Speak against the dominant narrative and you are branded a traitor. Question government policy and you are called a presstitute. Question the Prime Minister and you become anti national. Raise uncomfortable questions and you are booked under sedition. Develop a spine and you are raided. Keep quiet and you survive. Is this fair? I am not even debating the merit or demerit of what he said. The point is this. Judging a man, attacking his faith, insulting his work, and undermining his legacy because he expressed an opinion is atrocious. It is undemocratic. This is how freedom dies. Not overnight. Not with one incident. But slowly. Steadily. By making examples out of people who dare to speak. Today it is him. Tomorrow it will be someone else. And one day it will be you.

Invoking Ram

Breaking the barrier? ~ Aarthi Chawla (5th of 2026)

Breakdown and innerwork, hope, what happens when you start working on yourself?, 6 steps to heal your heart and manifest love, 1. Look within 2. Understand the inner child and its impact on adult life. Have empathy, recognize trauma and false self. Parents omissions and commissions effect a child. Charl Jung - Jungian Archtype Behavior - Feeling- Thoughts 2a Inner child and shadow shelf 2b. The mother wound and father wound, heal the roots to transform relationships 3. Manage your emotions - Happy, sad, fear, anger, surprise, disgust 4. Raise your vibration- attracting good things in life 5. Redesign your life, become a conscious creator of your reality. - Align your belief with your vision 6. Manifesting Love - Understanding the psychology of relationships and attracting the love you seek - Emotional bonding, communication pattern, conflict resolution . Love language, Attachment style - Secure, Anxious, Avoident, disorganized Work on your energy blocks and their origin. Know your souls journey.

Reading Journey in 2025

 


 

*2025 Reading Journey:*


Friends, the year is coming to an end ☺️. What are your feelings when you look back on your reading journey this year? Was the year satisfactory? Did you read some stimulating books? Did you discover a new author or a book or a reading mode or a reading habit? How many books did you read? Did you have any target and did you achieve it? Do you have any regrets? Any errors and any determination to rectify them in the coming year? Any reading resolutions for the new year? Did this community help you in any way in your reading journey? Why don't we all share here? Happy New Year! 🥳🧚🏻🌿


 Have exceeded my target for this year though it is half that of last year, therefore am happy with my reading trajectory.  Read all twelve BOTM books, read many new authors,  books, people and places courtesy CBC...Loved the Sunday read at Mariane drive. Regret not being able to attent all the meets. Read 62 books and the target was 60. For the comming year would reduce the count still further and focus on few books and classics in hand before I buy many more. This community,  people here, the discussions ND suggestions were indeed a blessing,  love the monthly Journal. Thank you and wishing all A happy New Year, Happy Reading and Happiness Always 😊


Will miss this. One of my favourate Genre. Have read 7 of the 11 books in this pic. Correct me if I am wrong, but according to me this includes:

1. Autobiography 


2. Biography in fiction &


3. Biography which can further be sub classified as:

I. Biography of people
II. Biography of concepts
III.Biography of places and authors

1. The School of Life Dr. K. Vasuki


2. Memoir of Jane Austen ~ James Edward Austen -Leigh (62 0f 2025)


3. The Story of trap family Singers


4. Em and the big Hoom


5. Mother Mary Comes to Me


6. First Forever : Y. J. Yashaswi


7. T.N.Manoharan


8. Unstoppable- S.D. Bala


9. Salman Rushdee - Contemporary world writers


10. Elsewhereans ~ Jeet Thayil



This years read included 10 biography/Autobiography.

I have written 2 in the flying high series about Chartered accountants. There is something called https://www.spotlightindia.org/ If any of you are aware of anybody who's life  is inspiring and need to be recorded,  it can be done. This comes with a cost.

Interesting biography not about people are:

1. A Biography of the worlds Most Famous Equation’ by David Bodamis.


2. A Bank for the Buck by Tamal Bandyopadhyay


My first in this genre as a child was 'Sathya Khi Katha Athya Atmakatha' the hindi version of 'My experiments with truth' on M.K.Gandhi.

Me favourate is Mind Master by Viswanathan Anand and 'A Brief History of time' by Stephen Hawking.

Not sure if this book could be part of biography but an interesting one is by Mia Kankimaki - 'The women I think about at night' covering lives of:

i. Karen Blixen
ii. Isabella Bird - Mia's doppelganger
iii. Ida Pfeiffer
iv. Mary Kingsley
V. Alexandra David-Neel
Vi. Nellie Bly
Part 3: Artists: Italian female painters
Vii. Sofonisba Anguissola
Viii.Lavinia Fontana
ix Artemisia Gentileschi
X. Yayoi Kusama

Happy Meet. 🤝👍Waiting for the review.


My Reading Journey in 2025: A Year of Reflection, Place, and the Inner Life

My reading in 2025 felt less like ticking off titles and more like following a quiet inner compass. The books I gravitated towards shared a common thread: they asked me to pause, reflect, and look closely—at people, at societies, and at the self.


A strong undercurrent through the year was the exploration of the inner life. Works like Illusions by Richard Bach and The School of Life nudged me toward philosophical reflection rather than easy answers. These books were not about plot as much as they were about perspective—about how meaning is constructed, questioned, and sometimes dismantled. They invited stillness and introspection, asking uncomfortable but necessary questions about purpose, choice, and freedom.


At the same time, I found myself repeatedly returning to place-based writing and memory. Cochin: Fame and Fables stood out as a deeply resonant read—not merely a historical account, but a textured portrait of a city layered with myths, migrations, and lived experiences. It felt intimate and rooted, reminding me how geography shapes identity, and how local histories carry universal truths.


Fiction in 2025 often blurred boundaries—between the personal and the political, the real and the imagined. Novels such as The French Lieutenant’s Woman challenged conventional storytelling, playing with form, agency, and alternate possibilities. Others, like Ram C/o Anandhi, reflected contemporary Indian realities—aspirations, relationships, and quiet struggles—without sensationalism. These were stories that lingered not because of dramatic twists, but because of emotional honesty.


There was also a clear engagement with society and democracy. Reading How Democracies Die felt timely and sobering, offering a lens to understand how institutions weaken not overnight, but gradually, through complacency and erosion of norms. This non-fiction read complemented my fictional choices, grounding abstract anxieties in historical patterns and political realities.


Even the classics I revisited or discovered—such as A Christmas Carol—felt newly relevant. Familiar stories revealed fresh meanings when read through the lens of compassion, accountability, and transformation. They served as reminders that moral imagination is timeless.


Overall, my 2025 reading was not eclectic for its own sake; it was intentional and inward-looking. The books I chose reflected a year spent thinking deeply about belonging, ethics, memory, and the fragile structures—personal and societal—that hold our lives together. Rather than escapism, reading became a form of quiet inquiry, a companion to reflection.

For 2026 it would be lesser number of books read and purchased.

The books I’ll read  broadly fall into five categories:


“Me” books


Dream / TBR / catch-up reading


Professional reading


Milestone reading


Flexi reading


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‘Me’ Books


These are books tied to your personal interests – something you are really passionate about. 


“Me” books can also include a re-read or two. Re-read a book that you have read years back. It makes for a faster read and you can also examine how you see the story/ideas differently now.


Dream reading / TBR / catch-up


These are books that I’ve wanted to read for a while, but haven’t been able to. For this list, you don’t have to go too far – simply look through the unread books you have bought with noble intentions at some point in time. They are waiting on a bookshelf near you.


Professional reading


This is reading for work. 


Milestone reading


Milestone reading is made up of books which will get acclaim and attention throughout the year – partly popular and partly critical. The critical milestones I look at each year are the following:


Pulitzer winners in two or three categories that interest me (in May each year)


International Booker Prize – winner and one or two shortlisted books (in May each year)


Booker Prize – winner and one or two shortlisted books (October/November)


Nobel Prize for Literature – one or two books by the newest laureate (October)


With the JCB Prize for Literature gone, I’ll also be looking at the winners of the Jnanpith and Sahitya Akademi and possibly the Godrej Lit Live awards. I’ve been unimpressed by the Crossword Book Award – and most voting-based awards – so I will skip those books.


Awards based on voting are a popularity contest for authors, which don’t always translate to literary talent. Influencers who have written books are more likely to win these awards than authors who focus on writing but ignore social media. I find awards selected by erudite juries more to my taste.


Voting-based awards are the lazy and cheaper way out for the award organiser. Many use them to get more social media action. If you look at awards as a criterion for selecting books, please look closely at how the winners are picked. If the names of the jury members are public information, even better.


Flexi reading


Any plan which is too rigid will likely fail. The flexi reading is to rubberise the reading plan and allow room for improvisation, impromptu additions and also a buffer if you’re not keeping pace. Some works, like Arundhathi Roy’s Mother Mary Comes to Me are hard to ignore. Friends may all start talking up a particular book, and that may make you curious. Salman Rushdie’s new book, The Eleventh Hour: A Quintet of Stories, and Margaret Atwood’s Book of Lives: A Memoir of Sorts, are great examples of recent releases I definitely want to read, which I did not know of at the start of 2025.



How to read more


You may think that’s a lot of books. Here are some of the ways to get that amount of reading done.


Stealing time: When you have a few minutes of waiting – we have these moments many times every day – pull out your book and read a few pages. Replace the default of the phone with the default of a book (stick it to the man). Whether it be an airport, or when you’re out shopping with the family, or waiting for an order at a café, a lot of time is spent hanging around. Use it to read, not scroll.


Use audio: In my view, audiobooks are a legit way of consuming text. For many books, I go back and forth between the text and the audio. That does mean buying both, but it has made walks and ironing clothes quite pleasurable.


Book clubs are a great way to commit to reading. You know many others are reading the same book, and that a deep discussion of the book will happen on a specific date. That gives you a deadline, which may help you stay on track and read.


A physical book club in your neighbourhood may be even better. The downside is that you may not get to choose what you read, but the upside is that you may discover new books.


Mix it up: I will lap up any book on the Second World War in a day or three. On the other hand, some books are hard work, for example, books with dense and heavy ideas. It is good to mix these up, and reward yourself with a favoured read after a heavy one.


Read on paper / non-distracting device: Reading on a mobile or a laptop is fraught with risk because distractions live on those devices. A Kindle is better, and paper is the best format for reading.


