Not all society and family are on Man's shoulders everywhere. Fortunate few have come out of it, more so from our generation on, but in many places and families I have seen men still struggle. Women just going around kitty parties and spending the hard earned money either remitted from abroad living separately or even when they stay together.
Untill last generation, father used to be out for bread and butter while mother at home took care of kids..raised them observed them planted virtues such as self control, compassion and honesty..Children learned and loved dad especially from their mom..these are outsourced now in many places, again not all.
When both mom and dad are busy earning for better life..hardly they have time to talk. There is no respect for parents, especially dads.
There are so many women who go to work , and continue to do everything at home which drain their energy, with no support from men. This post is not for them, so the pic.
Also here is a video; they too have their struggles.
The wishes are meant for amazing men in our life n not for every Tom, Dick n Harry who is not taking care of their family.
Definitely children should love dad irrespective of what mother say and there are smarter kids in todays generation no denial and can see day in and out that they do not respect someone just because they are older in age and question a lot, of which we would not have even thought about.
And yes I do know so many working couples who give quality time to children, effective time management is all I can say, no personal experience here.
On women contributing I remember my grandmother, she was the finance manager at home, with 8 children. Grandfather just knew how to bring home income. She did not learn finance but knew how to maintain reserves. Again a deviation from the topic but memories come in as we read some sentence.
So there is a mix of people, am not generalising or trying to justify the pic, as I mentioned this is from what I have seen in many places but not all. I think the way I perceived it was different.
I thought this to be a wish for men who take responsibility and not for those who do not.
Many years ago @hillaryclinton said something unforgettable- women, who are ambitious, smart, successful and independent have to develop a “skin as thick as the hide of a rhinoceros” - that and “just keep showing up.”
Was wondering, why International Day and Women Entrepreneurs Day happen to be on the same day Nov 19th? Also this is he Birthday of our first Ms. Universe, the day Aishwarya rai was crowned Ms. World, and my Childhood friend Rajshri and Karpagam's brithday!
Happiness always to all responsible souls. With great responsibility comes great power.
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