Monday, January 02, 2023

Why do marriages fail?

As we see many marriage failing today, took this as the concept for first read with a specific one in mind. 

The Cards were arranged:


Outcome was:

1) Situation - The Magician 1

Time to begin new project. More self confidence, more the success. Call upon Archangel Raziel to boost your inner strength. Although you may not feel ready to move forward upon your path, you're actually more prepared than you realize. Your life experiences have trained you for this moment, and the opportunities available to you at this time are magical. Don't delay from walking through the door that's presently open for you. Take focused action with any plans you may have been preparing for. 

No more procrastination! Magical occurrences. Concentrated efforts. Unexpected resources. 




2) Current challenge affecting the issue - 13 Release

This card signifies that it's time to move on because this project or phase of your life is now complete.  There's no benefit in remaining in this situation. Instead, shake off the old and welcome the new! You may experience a sense of relief at the ending, or there may be some sadness. Either way it's time to leave that which you've outgrown.  Take your time in adjusting to this change in your life. It's not necessary to rush ahead. Be kind to yourself during this period of transition, and seek the support of friends and family. 

Inevitable positive changes. Facing your fears. Relationship transitions. Spiritual evolution. 



3) Basis of the situation - 8 of fire

Plans manifest with swiftness and energy. You may feel caught off guard as frenzied activities take over. It's exhilarating and a little overwhelming, but it feels good to see your dreams coming true. Too many things going on, too many balls in the air? Stay grounded. Your messages are received positively right now. Embrace the spotlight. 

Receiving needed information. Inspiration. Sudden travel. An unexpected level of success. 


4) Past as pertaining to the situation- 2 of water

Two people are sharing a close relationship right now. A fond friendship continues to deepen. A love affair is moving to new levels of intimacy. Mutual love, respect and understanding have developed between the parties. Your relationship is healing and continued commitment is still possible. Now is not the time to leave a relationship. Difficulties between people or group come to a positive resolution. Conflict end and forgiveness is extended. 

Romance, Sexual attraction. Engagement. Kindred spirits. An unexpected gift. Shared ideas. 




5) Present - 4 of Water

It's time to reevaluate your situation because you're currently missing an opportunity. The solution you're seeking is right in front of your face. Fortunately positive forces are working to assist you now. Open your eyes to the possibilities and accept the help that's being offered to you. However you may be distracted or feel emotionally trapped. It's possible that by focusing on what you don't have, you're taking for granted the good things that you have. 

Discontentment. Apathy. Daydreaming. Getting lost in your own little world. Something missing. Boredom. 




6) Near future - 16: Life Experience - Archangel Chamuel

Recent event has been a wake-up call for you to make some life changes. This may be a new revelation or something you've known but have been procrastinating about. Now you've realized that this situation can't be ignored and action is necessary. This is a moment both of freedom and awakening. The way you see yourself and the world has forever changed, bringing you growth and encouraging you to spread your wings. Allow these new insights to motivate you to embrace the path of your heart's true desires and your intuition. 



7) Your power in the situation - Ace of Air

New ideas now take flight! Expect great inspiration to come, possibly from an event or situation that had previously troubled you. Now you see the opportunity to create something amazing and you're full of excitement. Focus your thoughts on your long-term goals and create a plan of action. You now see the truth of the situation. Confusion is gone, and clarity has taken its place. Your new understanding replaces previous misconceptions. Now you're ready to move forward. 

A challenging beginning. Turning a negative into a positive. A brilliant, intellectual solution. 



8) The effect of people around you - 4 of fire

You've worked hard and are now rewarded with contentment, peace and abundance. The freedom your success has afforded you provides deep feelings of satisfaction. You've safely navigated your way through the obstacles to a place you can feel proud of. Matters at home are rewarding. Someone may be getting married or planning to move in with a partner. Peace and harmony have been established and now you seek stability and commitment. 

A milestone event in your career. A successfully completed project. Counting your blessings. Feeling elated. Engagement, marriage or honeymoon. 



9) Your hopes or fears - Knight of Earth

Situation: It's time to get things done! Leave the planning stage behind and take action. Honor your promises and commitments. Attend to the details and be thorough. 

People: Someone you can expect to be loyal, dedicated and dependable. A well-trained person who does an excellent job over time. A nature and animal lover who may be a vegetarian. Detail oriented. Diligent. Thoughtful. Honorable. Kind. 

Renewed motivation. Increased abundance. Business travel. A guardian angel. 



10) The Outcome - 9 of Earth

Your self-reliance, wisdom and restraint have paid off. You've done excellent work and prepared for this time in your life. This has provided you with the opportunity to take it easy and enjoy some luxuries. You value your own company. You find peace and contentment in your quiet alone time. You're pursuing deeper meaning in life, so you retreat inward for inspiration. 

Successful self-employment. Unexpected financial windfalls. The appreciation of nature and animals. Home improvement and redecorating. 



There is no one specific reason why modern day marriages fail. Every marriage is different and can face unique challenges. However, some common reasons that marriages may fail include:

  1. Lack of communication: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and a breakdown in trust.
  2. Infidelity: If one partner is unfaithful, it can be very difficult for the other partner to trust and forgive, which can lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
  3. Lack of effort: Relationships require effort and maintenance to be successful. If one or both partners stop putting in effort, it can lead to a lack of connection and disconnection.
  4. Differences in values and goals: If partners have different values and goals, it can be difficult for them to find common ground and work towards a shared future.
  5. Money problems: Financial issues can be a major source of stress in a relationship and can lead to arguments and resentment.
  6. Lack of intimacy: A lack of physical and emotional intimacy can lead to a feeling of disconnection and a loss of emotional connection.

It's important to note that every relationship is unique and can face different challenges. It's also important to remember that all relationships face ups and downs and that it's normal for couples to have disagreements or go through difficult times. However, with effective communication and a commitment to working through issues, many couples are able to overcome challenges and build strong, healthy relationships.

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