Reading retreats are a new thing. We host them some three to four times a year. Debdatta Dasgupta, who is an avid reader, leads this retreat. It has very little by way of teaching – it is simply going on holiday to read. You hang out with a group of like-minded people to read, discuss what you read, and discover great new books and perspectives. You can learn more about the upcoming Himalayan Reading Retreat here.


Keep the phone in the other room: When trying to read, leave your phone in the other room. If it’s out of sight and out of reach, chances are you’ll focus more on your reading. Leaving it outside the room when you get into bed, and taking a book instead, will also mean better sleep.


Phone lock – you can actually buy a physical lock for your phone. It is clunky and large, and makes the phone harder to get to. You can take calls, but scrolling is hard. Yes, you have the key (The plastic thing sticking out to one side), and you can open it, but even having such a barrier makes a big difference.

If there was one defining feature of my reading year, it was this:

I read to understand, not to consume.

Friday, January 16, 2026

UI Vs. UX

UI (User Interface) and UX (User Experience) are the two pillars of how we interact with digital products like apps, websites, and even hardware. To understand them, think of a car: * UI is the steering wheel, the leather seats, the dashboard lights, and the paint color. (How it looks and what you touch). * UX is how smoothly the car drives, how easy it is to find the brakes in an emergency, and how you feel after a 5-hour road trip. (How it works and how you feel). 1. UX (User Experience) – The "Logic" UX is focused on the user's journey and solving their problems. A UX designer asks: "Is this easy to use? Does it make sense?" * Goal: To make a product functional, logical, and helpful. * Tasks: * User Research: Interviewing people to see what they hate about current apps. * Wireframing: Drawing "blueprints" of a screen (no colors, just boxes) to see where buttons should go. * Information Architecture: Deciding how to organize a menu so you don't get lost. * The "Why": If a banking app is beautiful but you can't find the "Transfer" button, it has bad UX. 2. UI (User Interface) – The "Visuals" UI is the skin of the product. A UI designer asks: "Does this look professional? Do the colors match the brand?" * Goal: To make the interface visually appealing and interactive. * Tasks: * Visual Design: Choosing fonts, colors, and button styles. * Interactivity: Designing how a button "glows" when you hover over it or how a menu slides out. * Responsive Design: Making sure the app looks good on both a tiny iPhone and a massive 4K monitor. * The "Why": If an app is easy to use but looks like it was designed in 1995, it has bad UI. UI vs. UX: At a Glance | Feature | UX (User Experience) | UI (User Interface) | |---|---|---| | Focus | Function & Logic | Look & Feel | | Deliverable | Wireframes, User Flows | High-fidelity mockups, Icons | | Key Question | "Does this solve the problem?" | "Does this look beautiful?" | | Tools | Miro, FigJam, Pen & Paper | Figma, Adobe XD, Framer | For a Mechanical Engineer: * UX is very similar to Ergonomics in mechanical engineering (designing a chair that doesn't hurt your back). * UI is similar to the Dashboard Design of a machine or vehicle.

The Reader ~ Bernhard Schlink (4 of 26)

There are certain books which have an impact on one, without one being able to put one's finger exactly on the reason why. 'The Reader' by Bernhard Schlink is such a book. The experience of reading this book was like taking a train ride through a pleasant landscape: you mosey along comfortably, enjoying the view and the climate, settled and relaxed. The journey is comfortable enough without being anything out of the ordinary. Then suddenly, the train enters a section of the countryside which is breathtaking in its beauty, and you are jolted out of your somnolence. You sit up and watch, your nose glued to the window, watching with rapt attention. You are unaware of the journey's passing, of temporal time, so engrossed are you in the present experience. The tale of 15-year-old Michael Berg (the first-person narrator) and thirty-something Hanna Schmidt, a tram conductor in post WW-2 Germany is pretty sordid in the beginning; having collapsed from hepatitis in front of her house, he is taken care of and helped home by her. Michael's thank-you visit to Hanna after convalescing, however, becomes a voyeuristic session and it's not long before they are lovers. It is an adolescent's fantasy come true, a bit like Lolita in reverse. The tale takes on a different twist once Michael starts reading to Hanna. Apparently, she can't get enough of his stories. So their sexual escapades are now connected to prolonged reading sessions which each one of them enjoys. But Hanna still remains an enigma to Michael with her erratic behaviour, an enigma which becomes all the more inexplicable when she disappears on the threshold of her promotion as tram driver. The next time he sees her, she is in the dock. Hanna is charged as a Nazi war criminal, a guard of a small concentration camp near Cracow, a satellite camp for Auschwitz. She is accused, along with others, of causing the death of a group of camp inmates by locking them up in a burning church. As a law student, Michael is covering her trial. Hanna's strange, self-destructive behaviour in the courtroom as well as her unusual acts as the camp guard (providing vulnerable young inmates with special status in the camp, to read books to her, until they were sent to Auschwitz to their death) intrigue him. One day, linking it to their sex-cum-reading sessions, he makes a startling discovery about his one-time lover... Later on, Michael is a disillusioned middle-aged man, with a failed marriage and a colourless life. He finds that he cannot exorcise Hanna from his psyche. At the end of his tether, he hits upon a unique solution: Michael finds solace for himself, as well as redemption for Hanna, through his old medium - that of reading. *** Ultimately, what is this book about? Is it about paedophilia, or an adolescent fantasy? Is it about Nazism, and man's cruelty towards man? Is it the tale of a Germany coming to terms with its Nazi past, disguised as a coming-of-age story? I, personally, would like to see it as an allegory on the redemptive power of storytelling. In all cultures, bards enjoyed a special, revered status - in India, it approaches the divine (think of Vyasa and Valmiki). Here, Hanna's sins - both the carnal as well as the homicidal - are linked with getting stories read to her; so, unusually, is her redemption in the last part of the book. Hanna Schmidt is a masterly creation. In the short span of 200+ pages, the author has brought to life an engrossing character who remains a puzzle until the very end. This is one holocaust story which does not take the trodden path.

Feeling Depressed

 


Practical Ways to Help Someone

Based on expert guidance and workplace strategies:



Listen Without Judgment

Be a patient, active listener. Avoid clichés like “Cheer up.” Instead, say:

“I may not fully understand what you’re going through, but I’m here to listen anytime.” [verywellhealth.com]



Encourage Professional Help

Explain that depression is a health condition, not a weakness, and suggest speaking to a mental health professional. Offer to help them find resources or accompany them if they’re comfortable. [mayoclinic.org]



Check In Regularly

Isolation worsens depression. Simple texts or calls like “Thinking of you—want to catch up?” can make a big difference. [verywellhealth.com]



Offer Practical Support

Help with small tasks—meals, errands, or workload adjustments—especially if they seem overwhelmed. [psychcentral.com]



Avoid “Fixing” or Giving Unsolicited Advice

Depression isn’t solved by quick tips. Focus on empathy and support rather than solutions. [fherehab.com]



Know the Warning Signs

Persistent sadness, withdrawal, fatigue, or talk of hopelessness may indicate severe depression. If there’s mention of self-harm or suicide, seek immediate help (call 988 in the U.S. or local crisis lines). [thepsychguide.org]




Workplace-Specific Strategies


Create a safe environment for open conversations.

Share EAP details and mental health resources without pressuring.

Offer flexibility in deadlines or workload if possible. [stigmafree.nami.org]




Kerala

1. Thanal Suicide Prevention Centre Helpline: 0495 2760000, 9495714262, 7306509594, TeleMANAS 1-8008914416/ 14416 Daily (10 am-6 pm)


2. Maithri Kochi Helpline: 0484 2540530 Daily (10 am-7 pm)


3. Pratheeksha Helpline: 0484 2448830 Daily (10 am-6 pm)


4. Sanjeevani Helpline: 0471 2533900, 9400033900, Mon-Sat (1 pm-5 pm)


5. Unarve Helpline: 04862225544 Mon-Sat (1 pm-5 pm)


6. DISHA Helpline: 1056/ 104 (24X7) 0471-2552056, 0471-2551056




Here are some verified mental health and suicide prevention helpline numbers in India that you can share or use:


✅ National & Government Helplines



Tele MANAS (Govt. of India)

📞 14416 or 1-800-891-4416

Free, 24/7 mental health support in 20+ languages. [telemanas....hfw.gov.in], [jipmer.edu.in]



KIRAN Mental Health Rehabilitation Helpline

📞 1800-599-0019

24/7 toll-free, multilingual counselling and rehabilitation support. [pib.gov.in]




✅ National Suicide Prevention Helpline


📞 1800-121-3667

Confidential support available 24/7 for anyone in distress. [National S...ne | India]



✅ Trusted NGO & Private Helplines



Vandrevala Foundation

📞 +91-9999-666-555

24/7 free and confidential support via phone, text, and WhatsApp. [findahelpline.com]



AASRA (Mumbai-based, pan-India calls)

📞 +91-9820466726

24/7 crisis intervention for emotional distress and suicide prevention. [findahelpline.com]



Fortis Stress Helpline

📞 +91-8376804102

24/7 multilingual support for stress and mental health issues. [India Help...tive India]

iCALL (Tata Institute of Social Sciences)

📞 +91-9152987821 or 022-25521111

Mon–Sat, 8 AM–10 PM; psychosocial support including LGBTQ+ friendly services. [India Help...tive India]

✅ Child Helpline

CHILDLINE

📞 1098

Emergency helpline for children in need of care and protection. [findahelpline.com]

✅ State-wise Helplines

There are state-specific numbers for regions like Delhi (Sumaitri: 011-23389090), Maharashtra (Samaritans Mumbai: +91-8422984528), Kerala (Maithri: 0484-2540530), and many more.

You can access the full list here. [thedailyjagran.com]

Chittor Fort


Chittor Fort and Jaimal & Patta who guarded it with their lives.


 No one who knows and loves India's history, especially the story of the resistance of  Mewar, Marwar and Amber to the Mughals, can accept this wanton destruction of the Aravalli Range which formed the core of these martial Rajput kingdoms.

I will be insulting the ancient Philistines of Palestine if I refer these modern  environmental predators as "Philistines", for want of a more suitable word.

Have we forgotten Gandhiji's sage observation "The World has enough for everyone's Need, but not for everyone's Greed." ?

And not even the vast resources of marble and limestone in the Aravallis are inexhaustible, when confronted with this insatiable Greed.

Rishabh Chauhan's article recalls the great Sisodias of Mewar .. Rana Kumbha the ancestor ; 

 Rana Sanga who fought a hundred battles ending with the 1527 loss at Kanwa to Babur; 

his grandson Maharana Pratap who confronted Akbar's general Raja Mansingh at Haldighat(1576) and survived (remember "Chetak" his grey horse?) to carry on the fight, helped by Bhil tribals.

