Saturday, March 28, 2009

The Chicago Visit….


It was exactly a month, after landing US,Windsor Locks Bradley International Airport, on Friday 20th March 09, I got a drive to the Hartford/Springfield/Windsor Locks Bradley International Airport, not a big one. Indeed a great drive it was. There are may people who can do things, but very few have the heart to do it, and it does makes a difference….

From here I boarded the flight to Chicago O'Hare International Airport at 4.40 (EDT) pm, which took off at 5:15pm. And though it was to reach the airport at 7:04 (CDT: One hour behind) pm in Chicago as per the itinerary, the plane landed the airport at 6:05 pm.

There were big hoardings everywhere in the airport, 'Chicago: 2016 Olympic Candidate welcomes you'...As we drove towards Lake Bluff, where they stay, Sajeev said that O'Hare was the name of the Lake around which the airport was build...It was a very big airport....so was the parking area in number of floors..


Had never in my wildest dream expected to be to their residence.....on the other side of the globe....There was with them her colleague and friend, Naveen from Hyderabad. Had homely vegetarian food prepared by her, spoke for long, and they were watching the US English movie of 2002, Adaptation based on Susan Orlean's book The Orchid Thief, directed by Spike Jonze and written by Charlie Kaufman.Guess its an (auto)biographical movie, of two brothers, and the author.....

Me because of a duck's cold, and Friday Mania, went off to sleep when the movie was half way through…

And next day, was the visit to one of the worlds greatest city, known as the windy city, not because it is really windy but because of the Politicians.


As the 400th anniversary of Columbus' arrival in the Americas approached, many cities wanted to host the World's Fair, also known as the World's Columbian Exposition, after eight ballots, Chicago won it, leaving behind cities like New York, and Washington...New Yorkers were very angry, and started calling them by the name windy city.

After the Great Chicago Fire of 1871 destroyed a third of the city, including the entire central business district, Chicago experienced rapid rebuilding and growth and build the first skyscraper in the world. The history of skyscrapers in Chicago began with the 1885 completion of the Home Insurance Building, which is often regarded as the first steel-framed skyscraper in the world. The building was originally constructed with a height of 138 feet (42 m) and 10 stories, and was later expanded to a height of 180 feet (55 m) and 12 stories before being demolished in 1931. It was near the Castle shape building….



Undoubtedly: ‘Chicago builds itself up…Knocks down, scrapes away the rubble and starts over….’

The journey began with the millennium park, with its beautiful landscape, the latest attraction created in 2004, with the shell shaped, Kapoor sculpture,

inspired by the liquid mercury, stainlessly reflecting the entire surroundings, both land and sky....alike...the cloud gate of Chicago..


To add to the attraction here was the free hugs by men and women...

Walking which was after a month, and through the down town, we passed through the Chicago river


which though not especially long, is notable for the 19th century civil engineering feats that directed its flow south, away from Lake Michigan, into which it previously emptied, and towards the Mississippi River basin.

On the crowded streets, there were people singing and collecting money, people with coat begging…



As you approach the down town you will find tall wall like buildings, and three of them equidistant and almost the same size, they being,
The Sears Tower, at 108 stories, stands as Chicago's tallest building since its completion in 1974 and is the tallest building in the Western Hemisphere.
The second- and third-tallest buildings in Chicago are the Aon Center and
The John Hancock Center with 100 floors, respectively.

Then we had lunch below the John Hancock Observatory…the way people smiled while taking photographs, and how soon the smile vanished was really astonishing…and the elevator within 40 seconds took us to the 94th floor observation deck where in was displayed exhibits about the city of Chicago.
Maps explaining the view in each direction…


And the live view:


To the South of the City there is part of Lake Michigan, ….Blue and lovely…..the navy pyre, amusement park, world fair place,

tall buildings..including the Sears Tower..


To the west are the big buildings, sports grounds, restaurants, Pizza originated here in 1943,


To the north is the Lake shore drive, restaurant of boat shape, with bathing suites, and the buildings….



To the east is the Lake of Michigan, 80 miles, away is the state of Michigan. Beautiful view….indeed…

The photo taken below, cost 22$, and they give it with the background of Chicago at various hours....

It seems there are people who climb the stairs and reach 100 floors, in half an hour….!!!

There it is written:
‘Butterflies in your stomach,
Tingling in your spine,
Raising your hair,
The view is sensational’

Come Kiss the sky….



Though The John is not the tallest building, the view from here is said to be the best.

We walked along the road side and on the beaches of the lake shore,


By the grace of God, the weather that day was pleasant..….

Before returning, we did some window shopping, and then to the parking area, which is a very huge one, like a multistoried auditorium, or even bigger…I don’t know…indeed vast place….!! Difficult to find the floor where the vehicle is parked….

Chicago: “As you are so are your buildings, and as are your buildings, so are you”.

Great pleasure, and opportunity it was…Thanks to all who made it happen….


Even the night view while returning was mismerising....

Well that was the end of day one, and there was yet one more day...in the state of Illinois, with Chicago in the northeast having 66% of its population, small industrial cities and great agricultural productivity in central and western Illinois, and natural resources timber, and petroleum in the south, is often viewed as a microcosm of the United States.

Lesson:
“Make no little plans, they have no magic to stir men’s blood, make big plans, a noble logical diagram once recorded will never die, but will be a living thing…”

Mindset of Sons of Sahyas...



One of my fiends said, if a dog is born, it should be in US, for they are loved here so much!!! Away from home, when you see, so beautiful and variety of dogs around, you are reminded of elephants …..In Kerala, when you are travelling, you will definitely see at least one elephant on the road...

Elephants in Kerala are often referred to as the 'sons of the sahya.' Western Ghats (Sahyadri) Sahya mountains Range. It is the state animal of Kerala and is featured on the emblem of the Government of Kerala.




