When you don’t work together, you don’t meet each other regularly. It’s as simple as that. When you meet, you get involved in each other’s lives. When you don’t meet, there is a distance. Then you work with other people. The separation creates a distance – the geographic separation and the professional separation create an organic distance which then starts being perceived as a problem. The ones you work with, you have a relationship. You stop working with them, the relationship goes on hold, it’s as simple as that. And you meet socially, it’s all superficial and upar-upar se, like how you meet people and say, ‘Great, Great’, but there is no depth in it.
Everything is not black and white. There is the concept of grey, which is where we all operate from actually.
Hearsay is one of the biggest problems. It’s the tone that is important. Text messages are the biggest undoing of human relationships because they never come with the tone. Without tone, things sound much worse than they are. The emotion is not there in the message, they are just words. Speak to people – confront.
Confrontation is such an underrated concept. But it’s so important in any relationship. Sit across and sort a problem out. Don’t insinuate, back off, stay away, sulk. It’s such a stupid waste of time. Always confront. Don’t allow things to fester. If you continue to suppress the emotion, it will explode in your face one day.
Gar baazi ishq ki baazi hai jo chaho laga do dar kaisa, Gar jeet gaye toh kya kehna hare bhi toh baazi maat nahin.
Falling in love is the most beautiful thing ever. Sometimes, not getting that love back can break your heart into tiny little peaces. But heartbreak can strengthen you to the core.
Don't know why you have named your book An Unsuitable not.. .you are amazing; cool..congratulations on your twins. Proud of you even more.
Rahi manwa dukh ki chinta kyun satati hai, dukh toh apna saathi hai, subah chhaon dhalti hai jaati hai, dukh toh apna saathi hai…..
If you make sadness your friend because it’s part of your life, then you’ll be able to deal with it.
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