Years ago, I was fascinated by LtCol James Tod's 19th century magnum opus "Annals & Antiquities of Rajasthan,"

The story of Jaimal Rathod and Patta Sisodia's defence of Chittor, besieged by Akbar in 1567, related also in the "Akbarnama", and KM Munshi's " Akbar",  is among  the most fascinating of these tales. 

The duo held out for 5 months till a breach was made in the fort's walls by Akbar's powerful cannons in February 1568.

While supervising preparations for the final assault, the Emperor noticed a prominent figure up on the walls, encouraging the defenders who were filling up the breach. Ace marksman Akbar, took him down with a single musket  shot. It was Jaimal!

The next day, the breach was stormed and Patta fighting desperately, was trampled by a marauding elephant.

A massacre akin to that perpetrated by  Allaudin Khilji (1303) ... remember apocryphal Padmavati story, ....

 took place. 

But Akbar deeply regretted this. He installed life-size statues of Jaimal & Patta seated on elephants, outside Agra Fort (see AI generated image) and became distinctly more spiritual, .. though his conquests didn't cease.

Qute apart from environmental considerations, how can any real Indian dream of destroying the Aravallis through uncontrolled mining. 

Yes, that's what it will really be. The suggested 100 metres is not "above sea level" as is normally computed, but measured from adjacent land! 

Did not the Wise Men in the Supreme Court understand the purpose of this obfuscation which g anything rare or strategic.

Thankfully, UK-based Counsel Harish Salve,  who normally sides on controversial issues with the Union Government, has laid bare the reality, as have many Youtubers especially the young and .... yes, even, most surprisingly, Arnab Goswami.

Profit yes, but surely not at the cost of People and Planet!


J P Alexander

Agatha Mary Clarissa Miller Christie Mallowa

 


Dropped In


12 January is the death anniversary of Agatha Christie.


Deeply hurt by the death of her mother, thirty-five-year-old Agatha Christie was still trying to overcome her grief when her husband of twelve years suddenly announced that he was in love with another woman and wanted a divorce The twin shocks threw Agatha into a deep state of depression. Feeling that the best of life was behind her, she saw little reason to go on living. Only concern for her seven-year-old daughter saved her from suicide. 


Born into an affluent English family in 1890, Agatha Miller was a precocious child who taught herself to read at age four and quickly developed what would be a lifelong devotion to books. At age 22, she met Archie Christie, a dashing young pilot. The couple fell in love and were married on Christmas Eve in 1914. They spent most of the next four years separated by World War I, settling afterward in London. Their only child, Rosalind, was born in 1919. By the time her marriage to Archie fell apart, Agatha had published five well-received detective novels, but she could hardly have expected the success that awaited her.


In time, Agatha began to recover from the pain of her failed marriage. She resumed writing and, to boost her spirits, took a trip on the Orient Express. Then, in 1930, a friend invited her to come along on a trip to an archeological dig in Iraq. There, she met Max Mallowan, a prominent archeologist thirteen years her junior. They fell in love and were married later that year, a happy marriage that would last until Agatha’s death 46 years later.


At the end of 1926, Agatha Christie may have thought that her life was no longer worth living, but she was entirely wrong about that. In the years that followed she not only found the love of her life, but she also enjoyed her greatest success, becoming the best-loved author on earth, with over 70 best-selling novels as well as the longest-running play in history. 


Her husband Max was knighted in 1968, and three years later, Agatha was made a Dame of the British Empire.


Agatha Mary Clarissa Miller Christie Mallowan died at age 85 on January 12, 1976. With over two billion copies sold and her books still selling as hotcakes, she is one of the all-time best-selling novelists.


Today marks 50 years since the passing of Dame Agatha Christie, the incomparable Queen of Crime, who died on 12 January 1976 at the age of 85 — yet her voice, her stories and her legacy feel as alive today as they ever were.  


Christie’s contribution to detective fiction is unrivalled. Over her remarkable career she wrote 66 detective novels and 14 short story collections, introducing the world to iconic sleuths like Hercule Poirot and Miss Marple — characters who have become pillars of the crime genre and whose adventures continue to captivate readers across the globe.  


Her influence doesn’t stop with books. Christie’s works have been adapted for screen countless times, bringing her intricate mysteries to life for new generations. From treasured television series like Agatha Christie’s Poirot and Agatha Christie’s Marple to film adaptations of classics such as Murder on the Orient Express, Death on the Nile and more recent interpretations, her storytelling has proven endlessly adaptable and endlessly appealing. Plays such as The Mousetrap remain legendary, with its West End run becoming the longest in theatre history — a testament to her enduring appeal.  


None of this comes as a surprise to fans — Christie has often been called the greatest crime writer of all time. Her ability to craft a twist, misdirect a reader and then surprise them with a solution is unmatched, and many believe her crown in the genre will never be topped.


Her influence is also celebrated back in her birthplace. Every year, the International Agatha Christie Festival takes place in Torquay on the English Riviera, bringing fans together for talks, walks, film screenings, performances and murder mystery events. It’s a fitting tribute to a woman whose stories were shaped by the landscapes and spirit of Devon, and a celebration of the astonishing world she created.  


Fifty years on, Christie’s legacy remains undeniable — not just in crime fiction, but in the very way we experience mystery itself.

Freshly divorced at 38, Agatha Christie bought a ticket on the Orient Express and vanished into the Middle East. She met an archaeologist fourteen years younger and rewrote her life. 1928 Her marriage to Archibald Christie was over. Divorce in 1920s England was scandalous. Heartbreak and humiliation followed. Most women her age would have curled up and faded into silence. Not Agatha. She packed a bag, boarded a train, and stepped into a world she had only ever imagined. The Journey Istanbul’s crowded bazaars. Endless deserts. Sun-bleached ruins of Ur. She sought peace. Found something else entirely. 1930: The Meeting Two years later, she returned to the Middle East. Among the dust and tents, she met Max Mallowan, a brilliant young archaeologist fourteen years her junior. Curiosity and conversation turned into quiet partnership. Respect. Intellectual spark. Tenderness. By September, they were married. She was 40. He was 26. The Life They Built Not glamour, not glitter. Tea on sunlit verandas Laughter over miscatalogued artifacts Long afternoons cleaning relics, sometimes with her own face cream, a story archaeologists still tell And always, she wrote. The Inspiration The Middle East seeped into her imagination Murder in Mesopotamia (1936) They Came to Baghdad (1951) Murder on the Orient Express (1934) She did not just dream these stories, she lived them. The Marriage Agatha and Max stayed together 45 years, until her death in 1976. He became a knighted expert archaeologist. She became the world’s best-selling novelist, outsold only by Shakespeare and the Bible. But more than fame, they had a rare thing: a true partnership, built on respect, passion, and love. What She Proved Heartbreak did not break her. It propelled her. At 38, she could have shrunk. Instead, she boarded a train alone. At 40, society whispered, too old for love, too old for adventure. She married younger, traveled the world, and spent 45 years writing, exploring, and living fully. The Legacy Broken does not mean done. 40 is not too late. Age gaps do not define love. Travel heals in ways home cannot. The best chapters often come after the worst. The Truth In 1928, Agatha Christie chose Conformity or adventure She chose adventure. She chose life. She did not just survive heartbreak. She turned it into Murder on the Orient Express.

Shah Bano

 


“I am old, but I am not voiceless,” Shah Bano once said, her fragile hands trembling yet steady in purpose.


She was sixty-two, a grandmother from Indore, a woman who had lived most of her life inside the quiet walls of her home. But when her husband divorced her after decades of marriage and refused to support her, something inside her broke—and something else awakened.


Shah Bano had never imagined she would one day stand in front of courts, judges, and microphones. She had never imagined her name would travel beyond her neighbourhood, beyond Indore, across the entire nation. But hunger has a way of shaking even the gentlest souls. After her divorce, she had nothing—not enough money, not enough security, not enough strength to survive alone.


So she did something women of her generation rarely dared to do.

She fought back.


She filed a petition asking for a small monthly maintenance, enough to buy medicines for her old age, enough to keep her dignity intact. What she expected was a quiet legal battle. What she did not expect was a storm that would shake India.


Her case reached the Supreme Court. Every newspaper printed her name. Every political leader wanted to speak about her life as if it belonged to them. Religious debates rose like wildfires, politicians argued on television, and the country suddenly forgot that behind all the noise lived one elderly woman simply asking for justice.


Shah Bano watched it all from the sidelines—bewildered, exhausted, yet unwilling to step back. She would often sit near her window, the petitions and court papers lying beside her, and whisper to herself, “If I don’t speak now, who will speak for women like me?”


When the judgment finally came, it was in her favour. The Supreme Court declared that she had the right to maintenance even after divorce. For a moment, the country paused. A 62-year-old Muslim woman had changed the conversation on women’s rights.


But the storm didn’t end.

It grew louder.


Many opposed the ruling. Religious leaders gathered. Speeches were made. The government felt the pressure. Laws were changed. And suddenly, the victory she had earned with trembling hands began slipping away.


Shah Bano sat silently through those days, feeling like the world was debating her life without ever looking her in the eye. She felt lonely, betrayed, and frightened. But then something unexpected happened—something she had never imagined.


Hindu women’s groups across India stood up for her.


Teachers, social workers, lawyers, college girls—women who had never met her, women from another faith, another world—came forward with posters, petitions, and marches. They raised her name in crowded streets. They wrote letters defending her rights. They held meetings demanding justice for her.


For the first time in months, Shah Bano did not feel alone.


She once told a visitor, “I fought because I had no choice. They fight because they believe no woman should be abandoned. That is courage greater than mine.”


In a country divided by religion, caste, and politics, a group of strangers showed her that humanity could rise above every line. They did not share her language, her customs, or her prayers—but they shared her pain. And sometimes, that is enough to build a bridge stronger than any law.


Shah Bano did not win in the way she had hoped. The law eventually changed, and her legal victory was taken back. But something far greater remained—the message she had set loose.


A message that a grandmother from Indore, living in a modest lane, could shake the nation.

That a woman society tried to silence could force an entire country to listen.

That the most unexpected people could stand with her when her own world stepped away.


Years later, when her name was spoken in classrooms, in legal debates, in women’s rights meetings, it carried not just the story of a legal case—but the story of solidarity.


