Martha Higareda - actor, producer and screenwriter & Lewis Howesreveals the 5 childhood wounds that you NEED to heal.
People we attract will depend on our inner wounds.
- Rejection wound is something we all have, as we have heard No. But some people have it bigger. Rejection in child make a person run away, or it can create a person malleable , adaptable. You are looking for love, but adapt to the situation.
- Abandonment is tough one. Lot of sad stories of one parent leaving. You think it's about you. They become dependent and they become a person who need somebody. They will not leave good amount of space between two. They would not want anyone to leave them. They get too attached.
- Humiliated, Ashamed When parent has crazy temper, and you do not know what to expect. They have reprimanded you in front of others. It creates humiliation. Willing to take any kind of abuse.
- Treason/Betrayal When you are the little one, and after years, there is someone else is born. It might feel like betrayal. I am not a baby anymore. Personality change. They feel safe when they have more control. Looking for man, who can give direction.
- Injustice When someone else was treated better. You become rigid. You replicate by way of becoming competitive with your partner.
If you have gone through al three, they might become resilient.
You replicate the abuse you had at home. It's not our parents fault. They did what they could. It is up to us to heal ourselves.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmYzkGhUKLY
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