Tuesday, June 16, 2020

Sushant why Suicide?

Every person has a secret  sorrow that the world does'nt know. We can only speculate ... God only knows what was going on in his mind. How do they get the courage to hang themselves? It would be easier to solve the problem? 



Bollywood is just a place to make money..No one cares. From our days, Divya Bharathi Sridevi.. definitely there is something.  And then Nafisa Joseph, Jiah khan, .. list is long.


How do they get the guts to hang themselves. This guy could have helped himself. It just takes one moment to end life. What could have been the reason that he couldn't handle?



Could have never imagined Sushanth committing suicide. Though many in this field have done so many times..He had film to be released..another one going to happen. He had plans to do something in the field of education for kids, a rumoured girlfriend also.. hard to believe why he thought life is worthless. Things will never come out. Right from Divya Bharti..Marriage was fixed for November. We dont know. Only speculating what could have been the reason.



"Dear Sushant, there was so much more you had to offer. Perhaps the world was not up to your beliefs.. you should not have gone like this ...but then you were an old wise soul in a restless young body. Often the heavens cannot handle that ..Naming few people has no value. They themselves are products and victims of a ‘system’ everyone is protesting against. If you really care, if you’re really angry, then bring down the system. Not the individual. That’s guerilla warfare. Not a spurt of anger."
#SushantSinghRajput

What I understood from the articles and videos I saw is he has signed 7 films but all of a sudden 6 films were taken away from him ..nobody in film industry has been recognizing the work he did.. I have seen Dhoni and after watching that movie whenever anyone takes name of Dhoni , shushant face I remember and not Dhoni ..But he was not given any recognition ..He was boycotted from everywhere..

I have only to say it take lot of guts to suicide but it’s easy to end all problems..But just think of the family they leave behind ..the pain ..the unanswered question ..He should have been alive to see how much the world loves him .. He should have moved on if film was not accepting him ..
Unfortunately during these times not all of us reach out.  Not everyone wants to talk or share. They start believing nothing can save them . Sushant couldn't have been that weak. In one of the video he himself said once .. that 'if I dont get movies, I will do a play. Or I will cast myself and make a movie.' Kangana lashed out to the Bollywood for this. If this was the case.. Wasn't there an option?? But then u never know the real story. His father has asked the probe to go on, he don't think it's a suicide. His house rent was above 40 lakhs. Their lifestyle is another burden have to say.

Depression is complicated. It is the result of complex interaction of reasons.There is biology,initial upbringing ,d  relationship with parents ,the consequences of choices ,d consequences of relationships and the ability to handle inevitable betrayals.




Somewhere I can understand..when one loves something so much it is very difficult to leave it ..how much ever we say we can live without it ..He left everything,only to be part of films ..
And he didn’t get the recognition even after performing so well. But he was still getting films. Many not Dharma or YRF.. but he was doing pretty well. Bollywood has seen so many actors and actress vanishing right? And so many of them are still surviving. Neena gupta had to plead for work ...

He missed a strong support - Mother! 


Youngest of five siblings, with four elder sisters. His family wanted him to be an engineer, when he was just two semister away, he left Delhi and came to Mumbai, to pursue a career in Acting.  He was back end dancer for many film stars. 

Back in 2016, Sushant shared an Interesting Talk with a group of guys from IIT Mumbai - Lie and Truth about success.

Lie - Money + Recognition = Happiness = Success

He was Driven, Self Respect was at stake.  Seemingly big things, were not really big once you get them. Smaller things were bigger. Was missing 'Now'. Frequently swinging from past to future. While performing, was in the moment. 

Only Truth:  Now + Excitment = Happiness 

Cause and effect are not different. 

All success mantras are the side effects of the process itself. And Suicide or murder?

Respect - Stop Bullying - In every walk of life.





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