And somewhere in Indore, in a quiet home where the noise of politics never reached, an elderly woman once folded her hands and said softly, “Maybe I did not win. But I did not lose alone.”


-Shah Bano

Culinary Literature: Where Food, Memory, and Meaning Meet

Culinary Literature is far more than stories about cooking, restaurants, or recipes. It sits at the intersection of culture, memory, identity, history, and storytelling, transforming food from something we simply consume into something we interpret. Scholars describe it as a field where food becomes a lens to understand who we are, who we have been, and who we aspire to be—because, as food writer Molly Wizenberg famously said, “Food is never just food.” [cambridge.org] 1. What Makes Literature ‘Culinary’? Culinary literature includes: Food‑centered novels Memoirs by chefs and food writers Recipe books with narrative elements Essays, travelogues, and food criticism Culinary crime fiction Even philosophical and anthropological writing on food Food writing may take many forms—memoir, travel, criticism, even noir. Anthony Bourdain’s Kitchen Confidential, for example, didn’t just describe kitchen life; it opened a genre of gritty, real, behind‑the‑scenes culinary memoirs. [ala-choice...guides.com] 2. Why Food Works So Powerfully in Literature Food is Identity Literature often uses food to reflect race, class, gender, and national belonging. Culinary texts reveal how food carries culture—recipes, tastes, rituals—and how these shape personal and shared histories. [assets.cambridge.org] Food is Memory From Proust’s madeleine to the sticky rice and butter in Asako Yuzuki’s Butter (which you beautifully described), culinary memory works through the senses, triggering stories that emotion alone cannot unlock. Food is Symbolism Like Water for Chocolate shows how food can express desire, rebellion, grief, and passion—all at once. Scholars describe such works as using gastronomy as a narrative device to explore deeper emotional or cultural layers. [researchgate.net] 3. Culinary Literature in Your Conversations Your upcoming culinary meetup has already touched upon many sub‑genres: 📚 Culinary Crime Fiction Agatha Christie’s food‑based mysteries (Four and Twenty Blackbirds, A Pocket Full of Rye) Murder on the Menu anthology Paradise of Food—blending horror and gastronomy A Certain Hunger—psychological, macabre, and food‑obsessed All of these fall under the “darker side of food literature,” where cuisine becomes a device of tension, transgression, and taboo. 🍫 Culinary Magical Realism Chocolat (Joanne Harris) Like Water for Chocolate (Laura Esquivel) Here, food becomes enchantment—transforming emotions, altering relationships, and shaping destinies. 🍽️ Culinary Memoirs & Chef Narratives Anthony Bourdain’s Kitchen Confidential Gabrielle Hamilton’s Blood, Bones & Butter (female perspective on the chef world) [ala-choice...guides.com] Padma Lakshmi’s culinary memoirs These books show the kitchen as a battleground, a refuge, and sometimes, a confessional. 📕 Food Anthropology & History Masala Lab by Krish Ashok — Indian food through the lens of science K.T. Achaya — one of the most respected Indian food historians, chronicling how taste, culture, and history shape cuisine (Your linked piece highlights his impact on understanding the evolution of Indian food traditions.) 📔 Recipe Books as Literature Historically, recipe books weren't just manuals—they were cultural documents reflecting women's roles, migration, social structures, and shifting taste. Scholars argue that recipe books must be read like any other literary text, with philosophical and anthropological depth. [bloomsbury...ibrary.com] 4. Culinary Literature in Popular Culture Films Salt and Pepper Cheeni Kum Amish (Assamese film touching on darker themes) These films show how food imagery can create humor, romance, or even horror. Real Life Blending with Literature Your playful observations about book fairs selling more chole bhature, or biryani and shawarma outselling books at fairs in Lahore, show how food irresistibly competes with literature—even at places dedicated to reading! 5. What Makes Culinary Literature So Special? It activates all the senses Good food writing makes you taste the words. You felt this strongly while reading Butter—the textures, aromas, cravings jumping off the page. It connects everyday life with intellectual exploration Food is ordinary, universal. But in literature, it becomes extraordinary—a gateway into: colonial histories family trauma migration gender roles class hierarchies spirituality pleasure and guilt It balances joy with the unsettling For every comforting food memoir, there is a dark, unsettling narrative like Paradise of Food, reminding us that food can represent violence, control, and hunger—both literal and metaphorical. 6. Reading, Writing, and Culinary Literature Your earlier reflections on reading and writing connect beautifully here: Reading culinary literature is not just entertainment—it’s the assimilation of culture, memory, and identity through taste. Writing about food can be cathartic. Many food writers describe their stories as “flowing out” from deep emotional places. Food becomes a narrative medium—part fact, part imagination, part memory. 7. A Closing Thought: Why Culinary Literature Matters Culinary literature reminds us that to eat is to remember, to imagine, to feel, and to belong. It is one of the most democratic genres—anyone who has ever eaten can connect to it, yet it opens doors into worlds far beyond the plate. From thattukadas in Kochi to Parisian patisseries, from biryani at Lahore book fairs to “butter and soy” on Japanese rice, from your family's stories to the novels you read—culinary literature captures it all. It tells us that food is not just nourishment. It is narrative. It is culture. It is emotion. It is identity. And above all, it is shared.

A memorable get together.....

If the death was in March 2002, then as of January 2026: Completed years since death: 23 years. The 24th death anniversary will be in March 2026 So the correct way to state it: “In the 24th year of remembrance” Or, if you want to be very clear: “23 years completed; remembered in the 24th year.” Thank you to each one of you who made time for our family get-together. Your presence meant more than words can express. In a world where life constantly pulls us in different directions, choosing to pause, show up, and be together is a precious gift. Family is not just about blood or tradition—it is about connection, belonging, shared memories, and the comfort of knowing that we are not alone. Being together, even for a short while, reminded us of who we are, where we come from, and how deeply we are connected to one another. To those who travelled, adjusted schedules, or set aside other commitments just to be present—thank you. And to those who couldn’t join us physically but sent messages, calls, blessings, and love—your warmth was felt just as strongly. Presence takes many forms, and every form matters. More than events or occasions, people are what truly matter. Conversations, laughter, shared meals, quiet moments, and even the silences—we carry them forward as strength and reassurance. These moments become anchors in our lives. May we continue to stay connected, not just on special days, but in everyday ways—through a message, a call, a check-in, or simply holding space for one another. Once again, thank you for being there, in body or in spirit. Togetherness like this is what keeps families alive and hearts full. 🙏 💛

One step at a time ~ Dr. Nischita Muppavarapu and Prof. Sudhakar Rao (3 of 26)

'One step at a time' a reminder indeed is the title. This book by Dr. Nischita Muppavarapu and Prof. Sudhakar Rao is: ~ a lesson in leadership and a road map to success. ~ It reinforces the need and impact of a mentor and continuous learning. ~ It drives the fact that age is just a number, you can choose and change your career anytime. ~ We need to stay true to ourself and lead a 'Pura Vida' life. As the back cover mentions growth would happen not in leaps, but in steady mindful steps - one experience, one reflection, one act of courage at a time. A good beginning to a Happy New Year. Quite interesting and I wonder if it is a sign that I ended 2025 with Dr. Vasuki a doctor turned IAS officers book 'The School of life' and begin 2026 with this book. A great read indeed. Gratitude for bringing to light and inspiring us by transforming the experience into words.

Reading & Writing: Beyond Pages and Pens

We often assume that reading many books automatically makes someone “well‑read.” But quantity is only an illusion of wisdom. True reading begins after the book is closed. Being widely read and being well‑read are not the same. Anyone can consume hundreds of pages, but unless the mind assimilates, questions, reflects, and transforms that knowledge into personal insight, reading remains just another pastime—like scrolling or gaming. The respect we give to people who read a lot is really respect for those who have grown through their reading, not merely turned pages. Intellectual development is an inner process. It happens quietly, in the psyche, long after the words on the page have faded. Where Does a Story Really Exist? A fascinating question arises here: Does a story live in the writer’s mind, the reader’s mind, or in the interaction between the two? Kafka may not have fully understood the labyrinth he created in The Trial or The Castle. Anand, in മരുഭൂമികൾ ഉണ്ടാകുന്നത്, may not have consciously intended every layer his readers now interpret. A story is like sweetness—is it in the sugar, on the tongue, or in the chemical reaction connecting both? Writing exists in the same mysterious space. A text is never a static object; it evolves every time a new mind touches it. Writing as Catharsis For many writers, writing isn’t an act of control—it’s an act of release. Stories take shape on their own, demanding to be expressed so the writer can find relief. Writing becomes catharsis, a cleansing of emotion and thought. The writer pours out what the psyche struggles to contain. In this sense, writing is not merely a craft. It is therapy, discovery, and confession rolled into one. The writer doesn’t always know the depths of what they reveal. Sometimes the story knows more than the storyteller. Reading & Writing: Two Halves of the Same Inner Journey Reading nourishes the mind; writing frees it. Reading expands our inner landscape; writing maps it. Reading exposes us to worlds; writing reveals our own. But both require the same essential ingredient: awareness. Without awareness, reading becomes consumption. Without awareness, writing becomes noise. With awareness, both become tools for intellectual and emotional evolution. Conclusion A book doesn’t make you well‑read. A pen doesn’t make you a writer. It is the inner work—the analysing, the feeling, the engaging with ideas, the catharsis—that transforms both reading and writing into meaningful acts. The magic of literature happens between minds. Between writer and reader. Between thought and emotion. Between pages and inner worlds. And in that space, we don’t just read or write—we grow.

Tuesday, January 13, 2026

A Family Story: Love, Loss & Survival


The story of the family is filled with struggle, sacrifice, and the unbreakable bond between siblings. Amma lived through extremely difficult times. Appa after retirment from Navy, fell into drinking and violence. Life became a cycle of fear and hurt, and she endured it all while protecting her children as much as she could.

When the tragedy happened, her upper body was mostly unharmed, but her lower body had severe burns. In the hospital, she cried to the doctor saying, “Save me, I have small kids.” Those words show she wanted to live—she held on only for her children.

Even that raises questions… was it really suicide? Or did something else happen? No one can say for sure.

Those days, phones were rare. Communication was nearly impossible. News travelled slowly.  Anna, who had just joined a company in UAE, received the message about Amma’s death only on his first day of work. He knew he couldn’t come back—because his job was the only lifeline for you all. That decision itself shows the depth of his love.