Thrissur being the cultural capital of India, Thrissur Pooram, is an especial events full of elephants, on which I need to write..but may be some other time…







The temple elephants are decorated with gold plated caparisons (nettipattom), bells, and necklaces. People mounted on the elephants hold tinselled silk parasols (muthukuda) up high, swaying white tufts (venchamaram) and peacock feather fans (aalavattom) to the rhythm of the orchestra. People looking after the elephants are called mahout (Pappan).



Guruvayurappan, is said to be the owner of the world's largest number of domesticated elephants. The world's only Elephant Palace is constructed in Punnathur Kotta, 3 km from the temple, to house the temple's elephants.

Gajarajan Guruvayoor Kesavan (1904 - December 2, 1976) is perhaps the most famous and celebrated Elephant of Kerala.


Elephants have been important in human history for thousands of years. They were popular royal gifts. Appu was the mascot of Asiad in India, and we had Ammu in Veegaland…Young and Old, all love elephants alike...



Shown each part of it, one may not be able to identify, that its an animal, so huge, but its not wild….




Well this is dedicated to Anil;Guess who is his favourate…..whose picture will you find in his laptop and camera?? Asin? Aishwaria Rai? Nain Tara? Nope….None of them…..

It’s full of elephants…..

And it is from him, that I got all these pictures, they are taken by him. And its he who prompted me to write this one...




Why do people love elephants so much?

This was send by Geena:

Friday, March 27, 2009

Awesome Yummy Cake

Yup....It was an awesome yummy cakes, to celebrate the March birthdays, and March being the beginning of Spring, the spring cake, with a spring and yellow flowers on it.....Thats cool is'nt?




Birthdays indeed are like fresh bloom flowers,
That promise us of joyful hours,
Amidst lifes garden glowing insight,
Of Gods loving crystal light!!



Awesome Yummy cake, the taste still lingers....

But the birthday boys were missing! Happy March Birthday folks!!



Also to Trainers Mom! 50th is indeed especial!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

March....St. Patrics day

17th March 09 is St. Patrics day here.St. Patrick's Day is celebrated by the Irish and Irish at Heart in big cities and small towns alike with parades, "wearing of the green," music and songs, Irish food and drink, and activities for kids such as crafts, coloring and games. Its a time for fun. Some communities even go so far as to dye rivers or streams green! It seems the celebration is more in Chicago...




This is the picture of the Chicago River painted green for this occassion..Hey, it is not like the Chalakudy Puzha, which is naturally green, on which I will write later.and do you know what is the other especiallity of this river....

Today the whole team here, had the dinner, with , Director and Senior Managing director ...at Stone well, who told us, that this was the only river flowing backwards....We could unviel yet another talent of Susan, she even plays piano....



On the food that we had, will right soon...Inshallah!!!

For me, March has always been a month, where in there were many surprises...., things begin before, but the final surprise is in March.or at times, things begin in March..Guess its for most women...Might be because March is womens history month, International womens day. ..

Hope this march is full of positive surprises....All is well that ends well....

Though there is no much of Holi in Kerala, that is yet another especial festival, in the month of march, though there are various stories associated with it, this too is celebrated with colours and sprinkling water....with which the summer begins...with its intensity...

Of course, this was the month in which I saw the first ray of light, so did my grandmother, on the same day, but different years, ...and this was the month of the death of my grandfather, dear friend Anisha, and too good neighbour Wilson uncle...

If wishes come in rainbow colours then I would send the Brightest one to say "HAPPINESS ALWAYS" ...Just remembered the prayer in school, We give you Thanks....Almighty God...For all the benefits, you have conferred upon today....I love you with my whole heart, and above all things, I am very sorry for having offended you, because you are so good, and I firmly resolve not to offend you any more....

Sunday, March 15, 2009

The Jungle Book …By Rudyard Kipling….



Time and again, we reach here…it has been since my childhood…..

One of the all time favourate songs is from Mowgli….

‘Jungle, Jungle, Bath cheeli hey patha chala hey,…….’
Mowgli is a young boy raised by wolves in the wilds of India. Mowgli’s childhood is filled with excitement and laughter, but also with danger. Deep in the shadows lurks his sworn enemy, the ferocious man-eating tiger Shere Khan. Together with his animal friends, including Baloo, a sleepy brown bear; Bagheera, a wise black panther, and Kaa, a powerful python, the ‘man-cub’ learns about loyalty, friendship and the ways of the jungle.

Some used and still do call … Mowgli…

Jungle…is that life!!!


Finally could grab a copy of this book too…'The Jungle Book …By Rudyard Kipling….'

The Jungle Book (1894) is a collection of stories by English author Rudyard Kipling. The stories were first published in magazines in 1893–94. The original publications contain illustrations, some by the author's father, John Lockwood Kipling. Kipling was born in India and spent the first six years of his childhood there. After about ten years in England, he went back to India and worked there for about six-and-a-half years. These stories were written when Kipling lived in Naulakha, the home he built in Dummerston, Vermont (just north of Brattleboro), in the United States.

Mexican Delight…


Here was yet another weekend, my colleagues had been to NewYork, but, I had some preoccupations and could not join them.

Finally met Abhi, and the biggest handicap here of not having a car, was resolved for a day..

Went to Bank of America, and exchanged the TC with cash….…don’t know why they said no earlier to others….the same lady of Delhi orgin, Shain Sheikh….Then we went to the mall…Macys….


behind the big horse….



After few hours of window shopping, at Disney stores, books shops, toy shops, had choclolates and the ' Starbucks Coffee' Capucinno (pronounced cap-oo-chi-no)of the Kannum Kannum Nokia fame took pictures. Purchased The Jungle Book: by Rudyard Kipling....and Abhi gifted the mugs...



