The book traces the life of Gulzar through the eyes of his daughter. Rather than focusing only on his artistic achievements, Gulzar reflects on her childhood memories, family life, and the unique bond they shared. She portrays him as a remarkably involved father who actively participated in raising her despite the demands of a successful career in cinema.
The memoir interweaves:
His journey as a poet, writer, lyricist, and filmmaker.
His personal triumphs and struggles.
The evolution of their father-daughter relationship.
The values he imparted, particularly independence and freedom of thought.
What Makes the Book Special?
One of the most memorable ideas in the book comes from Gulzar's philosophy of parenting:
Parents assume they know more than their children, but in reality, a parent and child are learning together. If the child is two years old, the parent is also a two-year-old parent.
This belief shaped his relationship with Meghna. The book describes how he:
Got her ready for school every day.
Rearranged his work schedule to be home when school ended.
Wrote her a book every year on her birthday until she was thirteen.
Key Themes
Fatherhood and parenting
Creative life and artistic discipline
Independence and individuality
Family, love, and respect
The man behind the public legend
Why Readers Connect With It
The book is often described as less a biography and more a tribute from a daughter to her father. It presents Gulzar as affectionate, emotionally available, intellectually curious, and quietly supportive, while also documenting the realities of his personal and professional.
It's a warm, reflective read rather than a dramatic celebrity memoir.
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