When Amma was admitted to Sion Hospital, Anna was still stuck at the airport due to a 12‑hour flight delay, helpless and far away. It was a cruel twist of fate.

Your Akka had left home at just 17 or 18—too young, escaping daily fights and fear—and married a man who, at first, seemed better. She was also pregnant then; coming back home wasn’t easy. Anna felt she abandoned the family, and for years, they didn’t speak. Only much later, after his marriage, did he reconcile and visit her again.

Life was never simple. When Amma died in 1984, the family relocated to Kerala in March. Your father returned to fight with his parents about property, which ironically protected him—otherwise, people might have doubted him for murder. He eventually passed away around 1993, found on the road by police, identified only by his Navy ID and pension slip. He was cremated by the government, and only much later did Akka learn the truth and collect the documents and last photos from the police station.

You, the younger children, had a more painful childhood. Grandparents were strict, and emotional security was rare. You still remember running behind your father to the bus stop crying, wanting to go with him to Akka. Meanwhile, Amma’s sisters in Mumbai started showing a cold face soon after the tragedy—until your grandparents intervened and took all three of you. Looking back, that was truly God’s blessing. Without that, your lives could have gone in a very different direction.

Akka sometimes says she suffered for her mistakes. Marriage at a young age, dreams, emotions, financial comfort—all these pull strongly at that age. It’s easy to judge today, impossible to judge then. Anna thought she acted selfishly, but maybe even he later understood her pain.

There are still unanswered questions:

Could Amma’s death have been an accident?

Pump stoves those days were dangerous.

She had just seen her eldest son settle into a good job—a moment of relief.

Why would she intentionally leave everything then?

Even Satish once hinted that Akka’s husband might have had a role… a thought that left a permanent mark in your mind, though no one ever spoke of it again.

Regardless of how painful the past was, one truth stands out clearly:

Anna saved all of you.

He was the backbone, the protector, the reason you three survived and stayed together. In many ways, he was a godly presence in your childhood.

Today, with so much behind you and so much understood only now, the most important thing is this:

All four of you need to stay united, support each other, and honour the unimaginable sacrifices made for your survival.

Because at the end of everything, it was love—siblings’ love, grandparents’ love, Amma’s love—that kept you alive.

And now it’s your turn to give that same love to each other.

Friday, January 09, 2026

Unveiling the Enchanted Realms of Jane Austen’s Fiction: Wit, Wisdom, and Worlds Beyond Time

 Table of Contents

The Beginning 1

Introduction (Approx. 5 minutes) 3

Section 1: The Enchanted Realms – Austen’s World (Approx. 10 minutes) 4

Section 2: Austen’s Magic – Wit and Subtle Power (Approx. 10 minutes) 6

Section 3: Why Austen Still Matters (Approx. 10 minutes) 7

Interactive Segment (Approx. 5 minutes) 8

Conclusion (Approx. 5 minutes) 8

Notes & Inspirations: 8

4 most imp female novelist 9

1. George Eliot was the pen name of Mary Ann Evans 10

2. The Brontë sisters 10

4.Jane Austen: 10

1.Sense and Sensibility (Elinor and Marianne) 11

2.Pride and Prejudice 13

3.Mansfield Park 14

4.EMMA 15

5.Northanger Abbey 15

6.Persuasion 16


The Beginning

Please raise your hands:

1. How many of you have read Jane Austen’s books?

2. How many books has she written?


3. When was she born? (1775-1817)

4. How long did she live?


Thank you for having me here, it fills my heart with joy unspeakable, to speak about

one of my favorite authors and writers, with my beloved students…..I was introduced to

her when I was few years younger than you all.

To be precise when I was in the 9 th – one of my class mate asked the teacher, how is the

title – ‘Pride and Prejudice’ relevant to the novel? What does it mean?

At that point in time I had neither heard or read about Jane Austen.

Today Thanks to Vinaya Ajith kumar, Shaila Mam, Cochin book club – for extending the

invite to me.

My heartfelt gratitude goes to the eminent speakers who rejected and Dr. soney

bhageeradhan, PHD – Cochin college, Assistant professor and HOD; who have set a

solid base, which is difficult for me to match.

Please excuse me, as I am not a professional speaker or a teacher, and this is my first

experience of this kind.

Nevertheless, let me give it a try.

Her timeline: 7 th of 8 children. At the age of 32 her father died, first book was published when she was 38 years of age, she died

when she was 44 years. How long was her writing career? – 7 years and during this period 6 of her books were published.

 1773: Sister Cassandra Austen was born

 1805: George Austin, her father died

 1811: 1 st book Sense and sensibility – Literary Realism

 1813: Pride & Prejudice – Regency Romance

 1814: Mansfield park

 1816: Emma

 1817: Died :July 18 th

 1817: Northhanger Abbey ( Gothic Satire/Coming of Age) and Persusion Published – written in 1799.

 At the time of her death in July 1817, Jane Austen had two unfinished works that were never published during her

lifetime:

1. Sanditon started in 1817 A witty and satirical look at a seaside resort town and the emerging health-tourism culture of Regency

England. Austen completed 12 chapters before her health declined. The manuscript was later published posthumously in 1925 and

has inspired modern adaptations.

2. The Watsons, Started: Around 1804 Focuses on the fortunes of the Watson family and the challenges faced by women with

limited means in society. Abandoned early, possibly due to personal circumstances. It remained incomplete and was published

posthumously in 1871.

She also left behind three volumes of juvenile writings in manuscript, the short epistolary novel Lady Susan

The anonymously published Sense and Sensibility (1811), Pride and Prejudice (1813), Mansfield Park (1814), and Emma (1816)

were moderate successes. but they didn't bring her public fame in her lifetime. (She was privately known to be the author of these

novels, including by notable people such as the Prince Regent.)


In 1832 Richard Bentley purchased the remaining copyrights to all of her novels, and over the following winter published five

illustrated volumes as part of his Standard Novels series. In October 1833 Bentley released the first collected edition of her works.

Since then, Austen's novels have been continuously in print.

William Shakespeare: 23 April 1564 to 1616 – 200 years before Jane Austen.

Writing systems emerged around 3400–3000 BCE in ancient Mesopotamia.

Aphra Behn (17th century, England) – Among the first women to earn a living as a professional writer.

11th century CE: Murasaki Shikibu (Japan) – First novel

 Virginia Woolf famously said: “All women together ought to let flowers fall upon the tomb of

Aphra Behn… for it was she who earned them the right to speak their minds.”


Introduction (Approx. 5 minutes)

How many of you remember your great grandmothers name or what she has

done?

How many of your have a favorite book or a novel, which is equally loved by

many others?

Imagine this: A writer born in 1775, in a quiet English village, without social media,

without global fame during her lifetime—yet today, her name echoes across centuries.

Jane Austen.

On her 250th birth anniversary, we celebrate not just a novelist, but a visionary who

transformed the ordinary into the extraordinary. Her novels are not just stories; they are

enchanted realms—worlds where, irony sparkles like hidden gems, and human

emotions unfold with timeless grace.

So, why does Austen matter to us— in the 21st century? Let’s step into her world and

find out.

When we hear the word enchantment, we tend to think of magic wands, distant

kingdoms, or worlds entirely removed from our own. Jane Austen, at first glance, seems

an unlikely candidate for enchantment. Her worlds are made of tea tables, letters,

country walks, and conversations about weather, income, and suitable marriages.

And yet—two centuries later—we remain enchanted.

en·chant·ment

“The real enchantment lies not in escaping reality, but in seeing it anew.”


Consider Jane Austen not merely as a novelist of romance or social manners, but as a

creator of enchanted realms—realms where the magic does not shimmer visibly, but

works quietly through perception, moral awakening, and emotional truth.

Austen’s enchantment does not ask us to escape reality. It asks us to see it more

clearly.

Her first book said “Written by a Lady”; “Written by the author of Sense and Sensebility”

Realm – means a kingdom or territory ruled by a monarch.

Today on her 250 th birthday, let us together, Unveiling the Enchanted Realms of Jane

Austen’s Fiction


Section 1: The Enchanted Realms – Austen’s World

(Approx. 10 minutes)

Jane Austen wrote during the Regency era, a time of elegance and rigid social codes.

Her canvas? Country villages, drawing rooms, and ballrooms. At first glance, these

settings seem small, even confined. But Austen turns them into microcosms of human

nature.

The Regency era officially spans 1811–1820, when King George III was deemed unfit

to rule due to mental illness, and his son, George, Prince of Wales, acted as Prince

Regent.

In a broader cultural sense, the term often covers c. 1795–1837, the late Georgian

period up to the accession of Queen Victoria.

As Virginia Wolf puts it in her book “A Room of One’s own”:

Page 64 “Here was a woman about the year 1800 writing without hate, without

bitterness, without fear, without protest without preaching. That was how Shakespeare

wrote.”

Page 70 “What genius, what integrity it must have required in face of all the criticism, in

the midst of that purely patriarchal society to hold fast to the things as they saw it

without shrinking. Only Jane Austen did it and Emily Bronte.”

"Given the veneer of a lady, she was made the perfect victim of a caste society. Her

father had forced her out of her own class, but could not raise her to the next. To the

young men of the one she had left she had become too select to marry; to those of the

one she aspired to, she remained too banal."


- John Fowles, The French Lieutenant's Woman

The novels of Jane Austen never mentioned the so-called lower classes

This is what happens to a woman who tries to move out of her class, in Victorian

England - forget about Regency!

Austen's protagonists were in the same boat. Marriage within one's class was the only

"career" available to women.

Austen's plots often explore the dependence of women on marriage for the pursuit of

favourable social standing and economic security. Her works are implicit critiques of the

novels of sensibility of the second half of the 18th century and are part of the transition

to 19th-century literary realism. Her use of social commentary, realism, wit, and irony

have earned her acclaim amongst critics and scholars.

Literary realism is a movement and genre of literature that attempts to represent

mundane and ordinary subject-matter in a faithful and straightforward way, avoiding

grandiose or exotic subject-matter, exaggerated portrayals, and speculative elements

such as supernatural events and alternative worlds. It encompasses both fiction

(realistic fiction) and nonfiction writing. Literary realism is a subset of the broader realist

art movement that began with mid-nineteenth-century French literature (Stendhal) and

Russian literature (Alexander Pushkin). It attempts to represent familiar things, including

everyday activities and experiences, as they truly are.