We had a Mexican lunch at Rainforest Café, a wild place to shop and eat……


one of the favorite places of children, which reminded me of the Balarama Caves in Veegaland, with Kuttusan, Dagini, Luttapi….here it was monkeys, fishes, snakes, butterflies and the man carry the earth saying save the rain forest…..at Macys….I liked the place.

I had requested Abhi to order for me too since it was my first experience of Mexican food and he being more knowledgeable of the yet-to-be-experienced-yummy Mexican food! What he ordered was ‘Amazon Fajitas’ (Pronounced Fahitas) similar to that my friend who gives his heart away to anything that he comes across! Had put in his blog on ‘Xavier’……




And then things were similar:

There was the red sauce and the chapathi kind of roti; which is slightly thin and small in size, a hand full of rice which reminded me pulao, with a small quantity of salad and white cream color paste. Along with it, we were served an item of chicken with the sliced capsicum smashed, the cool coke…What he had was beef and soda…

The next session was demonstration and Abhi took the shoes of the demonstrator and me; the observer with my eyes set for learning! He placed a look-a-like-roti in his plate and placed beef (chicken) and capsicum;, the salad, the white paste and he rolled it up and held it like a pipe to blow! Yeah; now it was my turn to make my pipe; hmmm… interesting! And I succeeded in making an equally good yummy pipe! Made 4 pipes and blew it! Couldn’t have more; my stomach was full! And the bill to…but it was again courtesy….

The only difference being we did not put the rice in the roti, but had it separate. It was a great experience to have the rice with fork too.

The car stopped at our Hotel and he dropped me till the door, but did not come to our room…I Thanked him, he asked me what for…There were so many things….and after all that was the lesson we learned here, and when in Rome, we need to do as the Romans right…..

Saturday, March 14, 2009

In Bondage!!

Yup....so true...life is flowing and we are flowing along.....Indeed in Bondage!! We crave for liberty, fight for it and finally at times feel we have achieved it, but there is always, something controlling us, an unknown force....why, where ....no one knows....

‘Most people would probably describe their lives as routine, or even mundane. Ask them what’s new or exciting and they’ll probably respond with, ‘same’ or ‘same old’. Every day our schedules are pretty much written in stone: From the time we get up until the time we finally put our heads back down on the pillow, routine is apparent in most of what we do.

Sure there are days that either surprise us positively or negatively (either when something unexpected and exciting happens or when something disastrous and disappointing occurs). But for the most part, life is ordinary and routine.

This was the learning from the only place visited so far, after landing Connecticut, which was this Church of Saint Patric on Sunday, 8th March 2009.




The mass was more or less similar, but there was discipline, and a charming order and queue row wise, when people moved to accept the holy bread in circular motion… could see bonded families, the breeze was cool.



On way saw Miss Porter's School in Farmington, where Jacqueline "Jackie" Lee Bouvier Kennedy Onassis wife of the 35th president of the United States, John F. Kennedy, and First Lady during his presidency from 1961 until his assassination in 1963 studied in 1944–1947. She is remembered for her style and elegance.




Schools, Churches and houses here cannot be easily distinguished. There are not many name boards. Also there are no boundries for anything…except at the rarest of the rare places. Houses are like the picture we learn to make house when in school with slooping roof, and chimney….So that there is heat in the room and during snow fall, it could easily slide down. Also most of them are movable, and they are made of woods….




Also the lesson for the day was: Attending something is different from fully participating. ……

Let us make a difference….

Sunday, March 08, 2009

Time Change....

Daylight Saving Time begins each year at 2 a.m. on the second Sunday of March. We need to Move clocks ahead one hour at the start of Daylight Saving Time.

Standard Time begins each year at 2 a.m. on the first Sunday of November. We need to Move clocks back one hour at the resumption of Standard Time. Daylight Saving time and Time zones are regulated by the U.S. Department of Transportation, not by NIST.

In 2009, Daylight Saving Time begins on March 8 and ends on Nov.1.

So the TV news, and everywhere this is the buzzword now, asking/reminding all to keep a track of the time....There is a loss/gain of time....

So long the difference between India and US was 10.30 hours, going forwad it would be 9.30 hours (i.e. India is -2.5 + 12 for easy calculation)

They say it is for the farmers...and help save energy....Moreover there are five different time zones within US itself.

Guess what would happen if there would be such a situation in India!!!

I stood like a tree.....


Monday, March 2nd 2009, morning when we moved the curtains in the room, it was white white and white...snow white everywhere, couldn’t see the roads....Don't know how the driver managed to drop us to office...Most of them in office were on leave.

Accumalations snarled traffic, travel, as storm pounded East cost with more than a foot of snow.

It wasn’t colder than a well-digger's elbow. That's called "a duck's cold" in French — So — "How cold was it?" I don't have a Johnny Carson answer to that. But then it would have been -5ºC That's about +25ºF. There were heaters everwhere, in the office, hotel rooms, cars...



I just can’t imagine; there are places like that. Thanks to the divine for making me live it….

Thanks to snow; I was back to action. Bye bye to paracetamol….which had kept me going for a week, might be because of jet lag.

It was very filmy, and we took so many pictures that day….and had send across to friends….and the responses where:

‘Are these pictures downloaded from google’?




‘Are these pictures real and taken by you...seems like pictures seen on Christmas greeting cards....lovely.......’

‘You haven’t changed much though. Any of us could have easily recognized you. Even after 17 years.’

And here goes the lines from Prabhu, who motivated me put up the articles in blog today:



I stood like a tree;
Like a tree without leaves!
In the midst of a whiteout;
Alone in the bliss!
I stood like a tree;
My frail arms, apart!
I stood like tree; a tree without leaves!

The peels of heaven;
The shimmering white!
Falling on me; mounting on me!
I neither did run;
I neither did wink!
(Eh, I didn’t either wish)
I stood like a tree; a tree without leaves!!

.. I thought of putting this up here, as there has been no updates in his blog for quite some times, and definitely, thats how trees out here are at this point of time!!!

and so goes the title of this blog...

