We the Women..

Wear your crown own your queen, do not give the remote control of your life to any other human being. You are an angel, how you say what you say matter. As you respect ‘tonality’ of the world don’t feel guilty in case you need to invoke ‘Kali’ in you when needed. Be in a state of gratitude and become the divine version of the feminine, you will feel good, irrespective of the situation. Learn how to set your own boundaries; you can be a good person with a kind heart and still say ‘No’.

The last of human freedom is to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances – Victory Frankl.

When in crises, deal with the pain, work with your attitude and use it as your wake up and clean up call. Always carry with you your faith, courage, desire and love. Keep moving forward and as you do, take others with you through life. We have come a long way, from being sacred, to being controlled and breaking open again. From similar dresses, to gungat, to dupatas and back again to free choices. Each of us are at different stages in life, there is something that we can always give to to others.

Connect with your own self. Come Alive. Become Awakened. Be present in all that you do. Follow your dreams with all your heart and might with a positive attitude of gratitude and make a difference for having received this wonderful ‘Gift’ of life.

To strong women– may we know them, may we be them, may we raise them!

A MESSAGE TO MEN

When choosing a woman who works, you have to accept that she can't handle the house.

If you have chosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your household, you have to accept that she is not earning money.

If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you must ensure her life.

If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and she has her own opinion.

If you choose a beautiful woman, then you will have to accept big expenses.

If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.

There are no such things as perfect. Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique!❤💪

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I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. 

She smiled and said to me.. 

"I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters. 

I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me...

I stopped fighting with my in laws...

I stopped fighting for attention...

I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me...

I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people..

I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...

And I started fighting for 

my vision, 

my dreams, 

my ideas and 

my destiny. 

The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful."

Some fights are not worth your time.

Choose what you fight for wisely.

Friends, one final post on International Women's Day from poet Maya Angelou to inspire us: "Still, I Rise."

You may write me down in history

With your bitter, twisted lies,

You may tread me in the very dirt

But still, like dust, I’ll rise.

Just like moons and like suns,

With the certainty of tides,

Just like hopes springing high,

Still I’ll rise.

You may shoot me with your words,

You may cut me with your eyes,

You may kill me with your hatefulness,

But still, like air, I’ll rise.