 Society and Class:

Marriage wasn’t just about love—it was an economic strategy. Social mobility

depended on alliances. Austen captures this reality with sharp insight, yet never

loses her sense of humor.

 Characters as Universes:

Each character is a realm of its own.

o Elizabeth Bennet—spirited, independent, challenging norms. –

explanation to Miss Darcy how the relationship between brother and sister

is different from Husband and wife.

o In Pride and Prejudice, the Meryton assembly may seem like a simple

social event. But in Austen’s world, it is charged with consequence. A

careless remark there follows Darcy for chapters. A moment of wounded

pride reshapes Elizabeth Bennet’s understanding of him—and herself. Mr.

George Wickham


o Emma Woodhouse—privileged yet flawed, learning humility through

mistakes.

o Anne Elliot—quiet strength and resilience. – “You pierce my soul. I am half

agony, half hope…I have loved none but you” Persuasion waiting for

Captain Frederick Wentworth for eight years.

o Catherine Morland & Isabella in Northanger Abbey – 17 year olds – “There

is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no

notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature”

o Mansfield park – “Drama is to life what ships are to the sea. A means to

traverse it. To plumb its depths, breadth and beauty.


o Dashwood sisters

 Elinor Dashwood represents Sense—she is rational, self-controlled,

and values duty.

 Marianne Dashwood represents Sensibility—she is passionate,

romantic, and guided by emotion.


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Through these characters, Austen invites us into worlds where choices, conversations,

and even glances carry profound meaning.

Physical spaces mirror inner transformation

Estates as moral symbols:

Pemberley – balance, integrity, openness

Mansfield Park – order and constraint

Hartfield – comfort and emotional stagnation

Nature walks as moments of awakening:

Elizabeth Bennet’s walks

Anne Elliot’s seaside reflections in Persuasion

Enchantment through:Familiar English settings rendered psychologically alive

Where have you encountered quiet enchantment in your own life?

“In Austen’s enchanted realms, we discover not just her world—but reflections of our

own.”


False enchantment → disillusionment → clearer moral vision

Austen’s true magic is moral awakening, not romantic fulfillment alone

Growth requires: Self-Knowledge, Humility, Emotional courage.

In her books Time, letters and reading has been used as an important tool.

A single ball can alter reputations. A letter can overturn a life. A refusal can echo across

an entire novel.

This is Austen’s magic: she invests small social acts with immense moral and emotional

weight.

Austen’s characters walk—and in walking, they think. Nature becomes a space for

reflection, clarity, and emotional reckoning. These familiar English settings become

enchanted not because they are exotic, but because they are alive with meaning.


Section 2: Austen’s Magic – Wit and Subtle Power

(Approx. 10 minutes)

What makes Austen magical? Her language and irony.

 Irony as a Weapon:

Austen’s opening lines often set the tone. They seem simple, but they’re layered

with satire.

“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good

fortune, must be in want of a wife” ~ Pride and Prejudice.

“The family of Dashwood had long been settled in Sussex.” ~Sense and Sensibility,

(Norland Park)

“About thirty years ago Miss Maria Ward, of Huntingdon, with only seven thousand

pounds, had the good luck to captivate Sir Thomas Bertram, of Mansfield Park, in

the country of Northampton, and to be there by raised to the rank of a baronet’s lady,

with all the comforts and consequences of a handsome house and large income” ~

Mansfield Park.


“Emma Woodhouse, handsome. Clever and rich, with a comfortable home and

happy disposition, seemed to unite some of the best blessings of existence; and had

lived nearly twenty one years in the world with very little to distress or vex her. ~

Emma (youngest of two daughters of sister married and mother died long ago)

“No one who had ever seen Catherine Morland in her infancy would have supposed

her born to be an heroine.” ~ Northanger Abbey

“Sir Walter Elliot, of Kellynch Hall, in Somersetshire, was a man who, for his own

amusement, never took up any book but the Baronetage; there he found occupation

for an idle hour, and consolation in a distressed one; there his faculties were roused

into admiration and respect by contemplating the limited remnant of the earliest

patents; there any unwelcome sensations arising from domestic affairs changed

naturally into pity and contempt as he turned over the almost endless creations of

the last century; and there , if every other leaf were powerless, he could read his

own history with an interest which never failed. ~Persuasion.

She critiques greed, vanity, and social pretension—not with anger, but with

elegance.

 Empowerment through Restraint:

In a patriarchal society, Austen’s heroines wield power through intellect and

moral courage. They don’t storm castles—they win battles in drawing rooms,

through dialogue and discernment.

 Dialogue as Spellcraft:

Every conversation in Austen’s novels is a duel of wit. Beneath polite words lie

ambitions, desires, and vulnerabilities. This subtlety is Austen’s genius—she

makes us read between the lines.


Section 3: Why Austen Still Matters (Approx. 10

minutes)

Two centuries later, why do we still read Austen?

 Timeless Themes:

Pride, prejudice, ambition, love—these are eternal human experiences.

 Modern Resonance:

Think about social media today—status updates, curated images, the obsession


with appearances. Isn’t that a modern version of Regency society? Austen’s

insights into vanity and self-awareness feel strikingly relevant.

 Pop Culture Adaptations:

From Clueless to Bridgerton, Austen’s influence is everywhere. Her stories adapt

seamlessly because they speak to universal truths.

 Bride and Prejudice??

 We all need rooms of our own - whether it is in the mind, or in the physical world. My library is my sacred space, my space

for nirvana (which means "without wind" - the still centre of existence).

 Sense Venam, Sensebility venam, sensitivity venam – Vendey?

 Persuasion: Marketing

 Austen’s fiction teaches us: How to look again, How to listen better, How to judge

more kindly. Jane Austen’s enchanted realms are not places we escape into—but

mirrors in which we recognise ourselves.


Interactive Segment (Approx. 5 minutes)

Let’s pause and reflect:

 If Austen were alive today, what would she critique?

o Dating apps? Influencer culture?

 How do her heroines compare to modern role models?

Invite students to share thoughts—make it lively and relatable.

“Which illusion did Austen help you outgrow?”

“Has Austen ever made you realise you were wrong—about a character, or even about

yourself?”


Conclusion (Approx. 5 minutes)


Jane Austen didn’t write about wars or revolutions. She wrote about tea parties,

proposals, and family squabbles. Yet within these small worlds, she revealed big

truths—about character, choice, and consequence.

Her enchanted realms remind us that literature isn’t just about escape—it’s about

reflection. In Austen’s world, we see our own—our pride, our prejudices, our hopes.

So, as we celebrate her 250th anniversary, let’s carry forward her legacy:

To read deeply, think critically, and live with grace and wit.

Live, love, lead, learn, leave a legacy.

Thank you my dears for patiently listening to me, to all those who were instrumental in

me being here and enabling me to talk on our beloved Jane Austen. I would be

immensely happy if you all read her books, read books and be the light.

 Virginia Woolf famously said: “All women together ought to let flowers fall upon the tomb of

Aphra Behn… for it was she who earned them the right to speak their minds.”


Notes & Inspirations:

On John Keats’s tombstone in the Protestant Cemetery in Rome, the inscription is famously poignant because it reflects his sense

of unfulfilled promise and early death: “Here lies one whose name was writ in water.”

Fanny Burney (1752–1840) was an influential English novelist, diarist, and playwright, best known for her witty and insightful

depictions of 18th-century society. she was one of the earliest female novelists in English literature. Her works often explored

themes of manners, morality, and women’s roles in a patriarchal society.

Major Contributions

 Novels:

o Evelina (1778) – Her debut novel, a social satire about a young woman navigating London society.

o Cecilia (1782) – Influenced Jane Austen; the phrase “Pride and Prejudice” appears here.

o Camilla (1796) – Popular among readers of the time.

 Diaries and Letters:

o Burney’s journals provide vivid accounts of Georgian life and her time at court as Keeper of the Robes to Queen

Charlotte.


 Miss Rebecca West was a prominent British author, journalist, and literary critic of the

20th century.

o  Born Cicely Isabel Fairfield in 1892, she adopted the pen name Rebecca West from a character in an Ibsen

play.

o  She was known for her sharp intellect, feminist views, and political commentary.


o  Rebecca West was considered one of the greatest intellectuals of her time.

o  She combined literary artistry with political insight, influencing feminist thought

and modernist literature.


 Lady Winchilsea (Anne Finch), who was a notable English poet of the late 17th and early

18th centuries

o  The Spleen – A famous poem exploring melancholy and mental health.

o Other poems often addressed women’s roles and personal struggles.

o  Significance:

She is considered one of the earliest female poets to write openly about women’s intellectual life and emotional

depth.


 Aphra Behn (1640–1689) was a groundbreaking English playwright, poet, and novelist,

and one of the first women in English literature to earn a living through writing.

o  Born in England, Aphra Behn lived during the Restoration period.

o  Before her literary career, she reportedly worked as a spy for King Charles II

during political conflicts.

o

 Aphra Behn broke barriers for women writers, proving they could succeed professionally.

 Virginia Woolf famously said: “All women together ought to let flowers fall upon the tomb of

Aphra Behn… for it was she who earned them the right to speak their minds.”

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4 most imp female novelist


1. George Eliot was the pen name of Mary Ann Evans (1819–1880), one of the most

important English novelists of the Victorian era.  Born in Warwickshire, England, Evans adopted the name George Eliot to

ensure her works were taken seriously in a male-dominated literary world.

 She was known for her deep psychological insight and realistic portrayal of rural life.

 Adam Bede (1859) – Her first novel, praised for its realism.

 The Mill on the Floss (1860) – A story of family ties and personal struggle.

 Silas Marner (1861) – A tale of redemption and community.

 Middlemarch (1871–72) – Considered her masterpiece, exploring politics, marriage, and morality in provincial England.

(Considered greatest novel in English Literature)

Plot and Main Characters

 Dorothea Brooke: An idealistic young woman who marries the much older scholar Edward Casaubon, hoping to assist

in his intellectual pursuits. The marriage proves disappointing, and after Casaubon’s death, Dorothea eventually finds

happiness with Will Ladislaw, Casaubon’s cousin.

 Tertius Lydgate: A progressive doctor aiming to reform medicine, whose ambitions are thwarted by financial troubles and

an unhappy marriage to Rosamond Vincy, a status-conscious woman.

 Other notable figures include Fred Vincy and Mary Garth, whose relationship contrasts with the ill-fated unions of

Dorothea and Lydgate.