Day of many firsts:20th February 2009

First air flight….
First international travel.
First longest day.
First taste of non tropical food.
First experience of different climate……

And then followed the days of many other firsts…
First experience of the snow…
First day light saving….

The day commiserated with the 7th death anniversary of my dear muthachan. Missing you a lot, and am sure this was possible as part of your grace too…..

Travel was by Qatar Airways: via Doha, in Qatar, a thumb shaped peninsula of about 11,500 sqkm in the Arabian Gulf, famous for its natural gas and oil reserve.



The first morning rays of light was a beautiful orange line separating the sea from the sky…when otherwise it was difficult to distinguish between the two, as the water, everywhere was very still and matching to that of sky.

And then …. to New York, connecting flight was at 8:30 am, India time 10:50 am, per Subramanian remembered ‘Charles Lindberg’ while crossing Atlantic Ocean. ……The first longest day too……for the time differences on account of different time zone.




Over the mountains, over the rivers, over the plains, we were …flying…It was ‘Aaj hum upar, Asma nichey……’ We could find clouds below us…In India the landscape was green, in Doha, it was desert, but not as beautiful as the song ‘Gujarish..’ but then it was white, and blue white everywhere…except at some places where we could find something like a light brown colored floorings, with ribbons around, which probably where the dwelling places..



For entertainment was the touch screen entertainer, orysc…with movies, music, games, TV, news, shopping, young traveler and discover more….watched, Mere Bap Pehle Aap,Madhu Chandralekha, Home alone, Jungle Book by Rudyard Kipling…




And thus reached Kilometers away on the other side of the globe, traveling for nearly 12 hours, and still when we landed here, it was only Friday afternoon!! Had plenty of time, waiting at Keneddy airport, moving from international to national ‘Terminal’ for the connecting flight to Connecticut which was only at 8:30, by then most of us, from a team of 13, all set to do the transition… had started falling asleep sitting ….


Had the first sip of ' Starbucks Coffee' which was very bitter first, had to add lot of suger....When getting into the connecting flight to Connecticut it was colder than a well-digger's elbow. mere thought of it, still gives a shiver and ……At Hartford, ‘New England’ people were helpful, upon landing at Hartford Airport on Friday, February 20, we were picked up at the airport by Executive Car Service to the Homewood Suites located at: 2 Farm Glen Blvd; Farmington, CT 06032. http://homewoodsuites1.hilton.com/en_US/hw/hotel/HFDFMHW/index.do
There were tons of luggages… The weather being too cold we were asked to carry with us warm clothes and a good coat! We were all looking forward for our first day at Stanley Works which was on Monday, February 23 starting at 10:30am; located at 1000 Stanley Drive, New Britain, CT 06053.




The week end, Jolly and Preethi came to visit us, gave the mobile, went to Indian stores, got the international adaptor for charging the laptop from India, went to their house at Manchister and purchased basic necessities from the super markets here, stop and shop, wall mart, and Indian stores...



First day in office was quite interesting, there was individuals sitting with the SMEs/Team dealing with the assigned BU’s and after talking with each other for 20 minutes, each of us had to introduce our counterparts….Mine was Amanda Gartwaite...
Was quite impressed, with her...hope the first impression, would last long, and help build a good relation...She was interesting, active, confident and a quick person...having two dogs, Jack and Haisel..who had recently purchased a new house..and there was one more hobby of her, which I understood as Skeying, but guess its hiking...still not sure, will ask her one day....

Then there was the especial presentation by Susan, Introduction from Jim, Alladin, and Susan…We had the lunch from office.


Thanks to all those...who made this happen...Please continue your prayers..as we move forward to face new challanges, prepared..

First things do have a special place in our hearts, whatever, wherever, whenever...

Just thought of putting these lines received the day before the journey....

I AM restless. I am athirst for far-away things.

My soul goes out in a longing to touch the skirt of the dim distance.

O Great Beyond, O the keen call of thy flute!

I forget, I ever forget, that I have no wings to fly, that I am bound in this spot evermore.

I am eager and wakeful, I am a stranger in a strange land.

Thy breath comes to me whispering an impossible hope.

Thy tongue is known to my heart as its very own.

O Far-to-seek, O the keen call of thy flute!

I forget, I ever forget, that I know not the way, that I have not the winged horse.

I am listless, I am a wanderer in my heart.

In the sunny haze of the languid hours, what vast vision of thine takes shape in the blue of the sky!

O Farthest end, O the keen call of thy flute!

I forget, I ever forget, that the gates are shut everywhere in the house where I dwell alone!



- Tagore

Jai Ho…. Slumdog Millionaire



Saare jahan se achha.....which could be? Other than a country, who never invades others, but give shelter to all……where there is freedom, the largest democracy….which attracts others for its riches, and when others take away their riches, earns it back….from riches to rags to riches…..

And where there is the bond of love….understanding, sacrifice and adjustments, value……family value……hope its triumph increase and the future generation trying to imitate the west, don’t loose the taste of it….

Undoubtedly every coin has two sides, and may be the worst phase, of the worst side in the best possible way of showcasing the bad side was shown in the movie…., I did not find something very extraordinary in the film Slumdog Millionaire by Danny Boyle…Most of what has been shown was true once upon a time, and I had seen most of the things in reality... Had this film been made by an Indian director, it would’ve been trashed. But now it is here wearing Emperors New Clothes. There are better films no doubt..

