Society’s way to create economics rolling with so much spend on costumes, decorations, food, travel, invitations and many more thereby creating a social gathering as well, has been happening in various forms since time immemorial. Is anyone really bothered on what happens thereafter other than to have a topic for gossip?
Most women want a life partner a person who they are compatible with, who are settled and financially stable. Men want a partner who can be a good friend and shares the same tastes.
With the intention to share the need for freedom to live as one please, to be there for each other including families and to be true to our gifts got into matrimony. The goal of marriage in Hinduism is to foster, not self-interest, but self-restraint and love for the entire family, which keeps the family united and prevents its breakdown.
Well communication might be the key for a successful relationship, but when one should not question or give opinions, what else or how can there be a communication?
Arranged marriage or love marriage - marriage as a whole is not easy. It is a commitment. It is a responsibility. We have to work a little harder to reap the full benefits out of this relationship. When we fail to do so, divorce will take over. It will take over us. It will take over our life. It will take over our happiness and peace.
It need lot of 'adjustments' and ‘sacrifices'. Today many fail because:
We need love, but we don't adjust most of the times.
We need love, but we are not ready to sacrifice even little things.
We need love, but we are not ready to trade our comfort.
We fancy 'always and forever', but we don't work for it.
We fall in love, but we fail to stay in it.
Matters where we tend to differ or the problem arise are:
1) Finance
2) Priorities
3) Preferences
Present day couple tend to be in partnership.. Believe that to be better than getting into wedlock. Definitely in very few wedding there would be real partnership.
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