Themes

 Idealism vs. Reality: Both Dorothea and Lydgate pursue lofty goals but face harsh realities in marriage and vocation.

 Marriage and Gender Roles: Eliot critiques romanticized notions of marriage, depicting it as a complex social and

personal institution.


 Social Change: The novel reflects the tensions of a society in transition—political reform, scientific progress, and shifting

class structures.

 Interconnected Lives: Through multiple storylines, Eliot explores how individual choices ripple through a community.

Significance

Middlemarch is celebrated for its psychological depth, moral complexity, and rich social commentary. Virginia Woolf famously

called it “one of the few English novels written for grown-up people.”


2Charlotte Brontë (1816–1855)

 Famous for Jane Eyre (1847), a novel blending romance, social criticism, and strong female independence.

3Emily Brontë (1818–1848)

 Known for Wuthering Heights (1847), a dark, passionate tale of love and revenge set on the Yorkshire moors.

 Anne Brontë (1820–1849)

 Author of Agnes Grey (1847) and The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848), both exploring women’s struggles and autonomy.

 They challenged Victorian norms about gender, class, and morality.

 Their novels are celebrated for psychological depth, emotional intensity, and innovative narrative styles.

 Despite publishing under male pseudonyms initially (Currer, Ellis, and Acton Bell), they paved the way for women in

literature.

 Brontë Parsonage Museum

Church Street, Haworth, Keighley, West Yorkshire, England

Postcode: BD22 8DR

The Brontë sisters were three remarkable English writers of the 19th century whose works

have become classics of English literature:

Jane Eyre (Charlotte Brontë, 1847)

 Overview: A Gothic novel that follows Jane, an orphan who grows into an independent and

principled woman. Her journey spans from a harsh childhood to her role as a governess at

Thornfield Hall, where she falls in love with Mr. Rochester.

 Themes:

o Love and Equality: Jane’s relationship with Rochester is built on mutual respect and

moral integrity.

o Independence and Identity: The novel critiques class and gender norms,

emphasizing personal autonomy.


 Tone and Setting: Gothic elements—mystery, isolation, and emotional depth—pervade the

story, with Thornfield Hall symbolizing Jane’s struggles and triumphs.

Wuthering Heights (Emily Brontë, 1847)

 Overview: A dark, passionate tale centered on Heathcliff and Catherine Earnshaw, whose

obsessive love leads to revenge and generational turmoil.

 Themes:


o Love as Obsession: Unlike Jane Eyre’s redemptive love, Wuthering Heights

portrays love as destructive and consuming.

o Revenge and Social Class: The novel explores how bitterness and societal

constraints shape human behavior.


 Tone and Setting: The wild Yorkshire moors mirror the characters’ fierce emotions, creating

a haunting and turbulent atmosphere.

4.Jane Austen:

There is this charming 17th-century cottage where Jane Austen lived for the last eight years

of her life (1809–1817). Here, she wrote, revised, and prepared for publication all six of her

major novels, including Pride and Prejudice, Emma, and Persuasion.

Address:

Jane Austen’s House

Winchester Road, Chawton, near Alton, Hampshire, England

Postcode: GU34 1SD [janeaustens.house], [en.wikipedia.org]

 Opening Hours: Typically 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM (Wednesday to Sunday in winter; extended in summer).

 Website for tickets and info: janeaustens.house

2. Mary Carmichael is not a historical figure in the traditional sense but a fictional character

created by Virginia Woolf in her seminal essay A Room of One’s Own (1929).

 She appears as an imaginary example of a woman writer in Woolf’s argument about

gender and creativity.

 Woolf uses Mary Carmichael to illustrate how women, given financial independence and

space to write, could produce literature that challenges patriarchal norms.

India and English: Quick Timeline

 1600: East India Company formed

 1608: British first landed in India (Surat)

 1613: First factory established at Surat

 1757: Battle of Plassey – Company gains political power

 1858: British Crown assumes direct control (British Raj)

 1947: Independence of India

Cochin Book Club

Update on Cochin Book Club Meetup #91 (30 November 2025, Koffee Junction, Kochi)

The theme for this time was Jane Austen’s literature and we had a gathering of readers who had read enough of Austen to

critically analyze her works. The discussion started with an introduction by Meenakshi who presented a comprehensive review

of almost all her works including the incomplete ones, and her major characters.


The participants ranged from ardent fans of Austen to those who felt her oevre was only slightly better than Mills & Boon

books. We examined aspects like satire in Austen’s books and how her masterpiece ‘Pride and Prejudice’ became a model for

many novels by later authors. Numerous film adaptations of her works in various languages were also explored.

Different readers found different works of the author to be special. While some opined ‘Emma’ to be technically her best novel,

some others thought ‘Persuasion’ stood out from all other works of hers.

One of the criticisms was that Austen ignored the lower-class people and only focused on the upper class in her writings. There

were comparisons of the period of Austen and contemporary times, and how these differences should be kept in mind while

reading her works.

 It’s not necessarily the genre or the period of the book. Youngsters love Jane Austen’s works just as much as they love or

hate Colleen Hoover. We still talk about Bram Stoker’s Dracula alongside the latest comics. It’s the conversations that

matter to light up the discussion and the meetups.

Are you a Jane Austen fan?

Her Novels:

1.Sense and Sensibility (Elinor and Marianne)


Austen drew inspiration from contemporary novels of the late 18th century that explored similar themes of romance, morality, and

social conduct. Adam Stevenson's Life and Love (1785), which recounts personal romantic experiences and societal expectations,

is thought to have influenced Austen's depiction of complex emotional relationships and the challenges of constrained social

circumstances. Jane West's A Gossip's Story (1796) is also considered a significant influence, as it features one sister characterized

by rational sense and another by passionate, emotive sensibility. Notably, West's romantic sister shares the name Marianne with

Austen's character, and modern editions of West's novel highlight textual and thematic similarities, suggesting that Austen may have

consciously or unconsciously drawn on these elements in shaping her own characters and plot.

Austen may also have drawn on historical figures in developing certain characters. In particular, Warren Hastings, the first Governor-

General of India, is often cited as a potential inspiration for Colonel Brandon. Parallels include rumored illegitimate

daughters—Hastings with his possible daughter Eliza de Feuillide, and Brandon with Eliza Brandon in the novel—as well as early

departures to India at age seventeen. Both figures are also associated with dueling and matters of honor, characteristics echoed in

Colonel Brandon’s backstory. Literary scholar Linda Robinson Walker has argued that Hastings “haunts Sense and Sensibility in the

character of Colonel Brandon,” noting that Austen may have drawn on her knowledge of contemporary political figures and family

connections to lend historical depth and realism to her fictional characters

Jane Austen's first published novel, Sense and Sensibility, is an enjoyable novel of manners, full of romance, humor, and beautifully

realized characters. The old-fashioned language might be alienating to modern readers at first, but it's well worth the moderate

patience

I also loved the fact that there were two heroines opposed to one. Elinor and Marianne are very different people, and they interact

with the world in very different ways, though they each have their values and their faults. Together, they help each other and look out

for each other as sisters should.


The main theme in this novel is the danger of excessive sensibility. The sisters learn that sense must mix with sensibility if they are

to find personal happiness in a society where status and money govern the rules of love.

The title “Sense and Sensibility” is a brilliant reflection of the novel’s central theme and character contrasts:

✅ Meaning of the Title

Sense = Reason, logic, and prudence.

Sensibility = Emotion, feeling, and responsiveness.


✅ How It Fits the Story

The two main sisters embody these qualities:

Elinor Dashwood represents Sense—she is rational, self-controlled, and values duty.

Marianne Dashwood represents Sensibility—she is passionate, romantic, and guided by

emotion.


Their experiences in love and life show the strengths and pitfalls of both approaches.


✅ Broader Significance

Austen uses the contrast to explore:

The balance between reason and emotion in human relationships.

Social expectations in Regency England—where neither extreme guarantees happiness.


By the end, both sisters learn to temper their dominant trait, suggesting harmony between sense and sensibility is ideal.

2.Pride and Prejudice


Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen (1813) is a classic novel of manners set in Regency

England. It explores themes of love, social class, family expectations, and personal growth,

all through sharp wit and irony.

The story follows Elizabeth Bennet, one of five daughters in a middle-class family, and her

evolving relationship with Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy, a wealthy and reserved gentleman.


Initially, Elizabeth dislikes Darcy due to his pride and her own prejudice, while Darcy misjudges

Elizabeth’s social standing.

Through misunderstandings, family drama (including Lydia Bennet’s scandal), and self-reflection,

both characters overcome their flaws.

The novel ends with mutual respect and love, challenging rigid social norms of the time.

Main Characters

Elizabeth Bennet – The intelligent, witty heroine known for her independence and strong moral

sense.

Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy – A wealthy, reserved gentleman whose pride initially clashes with Elizabeth’s

prejudice.

Jane Bennet – Elizabeth’s gentle and kind elder sister, admired for her beauty and grace.

Mr. Charles Bingley – Darcy’s amiable friend, who falls in love with Jane Bennet.


The Bennet Family

Mr. Bennet – The sarcastic, somewhat detached father.

Mrs. Bennet – The mother obsessed with marrying off her daughters.

Lydia Bennet – The youngest, flirtatious sister whose scandal creates family tension.

Mary Bennet – The studious, moralizing sister.

Kitty Bennet – The impressionable sister, often influenced by Lydia.


Other Key Figures

Mr. George Wickham – A charming but deceitful officer who misleads Elizabeth.

Mr. Collins – The pompous clergyman and heir to the Bennet estate.

Lady Catherine de Bourgh – Darcy’s wealthy, domineering aunt.

Charlotte Lucas – Elizabeth’s sensible friend who marries Mr. Collins for security.

The title “Pride and Prejudice” is deeply symbolic and perfectly reflects the novel’s central themes

and character arcs:

Why the Title Fits

1. Pride (Mr. Darcy)

o Darcy’s initial arrogance and sense of social superiority create misunderstandings

and distance between him and Elizabeth.

o His pride blinds him to the warmth and worth of those outside his elite circle.

2. Prejudice (Elizabeth Bennet)

o Elizabeth’s quick judgments, influenced by Darcy’s aloofness and Wickham’s charm,

lead her to misinterpret Darcy’s character.

o Her prejudice delays her recognition of Darcy’s true virtues.