Movie fans flocked to Hollywood on Sunday 22nd February 2009, to watch the stars parade up the red carpet for the Oscars, the world's top film awards at Kodak Theater where the 81st Academy Awards were held and with rags-to-riches romance "Slumdog Millionaire" expected to win the honor for best movie, and it walked away with 8 Oscars: Best Picture, Director, Adapted Screenplay, Editing, Cinematography, Sound Mixing, Score and Song. …

When the West wanted Indians to embrace them and their companies to come to India and capture the lucrative markets, suddenly we had all the Indian women, some very beautiful and some not necessarily so, winning all the Miss Universe and Miss Worlds. Today, they are in a crisis and India is looking unstoppable despite its slums and poverty, and they are losing their businesses to us. Is it the time to paint India as the Slumdog Millionaire?? It might be just a coincidence and nothing intentional...whatever, I dont know..

Actually I wanted to know why was the Screenwriter award given to Simon Beaufoy who wrote Slumdog Millionaire, when it is based on the Boeke Prize winning and Commonwealth Writers' Prize nominated novel Q & A by Vikas Swarup , and I wanted to know the difference between the two:
-I realized movie is only based on the novel, and it is not the novel. There are many differences like:
-The character of Jamal is named 'Ram Mohammad Thomas'.
-Unlike the movie, Ram does not have a biological brother, but Salim is instead his best friend in the novel
-Ram is adopted by a Christian priest as a youth, which is where he learns English, and then is nearly molested by a visiting priest. The priest scenes were not included in the script for the movie,
-Latika is not his childhood friend in the book but rather a prostitute named Nita that Ram falls in love with in a brothel when he's 18.
-The Bombay Hindu-Muslim riots played no role in the book.


For the movie:

Junk pickers, the slums and the life….there including the open air lavatories, unhygienic condition…, riots, underworld, prostitution, brothels, child labour, begging, blinding and maiming of kids to make them into ‘better beggars’, petty peddlers, traffic jams, irresponsible call centre executives…are all portrayed.
The way kid Jamal runs for the autograph, show how crazy people here are, and its really pathetic.
Life’s difficulty teaches you…the answers…Difficulties of poverty, and the life of an orphan….having asked only the questions to which one could give correct answer…it really do happen sometime, and what is it called other than destiny!!! You know what is on a 100$ but not what is on a Rupees 1000 note. You know darshan Do bhagvan, is by Surdas…but .don’t know what is written on the three headed lion….
Destiny takes you places, from the slums of mumbai, to the Taj in Agra..to a chaiwala in a BPO and to being a millionaire…Never trust anyone….but yourself…that’s when he does not answer ‘B’ to the question on cricketer, and thinking the person feeding to be a saint…
Finding true love of 90 million people time and again, shows that things are possible….
Brother Salim’s doings and dying I could not interpret it!!
We actually have a notion that success eludes the poor and is only for the mighty & the rich section of our society..and this movie is for those…if a rich man wins the game of a millionaire, nobody would question him, but when it is a poor boy, there is interrogation even from the police!!.Yes slumdogs too can become a millionaire….Thanks for all those who made it big…..

It is Destiny, and destiny it is written……
Read more of it here...

And courtesy Prajoosh, I could see this movie...

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Buzzwords: Credit Crunch; Recession ...Yes we can

The business world is slowing down and companies are filing for bankruptcies. Not just ordinary companies, but MNC, who had been in business for a long time and are pioneers. To name a few, Lehman Bros, AIG, Merrill Lynch, Indy Mac Bank (the largest mortgage lender in the US), Bear Stearns. The seriousness and impact of this situation can be felt with the following statement by the Judge who ruled the sale of the assets of Lehman Brothers:

‘…In effect the only true icon to fall n a tsunami that has befallen the credit markets. This is the most momentous bankruptcy hearing I’ve ever sat through. It can never be deemed precedent for future cases. It’s hard for me to imagine a similar emergency……’

ICICI Banks in India were badly affected, but that collapsed and worst hit, but not DIRECTLY (because personally I find some relation and that is the link to the real estate) related to this was Satyam. If satyam was Indias Enron, I wonder and would really love to know the Indian Cynthia Cooper!

US sub-prime crisis.

The US sub-prime crisis has its roots in the US housing market. In 2006, out of the total housing loan mortgage assets of banks, 20% comprised of those issued to sub-prime borrowers.

About sub-prime borrowers:

Sub prime borrowers are ‘high risk’ borrowers who are required to pay a higher rate of interest than the regular customers for taking loans. A higher interest rate is levied on this segment of customers due to their lower ability to repay loans, lower/unknown credit history or unhealthy past in honoring their financial commitments to banks or other institutions. The risk of a default is perceived to be higher while lending to such customers, hence they are charged a higher rate of interest due to the higher risk involved. Such lending is referred to as sub prime lending.

The sub-prime crisis:

The sub-prime mortgage crisis came to the surface earlier this year when there were huge defaults in home loans by the sub-prime borrowers and banks had to liquidate their mortgaged property. The US property prices crashed and banks got struck with a severe shortage of liquid funds. The impact of the crisis was as under:

· Citibank and Merrill Lynch suffered losses on account of both their direct and indirect exposure to this segment.
· BNP Paribas halted redemptions in two asset-backed funds.
· UBS reported losses of US $ 700 mn.

The situation became alarming and central bank had to step into control the situation. The Fed announced interest rate cuts to improve the liquidity condition in the system. Since the beginning of the crisis, the US Federal Reserve has cut the Fed Funds rate by 100 bps to 4.25 per cent and has also simultaneously cut the discount rate to 4.75 per cent. The Bank of England also recently cut key rates by 25 bps to 5.5 % amidst growth concerns.

What does this mean to India?

Though US housing market woes continued, Indian Financial Institutions by and large had limited exposure to the US sub-prime sector. Thus the direct impact of the sub-prime crisis on India would be limited to that extend.

While the global linkages between India and the rest of the world have increased substantially in the recent past, the fact remains that the economy is still a largely domestic demand driven one. The rise in the levels of forex reserves to US $ 273 bn together with the structural changes seen over the past few years, in terms of higher rate of domestic savings, also increased the shock absorbing capacity of the Indian economy and leads us to continue to believe in the intrinsic strength of the same. Also our mixed economy culture may be a blessing.