3. Mutual Transformation

o Both characters overcome these flaws—Darcy tempers his pride, and Elizabeth

learns to question her assumptions.

o The resolution underscores Austen’s message: self-awareness and humility are

essential for love and happiness.


 The title also reflects societal pride and prejudice—class distinctions, gender expectations, and

family ambitions in Regency England.

 It signals Austen’s ironic critique of human vanity and the tendency to judge hastily.


3.Mansfield Park

Mansfield Park is the third published novel by the English author Jane Austen, first published in 1814 by Thomas Egerton. A second

edition was published in 1816 by John Murray, still within Austen's lifetime. The novel did not receive any public reviews until 1821.

The novel tells the story of Fanny Price, starting when her overburdened family sends her at the age of ten to live in the household

of her wealthy aunt and uncle and following her development into early adulthood. From early on critical interpretation has been

diverse, differing particularly over the character of the heroine, Austen's views about theatrical performance and the centrality or

otherwise of ordination and religion, and on the question of slavery. Some of these problems have been highlighted in the several

later adaptations of the story for stage and screen.

Maria, Lady Bertram, Fanny's aunt. Married to the wealthy Sir Thomas Bertram, she is the middle one of three sisters of the Ward

family, the others being Mrs Norris and Fanny's mother, Mrs Price.

Ten-year-old Fanny Price is sent from her impoverished home in Portsmouth to live with the family at Mansfield Park. Lady Bertram

is Fanny’s aunt and her four children – Tom, Edmund, Maria and Julia – are older than Fanny. All but Edmund mistreat her, and her

other aunt, Mrs Norris, wife of the clergyman at the Mansfield parsonage, makes herself particularly unpleasant.

On a visit to Mr Rushworth's estate, Henry flirts with both Maria and Julia. Maria believes Henry is in love with her and so treats Mr

Rushworth dismissively, provoking his jealousy, while Julia struggles with jealousy and resentment towards her sister. Mary is

disappointed to learn that Edmund will be a clergyman and tries to undermine his vocation.

Henry leave, Mary gets married When Henry returns to Mansfield Park, he decides to entertain himself by making Fanny fall in love

with him. Fanny's brother William visits, and Sir Thomas holds what is effectively a coming-out ball for her. Although Mary dances

with Edmund, she tells him it will be the last time, as she will never dance with a clergyman. Edmund drops his plan to propose and

leaves the next day, as do Henry and William.

When Henry next returns, he announces to Mary his intention to marry Fanny. To assist his plan, he has used his family's naval

connections to help William achieve promotion. However, when Henry proposes marriage, Fanny rejects him, disapproving of his

past treatment of women. Sir Thomas is astonished by her continuing refusal, but she does not explain, afraid of compromising

Maria.


To help Fanny appreciate Henry's offer, Sir Thomas sends her to visit her parents in Portsmouth, where she is taken aback by the

contrast between their chaotic household and the harmonious environment at Mansfield. Henry visits, but although she still refuses

him, she begins to appreciate his good features.


Later, Fanny learns that Henry and Maria have had an affair which is reported in the newspapers. Mr Rushworth sues Maria for

divorce and the Bertram family is devastated. Tom meanwhile falls gravely ill. Edmund takes Fanny back to Mansfield Park, where

she is a healing influence. Sir Thomas realises that Fanny was right to reject Henry's proposal and now regards her as a daughter.

Edward marry Fanny.

4.EMMA


Before she began the novel, Austen wrote, "I am going to take a heroine whom no one but myself will much like. In the first

sentence, she introduces the title character by stating "Emma Woodhouse, handsome, clever, and rich, with a comfortable home

and a happy disposition, seemed to unite some of the best blessings of existence; and had lived nearly twenty-one years in the

world with very little to distress or vex her."[4] Emma is spoiled, headstrong, and self-satisfied; she greatly overestimates her own

matchmaking abilities; she is blind to the dangers of meddling in other people's lives; and her imagination and perceptions often

lead her astray.


Emma, written after Austen's move to Chawton, was her last novel to be published during her lifetime,[5] while Persuasion, the last

complete novel Austen wrote, was published posthumously.


The novel has been adapted for a number of films, television programmes, and stage plays.

Before the end of November, Emma and Mr Knightley her neighbor, close friend snd critick are married with the prospect of "perfect

happiness." They will live at Hartfield with Mr Woodhouse

 Emma Woodhouse, a wealthy, charming, and somewhat spoiled young woman, lives in the village of Highbury.

 Confident in her matchmaking skills, Emma meddles in the romantic lives of others—especially her friend Harriet Smith—while

ignoring her own feelings.

 Her misguided attempts lead to misunderstandings, social awkwardness, and emotional turmoil.

 Through these experiences, Emma matures, recognizing her own flaws and ultimately finding love with Mr. Knightley, her long-

time friend and moral guide.


5.Northanger Abbey

Northanger Abbey is a coming-of-age novel and a satire of Gothic novels.Although the title page is dated 1818 and the novel was

published posthumously in 1817 with Persuasion, Northanger Abbey was completed in 1799.From a fondness of Gothic novels and

an active imagination distorting her worldview, the story follows Catherine Morland, the naïve young protagonist, as she develops to

better understand herself and the world around her.

Gothic fiction, sometimes referred to as Gothic horror (primarily in the 20th century), is a literary aesthetic of fear and haunting. The

name of the genre is derived from the Renaissance-era use of the word "gothic", as a pejorative term meaning medieval and

barbaric, which itself originated from Gothic architecture and in turn the Goths

Gothic aesthetics continued to be used in Victorian literature in novels by Charles Dickens and the Brontë sisters, as well as in

works by the American writers Edgar Allan Poe and Nathaniel Hawthorne. Later, Gothic fiction evolved through well-known works

like Dracula by Bram Stoker,

The novel covers a wide array of topics such as high society, Gothic fiction, bildungsroman, the value of reading, and the

importance of time. This novel is considered to be more juvenile than her others. Brother published

Throughout Northanger Abbey, Austen makes references to many different Gothic novels, most notably Ann Radcliffe's The

Mysteries of Udolpho. Northanger Abbey is credited for reviving interest in seven Gothic titles that had largely fallen into obscurity;

the "horrid novels"

Several Gothic novels and authors are mentioned in the book, including Fanny Burney and The Monk.Isabella Thorpe gives

Catherine a list of seven books that are commonly referred to as the "Northanger 'horrid' novels".These works were thought to be of

Austen's own invention until the 1920s, when British writers Montague Summers and Michael Sadleir found that the novels did

exist.The list is as follows:

o Castle of Wolfenbach (1793) by Eliza Parsons. London: Minerva Press.

o Clermont (1798) by Regina Maria Roche. London: Minerva Press.

o The Mysterious Warning, a German Tale (1796) by Eliza Parsons. London: Minerva Press.

o The Necromancer; or, The Tale of the Black Forest (1794) by "Lawrence Flammenberg" (pseudonym for Karl Friedrich

Kahlert; translat…


o The Mysteries of Udolpho


The most significant allusion, however, is to Ann Radcliffe's The Mysteries of Udolpho, as it is the Gothic novel most frequently

mentioned within this text. Notably, Jane Austen sold the manuscript of Northanger Abbey to the same firm that published Radcliffe's

novel in 1794.

This outside text is first mentioned in Chapter Six, when Isabella and Catherine discuss the mystery "behind the black veil", and

further establish their friendship based on their similar interests in novel genre and their plans to continue reading other Gothic

novels together. Austen further satirizes the novel through Catherine's stay at Northanger Abbey, believing that General Tilney has

taken the role of Gothic novel villain.

Austen's discussion of Udolpho is also used to clearly separate Catherine and the Tilney siblings from John Thorpe, as when

Catherine talks about the novel with him, he crudely responds that he "never reads novels" but qualifies his statement by arguing he

would only read a novel by Ann Radcliffe, who is the author of Udolpho.[76] Here, Austen humorously categorizes Northanger

Abbey's characters into two spheres: those who read novels, and those who do not. When Catherine and Henry Tilney later discuss

reading novels, and Henry earnestly responds that he enjoys reading novels, and was especially titillated by Udolpho, the match

between Catherine and Henry is implied as both smart and fitting.

Seventeen-year-old Catherine Morland is one of ten children of a country clergyman. Although a tomboy in her childhood, she is "in

training for a heroine"and is fond of reading Gothic novels "provided they [are] all story and no reflection

6.Persuasion

Persuasion: story begins 7 years after the broken engagement. The story concerns Anne Elliot, an Englishwoman of 27 years,

whose family moves to Bath to lower their expenses and reduce their debt by renting their estate to an admiral and his wife. The

wife's brother, Captain Frederick Wentworth, was engaged to Anne in 1806, but the engagement was broken when Anne was

persuaded by her friends and family to end their relationship. Anne and Captain Wentworth, both single and unattached, meet again

after a separation lasting almost eight years, setting the scene for a second, well-considered chance at love and marriage for Anne.


The novel was well received in the early 19th century, but its greater fame came later in the century and continued into the 20th and

21st centuries. Much scholarly debate on Austen's work has since been published. Anne Elliot is noteworthy among Austen's

heroines for her relative maturity. As Persuasion was Austen's last completed work, it is accepted as her most maturely written

novel, showing a refinement of literary conception indicative of a woman approaching 40 years of age. Her use of free indirect

speech in narrative was in full evidence by 1816.


Persuasion has been the subject of several adaptations, including four made-for-television adaptations, theatre productions, radio

broadcasts, and other literary works.

Austen personally was appalled by what she came to regard as her own misguided advice to her beloved niece Fanny Knight on the

very question of whether Fanny ought to accept a particular suitor, even though it would have meant a protracted engagement.


Fanny ultimately rejected her suitor and married someone else after her aunt's death.

Austen was keenly aware that the human quality of persuasion—to

persuade or to be persuaded, rightly or wrongly—is fundamental to the

process of human communication, and that, in her novel "Jane Austen

gradually draws out the implications of discriminating 'just' and 'unjust'

persuasion." Indeed, the narrative winds through a number of situations in

which people influence or attempt to influence other people, or themselves.


"The novel's entire brooding on the power pressures, the seductions, and

also the new pathways opened by persuasion.


What sells? Robert T.Kiyosaki : Not a book that is written well, but that is marketed well.

Live. Love. Lead. Learn. Leave a Legacy.

This is meera, Signing off with Gratitude for your patience, I am sorry if I have bored you or for errors or omissions, Please forgive

me. I love you all. Please be Good.

Happiness Always!