Even though India boosts to be an independent country and a rising star in the horizon of word business, most of the business still comes from the US. Therefore the recession in the US will definitely slow down the growth of the Indian economy. Besides India, most of the worlds including Europe, Asia, and Russia have been affected.

It is hurtening to see people loosing their jobs, as with it comes end of many dreams...

Is it the beginning of the end, end of a wonderful era or the beginning of a new beginning? Can we say that the word is at the risk of coming to a standstill and there is nothing we can do about it!!!

I was just wondering this, and the inspiring acceptance speech, from Barack Obama echoed my ears ‘YES WE CAN’, indeed another lesson from another winner!!

‘……..The world today is connected by our own science and imagination, …..let us ask ourselves-if our children should live to see the next century;….What progress will we have made? This is our chance to answer that call…………………..that out of many we are one; that while we breathe, we hope, and where we are met with cynicism, and doubt, and those who tell us that we cant, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people: ‘Yes we can’.

Monday, December 29, 2008

O Divine one...

Silence is eternal, Resonance is a necessity.
Last year I wondered, if I had missed the train,
This year it was desire to be born a bird,
Life is beautiful but betrays, I wanted to see, understand and experience.

Relationships are divine,
But there are misunderstanding,
What is beautiful fades,
And we have only memories.

I realize, red rose blooms because it is spring,
Or I wonder; if it is its blooming that makes spring, spring.
There is so much to be seen, so much to be done,
What am I doing, except thinking?

O divine one, you make my spirit sour,
You play with my soul.
Would you just fleetingly once make me bloom?
For I know, you want me make my spirit fly.

Winning By Jack Welch with Suzy Welch.


Probably ‘Straight from the gut’ is better, but I could not read it still, nevertheless, ‘Winning’ by Jack Welch, is equaling to many management books. ‘Due to his vintage, he belonged to a very small club: people who have spent their whole careers at one company. He joined GE as junior engineer on getting his degree in 1961 after doing his PHD in Chemical engineering.

This book is based on the thousands of questions, which have been asked to the author, and according to him, most of them come down to this: What does it take to win?

Winning lifts everyone it touches-it just makes the world a better place. It is great! Not just good. When companies win, people thrive and grow. There are more jobs and more opportunities. So also when people win, family grows.

Every day in life there is a new question, in fact it is that which keeps us going. And the general advice given is:
‘Have a positive attitude and spread it around, never let yourself be a victim, and for goodness’ sake-have fun.’
The book is divided into four parts, and this is how it goes:

UNDERNEATH IT ALL

Conceptual in nature containing management philosophies namely:

1. MISSION AND VALUES

Mission announces exactly where you are going, and the values describe the behaviors that will get you there. Effective mission statements balance the possible and the impossible. Setting the mission is top management’s responsibility. A mission cannot be delegated to anyone except the people ultimately held accountable for it. In most common scenario, a company’s mission and its values rupture due to the little crises of daily life in business. The disconnections may sound minor or temporary, but when left unattended, they can really hurt a company. In the worst-case scenario, they can literally destroy a business. Eg. Arthur Andersen and Enron.

Missions and values cannot be vague and generic.
We need to take the time. Spend the energy.
Make them real.

2. CANDOR

Lack of candor blocks smart ideas, fast action, and good people contributing all the stuff they’ve got. It’s a killer.
THE CANDOR EFFECT:
i. Candor gets more people in the conversation, and you get idea rich.
ii. Candor generates speed.
iii. Candor cuts costs.
Why Not?
We are socialized from childhood to soften bad news or make nice about awkward subjects.
Eventually, you come to realize that people don’t speak their minds because it’s simply easier not to.

How to get it done?
We need to reward it, praise it, and talk about it. Most of all, you yourself demonstrate it in an exuberant and even exaggerated way.

It is true that candid comments definitely freak people out at first. It is impossible to think of everyone going on saying everything they think; it would be too much of information. Candor works because it unclutters.

3. DIFFERENTIATION

A company has only limited money and managerial time. Winning leaders invest where the payback is the highest. They cut their losses everywhere else.

GE concentrated on strong business that was No. 1 or No. 2 in its market. If it wasn’t, the managers had to fix it, sell it, or as a last resort, close it. Managers at every level have to make hard choices and live by them.

Differentiation form peoples part is the process of assessing the employees and separating them into three categories in terms of performance: top 20% (they are the best and needs to be treated that way), middle 70% (keep them engaged and motivated) and bottom 10% there is no sugar coating this: they must go. They often go on to successful careers at companies and in pursuits where they truly belong and where they can excel.

Differentiation is something that is seen in the playground children play, or in school grades. Not all become doctors right.

Protecting underperformers always back fires, they hurts the people themselves. Differentiation rewards those members of the team who deserve it, and it can be linked to a candid performance appraisal system. It clarifies business and makes it run better in every way.

4. VOICE AND DIGNITY
‘Know what you believe said Rudy Giuliani, and the belief is this: ‘Every person in the world wants voice and dignity, and every person deserves them’.

Everyone’s opinions cannot be put into practice or every single complaint cannot be satisfied. That’s what management judgment is all about. But everyone should be heard and respected. They want it and you need it.

YOUR COMPANY

Deals with the innards of organizations, about mechanics like people, process and culture.

5. LEADERSHIP

There is no easy formula for being a leader. If only!

Leadership is challenging- all those balancing acts, all the responsibility, all that pressure.

And yet good leadership happens, in all kinds of packages: quiet, bombastic, analytical, impulsive, tough, and nurturing. On the surface, you would be hard-pressed to say what qualities these leaders share. On the underneath, the best care passionately about their people, growth and success.

Are leaders born or made? Both. Some qualities like IQ and energy seems to come with this package, on the other you seems to learn some skills like self-confidence.

WHAT LEADERS DO?
i. Leaders relentlessly upgrade their team, using every encounter as an opportunity to evaluate, coach and build self-confidence. (Use ample praise, the more specific the better.)
ii. Leaders make sure people not only see the vision, they live and breathe it.
iii. Leaders get into everyone’s skin, exuding positive energy and optimism.
iv. Leaders establish trust with candor, transparency, and credit. (They never score off their own people by stealing an idea and claiming it as their own.)
v. Leaders have the courage to make unpopular decisions and gut calls. (You are not a leader to win a popularity contest-you are a leader to lead. If you’re left with that uh-oh feeling in your stomach, don’t hire the guy.)
vi. Leaders probe and push with a curiosity that borders on skepticism, making sure their questions are answered with action. (Don’t be just satisfied with statements that mollifies like ‘we’ll look into it’
vii. Leaders inspire risk taking and learning by setting the example. (just because you’re the boss doesn’t mean you’re the source of all knowledge)
viii. Leaders celebrate. (Work is too much a part of life not to recognize moments of achievement. Grab as many as you can. Make a big deal out of them)

6. HIRING

Every person you hire has to have integrity, intelligence and maturity.
Then there should be the 4-E namely Energy, ability to energize others, edge: the courage to make tough yes or no decision, execute and the P-Passion.
Beyond that at the senior level, look for authenticity, foresight, the willingness to draw on others for advice, and resilience.
Put them all together and those are the people who win.
Then there is few hiring FAQs discussed, and one most common question: What is the one thing to ask in an interview to decide whom to hire, and it is Why the candidate left his previous job and the one before that? Keep digging, dig deep.

7. PEOPLE MANAGEMENT

To manage people well companies should
i. Elevate quality HR to a position of power
ii. Use rigorous, nonbureaucratic evaluation system, monitored for integrity.
iii. Create effective mechanisms-read: money, recognition, and training-to motivate and retain. (Plaques and public fanfare have their place, but without money, rewards lose a lot of their impact.)
iv. Face straight into charged relationships-with unions, stars, sliders and disrupters. (Stars should be replace within 8 hours, sending message that no individual is greater than the company)
v. Fight gravity; treat middle 70% like heart and soul of the organization.
vi. Design org chart to be as flat as possible, with blindingly clear reporting relationships and responsibilities.

This takes time, but matters more, as companies are not buildings, machines or technologies but people.

8. PARTING WAYS

Firings are part of the business but they need not be bitter. It should be managed with little pain and damage as possible. Not all parting are created equal.
Firing for integrity violations-like staling, lying, cheating or any other fom of ethical or legal breach, should be immediate and all should know why, so that there is no breach.
Then there are layoffs due to economic downturns. Every employee should know how the company is doing.
Finally there are firing for non performance.
There should be no surprises, no humiliation. Every person who leaves goes on to represent co. They can badmouth or praise.

9. CHANGE

There are just four practices that matter:
i. Communicate a sound rationale for every change.
ii. Have the right people at your side.
iii. Get rid of the resisters.
iv. Seize every single opportunity, even those from someone else’s misfortune.

10. CRISIS MANAGEMENT

There will be crises, and eventually the flames will die down, and the whole place would be better.
· Know the anatomy of crisis
· Create a plan of action. Keep in mind the five assumptions:
a. The problem is worse than it appears.
b. There are no secrets in the world and everyone will eventually find out everything.
c. You and your organizations handling crisis will be portrayed in the worst possible light.
d. There will be change in the process and people. Almost no crisis ends without blood on the floor.
e. Your organization will survive ultimately stronger for what happened.
· Seek immunity.
a. Tight control
b. Good internal process
c. Culture of integrity.

YOUR COMPETITION


This is about the world outside the organization.

11. STRATEGY

It means making clear-cut choices about how to compete. You cannot be everything to everybody.
· Come up with a big aha for your business-a smart, realistic, relatively fast way to gain sustainable competitive advantage.
· Put the right people in the right jobs to drive the big aha forward.
· Relentlessly seek out the best practices to achieve your big aha, whether inside or out adapt them, and continually improve them.
The steps to test your strategy are:
i. Know what the playing field looks like now.
ii. Know what the competition has been up to.
iii. Know what you’ve been up to.
iv. Know what’s around the corner.
v. Know whats your winning move.


12. BUDGETING

It’s too important. Everyone knows about the Negotiated Settlement and the Phony smile dynamics. But there is another right budget process that can change the way companies compete. It may be awkward at first, but change can begin when you start talking. And the better way is that it should be focused on the two questions:
· How can we beat last year’s performance?
· What is our competition doing, and how can we beat them?

13. ORGANIC GROWTH

Opportunities of every size and variety await you. Grab them. Pick passionate, driven people to lead them, resource them with everything you’ve got, and give them oxygen to breath. There is nothing like the fun and sheer thrill of starting something new.
You are always going to want more autonomy than you get. Your best shot is to earn it. Fight like hell: Even through a few elbows.

14. MERGERS AND ACQUISITIONS

It means change, and you can reap the rewards of what happens when 1+1=3, is you avoid the seven pitfalls. Six are related to the acquiring company and just one to the acquired:
i. Believing that a merger of equals can actually occur. Despite the noble intentions of those attempting them, the vast majority of MOEs self-destruct because of their premise.
ii. Focusing so intently on strategic fit that you fail to assess cultural fit, which is just as important to a mergers success, if not more so.
iii. Entering into a ‘reverse hostage situation’, in which the acquirer ends up making so many concessions during negotiations that the acquired ends up calling all the shots afterwards.
iv. Integrating too timidly. With good leadership, a merger should be complete within ninety days.
v. Conqueror syndrome, in which the acquiring company marches in and installs its own managers everywhere, undermining one of the reasons for nay merger-getting an influx of new talent to pick from.
vi. Paying too much. Not 5 or 10 percent too much, but so much that the premium can never be recouped in the integration.
vii. One afflicting the acquired company’s people form top to bottom is: Resistance. In a merger, new owners will always select people with buy-in over resisters with brains. If you want to survive, get over your angst and learn to love the deal as much as they do.

15. SIX SIGMA

http://enrichknowledge.blogspot.com/2008/11/six-sigam.html

YOUR CAREER

It’s about managing the arc and the quality of your professional life.

16. THE RIGHT JOB

Find it and you’ll never really work again. The things to be considered while taking up a new job is: people, opportunity, options, ownership, and the work content (stuff). Finding the right job takes time and experimentation and patience. It gets easier the better you are. So choose something you love to do, and then give it your all.

17. GETTING PROMOTED

Sorry, No shortcuts. To get ahead you have to want to get ahead. Some promotions may come by luck, but very few.
Basically; getting promoted takes one do and one don’t:
§ Do deliver sensational performance, far beyond expectations, and at every opportunity expand your job beyond its official boundaries.
§ Don’t make your boss use political capital in order to champion you.
The most reliable way to sabotage yourself is to be a thorn in your organizations rear end.
Also there are four other dos and one more don’t:
§ Manage your relationships with your subordinates with the same carefulness that you manage the one with your boss.
§ Get on the radar screen by being an early champion on your company’s major projects or initiatives.
§ Search out and relish the input of lots of mentors, realizing that mentors don’t always look like mentors.
§ Have a positive attitude and spread it around.

· The don’t is: Don’t let setbacks break your stride.

18. HARD SPOTS-Working for a bad boss.

That Damn Boss. The world has jerks and some of them get to be the bosses. In any bad situation, you cannot let yourself be the victim. Generally speaking, bosses are not awful to people whom they like, respect and need. Think hard about your performance. It is indeed an awful feeling when your boss is not on your side. And you bump into such situation in your career, and if you endure the situation the potential reward could be big! Spend time with people you like, doing what you like, and reviewing business. Be careful. Uncertainty about the final outcome can make you do something foolish-that is, pull an end run. You may feel the impulse to sneak upstairs and talk to your boss’s boss about the situation. But that can be suicide. The big boss may have your best interests at heart when he scolds your boss for his behavior, but you can be absolutely sure that your life will only become more unpleasant afterwards. There is a reason why kids don’t tattle on bullies. Unfortunately, the same principle applies in the office.

19. WORK LIFE BALANCE

It is a swap-a deal you’ve made with yourselves about what you keep and what you give. Understand the reality:

1. Your boss’s top priority is competitiveness. Of course he wants you to be happy, but only in as much as it helps the company win. In fact, if he is doing his job right, he is making your job so exciting that your personal life becomes a less compelling draw.
2. Most bosses are perfectly willing to accommodate work-life balance challenges if you have earned it with performance. The key word here is: if.
3. Bosses know that the work life policies in the company brochure are mainly for recruiting purposes and that real work-life arrangements are negotiated one-on-one in the context of a supportive culture, not in the context of “But the company says…!”
4. People who publicly struggle with work life balance problems and continually turn to the company for help get pigeonholed as ambivalent, entitled, uncommitted, or incompetent-or all of the above.
5. Even the most accommodating bosses believe that work-life balance is your problem to solve. In fact, most know that there are really just a handful of effective strategies to do that, and they wish you would use them.

If you don’t fulfill your own joy with your work life plan, one day you’ll wake up in a special kind of hell, where everyone is happy but you.


TYING UP LOOSE END

Answers nine questions that did not fall into any of the above categories.

20. HERE, THERE AND EVERYWHERE
Managing the china threat, diversity, the impact of new regulations like the Sarbanes-Oxley act, how business should respond to societal crises like AIDS, how successor, Jeff Immelt is doing, and whether he think he will go to heaven.

Legendry entrepreneurs like Henry Ford, Dave Packard, and Bill Gates are undeniably examples of the excitement and glory of starting something new from scratch and watching it grow to astonishing proportions.

Though this was one of the three books received on renewing subscription to readers digest, a year before, Courtesy: training on leadership by Biju Sir in office, which prompted me to ponder over this book once again.

BONWIKK – OPI’s Annual Day

‘What is this life if full of care,

We have no time to stand and stare’



Amidst the busy schedule, soon after we saw

‘Mumbai standing at the edge of the sea, begging to sea Gods, for mercy; begging to carry her in the waves… to a world where there is no terror, violence and atrocity’, and

Awaiting the worst recession in the near past,



The Sports and Cultural committee of OPI brought out BONWIKK on 14th of December 2008 at Ramada Resort, a beautiful and natural site.



We had our special guest of honor from Symcor, KPMG and Cargill.



Function started by 6.30 pm with the formal inauguration by our President Kishore Mirchandani; welcome address by our Senior Vice President Suryaprakash Kukyan; and addresses by our guests.



As we celebrated our 3rd annual day, we remembered those who laid down their lives in Mumbai so that we are safe.



The highlight of the award function was to include drivers, security guards and housekeeping personnel over and above our employees who excelled in cultural and sports events.



This followed various cultural events, a lot of fun, music and OPIans putting up a fabulous show up there to delight the crowd.



S&C Committee did a skit on OPI’s recruitment & appraisal process and named it as OPI - Star Processor 2008. Alex Abraham walked away with the special gift hamper being the winner for the event organized for the managers. We also witnessed some enthusiastic OPIans displaying their singing talent in the Ganamela, and dancing talents with their dance performances. In addition, there was a skit cum dance by Leo and team.



Our Vice President Nilanjan Majumdar delivered the vote of thanks. M.C. for the day was none other than Ranjani Haridas of Idea Star Singer fame.



It was not yet over. We enjoyed a delightful dinner with family, colleagues, and the melodious music by DJ Savyo in the background, and OPIans dancing to the tune…!!!